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Wednesday, November 04, 2020

WEDNESDAY IHN

  Hailings....









IN HOUSE MEMO
On Tuesday In house news ,please note these things......


I didn't say that BV Sandy yo told me she changed ID please.....I only insinuated that maybe she did so that she can chat freely.

I am not trying to break anyone's marriage,don't be pea sized brain with such assertions please...

Someone posted a comment saying my comment might cause problems for her...why should it?she is married to a correct man with a clean mentality....Why must everything always cause problems in Marriage?Please marry someone you can connect with if you are still single...

To the person who commented and asked after my  ''DAY HUSBAND'' and said i need a good f#ck cos i must surely have cobwebs....your words amused me,i saw it but deleted it..thanks for the advice...now CLAP FOR YOURSELF!!
Dont worry,i understand that you are broke and frustrated...Your blessing is loading .....Sending you lots of light,love and hugs!!!............✌







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MEMO TO BV BIG BANTY.


Please do not share your story in the Friday night post cos that would be derailing...take your time to write out your story and send to me if you want to share and i will POST IT ONCE inside in house news....
Please note that it would be deleted if you post inside the Friday night post.....
Thanks for your understanding....If you dey find wife let me know,we get plenty single babe gehs here oh...





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BLOG VISITOR SHARES JOB HUNT EXPERIENCE

Dear Stella, 


I just want to share my story, I am not feeling sad o, it's just a funny yet stressful experience, one I know I'll tell when I get to the top. 


I came to Abuja in July, I got a job that was below what I earned in my former base, though it wasn't on a high side but because I lived with a family I really didn't feel the effect of my low income. On arriving Abuja to resume my new job after been laid off as a result of the Covid-19 pandemic, I saw life in it's true blueprint. 



My expenses ranged from housing expense and feeding to high cost of transportation( relative to what I spent in my former base), I have not been able to save a dime nor get anything new for myself, but because I can't stay idle I encouraged myself and continued the job, while searching for another. This brings me to the reason I am writing..
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I saw an advert in a Job site and applied. Least I forget, my office is really dramatic so the hunt for a new job intensified, I planned on staying 6 months but with the drama I had to do something fast. After series of applications, I got invited for a test.. My people, when I arrived the test location I took a deep breath  and asked why this place? It was a bar/garden like, then I got the question for the written test and then it dawned on me I had a lot of questions to ask about this job. I wrote on 7 pages on A4 paper,  Yes I said 7, this is aside the application letter, which was the last thing to do and some questions I skipped, I cannot come and kill myself. 


After the written test there was an oral interview, my interviewer was excited and I already knew I had the job, but guess what? 
I asked where the office was and he said, there was no office yet .. Okay!!!!


How would I now work? We would be working at a bar/garden until we recruit nation wide with the next 2 months..... Okay, I don de reason how I go Japa....

I decided to go, then the team leader now said we would be on 3 months probation before we start getting paid.. 

Me: Isokay. I should now do free work for an organization that Dont have bearing.. They way they were dressed self, in my mind was already telling me it's not real. 

And then the final straw that broke the camels back, was when they said. If any of you get an SMS.. Come with 1500 for form ..

My dear people, I said OK and left and decided I was not taking the job.. Mind you the salary was 200,000 as they said. 

They want to collect 1,500 from people and Japa.. 
Let me manage what I have, a better job will come. 

Please enjoy the questions and forgive my typos, I was just excited to write about this as I got the text that I was selected for the employment. 







Job interview test like JAMB exam?wow!!!





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I AM PREGNANT OOOOOH


Good afternoon Stella, 
l have been meaning to send this mail, but l keep forgetting. 
I am BV ***********. I sent you a mail regarding my infertility of 7 years, and you posted it in your blog. 

I got a lot of advice from them. 
Long story short, l stopped taking the drugs after many attempts. 

To God be the Glory, and his Glory will He not share with anyone, l am pregnant and expecting by 2021. 
Thank you Stella. May God bless you and bless all the BVs



Congratulations babe geh......



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This is child abuse...I almost fainted reading this.............what!!!!......

Your child needs some kind of therapy,please look into it before he does what was done to him to another child....





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HUH?Please send this gist for posting cos i cannot remember what you are on about please...The gist go sweet ooooooooooooooh...LOL






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179 comments:

  1. Welcome IHN

    I just saw a video of a man grandslaming his wife on the ground in a fit of rage.
    If that woman makes it alive she can never walk again. Jeeesssuuuss!

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    1. He must be a fetish lover where they engage in so much BDSM.

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    2. And who was shooting the video?
      Why do people like to video violence instead of making an effort to stop it?

      I pray that woman regain herself and the man should rot in jail

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    3. No matter wat u do.

      Never tell ur partner how many men u hv slept with in d past.

      Good day.

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    4. Stella thanks for 'louding' 🗣️ my question.

      I don't have a domestic help, if I did....CCTV camera would be a sure thing in my house. Some people no matter how good you treat them,their mind always pushes them to do bad.

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  2. Hi ms tee,my prayers🙏 are with your son. He shall be well soon cus the hospital can't be your dwelling place. Here's sending him plenty hugs🤗🤗🤗 and kisses💋💋💋.

    @prettie Rosie,that was such a sad narration you dropped this morning. May the soul of the departed rest in peace. My condolences ok🤗

    Jerry you made me 🤣laugh this morning with your comic post. How did you know she was looking at your thighs? Child of the world🤣🤣🤣🤣

    Wow,wow,wow;@ladybird,so sorry for all you went through in the hands of your maid. May she and her dad meet their Waterloo soon. Karma will definitely visit them. Just be very careful and selective next time when getting a maid. Too many evil children out there.

    Good afternoon beautiful people ok SDK villa. I ❤ you all.

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  3. What is coming is better than what is gone!_RealTalkKim

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  4. It's Wednesday IHN 😊


    #ENDBADGOVERNANCE

    Call me 🤙

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  5. Ihn is here , please who knows a good and affordable fertility clinic on the mainland where I can do IUI?

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  6. Good afternoon beautiful people. Enjoy the rest of today 😍😍😍😍

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    1. Congratulations to the pregnant Bv, God is indeed awesome 💃💃💃💃💃💃. I am coming back to read the rest

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    2. Hello Sonia.

      Congrats to the pregnant BV. Congrats to Sandyo and Side Chick may your homes be blessed. To the applicant same thing happened to me,we keep hope alive.I pray our situation improve soonest.

      Lovelace

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  7. In house news is here, am trying to shed some weight, how do I count calories, like how many calories can I take per day, I weigh 89kg.

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  8. If you wish to live in sin or want to continue living in sin, by all means, continue! But, don't drag other people with you or think that others are living your kind of lifestyle.
    Some of us have made a convenant with God not to sin against the Holy Spirit and we do not wish to break them anytime soon.

    Isaiah 5:20 Woe to those who call evil good and good evil,; who put darkness for light and light for darkness; who put bitter for sweet and sweet for bitter!

    Stop dwelling in sin!!

    Grant me more wisdom oh Lord for I need more of it🙏🏽

    Big banty, I can't wait to read your story.

    Congratulations to the pregnant BV.

    Say No To Child Abuse!!!

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    1. Ms. Tee darling, I wish you good health of mind and body 🙏🏽

      Sending you love and light 🤗💖💖

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    2. A big congratulations to you side chick, soon to be Mrs. Edward. I'm so happy for you babe.
      May God bless and keep your marriage with every good things of life💖💖

      Slay on your day, don't let the cold hold you back.

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    3. Hiya Ms A darling😘😘😘

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    4. Thank you so much my favourite of all, I love you and yours, you both invited.
      God bless you. Cheers!!!

      Mrs Edwards (s.c)

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    1. Congrats to the pregnant BV. To those believing God for theirs, I join my faith with you. We shall celebrate with you, come 2021. AMEN.

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    2. Congratulations to the pregnant bv.

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  10. Good day all here, I'm the one that about my shop this morning.
    Like I stated, there's no how a rat can enter the shop, I mean that no space at all from ceiling to floor to door and window.
    And not that I used big garri. I made it gum the wall very well and pressed out any remaining particle.
    And the tears looks like what was carved by scissors or blade.
    I can't just leave here like that with the amount I paid and not gotten anything, you know how it is when you ask for refund of rent and I don't have money to pay for another.
    I must make my money o, I no thief person so person sef no go come thief me.

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  11. Holla people of God. Hope y'all are just right.🥰🤗
    @Mrs Edward...congrats once again, I pray marriage is all you dreamed it to be and much more sis. Super thrilled for you💃🏽💃🏽💃🏽🥰
    @Dainty T...Happy Happy Birthday to you dearie, may God keep, bless and prosper your new age. 🥰💃🏽❤
    @Ms Tee...still sending up prayers for your son dear. It is well with him in Jesus name. You guys will be out of the hospital very soon by God's grace 🤗❤❤
    @Bigbanty...🤗🤗🤗
    @EC...so so sorry about that, may his soul rest in peace 🤗🤗🤗
    @Mummy A...good tp have you back dearie 🤗🤗🤗
    @Osundi...i pray the surgery is a success...may God give you the grace and strenght to help her out. You are kind.🥰🤗
    @Lady bird banks...you must hurt terribly, it cuts much deeper especially when its from someone you've treated kindly but please forgive her...not for her but for yourself and God. May God heal you and your son dearie.🤗🤗🤗
    @Daddy code, Gates, XP, TMW, TWE, and Pidgin Writer, hope y'all are doing great🤗🥰
    Have a fab day fam🤗🤗🥰

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    1. Amen, thank you for your prayers.

      Everyone that prayed for my colleague, thank you all for your prayers and encouragement.

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    2. Amen!!!!
      Sis, thank you so much for the love, I'm emotional already, I wonder how my big day will be. I wish I'll continue preparing for my wedding forever cos of the love from my parents, siblings, in laws, nephews and nieces, well wishers is so much for me to handle, every time I'm teary cos everyone ralling around to ensure everything goes well. All i can say, is thank you and thanks to God.

      Mrs Edwards to be (SIDE chick).

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  12. Good afternoon my people, I want to buy office gown for UK size 16 , I don waka kantagoa tire, I didn't see my spec , and I dont know my way around eko idumota , i don't know if I can see in oshodi, my office dresses are not nice at all

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    1. You can sew nice ones nau with designs online buy sample materials then you can buy beautiful materials at yaba but u won't go for the common ones

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  13. It's a vent Wednesday and do make sure you let it all out today.Good pm,Beevees and IHN rocks....What's wrong with some Nigerians that are ass lickers and basket of deplorables? What was that show of absolute shame in the name of a parade for racist Trump that i saw online? Una mumu never do i swear to God.😂🤣😹 Such a shame!

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    1. It was such a misplaced priority my dear. I felt and still feel disgusted by that show of foolishness

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  14. Congratulations to the pregnant bv.
    Sign out meme make awhole lot of sense👌👌👌

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  15. In house news as e dey hot, my fellow bvs, do you know of any foundation giving IVF grant, I applied for some but no response

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  16. My own is how do one add weight
    All I hear is you are cute like this
    When baby come you will add
    Since baby isn't here yet and 4years in marriage, lemme add na and look like madam small.

    Make una tell me oo what to do to add weight oo.

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    1. This world no balance at all o🤣
      So many are out there trying sooo hard to shed fat. Wheneve you finish eating, go to bed immediately. Eat plenty of junk foods ok.

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    2. Enough youghurt very chilled,bournvita with enough milk and cold water,sharwarma the very rich ones not one with egusi or ogbono inside,,then complan milk
      You go dey alright take them every day and not once a week

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    3. I feel you babe, what did it for me was junk and late night food. You wee just blow😊

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    4. Late night food
      Na Belle e go give you

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  17. Hi IHN💞😘😍☺🤗💛💙💜💝❤💖.

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  18. Congratulations to the new pregnant mum, may you deliver safely in jesus name

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  19. I just want to ask one question. Please why do Nigerians support Donald Trump? Like what's in it for them? I thought Trump doesn't like us and doesn't want us in his country. Am I missing something? Abi?

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    1. You ain’t missing anything. It just shows how dumb and ignorant some Nigerians are.

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  20. Signout is very true: Good afternoon my people and I wish you peace that passeth all human understanding..Kisses to all the strong and beautiful ladies here...

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  21. I feel good mehn!!!
    There is this guy owing me 10k for 2 months now. I called him today to ask after my money and he said I should send my account details, that he will send me 4k and pay the 6k balance next week.
    I sent him my account details (the 3rd time I'm sending him my account details).
    Alert entered but I was busy with my phone playing candy crush. Immediately his called entered...
    Him: Chike abeg I make mistake for the transfer. I go send 40k instead of 4k. Abeg send me 36k back, I wan use am do something important. Abeg I go pay you your 6k balance next week.
    Me: OK, send your account number.
    Me: *transferred 30k to him"
    He done call me tire, I no gree pick his call.
    Inukwunu m echichi... Make I send back 36k say na onyeoma emeka I be.
    Some people sef.

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    1. You did well by sending him back his remaining balance. Some people feels that they are smart.

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    2. Chike, God has done it, just block his number or forward to voicemail.

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  22. How can I watch Netflix on my TV , like will I subscribe on my phone first I don't get, martins please come to my rescue

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    1. Hi @Anon 14:08,you will subscribe;but they will give you "Free one month sub" when you make the first payment..

      If you have a smart-Tv;then you just connect your phone via Wi-Fi and stream Netflix..

      If you don't have a smart-Tv;you buy a device called Google chromecast(we sell too) and connect to your TV then connect via Wi-Fi to your phone and stream Netflix plus other movie sites..

      Hope this helps..

      @MARTINS

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    2. Is your TV a smart TV? If not then forget it

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    3. If you have a smart TVs you don’t need to connect your phone. Smart TVs have the Netflix app on them, all you need to do is enter your login details if you already have an account.

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  23. Christmas is coming, am happy and I can feel it , I want to get pregnant as my Christmas gift, am a mother come 2021

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    1. Its settled in Jesus name.

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    2. It's already a done deal. Congratulations in advance.

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    3. So shall it be, dear.🤗🤗🤗🤗

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    4. Amen. Congratulations is yours

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    5. From your mouth to God's ears. You will carry your babies

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    6. It is settled. I will pray for you specially.

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    7. May it be granted to you as you desire. Congrats in advance dearie 💃🏽🥰

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    8. Amen. May God grant your heart desires and make your joy complete 🤗🤗🥰

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    9. What our God can not do, does not exist dear. He has heard you.

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    10. So shall it be, it's done already

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  24. Preggers poster...so so happy God glorified Himself in your life and what He has started He alone will complete. Congrats on your pregnancy darl.🤗💃🏽💃🏽

    Poster on job...pray something better comes up soon and fast. Its well with you love🤗🤗🥰

    Poster whose son was molested...dont even know what to say, this is how they introduce innocent kids to demonic behaviours. I pray that memory is erased forever.🥰🤗🤗

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  25. Hello my fellow bvs, please help me thank ma'am Stella ooo. I got an alert of 30k this afternoon from her...


    Thank you you very much ma'am, may God continue to bless you abundantly. I'm very grateful for all you do for me. And I pray God bless me real soon so I can start giving back. The happiness I feel right now is overwhelming 😭😭😭

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    1. Stella koko,thank you. And to the giver,may your pocket never run dry.

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    2. Big congratulations to you and thank you so much ma'am Stella for all you do, you have put smiles on the faces of everyone including my very self.

      I pray that God will stand for you and your children any time, day, season 🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏

      Love you ma'am Stella.

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    3. Congrats love. You deserve it.🤗🤗🤗

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    4. Congratulations to you.@stella may God bless you.

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    5. Congratulations,God bless the Angel. God bless Stella

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    6. Congrats dear. God will make you a giver very soon.

      Lovelace

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  26. U dey insult me because I love my country...u dey threaten me because I believe in one Nigeria....you dey curse me because l no believe in your formulated Massacre stories flying upandan wey you never fit provide solid evidence that has led to the destruction of lives and properties across Nigeria..

    But you still dey carry NIGERIA drivers license, National ID and voter's card. You probably dey for Npower and benefiting from government indirectly or directly. You never buy Visa make you ja commot from Nigeria. No worry, keep following IPOB upandan and help them achieve their aim wey na to scatter the country. When e sele, you go know how far. When e sele, you go know whether all those European countries you are looking to ja to go accept you or over 200 million people as refugees


    🚶‍♂️🚶‍♂️🚶‍♂️🚶‍♂️🚶‍♂️

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  27. Congratulations to the preggy BV💃💃💃.

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  28. Good day to everyone of us! I am back,thank God!

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  29. hmmmnn. God continue to save homes from evil helps Amen

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  30. Congratulations to the pregnant BV.. Your testimony is permanent!

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  31. A very goodafternoon to everyone..congrat to the sist who was on TTC for 7years nd finally she is preggy ...May God use her as a point of contact to other TTC sisters here IJN.

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  32. Blog visitor that got pregnant, congratulations, please what did you do differently for that cycle please explain to us , and what were your diagnosis, am a going to conceive mum too

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  33. Congrats to the pregnant bv,you will carry to term and deliver safely. Amen.
    Bv that went to interview,we have alot of them here in lagos..In my hunt for job, i experienced alot, it got to a point that when i see then bringing out question paper to share, i will just stand up,carry my bag and move because the next thing will be pay so so money😂😂😂

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    1. Its not easy hunting for jobs especially in Lagos, went for one at ajao estate n they wasted my time teaching us vitamin A n some other rubbish we were asked to echo out loud.smh

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  34. Ihn
    Congrats,pregnant bv, you shall carry your baby and deliver safely.

    House helps be giving their madams headache.
    God bless us all

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  35. What do people derive from molesting a child is what I done understand. May God help that boy.

    Stella, why nau. I was already looking forward to reading bv Big Banty's story o.

    All these househelps wahala, that's why I don't bother about one o. Poster, may God give you a God fearing and responsible househelps.

    Happy birthday bv Dainty. More wins to you.

    You guys should help us beg phcn to give us light o. This is not fair nau. After paying that huge bill.

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  36. Hope your day is going fantastic like mine...Stella noted would do just that.

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  37. Congratulations Pregnant BV... You shall carry your seed to term.

    Sorry Ladybird...The betrayal must hurt alot. As I was reading the story..my heart was skipping. I think the greatest fear of any parents is to have their children molested.

    The Lord will preserve our seeds oooo!

    I saw a video of mixing Ginger, cumber and lemon for Belly fat yesterday on Instagram but I didnt complete it. I don't know how to find it again ooo

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    1. Hope you have been good darl. Have a lovely day🥰❤

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    2. Essa love, I have been so busy lately. Thank you dear

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  38. Am so scared of this house help of a thing or bringing a child u know no shit about her foundation to live with ..That na risk of life..Gooday bvs and congrats to the pregnant bv..

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    1. The househelp thing scares the hell out of me, just that it's a necessary evil. May God help us

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    2. That’s why you should hire an adult not a child. Bringing a child to live with you in the name of finding siblings for your kids is a big lie you lazy wicked women tell to cover child abuse.

      Employ an adult that can take responsibility for their actions, or take care of your home yourselves.

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    3. Reasonable doubt please i wrote in a place of hurt. I can never do to a child what i won't do to my child. The tough work at home Landry and cleaning is done by an adult that comes in early. After cleaning we all go out. My son is 8years he makes his bed, washes his singlet nd socks . the laundry washes everything clothes in the house.
      I have 2 girls and i want someone older to watch them why i am away, because my son is playful. Ma/sir you don't judge people when i gave Stella the gist i was praising the girl, gushing out on how amazing she was. If i remember u also hailed me because Stella didn't post my id.

      I had an adult baby sitter who came and start having grudges how she too is a woman why cant a man pet her and treat her nice too. Thats an unhealthy thought because my son told me.

      Getting a younger person was so the kids can blend and be happy.

      It can happen to anyone, but don't insult me because you don't know how hard it is trying to let a child unlearn things. Remember he has 2younger sisters😞

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    4. Oh did i tell u about the one i employed because she is a mum. Thinking she understand i make sure they eat breakfast and lunch and sometimes give them indomie when they are leaving or i give them soup for lunch. This one use to empty my pantry and use to beat my kids and be saying is it because your parents have small money.

      Mind u my kids are not stubborn and my kids know no curse word at all. So what would be the cause of the provocation all the time.
      My problem is not even stealing because thats hunger induced. But to be telling my kids such and beating them . my camera have seen alot las las i Don turn full house wife.

      No amount of money worth my kids psych at this tender age.

      Reasonable doubt please retrace how u judge people

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    5. Rd said what she said! You wicked women that employ teenagers as maids will reap what you sow. Kmft!

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    6. Adults helpers steal a lot o.
      Lady T, if you can start a business and bring your kids to your shop/office after school - better. One needs to be extra careful.

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    7. Stealing like you showed is dishonesty motivated

      Envy, resentment, jealousy, low self-esteem, wickedness doesn't reciprocate kindness

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  39. Good afternoon. I swear motherhood is not easy. Been in and out of hospital, my baby girlis is sick. Government hospital stress no be here ooo but I thank God she's recuperating fast. Congratulations pregnant Bv

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    1. Quick recovery to you & your baby girl. Weldone. 🤗🤗

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    2. Sorry about the stress. God healing hands rest upon your daughter.

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    3. Divine healing on your baby, the Lord is your strength.

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    4. Speedy recovery to your daughter.

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    5. Sorry about that dear, the Lord is your strength and may He grant her speedy healing
      🤗🤗

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    6. I pray your lil Princess feels better soon.

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    7. This too will pass sweetie. Sickness is kinda like a life transition thing.
      I wish her a speedy recovery.

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    8. Wishing your baby girl quick recovery

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    9. Amen. Thanks guys. God bless you

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    10. Aww sorry about dear. Speed recovery to the little one 🤗

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    11. May she receive complete healing in Jesus'name Amen.

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  40. Congratulations to the pregnant bv. You shall carry that pregnancy devoid of stress and put to bed as the Hebrew women did.

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  41. Wetin pésin wey Dey find work no go see? There was one job interview I went for at Herbert Macaulay Yaba, we were made to solve maths, initially it was supposed to be for office assistant, later they said we should bring 12k to Start selling product that we never saw, I left and never returned.

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  42. Congratulations to the pregnant blog visitor. I'm soooo happy for you dear. May you deliver safely in Jesus' name. Amen.

    Lord, please remember my other sisters here believing you for a great blessing as this in Jesus' name. Amen.

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  43. Wednesday IHN present ✌️

    1st BV hmm! those people are scam even if some did not pass their "jamb" questions they will still text them that they were successful hence they should pay #1,500 "for their pockets"

    BV with the boy that was abused - please leave that environment immediately so your son doesn't see that girl try and talk him out of whatever she did to him. Gosh! It's really sickening to imagine already sef.

    Pregnant BV congratulationsssssss it will be a stress free pregnancy and you will deliver safely in Jesus name.

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  44. Congratulations to the pregnant bv,Am so happy for you.

    What a sunny day.Good afternoon bvs.

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  45. Please house I need some sort of clarification and advice. How do you handle a husband who had a female friend before he married you, he didn't go for her o. But since we got married they have been exchanging "I love you" to each other. We have quarrelled over this but his excuse is that he is not cheating, that if he were I wouldn't even see the mouth to talk. Why can't a married man see the need to respect his wife's sensibility? This is a marriage of almost 2years with a son. How do I handle this? I am tired of crying over this.

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    1. Hey sis,you made a very big mistake by going into the marriage without first setting the records straight. You should have made choose between you and the babe. Now you're in for a long thing.

      It will only take God to make him see reasons that hes hurting you. Just keep praying for a miracle to happen..

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    2. Get a serious male friend. Please no sex. But call and laugh with the person in his presence

      Option two, get in the middle of the friendship and befriend the lady. Pretend if you have to. Get close enough to get points that are valid to separate her from your man. She will be so uncomfortable and will start avoiding you people

      Be strong! Men are silly sometimes

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    3. This is all shades of bad abeg....I can't even.

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  46. In Nigeria, going for job interviews is scary. Especially online invitation, they send you a mail to come to so so address for interview, you get there and discover it's not an office it could be an apartment or an open space (like the BV said) or a space in a grammar school.

    You meet lots of faces, the interviewer are just dressed casually (most especially if you are applying for an office work and you are expected to dress corporate) you begin to wonder if you are in the right place or not. Some will take you to another location from the initial one that was sent to you immediately you get there.

    So many job seekers have fallen into the hands of kidnappers/ritualist who use the guise of "job vacancies" to lure innocent people to their den.

    It's scary because they know how hard the economy is and people will definitely rush at the offer.

    To every Job seekers, I pray the Almighty God direct our paths and give us the very best amen.

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    1. You're so right, this has happened to me 2 times in Abuja, I have learned my lesson.
      Job hunting is not easy at all but God no go shame us.

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  47. Congratulations pregnant BV. God please pick my big Sis call too oo. 13yrs TTC is not a joke oo. God sebi you know how happy we wall will be if our do this? We know it is not hard for you. Surprise us na, give us Christmas surprise we beg. My own kids are beginning to ask if you answer prayers and I told them yes but they are asking why you have not answered us since we have been praying.

    Pls do this one so these children won't start doubting you. I explained the little way I could but one was still curious and not satisfied.

    That signing 👍👍

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    1. God will surely do it and you will come back rejoicing.

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    2. The God that never fails will surely answer your sister in Jesus name,Amen.

      Lovelace

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    3. It is settled, God will put a smile on your big sis. It's done already

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    4. please dont forget to return back with the testimony, so we can rejoice with you.

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    5. God will show up. This is a season of testimonies!🥰

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  48. Pregnant BV our God is faithful, congratulations!

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  49. Stella pls what of bv Raquel or Rachel the pregnant one she said she was sick one time hope she's fine

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  50. I came back late from my morning Hussle and saw questions concerning what my boy did last night, am not a mother who overlook bad behaviors..I gave him 8strokes of cane; spare the rod and spoil the child

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    1. But 8 was too much ma'am.

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    2. Some of you are just so annoying. She punished him for misbehaving which y'all wanted now you say 8 strokes is too much? Who the fuck are you to tell her how to discipline her child? FOH!!
      Baby chicks you did well and I'm sure he won't repeat that again

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    3. SG I don't understand why you seem to always be angry.
      Be calming down na

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    4. It is a spiritual something @ Chummy. She can't control it. They will soon come and say she is nice outside the blog. Someone that is bipolar.

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  51. Ihn is here
    Congratulations to the pregnant Bv

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  52. Good afternoon Bvs. Stella care less about trolls and naysayers. The Bv who went for a job interview, I have been in your shoes few years ago, the interview was in a garden too and after wasting much time they told us to pay #1, 500, that the company is into kiniko health stuff, Omoo I japa, no time. Congratulations to the pregnant Bv. Say no to child abuse, parents please be on the watch out for your kids at all times if possible. Sign out post 👌.

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  53. Good afternoon everyone, I guess i'm a late comer here. Always late to IHN and SP posts. It is well. Congratulations to BV Rhoda and the pregnant BV.Baby dust to all TTCing ,your joy shall be full in Jesus name.

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  54. Hi J, it's Abdul.

    Thank you for the beautiful piece yesterday. Saw it at boredom elimination post today.
    You don't have to appreciate me again, you still remain my good friend and one among the nicest, honest and beautiful woman 've ever known. You are always filled with gratitude for every little thing one offers to you.
    keep being you and remain good as always for Edwards.
    All the best, cheers!!!
    I wish you can see this, it's my first time commenting here.

    Stella you are doing a great job.
    Nice blog!!!
    We shall strike a good deal soon Stella.

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  55. Good evening IHN����������. Congratulations to pregnant woman. @Martins come to my rescue, I am tired of typing email address and password each time I log into this blog. Please is there any alternative?

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    1. Hi @Addylove..it's from the browser you are using..

      Download "Google chrome" from your store then sign in once to "Blogger.com" and you won't sign in again..

      If your network doesn't allow you access SDK with chrome browser;download "TOUCH VPN" and use alongside chrome or any other browser you are ok with..

      Hope this helps..

      @MARTINS

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    2. I sincerely appreciate your write up👆👆sir. I feel relieved. Let me try this.

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  56. Job hunting in Lagos isn't easy o..too many scammers out there. Especially the ones selling health products.

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  57. Why are you using my blog I.D? @raspberry

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