NARRATIVE 1
Guys please help me!!
How can I get over a guy?? This guy was my mate in school but we didn't talk back then, we are only friends on Social media
Recently, he started stalking me everywhere and then we started talking. He told me he likes me but he hasn't asked me to be his girlfriend..
The problem is that I am crazy about him right now. I now stalk him everywhere. I have told him about my intentions but I don't know why he doesn't want us to be together. I have tried to forget about him but I just can't.
I am losing concentration!! Is anyone in my shoes?? What can I do guys?? How can I completely forget him since it's obvious we can't be together
You sound like expired Gala being sold in hot traffic!!
How can you be crazy about a man who does not want you and you allowed yourself become so desperate?
Move on and stop being available before he collects the cookie and vanishes....
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NARRATIVE 2
I have recurring yeast infection and it is so annoying, to think its only when you are sleeping with guys or not keeping proper hygiene will keep reinfecting you but here is a different ball game.
I haven't had s#x for more than 2 years now, no one fingers me, no play with down there, I change my pants max 5 months but this shit keeps coming back. I have been to general hospital, even to the best private hospital in Abuja still the same issue. While on medication it will go but once medications is gone it will show back with full force.
I am fed up with it, had a lot of test including my sugar level which it has been awesome but what is bringing it back I don't know.
The doctor kept saying same thing yeast infection that is what your results says. I have done local combo still no lasting solution, please help a sister to stay away from this shit.
I don't know anything about this at all....
Shave off your pubic hair and cut off long nail....throw away all your panties and change your wardrobe......change your beddings and buy a new mattress.........Maybe something around you is re-infecting you?
If you have a dildo,please throw it away......
Poster one, u need to get laid. You are hirny and its clouding your sense of reasoning. Isn't it obvious that d guy wanna hit it for fun? He is even slacking sef, I for bang shege from your head.
ReplyDeletePoster 1,it might end in premium tears if you continue. I chased a guy for two years before we started dating in May. Never have I been so shabbily treated in my life, he was never available emotionally. Right now everyone is busy enjoying Christmas and I have been in my room since 24th weeping my eyes out after breaking up. My dear kill the feelings before heartbreak will finish you. Run!
DeletePoster do you abuse antibiotics? Or better still check what you eat, something is killing of the bacteria flora around your private part. I am a microbiologist, so not in a position to give you medical advice but I would suggest you start a low fat Greek yogurt diet ASAP to restore the microbial floral. You could also set cold low fat Greek yogurt on your private part once a week for 30mins to an 1hr, don’t let it stay long. It helped with mine.
DeletePoster 2, first thing in the morning for 1 month take coconut water(if possible the one that is not fully mature if you dont get it use mature one).
DeletePeel garlic and put it in your vagina overnight for a month( put it in a way that you can remove it in the morning)
Take enough unsweetened yoghurt, garlic an ginger, scent leave.
Change your sponge, towel, undies and bedsheets.
The first poster is like a free cookie waiting to be eaten and dumped in the thrash like poop.
ReplyDeleteSeek God with the same energy you seek a man and see if he won't give you life in abundance.😍😍😍😍😍
Poster1... I concur with this person, seek God, pour your heart out to him and I I'm telling you, he will make the feelings disappear... just have faith... i'm saying this because I've been there.
DeleteHave you tried these: Stop washing down there with soap. Use water only and bend down to wash. ( some feminine hygiene soaps actually cause this stuff as the mess with the natural order of things) 2. stop wearing g strings and tight underwear. Stock to cotton normal panty. 3. Restrict tight clothing skirt and jeans. 3. Don’t sleeep with any underwear. 4 wash your toilet often. Is it shared? If so stop sitting down on it. 5. Have a bathe morning and night. 6.. Stop using tissue, tampon, sanitary towel, panty liner or any feminine hygiene product that is scented. 7. Drink lots of water 8. Don’t repeat trousers, skirts or pjs. Wear it once and wash it.
Delete🙄 Stella 'which one is expired gala being sold in hot traffic
ReplyDeleteMadam remove your mind from that guy.
Even if he want you later.na to chop clean mouth.
Don't allow despiration to put you in trouble
Poster 1, just look for the guy and fuck the hell out of him,it will clear your head and you will start thinking normal
ReplyDeletePoster two, one cant really understand yeast o. They said you should not wash inside ur vagina that it causes yeast, that d vagina washes itself. Yet I've not had it. Wash ya toto well, eat yoghurt, probiotic supplements, use klovinal at intervals..I dunno much about yeast infections.
ReplyDeletePoster 2,follow this advice. Buy probiotic supplement and start using ASAP,buy yoghurt eat and insert in your vagina as well cos it does wonders. All the best
DeleteNatural unsweetened yoghurt only pls not all those ones with sugar and sweeteners.
DeletePoster1 you sound do funny to me 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣😅😅 you are head over hills with a man that doesn't know you exist 🤔🤔🤔🤔🤔🤔 you should be ashame of your self for falling so cheap for a guy who is not into you.
ReplyDeleteSp being desperate with your intentions before that guy will take advantage of you and milk tou dry.
It's... head over *heels* in love... not 'hills'...
DeletePoster 2 keep doing the right thing and taking your medications some day the yeast infection will clear off completely.
ReplyDeleteAnd poster 2 if you re team doucher, please stop and thank me later.
ReplyDeletePoster 2, maybe you should change your shower gel or soap to a mild one?? Or change your body cream too... a scent you’re using might trigger it
ReplyDeleteYea, maybe she is using bleaching and or antiseptic soaps.
DeleteEven disinfectant is not necessary
I really feel for poster 2. I hope you find a solution soon.
ReplyDeletePoster 1, it's all in your head. The day you make up your mind that that guy ain't sh*t, that day you will start wondering what you ever saw in him. Peace.
@Poster2, try to go on plant based diet or less animal products and more fruits and veggies. Do more greens, less carbon and oils. Watch what you eat and drink, then see how it goes.
ReplyDeleteLady with yeast. Get fresh garlic, use a needle and thread to sew the thread through it and tie the thread so that the garlic can be at the other end.
ReplyDeleteInsert the garlic into ur vagina deep in and let the thread be long enough so that you can pull the garlic out if u are uncomfortable.
Put the garlic in overnight and remove it rhe next morning. No go do oversabi leave am for 2 days ohh.
Make sure its fresh garlic. U can repeat the process max of 3 nights in a week
BV Sylvia
Please DO NOT insert anything in your vagina. The only thing allowed in there is a tampon and a d**k/dildo.
DeleteLady with yeast. Get fresh garlic, use a needle and thread to sew the thread through it and tie the thread so that the garlic can be at the other end.
ReplyDeleteInsert the garlic into ur vagina deep in and let the thread be long enough so that you can pull the garlic out if u are uncomfortable.
Put the garlic in overnight and remove it rhe next morning. No go do oversabi leave am for 2 days ohh.
Make sure its fresh garlic. U can repeat the process max of 3 nights in a week
BV Sylvia
Insert garlic into your varginal
ReplyDeleteWhat is vaginal?
Delete@ Poster 2, I can help you send a mail to Stella for the treatment. You will get it from any pharmacy around you. With 2000 naira, you are good to go....
ReplyDeleteWhat's d big secret? Shiorrrr..if u tell her here, will heaven fall?
DeleteAnonymous 16:12 please say it here. You'll be helping a lot of people like me battling with the same issue please. Thanks as you do so
DeleteShe or he can't say it here because he or she may not be a qualified doctor to prescribe treatment. Even if a doctor, the patient has to be properly examined and tested to come to a diagnosis. Believe it or not self treatment could make things worse. Make una nor vex but safety is important.
DeleteGet boric acid Suppository. I heard it works, if it all you can google it.
ReplyDeleteI always advice women whether old or young to make garlic, ginger, tumeric and yogurts their best friends.
ReplyDeleteAll these things help your body system especially you vaginal PH.
Poster two, avoid bleaching cream, scented soaps... Don't rub any cream whether from the pharmacy or not on your vaginal area, don't spray any aroma or rub after shave in that area.
Only wash with water and stop inserting your fingers there.
Eat lots of yogurts, eat garlic, eat ginger, eat 🍍 and do exercises.
Poster one, its people like you that come on here to call men scum after they have used and dump you.
Nor get sense, na 2021 we wan enter so!
Poster 2, I'm sorry sis. I'm in the same shoes as you.
ReplyDeletePoster 2: wear cotton undies, drink lots of water, when you wash your undies dry the bottom area in the sun, dont wear undies to bed so down below can breathe ( all these wearing underwear and tights in our hot weather doesn't help), stop douching if you do already.
ReplyDeletePoster 2: stop all drugs you're taking, drink akamu or yogurt. Change your undees now and once you discover the infection is no more, change your undees again including your towel and sponge
ReplyDeleteAnon 17;07, I guess you mean *undies*.
DeletePoster1, this sorts of things can fall really bad or really good. I was once koloing for one guy like that, I seduced him so well,he made me a sex maid, the guy banged me till my eyes and love vanished. He almost donated me to his friends sef. This guy will spend on his main babe and come to me for sex, everywhere I dey give am any style. A day he called me 7times just to do oo.
ReplyDeleteSo, when my kolo end, I just boned him. He too no send me, for more than 6 months he ignored me. Me sef move on. One day, he realized that he loved me and came back begging. The sex was better than all he liked and I was a good game. He then wooed me well and the spending was fabulous. I chop the guy well well but I never loved him again. All I allowed was him giving me oral sex, I never touched him after, yet he was like putty in my hands. I used the guy so bad, he kept trying to please me, chaai. I remember asking for his sch fees, which he gave me. He never complained, guy was sucking me so good I forgot it's a two way thing. He did my laundry, cooked and cleaned my room off-campus yet no sex only head for me.
We graduated and I married another man during service. I blocked him for a while bfor contacting him much later. He says he did love me.
Poster 2, get cloves,lots of it, soak in hot water in a big bottle, one in kitchen and other in bathroom. Drink and use to rinse the pussy, no fingering, no old pants, no washing inside the vg, then pray and fast abt it as devil dey use am block tins for u.
Poster 2, stop all drugs for now, go back to a good hospital and request for a test, (can't remember the name now, but the test will check the kind of infection you have and the drugs that can work on such infection), after which you change all your previously worn underwear, as yeast infections could still be present in your underwear.
ReplyDeletePoster 1. This man has given you all the signs for you to know that he is NOT AVAILABLE AT ALL. Leave him alone. Do you have no pride or shame?
ReplyDeletePoster 2. You have a recurrent yeast infection that might be resistant to some antifunagls. Try oral fluconazole as well as suppositories. Throw away all your underwear and buy new COTTON ones. You need to repopulate your gut with good bacteria that will outgrow the yeast, so buy natural yoghurt that has lactobacilli. Also try probiotics and reduce the amount of sweet things you eat.
Recurring yeast infections can indicate a weakened immune system, go and get tested for all other diseases, including HIV.
ReplyDeleteThey can also be caused by laundry detergent change but have you been using the same detergent since?
Are you sticking strange things up your vagina like food or kayan mata? Stop it
Are you overwashing your vagina? Using douche? Or all sorts to keep it clean? Stop
Poster 2 I used cellgevity supplements, it worked for me o
ReplyDeleteHad this same experience for over a year. After some text, doctor said it's vaginosis (bacterial infection) and yeast infection. I was given a tablet for the yeast infection and a gel that I have to insert for 5days.
ReplyDeleteThe doctor also said I should stop using shaving stick to shave my down below because some people react to that. You can use a scissors to trim the hair. Also,always make sure you iron your undies before you put them on. I hope it helps.
Narrative 2: Had the same issue, started using probiotics and it helped but not all probiotics work the same.
ReplyDeletePoster 2, check ur bath water. Use oure water to bath or wash down below and see if there is any improvement
ReplyDeletePoster 2
ReplyDeleteGo and get shea butter what Yorubas call ori and rub your privates frequently after bathing... The infections will go