Governor of Benue state Dr. Samuel Loraer Ortom and his wife have brokered peace between a Channels TV reporter Pius Angbo and his wife Doctor Ifeyinwa after she accused him of Domestic Violence and trying to strangle her.....
Dr Ifeyinwa on Monday December 7,2020 stood in front of the press and begged the public to forgive her husband and said they had four kids that were still tender...
She also said they both needed the prayers of the public.
Dr Ifeyinwa Angbo called out her husband Pius Angbo who works with Channels TV station.She accused him of Domestic violence and said she had not known peace for the 6 years she has been married to him.She said he was serial with women and he had beaten her because she advised him to save the money (for their kids) that he was spending on his women outside.
She also told of how he had tried to strangle her several times and said the reason for the call out was because he sat on her stomach 4 weeks after she birthed their 4th child via Caesarean section,and he beat the living daylight out of her.
The call out video went viral and Pius Angbo's Principal Channels TV had to issue a press release that it would investigate the matter and take action as it was against Domestic violence.
Look at the abuser hugging his victim because a sitting governor intervened to broker peace when he should have whopped the mans ass!!!.....what a pity!
This was a forced reconciliation (see the way they hugged with their sides) . The bad thing about THIS is that she cannot do a public call out again and will continue to chop the beatings in silence.
Doctor Ifeyinwa,you deserve better than settling for this because of four kids....NO!!!!
That man is definitely going to beat her again or even kill her!!
ReplyDelete😱🙆🤦,mogbe!
DeleteThe hugged with sides because its not from the bottom of their heart,😀 I don't pity her one bit,let her stay and enjoy her hired beater,husband and wife matter,I don't get involved cos I have learnt my lesson.
DeleteWhat a pity. This is just so wrong.
DeleteLovelace
The question we should first ask ourselves before anything else is- is this the job of a Governor?, is this why he was elected into office?
DeleteInstead of the man to be arrested for assaulting his wife because it is a crime, the governor became a supporter and enabler of domestic abuse.
I thank God for where I am at. Right now we are all celebrating and basking in the joy of all the hardwork and sacrifices made by our NHS and scietists, proud of being the first country in the world to give the covid 19 vaccine which was given to 90 year old Margaret Keenan in the UK first person in the world to receive the vaccine.
Meanwhile the useless government in Nigeria wont sacrifice a thing, they wont contribute a single thing to anything but they are all waiting to receive the vaccine brought about by the hardwork, sacrifice and commitment of others.
If only the people who keep abusing the westerners know what these white people have done for Africa. Can you imagine what will happen if the west says they are not selling or giving their vaccine or making it available to Africa.
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That one is her own cup of tea. That is why i don't put mouth in such cases. The abused always in most cases go back to the abuser. I just pity the children growing up in such toxic environment.
DeleteI wont even say im surprised. From what i saw ystday she never ready to leave...shes not sum helpless housewives dat doesnt have d resources or smarts to leave...but i guess dats abuse; she has lost herself in d marriage.
DeleteMadam if i were you,broker peace or not u need to seperate for a while,remaining in dat house isnt good for ur mental health.
Rent even if its a nice 1bedroom with ur kids,he can be coming to visit his kids. From his behaviour towards u and d kids u will know if he can change....if hes still aggresive n abusive just know hes beyond redemption. And while ur at it fit IUD and keep ur legs closed to dis man until he changes. Sex isnt food.
So a violent person will change over night because a nosey governor intervened?
DeleteI am not against a reconciliation at all but for now what they need is a separation even if it is a month or 2. During the separation period, both parties need to see a marriage expert or therapist to fix their marriage issues. This man here in particular needs anger management classes.
How can someone try to strangle you and sit on your incision and governor tells both of you to kiss and make up?? Quite annoying.
Nevertheless, I wish them all the best.
The one I'm upset is with the woman!!! She had a choice in this matter..... How could she allow them to bind her back to this beast?? A whole doctor??
ReplyDeleteShe obviously has no value for her life and that of her kids!!!!
She was a former runs girl in owerri as it is madam is worthless to the man. Anyway plans are on to take her over to USA her reconciling is to keep face for a short period
DeleteYour second paragraph 👌👌 I hope she won't regret her actions later cos this beast won't stop
DeleteAnon9:12,I was waiting for someone to bring the news here,you for download us the whole gist .
DeleteI am yet to understand the relevance of her being a former runs girl to the subject matter.What is the nexus between the 2?
DeleteIf shes a runz girl does it make her deserve choking?
DeleteThe husband didnt know e put runz girl for house or whats ur point.
It is well. Every part of me is angry with the situation but what can one do. I pray she doesn't die by his hands and the children don't grow up more damaged. May peace rei6in their home in Jesus name.
ReplyDeleteReign
DeleteAnything husband and wife matter....I wash my hands oo
ReplyDeleteI pray you survive the next one cause this man has not change a bit.
He will still beat her again,for disgracing him,and she better stay there and enjoy the beating.
DeleteNedi, my thoughts too. She 'took him to behind the woodshed' in broad daylight and she believes he wouldn't make her pay for publicly humiliating( his kind will interpret her to cry for help as humiliation) him? Men like him are vindictive. Even his family I am sure hates her now for calling their son out for something their bias selves will perceive to be a family matter they could have settled behind closed doors.
DeleteUgh! Overlook the typos. It's the browser.
DeleteGod bless you Sabella for this analysis. So so apt. As a practicing Lawyer, I know his kind.
DeleteShame. The meaning of this so called reconciliation is to be abused without crying out. I hope it's not her requiem mass she just signed off.
ReplyDeleteDefinitely! And we'll be here to mourn her
DeleteNot even a little punishment to straighten his head. The guy would restore to emotional abuse or give her silent treatment for her not to have evidence.
ReplyDeleteIs that not better than going physical.. yes, one keeping malice UNNECESSARILY is very wrong, but we should also understand that people have feelings and they must react somehow when pushed, if he reacts by ignoring or keeping malice, that's better than going physical, that's even better than my own "school of thoughts" which is to give you bad mouth back Lol..
DeleteSo, that a man use the ignoring method, that doesn't make him childish or petty like I see some ladies comment on this blog.. but first, he should have tried to talk about it, then if the other party refuses to take redress, he can then move on to giving her the silent treatment.. See ehn, even though we encourage acting matured and being the bigger man, there are some people that would never take you seriously if you don't go extreme.. they'll keep pushing you until you burst..
Now, as regards to the topic the lady going back after the interference of the governor, am I surprised? Hell No!.. I mean in a country where we are encouraged to live with 'reformed' kidnappers and terrorist, and even fund there university education so they can reduce the number of people they murder on daily basis, what is Domestic Violence to such people.. Nothing mahn
@ Dante, please stop offering any form of advise on relationship or marriage matters.I am on my knees begging you.
DeleteLmao @anon11:21 person wey mumu but go dey think say e get sense. Ignorance is a disease.
DeleteWhat a pity
ReplyDeleteAnd she agreed to this
Nigerian married women will embarrass you
Continue to chop the beating in silence from now on and hopefully you don’t die and leave the tender kids
What about her parents?
Her siblings?
Meanwhile so the sitting governor is an enabler
So that’s the best you could do eeh?
Well no be you I blame
It’s the foolish “I must die a Mrs” that I blame
Her decision sha. She's matured and educated, obviously she knows what's best for her and her kids.
ReplyDeleteI wish her well.
Na so My dear.
DeleteHer life.
Her beating.
Her decision.
I wish her well.
Not surprise, I was sure
Deletetheir was going to be
reconciliation. Husband and wife quarrel don't bother to
put mouth
Lol, I have zero pity for her as in no pity at all for her. Nigeria is the world capital of lawlessness. Shior governor eleke dindin.
ReplyDeleteGbam @ zero pity. I said same y'day. They always go back and leave you looking the fool and home destroyer. Na she Sabi joor, her life, her choice, her consequence.
DeleteNa Nigeria caused their family dispute or that made the woman to go back to the abusive ?
DeleteEverything, you must rope the country into it.
Lmao @don. Na nigeria cause am jor! If we had laws we won't be waking up to this kind of news.
DeleteI don't pity her one bit!
ReplyDeleteI am will not advice a domestic violence victim again. You are the one feeling it, you know the pains because you are the one taking both the physical and mental heat. If you choose to stay in it for one reason or the other, stay but do not seek public validation. It's your pains and your life. People who try to save your life by asking you to leave always become your enemies. My elder sister, my niece choose to stay in abusive marriages and I have given up on all of you dv victims.
ReplyDeleteGbam 👍. You couldn't have said it better loud it so people can hear it ! They are deaf ooo. Someone will soon die.
DeleteMay the peace of the Lord reign supreme in their home henceforth in Jesus name. Amen
ReplyDeleteShe should not have settled with him. If he now kills her, it's only RIP people will type, and he will move on with his life.
ReplyDeleteI want to assume she allowed this public reconciliation to happen just so she can planned how to escape with her kids.... I don't want to believe this woman apologize for almost being killed.
ReplyDeleteNow, I get why some anonymous here is against all this call out. She should have gone to make a formal report instead of seeking justice from social media court.
I nor go ever talk for married people matter again. God please forgive me.
Many Nigerian women don't have a mind of their own. They can't think for themselves.
Is not easy not to tlk abt dem,especially wen d maltreatment is too much,one will be forced to advise dem,at d end,it will be in vain.
DeleteWhat's my business?..
ReplyDeleteWhen he eventually kills her,is it my children will suffer?No!!..
Let her stay nah because a governor intervened...
*yinmu
I know she is not going anywhere. Because I have a sister in such situation, after crying for help and you try to her.She will turn back against you as a bad person and reconcile with the abuser. So what i normally do to her is offer her shoulder to lean on.
ReplyDeleteMadam i pray you find courage to come out.
The public should forgive the man because its "public" that has been chopping beating for the last 6 years. It is really well with your soul o.
ReplyDeleteDon't mind her.
DeleteSmh
ReplyDeleteBig shame...
DeleteWhat a waste of medical degree. Tueh tueh. I pray he doesn't hit u again o. I dunno if his dick game is tight. A doc that can take care of her kids by herself is subjecting herself to a mere punching bag. Ode. She might even be d bread winner sef. Nonsense n fashola.
ReplyDeleteI am VERY sure shes the breadwinner since she was advising him to stop sending on women.
DeleteIf shes smart she will do this reconciliation from outside the mans roof becos d next beating will be deadly,he will use all the anger from her reporting him.
He will still Hit her,d beating is not once or twice,their marriage is over
DeleteHmmmmmm
DeleteThis is so hilarious and troubling at the same time...the expression of the gov and wife in this open reconciliation show reminds me of when we were kids,if we fought and someone happens to reconcile us,they tell "oya hug each other"as they watch!
ReplyDeleteLol
DeleteHahahaha. This is so true.
DeleteStellz.. This matter get as e be ooo.. There's something still hidden between husband and wifw
ReplyDeleteKnow your worth woman!
ReplyDeleteLeave to live. Your children needs their mother ALIVE
The governor and his wife didn't help matters at all! Why encourage her to go back to an abuser who obviously will never change?
ReplyDeleteWho governor help????👎
DeleteI can't express my disgust enough. Let me just be hopeful for her and believe he's truly learnt his lesson and changed for good
ReplyDeleteSeconded😔
DeleteThe governor should not just have reconciled them but set up therapy or assistance i believe the man badly needs, otherwise it will repeat itself and then the governor will be held responsible alongside the husband if anything bad happens again😫🤦🏽♂️
The man deserves better than a non submissive wife. He shouldn't have accepted the subversive element back. She will still continue to trigger your mumu botton oga. Men shouldn't settle for such wives...... imagine the guts, after calling me out publicly.... never! Mbanu!! Who paid pride price noni!?!
ReplyDeleteTa gbafo there
DeleteWhat brideprice
@King, and who gave the damn right to demand subservience from a woman. To hell with your bride price, you misogynistic pig!!
DeleteNa wa oooo. Eleyi gidi gan.
DeleteLord God pleaaase keep my children away from men like this in Jesus mighty mame. Amen
Afi pride price naa!!!
DeleteMpama
DeleteThis is so hilarious and troubling at the same time...the expression of the gov and wife in this open reconciliation show reminds me of when we were kids,if we fought and someone happens to reconcile us,they tell "oya hug each other"as they watch!
ReplyDeleteLol..
DeleteCraze
😂🤣😂🤣😂🤣 you self!
Delete#Nostalgic childhood.
🤣
DeleteYou will now use style to hug the person.
😂😂😂😂😂😂
DeleteExactly the scenerio..
Exactly!!!
DeleteSenseless woman!
ReplyDeleteWhen your 'monster-band' kills you, Gov. Ortom won't be there to raise your children! 🤦♀️🤦♀️🤦♀️
What has Gov. Ortom done to protect and rehabilitate abused women and children in his State?
What has he done to punish your 'monster-band' for his crime of assault and attempted murder?
STUPID LEADERS! 😡😤
Thank you for this question !! What has he done to rehabilitate abused women and children ?
DeleteThis right here is troubling, no one is against peace but not when life is at stake.
This is very sad. I don't want to believe she went back to this wicked man, after all what he did to her.
ReplyDeleteNa she know. Wetin concern me?
ReplyDeleteAll I can say is it never stops unless by the grace of God. I've been a victim so I know what it does to a person. And not usually easy to leave but I spoke to myself and left.
ReplyDeleteThank God for you.❤❤
DeleteGod will come through for you...
DeleteThanks
DeleteGod will bless u beyond ur imagination
DeleteI am just angry. Well na she dey chop the beating. Wetin concern me?
ReplyDeleteMost times when i read comments on this blog, i wonder if most bvs are not residing in nigeria or they are just living in denial. Some were even saying he raped her for 6yrs😂😂😂😂. Omo na naija be dis, stop bothering yourself over dv victims leave them alone. If she wants a separation she can go to court, coming to social media means, i no want separation, i want make una chook mouth for this matter. Stellz is calling the man an abuser, don't be surprised if the man too is a victim, many women here are lions in their homes and lambs on social media. If their housegirls open their mouths, this place go burst.
ReplyDeleteSpot on!!
DeleteThank you o jare.
DeleteBoth Men and women in Nigeria, are abusers. Husband go assault wife, wife go enslave and torture their house help.... The abused, becomes the abuser, and on and on the cycle continues. May God help you indoctrinated and brainwashed "animals" in that "zoo" called Nigeria... Tueeeh!!!
DeleteThis is the sad truth.
DeleteMost women cant stand separation from their husbands. Doc, if u knew you would take him back, why the public disgrace. She doesn't know she has disgraced herself too. A whole doctor beaten like an animal. She should have taken the matter to the family.
ReplyDeleteAnyway, I no dey put mouth for husband and wife matter. Small time, she would come out to say she was having postpartum depression or bipolar disorder. Better buy and save up for those children since you dont love yourself. Mshwww. Inukwa begging for the husband when he should be cooling off his heels in jail for assault and attempted murder.
My dear.
DeleteLemme just sit on the fence because adị mụ speechless.
To dey put mouth for husband and wife matter, ehn....
ReplyDeleteStella everybody said so ooh.. mehn gone are the days we thought people who read elite courses were smarter. I doubt she's working at the moment or have money of her own, maybe that's why she agreed to the reconciliation. 4children together, so??
ReplyDeleteI pray she doesn't end up receiving flowers. That man is a beast, the gov is even worse. Nigeria is designed to fail you. SMH.
I mean, this monster beat her till she had a bloodied face, scars, he strangled her!! OMG!! What's left? My heart goes to her tender kids. .they don't deserve this 😭😭
I hope she doesn't eventually leave in a bodybag. That man is a beast
ReplyDeleteIn a sane environment,the government would protect the woman from her abuser and even prosecute the man, not "broker peace". What a shame!!! It tells you the kind of person the governor is.
ReplyDeleteWhen people refuse to interfere in matters of domestic violence, don't abuse them o.
So you choose to remain with your abuser because your children are "still tender". Don't worry naw. Your children will grow up overnight when your abuser murders you. Continue. Una no dey ever learn.
For her sake, I hope the man will change for good.
ReplyDeleteThis is extremely sad.
ReplyDeleteI pray she Comes out alive next time.
ReplyDeleteWhat i feel right now is DisGust 😡🤯💔 .
ReplyDeleteIndeed, education is not wisdom, no matter the profession if there's no wisdom, its a pity. A medical doctor without wisdom....
ReplyDeleteSettling and signing her death warrant...
Hmmmm! Na wah
ReplyDeleteIt is still on this blog that stupid people will be singing God hates divorce. One of the reasons couples want to stick together even when there is no love between them anymore is 'What will people say' . I have been begging my husband for 2 years now to give me a divorce since we are separated and he is saying people will laugh at him cos this is his second failed marriage. He tells people all is well with us even though I am in another country (I ran when the beating got too much)and we have not even talked for months. I've moved on already. I have a new family now. When I have his time, I will contact a Lawyer.
ReplyDeleteWhen I said it yesterday; why should a doctor bring domestic violence matter to the social media instead of the law courts,
ReplyDeletemy comment disappeared? Now this is it. If she had gone to the law courts to seek redress, will this charade have been pulled off
by the shameless governor? 😏😏😏😏😏😏😏😏😏
You were right my dear.. this victims always shaming us.
DeleteUr comment did not dissapear,I read it.
DeleteI read your comment yesterday.
DeleteThe truth is a lot of women do not have the courage to leave their abusers for various myopic reasons.
Like what would people say , for the sake of their children and he would change .
Tueh
ReplyDeleteA medical doctor that has the finance to stand on her own wanna die on top of divk
Divk that beats you this mercilessly, drew blood on your face, tried to strangle you and sat on your incision site
And you still have it in yuh to go home to open legs for him as husband ?
With this public shame now, don’t you think the man will always take it out on you for daring to put him out?
He would always get disgusted with you than he is already whenever he remembers what you did and how you almost made him lose his job and dented his image
For her sake, I hope she’s alive to take care of the four kids
Their marriage is over, unless God intervene
DeleteA man who didn't forgive his first wife and married Euince the first lady is the one asking Ide to go back to her husband. Smh does Ife even know her worth? Her salary can take care of her kids but no Gov.Ortom 1 million naira gift is enough for you to go back. No one is even saying you shouldn't forgive but reconcilling with a serial abuser might land her into the unexplainable soon.
ReplyDeletewho am I angry with more, is The first lady standing there and smiling.It's your problem not mine but I can't call a man out publicly like this and still shamelessly go back to him.
Very disgusting situation and story to read. Na she sabi.
ReplyDeleteMy only annoyance is the damage the irresponsible adults are doing to their innocent kids. Yes, she's irresponsible as well cos she can choose to leave with her kids and raise them in a better environment. A doctor for that matter. Inukwa, her kids are small. You never tire that's why.
Myopia and dumbness are comorbidities
DeleteNawa oo.....I just dey pity this woman. Abusive men don't change
ReplyDeleteHmmnnn, Jesus wept!
ReplyDeleteThis is all shades of wrong! This cycle will never be broken, until proper counselling, therapy and repentance from both parties take place.
ReplyDelete. I am no prophet of doom, but Dr. Ifeyinwa, you may not get out, alive next time!
This thing has got nothing to do with education people !
ReplyDeleteThis is just......
Infact I don't know what to say o
Oya ooi,continue to pop more children since you dont want to use your brain.
ReplyDeleteMay God have mercy on them
ReplyDeleteI just feel pity for the woman sha.
ReplyDeleteHe won't even give her the opportunity to come public the next time and she can't even have the guts to come public again.
I hav seen the show of shame from Mr Orton and his wife, pushing a woman to embrace her abuser instead of helping her seek a restraining order and condemning attempted murder.
ReplyDeleteMy question is, what is the action going to be taken by Channels TV or are they still investigating?
Ifeyinwa where are your family members in all of this and why are they shying away and saying NOTHING.
ReplyDeleteIs this what you really want? People can only show there concern and disgust but you know your truth.
Professional marriage counsellors over to you.
Now your story is out in the open, I hope you two sort this out peacefully, for your sakes and your kids.
Awon alara iya gbogbo.
ReplyDeleteHmmmmmmmmmmmmmm, this life oooooooooooo...... End of discussion, they have reconciled..... husband and wife matter??????? Infact, you can only save who wants to be saved, May God help us
ReplyDeleteSmh
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