You do what Paternity fraud is?
According to Wikipedia Paternity fraud, also known as misattributed paternity or paternal discrepancy, is when a man is incorrectly identified to be the biological father of a child. The underlying assumption of paternity fraud is that the mother deliberately misidentified the biological father. Paternity fraud is related to the historical understanding of adultery.....
What is the reason a woman would hand over another's man child to another and claim he is the Father?
This behaviour is suddenly viral with experts tipping that Nigeria is allegedly the second highest Country currently with Paternity fraud...
Men,why do you think your wives are bringing other men's Children to you and passing them off as yours?..Is your sperm dead on arrival?Did you give her a non verbal nod to get you a child from someone one else and now feigning like she is guilty because it blew open on your relocation to another Country where DNA tests were required?
This is not a post to play Judge Judy,we just wanna understand this behaviour..
What the reason is....
ReplyDeleteThe bottom line is having a wicked and dark heart.
The matter tire me.. This issue has happened right before my eyes, its heart breaking. Its not something to experience or wish some one. The best solution, abstain, then do the do after marriage, calculate with her, when the baby comes, secretly do ur DNA. Cos I read a chronicle on this blog where the mother was a full time house wife but was knacking husband's friend and 4 of the kids belongs to the husband's friend. Abeg if u suspect anything do DNA. Maka Ndu gi
DeleteWhen a woman marries a MUGU, ONUKU oh yes man, I love my wife type maga , without questioning.
DeleteWhen a woman marries a greedy Foo,whi blvs his wife is 'hardiworkiing' this 1 common pass, na d Toto dey do d hard work while she is buying u car and paying house rent .Tufiakwa.
When she is too desperate for marriage and her ex no dey ready but Mr innocent is ready,she go jeje pass d pregnancy ( this is despicable) to think an innocent child was receiving another man's sperm on a daily. Allllluuu
Most men have an unspoken agreement,just so there shame will b covered
Las Las all of us na ASHAWO, but gwegwe, single mothers,2nd wives and side chicks. But paternity fraud na him carry the most guilt pass
Ready to read comments. If DH demand DNA then the relationship would end as soon as the results come out. If I trust his dk, he should be man enough to trust my tohtoh mbok
ReplyDelete😁😁😁😁😁😁😁
DeleteAnon 13:10, very rubbish talk you just vomitted. That's how you guys guilt trip and manipulate these men. Trust yen yen yen.When you go through his phone, you forget your rubbish trust abi? Real men dont ask for Dna test, they do the damn test themselves
DeleteThis to me is lame. You should be excited to prove your faithfulness if that will clear all of your husband's doubts. I wouldn't blame any man who demands for it with what is going on. The women we read about today were once trusted women.
DeleteI feel sorry for you,what's the big deal if your dh asks for a DNA,you will scream divorce, okkk ohhh.
DeleteWhy will a man ask for his wife's permission before getting DNA test done abi he wants her to contribute money?
DeleteI should be excited to prove my faithfulness????? Oh my God!!!! What rubbish won't I read on this blog abeg?
DeleteWhy should she be excited, that like I buy cloth you come and tell me I didn’t buy it I stole it and I should bring receipt, I will bring recieved but I will never be happy at all. My op union is clear: IF YOU ASK FOR DNA, THERE MUST BE A REASON FOR SUSPECT. Eh you see my hide phone I’m close to someone, etc etc. if there is no reason it’s a slap to my face sorry.
DeleteEka Joy, I love you so much girl. No homo. The nonsense I often times read on this blog ehn! To think 13:49 has a daughter fa. May God have mercy on us all.
DeleteIMHO, there is no justification for paternity fraud. Is your husband impotent and can't father a child? Divorce him and have your kids. If a man is in the know of his wife's infidelity ,then it negates the tag of fraud as it was consensual.
ReplyDeleteThe typical Igbo tradition accepts a child fathered by another, if the man is sterile or even dead to continue his stead. It is an open secret, even if the child looks exactly like his biological father, he remains in the shadows and dares not claim the said child as he didn't marry the mother and understands his role as solely a sperm donor. The practice still continues to this day.
Na why baby Mama's no dey shake for there, because them dey marry Wella and the new husband assumes responsibility of d child
Delete1. Greed (when the lady pins the pregnancy on the man who is more financially stable)
ReplyDelete2. To avoid the stigma of being a single mom (when the sperm donor denies the pregnancy or is irresponsible so the lady pins the pregnancy on the man she feels will marry her and take responsibility for the child)
3. To avoid the blame associated with infertility (done by married women. happens when husband and in laws blame her for infertility or when kids don't come after a period of time so she decides to try outside and takes in)
4. Fear of exposure of adulterous or cheating nature (the woman is afraid her boyfriend/fiance/husband would discover she's been cheating all along so she pins the pregnancy on him)
5. It was a plan (this happens when a woman pins the pregnancy on a man with the full knowledge and even cooperation of the baby daddy)
So apt anon 13:21
Delete@13:21, you sabi every 🙌🏿
DeleteThe secret lives of Baba Segi's wives comes to my mind.
ReplyDeleteI think partners should be open to each other.
That stage play summarizes it to a great extent.
DeleteThe 3 wives had a common secret until the learned new one Bilolanle came and couldn't conceive.
Love love the novel.
You have a problem? Tell your wife on time and agree to disagree on the way forward.
The ones quietly frustrating their wives by refusing to go to get tested when the woman is TTC
Deleteit takes a peculiar kind of selfishness to do so
That novel is a must read
DeleteYeah.
DeleteThe last wife Bolanle did not conceive. She is learned and decided to find a solution seeing that other wives have children.
It would be nice to hear the men talk on this.
ReplyDeleteSometimes, it's pre-planned between the husband and wife especially when the man knows that he's incapable of getting her pregnant.
DeleteSometimes, it could be adventure on the part of the woman if the man doesn't satisfy her in that oza room department.
But if the man suspects anything, he should secretly do a DNA test joor
I think Dna tests should be made compulsory immediately after the birth of a child to curb this nonsense, that way the woman would be sure the child was not swapped and the man would be sure the child is his.
ReplyDeleteBest comment I have read today
DeleteThat's true o. Children can be swapped at birth
DeleteIt would be nice to hear the men talk on this.
ReplyDeleteIf we actually stick to no sex until marriage, things like this will not happen, but no we must test. While the woman is busy testing two or more men and waiting for the man that is ready to propose, she becomes pregnant and pins it on the man that is ready to settle down, knowing with her full chest that he is not the father.. My brothers if u ve slept with ur woman and she becomes pregnant before marriage, DNA is allowed especially for some of u that wants her to be pregnant before marriage. In short if u suspect anything about ur kids Abeg do DNA to avoid heartbreak.
ReplyDeleteSo what do you have to say about the woman who cheated while married?? Rubbish talk
DeleteWhat a daft comment! @Anonymous 13:50 You think some women engaging in paternity fraud did not keep theirselves before marriage? Or when someone does not engage in any sexual activities before marriage, automatically, they will keep themselves in marriage? I encourage people to stay pure before marriage if you can but that is the least contributor to the issue at hand.
Delete@anonymous them ooo, be calming down. Paternity fraud starts from my wife must get pregnant before marriage and having multiple sex partners while having a serious relationship. Then during marriage she can still cheat too or probably child swap during delivery. I think that's y the writer said if u suspect anything about ur child do DNA to avoid taking care of another man's child
DeleteThe attack on this commenter is not necessary. She presented a scenario which is right based on her experiences.
DeleteYou both other anonymous presented another perspective, which are also probably right. It is neither "rubbish talk" nor "daft"
It is only different from yours.
Stay one place dem no gree
DeleteBehaving like they are wiser than their maker
Ndi testers
How everyone is attacking anon 13:50 for saying the truth is baffling.
DeleteImmorality is really on the high.
As for those arguing that even after couples keep themselves until marriage, they can still cheat. That may be true but studies have provern that there is lower cases of adultery in couples who were virgins till marriage than couples who had difference sexual partners before marriage. Reasons could be that the virgin couples already mastered self-discipline before getting married.
Wonders i see online thisdays. Some women are plan wicked. If the first child was a mistake, then I expect the rest of the children should atleast be your partner children. Is an act of wickedness to do this to anyone. Sincerely
ReplyDeleteMe sef wan know.coz I do not understand why a sane person would want to do that. Why get pregnant for some else and pass it off as your husband's? Or why are you cheating with different guys and not practice safe sex.
ReplyDeleteLike I said on the earlier post,I heard things last night at the salon.
ReplyDeleteMen please while planning marriage, consider taking yourself for a fertility test and start seeking solutions early enough.
So many women are being labelled infertile whilst they are innocent.
I know a very very close person that bought two children from all these baby factories. Whether her husband knows,I am not sure.
What then happens if by the nearest future, occasion then demands that they travel out or cause of health reasons questions then begin to crop up.
I am no saint so I'll just leave everyone to do what gives them peace
Exactly. This Baby factory issue is a Big problem. I said it the last time... Alot of babies are from BABY FACTORY and the darling husbands are not aware.
DeleteEven some women are not aware too. Because I heard jazz is involved in some of them.
So as you do DNA for yourself...do for your wives too.
Most men know but just pretend.Cheat and be put in trouble..abortions and passing another man's kid to your husband.
DeletePaternity fraud is different from baby factory matter.
DeleteIf a woman is sure her husband is infertile, she should tell her husband and let the both of them find a mutually beneficial solution. she should not resort to baby factories, etc without her husband's consent.
Tomorrow, some women will start using baby factory purchases to cover paternity fraud.
And by the way some men know the child or children are not theirs. I know one such case. Embassy required test revealed it when the child was already in his teens. The man and his nephew still act as father and uncle respectively to the young man till today.
The one wey dey vex me pass na the guys wey know say dem no fit her erection, yet they deceive an innocent lady into marriage in the guise of no sex before marriage 🙄
DeleteWhat about the ones who use artificial means to get it up to trick the lady into marriage?
DeleteDid we not read a chronicle here when the man "packaged" himself till marriage and stopped taking kickstarter?
Deceitful people everywhere
It's only a wicked woman that will do a thing like this!
ReplyDeleteImagine how u as a man would feel finding out ur wife is hiring investigators to go check if u have kids outside ur marriage but because she has heard that several men are guilty of this. Just imagine that level of distrust just because of the crime of other men and not because you have ever given her any reason to doubt you.
ReplyDeleteAsk me for paternity test na. Just dare it. You will get it from me with no hassle but just be ready for the repercussions of such insult.
Let's just pray we don't fall into the hands of despicable humans (both male and female), that's all
Lol..
DeleteWhy don't you reject the visa when the Embassy would ask for DNA test to confirm your kids..
I have been seeing your emotional comments regarding this issue that have no logical explanation attached to it. I want to believe it's the hormones that's talking, as you'd insinuate that you are on the 9 months course.. congratulations in advance.
Won't be replying whatever comment you make on this for obvious reasons.
Eka once again he doesnt need to ask you for permission before doing the test. Most men have secretly done Dna test on their children without the knowledge of their wifes, its only when the result is negative that he throws tantrums, if it's positive, he keeps quiet and no one would know jack about what he did.
DeleteSo how do you intend to carry out your threat when you might not even be aware of what he did?
Madam your advise no follow
DeleteEka that you are sure u aren't cheating doesn't mean all women aren't. Do you know aw many women will be guilty of paternity fraud and still be threatning as u are doing? Don't blame any man who request a DNA. Its crazy out there. So what joy would u derive from dealing with him. Biko rest
DeleteTrying to investigate him whether he has other kids like Abiola, Jerry Rawlings, etc.
DeleteI do not know what hormone u are referring to.
DeleteNo one has answered my question. The scenario I pointed out is the exact same scenario as those that want paternity test just because other women are guilty.
Now instead of looking at it objectively, u are there blaming imaginary hormones that only u know where it is coming from.
Paternity fraud is horrible and I will never justify it because it is a terrible thing in itself, just as terrible as a man keeping a child outside his marriage, but that can never be enough reason to ask for DNA Test.
See the yeye DNA test example u are giving sef. Something that is done clearly so someone doesn't lie to take someone else's child out of the country and not because they are trying to prove ur child isn't ur child.
Na wa for people on this blog. Dunno how hard it is to think for urselves
I'm with Eka 100% on this! As for those people that have been doing gossip congratulations and Dante talking about hormone what exactly is the color of your problem??? She didn't tell you guys anything so face front it won't kill you people🙄
DeleteVermilion she insinuated it during the post of shaving the down below. Just leave Eka. When she born we go still greet her again
DeleteI am with you @eka joy, this paternity fraud case is being overflogged. One woman's indiscretion doesn't mean we are all the same way, it really is an insult. If we start looking at men who keep double homes, spouses, mistresses, one night indiscretions nko? Perhaps we too should start distrusting our husbands and looking for any DNA that matches them in a DNA bank or investigate whether they have kids outside becuase 'we feel'Most men are that way.
DeleteWomen come here to foolishly rationalise why they are cheating on their husbands everyday. The reasons for paternity fraud are immaterial. The problem has been there since the beginning of time. The rate it happens is increasing geometrically everyday. If you are married , throw trust in the dustbin and go for a DNA test. You don't have to tell your wife, just do what you have to do and move on. Yes, there are very decent and honest women that will never stain themselves, jump into the muds. But we live in society where women now enjoy cheating, having goodbye sex with their Exes days to wedding.
ReplyDeleteWomen who have no conscience, have no regret about their actions. They are capable of killing and they are willing to kill to hide their secrets. Guys protect yourselves, be brutal if any idiot makes an attempt on your life
The women Learnt from the best in cheating
DeleteThe advanced senior students
Since people have left the cover of the commandments of the Almighty to do what the foolish human mind and flesh told them to do
These are the repercussions
The babymama/daddy own is loading
There is this case of a lady in the neighbourhood i grew up.The said Lady got pregnant,she was living with Mr A,Mr B bought baby things ,it was Mr C that did naming.Three different men,so definitely she has been sleeping with the 3 of them at the same time.I dont even know if she really know who got her pregnant.
ReplyDeleteThis is why I refused to use donor sperm for ivf. Hubby have issues we are working on it, the pressure from his folks are getting on him, our Dr suggested we use donor sperm. Hubby agreed, but me I have told him I am not doing. Except we invite both our parents and our lawyer and document it. Hubby is the nicest guy on earth and we love each other like kilode, but the only thing constant in life is change, I will not knowingly give anyone ammunition go use against me in future. If I agree, and he gets better and father our subsequent kids, who will believe me?
ReplyDeleteYou're on the right track..
DeleteIf he isn't involving a lawyer then don't do it, it's not about trust. You have to protect yourself. The parents awareness might not be necessary tho, any trusted persons your guys are comfortable with would suffice as witnesses
My sister, I don't blame you oh, men can do a 360 on you at anytime.Its good you are not letting pressure cloud your reasoning.I'm so proud of you.God will make your husband whole again and you will have your own kids.
DeleteYou are wise anon. Let him tell the Parents and of course a lawyer present. I pray everything works out. God be with you
DeleteMay wisdom never depart from your tent. And may God heal every issue in your home
DeleteDante His parents being aware is very important....what if tomorrow something happens and they will say this is not our son's child. The world is deep oh.
Very very very wise. That man shining teeth with you like chimpanzee 1 minute will through you under the bus for them to grind like minced meat.
DeleteStay wise.
A female friend of mine confessed to me that she has been nacking outside her marriage of 8 years since they got married. They have 3 kids.
ReplyDeleteThe reason she gave is that her husband doesn't know how to do the do and moreover he's hardly around so she gets it from her ex and others outside.
Now, I'm wondering if all the children belong to her because they look so different from each other.
Let the husband find out himself. No be me go scatter their marriage
Tell your friend that those "exes" have her on (sex) tape. She will find out any day she tries to back off or deny them of their benefits or access to those kids. She has woven a deadly web that only Jesus can deliver her from if she calls upon him and repents of her adulteries.
DeleteShe is threading a dangerous part
DeleteGood day people, Read and Learn!
ReplyDeleteThere are many men who plead with their wives to cover their shame and figure out how to get pregnant. These men are infertile. Infertility in men is on the rise these days. Here is the hard truth, it is not easily reversed. I am not speaking of low sperm count but rather Azoospermia. A semen without sperm.
These men, knowing that the situation is not even looking for help of fertility clinics with artificial insemination but looking for sperm to buy for their wives turn a blind eye when the woman comes home with pregnancy. I have had a patient plead with me to lie to her husband that we actually did the insemination with sperm from the sperm bank even though she got pregnant the natural way.
Let me be clear here, I am not speaking of paternity fraud where the woman dashes her husband a child. I am speaking of many stories of women who have multiple kids that doesn’t belong to their husbands. In most cases, the men gave whether tacit approval or decided to be willfully ignorant.
Before we scream women are wicked, find out of the man is fertile or he is just being a father to his wife’s children. A couple told me bluntly that it was better another man fuck the wife and give her belle than pay about N1.2m and still buy the sperm. The wife told me she would rather have her own kids than adopt.
Before judging anyone, listen to their story. Men, watch ur diet, what u eat/drink and ur weight. Male infertility is on the rise and there are no obvious symptoms.
Dr. O
Doc, you have said it all.
DeleteIt's really increasing men should watch what they eat.
Hmmmmmm. Things are really happening
DeleteDoctor wey sabi, well said. This life is deeper than we think.
DeleteI don't doubt the Dr one bit! Few years ago,Hubby's friend was begged by a couple to impregnate the wife for 300k but he refused cos of his future.The wife was ready to come down to the east from west for this.
DeleteThings are really happening in marriages mehn.
Any man who agreed to that will not even let a DNA test be mentioned rather than be carried out. It would only out him. Which man knows he can't father a child, supports whatever plans to get a child and cry foul later.
DeleteGosh I saw this post late...work things
DeleteAnyways, I have a relative(1st wife) whose husband took a second wife cos according to him, she couldn't give birth.
The 2nd wife gave birth to 3 kids. The hubby moved her to Lagos and rented her in a duplex. Babe now started having friends from a tribe that I won't mention who gave her bad advice. The nice grateful village girl turned out to be a shedevil...always calling my relative barren and she didn't deserve to live in the house which ironically...she built.
The husband became broke eventually and wasn't sending the millions again. The 1st wife was the one paying her rent🤷.
Eventually 2nd wife got fed up and came to 1st wife's house to destroy the cars with her kids cos she couldn't enter the house. The hubby called police had her arrested and eventually sent back to the Village. Meanwhile 1st wife didn't even say a word.
Next thing, umunna call hubby for village. Said 2nd wife was saying things they dont understand....turns out the 3kids were fathered by his brother and 2 of his cousins as in they slept with her. He had low sperm count and he told EVERYONE that it was the 1st wife that couldn't have children. 1st wife cos she loved him, kept up the lie and yet he disrespected her cos the plan was to adopt but as per typical Igbo man, he told her he will never carry another man's child as his own but he can claim his brother/cousin kids.
There is another case but it's still ongoing and can't talk about it but you see this DNA talk, I support cos I saw the hell my relative went through and can't even imagine the pain of a father finding out the kids were not his.
May God help us in this thing called marriage...
Let me summerize..
ReplyDeletePaternity fraud is increasing because the number of sissy and weak men are increasing.
It start with ladies shit testing,
1. She treats you shabbishly or act irrational, and instead of you to put her on check, you say na so woman dey do, free am.
2. In your presence, she's flirting with other guys, on phone or physical, you don't want to complain so she doesn't call you insecure and possessive.
3. She comes on a date with you, make a fool out of you by eating what her father can't buy for her, then still parking take away home for her friends, you don't caution her..
4. Anytime she comes over to your place, she's always on her period just so you don't get to hit it. You let it go instead of telling her not to visit you next time if she isn't free, no, you want to be a gentleman.
5. She told you she was a virgin, you finally hit it and discovered bore hole, but you let it go because they told you not all girls have hymen...
6. You bang with condom, she called you within a week to tell you she's pregnant and request for money to terminate it.. you rush send her 50k without buying the test strip which is just 100 box and tell her to pee on it. Moreover, no one discover that she's pregnant within a week, but you don't know this cos you're too lazy to read.
7. She tells you the baby is yours, you have your reservations,but you're too weak to speak cos you don't want to hurt her feelings..
Etc etc..
When people get away with small crimes without being made accountable for it, they'll move on to bigger crimes.
Dante your wahala plenty o
DeleteIt might seem harsh but you're just being manipulated to become a fool if you feel that way, when a lady lies about her age to you, someone she claims to lov and is in a relationship with, if you discover otherwise, don't let it go without talking about how disappointed you are.
DeleteWhether you remain in the relationship after that depends on you as some sins can be forgiven and forgotten but some others, though can be forgiven, can never be forgotten. So weigh your options well.
Not all women are worth respect, respect those that respect themselves, and do the opposite to those who act the opposite. Respect is earned and not given. Stop treating people better than they deserve
Listen to Dr O
DeleteHear the truth
Adults are talking, you are referring to your fellow juveniles
Dante you have problem o. See how shallow you've turned this paternity discussion into
DeleteUna no wise..
DeleteWhy don't you attack the issues to show were I was wrong if not that you're all just being stupid
Shallow is an understatement.
DeleteYou think it is every matter you can contribute to.
Please let us read meaningful comments from mature minds.
Not that mumbo/jumbo you wrote up there.
You self dey give relationship advise, you are still a child nau with no experience.
Lol. Somehow l can't get all irritated by Dante. As much as you all try to dismiss him, he is defending his gender which we seem to always deem guilty of every crime on earth. We women also like to downplay our faults a lot. We have indeed taken the part Adam played in the garden. When God Asked Eve she simply pointed the serpent. But when God asked Adam he blamed Eve. Not accepting his fault. That's women today. Someone said women learn from the master:men. I don't agree. We have been doing our village thing since. Technology and open eye just exposes us more now.
DeleteHahahahahahhahahaha
DeleteWhy the insulting of Dante.He is giving his own point of view.
DeleteAnd what is the new thing of women calling men immature when they don't agree with their point of view
Anon 19.30...👌
Delete@Lovetoloveyou suck up to Dante without calling "us". Speak for you and yourself alone. Don't loop us with your werey talk.
Thank you
Nobody insulted him, we are only saying he should not trivialise the issue with the childish scenarios he painted up there.
DeleteSometimes it is better to keep quiet and learn from others.
Not every thing you will chook mouth like woodpecker. Nobody knows it all!!!
Lol..
DeleteCry me a river.. you think calling me immature or childish would stop me from saying things as it is bah.. you think you can manipulate me the way you manipulate your boyfriends and husbands, then you sure don't know me.. it's obvious you are guilty of these stuffs 😃.. you can continue, but make sure you pick weak men cos if you cross my lane or other real gees like me lane, you'll learn a serious and bitter lesson.
You that is matured but hiding behind anonymous to talk trash, but when it's time to ass lick Stella for give away you go use your moniker comment😃.. ode.. if you like call me immature and every other thing you can think of, it doesn't define who I am nor does it make me who you want me to be, I know say i mature and get sense pass una papa..
Nonsense girls
The immature pain you gan, no vex.
DeleteDante, in terms of everything in life we can not cross paths, not bragging. I mean everything. If I wasn't even married, our paths cannot cross.
Some of you think every one is here to beg Stella for giveaway?? Lmao, you wish. I guess the blog angels are spirits??
My point still remains you need to grow up, not every thing is gender war and beer parlour talk. Sometimes zip it and learn. Even when think you know, pretend not to know, listen to other perspectives.
Remember the adage, God forbid that a lawyer knows all the Law.
A good lawyer is one who knows where to find the law and applies it not one who talks out of his bumbum in court.
OK blog angel 😃😃..
DeleteAnon that l am not escorting you on your roasting mission of Dante does not mean l am sucking upto him. Dante, you wan do giveaway for me? Which one be me alone. Na werey dey recognize werey so ur talk no worry me. As na me alone, how come story after story of paternity fraud keeps popping up. I think even you need paternity test too. The thing really dey pinch u.
DeleteIf you hear the appalling reasons most women have been giving to rationalize paternity fraud,you would just pity yourself as a man.
ReplyDeletePaternity fraud happens because of greed and selfishness, wickedness and promiscuity.
Greed and selfishness:Most women,who indulge in this, do it because they do not want to lose out from the wealth/inheritance of their husband.They would rather stay married to their rich husbands with DOA sperms than leaving him.So they resort to bringing in other men's children.
In the world that we live in now,it is usually good to think of(and put) yourself first,but in marriage you are not supposed to be selfish anymore.It is a union of 2 persons who are supposed to be one now.If you want to be selfish,then be selfish for both of you. A lot of paternity fraudsters do it because they do not want 'society' and extended family members to mock them for being barren.If you want to seek for a solution,get your husband involved.
Wickedness:It is only a wicked heart that can conceive and execute this to fruition and still be under the same roof with the man daily and not feel any pang of guilt when he is playing with her boyfriend's children).A woman like this DOES NOT love her husband and can easily kill him,when push comes to shove.
Promiscuity: Aka hot pants or penis junkie.These ones fuck anything and when the gift of life comes,they take it home to Oga.
Love(or lack of it): A lot of marriages,these days,are conceived,projected and sealed like a contract-devoid of love.
No paternity fraudster engages in it out of love for her husband(maybe for the love of his money and other things). People (men and women) no longer date and get to know themselves before saying "I do"to a life partner.They see dating as going to restaurants(e must concern food),fucking and taking pictures.courtship is more than that.People no longer fall in love-madly and deeply.
When you are in love with your partner,you won't cheat on him,talkless of bringing in another man's child(ren) to bear his name.
Humans are just wicked sha
Pressure from womb watchers. Then Okafor law sets in
ReplyDeleteNobody should be given a child that does not belong to them. It is just not right. I have given this a lot of though in recent times and I can understand why a man would want a DNA test.
ReplyDeleteMen do your DNA codedly and know your truth , if you are not guilty u will even support this .
ReplyDeleteWomen now have thrown caution to the winds and even brag about it.
Women should insist on fertility test before marriage too so at least you know what u going into because some men will know they are barren and marry and won’t tell the woman and she because of pressure will go bring an illegitimate child in .
Marriage is about trust and if that doesn’t exist then u don’t need to stay married . 🦋
Wickedness,greed and sometimes ignorance.
ReplyDeleteSo many interesting points.
ReplyDeletePaternuty fraud is still fraud anf all fraudsters shoyld be jailed
The stories we hear these days can discourage one from trusting anybody. Let's out our trust in God
ReplyDeleteI pray this paternity fraud saga will open my step brother's eyes. How can children only look 100% like their mum and not a tiny feature of their dad?
ReplyDeleteThe ones I feel for are those who decidedly purchase sperm from sperm banks while TTCing without husband's knowledge.
ReplyDeleteThe ones I feel for are those who decidedly purchase sperm from sperm banks while TTCing without husband's knowledge.
ReplyDeleteI remember a friend of my moms when we were young,5boys,none for her hubby,like 3men,all friends of her husband. Apparently he has low sperm count,had no idea until he was ill,oya mummy who is the daddy of the kids?she left the house,her boys left her too,living in uncompleted buildings, I dont know where she is now!
ReplyDeleteFear of being labeled by society.
ReplyDeleteWickedness
Treachery
Love for the side cock