WOW............This is serious
MAYOWA AND HER HUSBAND ABRAHAM
ABRAHAM AND HIS NEW WIFE
Wednesday, November 18, 2020
US Based Nigerian Lady Calls Out Her Husband For Using Her Money To Marry A New Wife In Nigeria,Says He Used Her...
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Inside life!!! Madam move on, divorce him and make yourself happy life is too short
ReplyDeleteJeez! Wahala be like bicycle and it be nice you move the heck on cos he obviously used you.🤦♂🤦♂🤦♂
DeleteChai!
DeleteSorry ma!
This stuff hurts deeply o!
Don't even know what to advise because moving on ain't easy. But you gotta do so.
Men and wickedness!
Funny enough this may make new madam so happy because he will be gumming her like butter and thrashing madam till money finishes 😂
Exactly with all the evidence you have,file for divorce. Next time don't give all your money to man.
DeleteThis has got to be amongst the most wicked things to happen in 2020. This man never loved his wife, she was only a means to an end.I can't stop sighing.
DeleteDivorce him and move on without a fight? Naaaa, I will make sure his citizenship is revoked, sue him for bigamy madam Biko, these heartless men be doing too much these days, look for a well to do woman to prey on and backed by their never do well families who think because the man is their son he owns the wealth and the useless men will never tell their families that the money is not theirs but that of their wives
DeleteTwo Naija men are on my neck to marry and bring them to UK, because they know I have blue passport. If I hear say I marry either of them.
DeleteThe man’s pic is before and after
DeleteAnd Naira and dollars 😕😕😕😕wicked man
LWKMD @ anon 19:21
DeleteI can never advice my enemy in UK to marry and bring a man from naija na 1 chance of life my Aunty did it the man disappeared the day his British p was delivered.
Last we heard he lives somewhere in London with his gf who waited for him for over 5 years in naija till he collect his British p and left my aunt.
Some r still planning on relocating to help there husbands who r useless in 9ja. Tomorrow them go come here write rubbish. Keep spending on “ My husband” no go get sense. Hisssss
DeleteYou have blue passport in the UK? Girl please. Stella, fabu dey here now o. This one wants to belong without knowing the actual colors of passports
DeleteKaren
All these men that pay back with wickedness eh, una reward dey come.
DeleteThe new wife will show him pepe,
Revoke his papers o.
@ Anonymous 19.21 🤣🤣🤣🤣
DeleteLol @ Karen, you are wicked.
Delete@karen, the new British passport is blue.
Delete@karen the new british passport is blue, don't be quick to judge someone without verifying your information first
DeleteThe first wife is even much more beautiful than this new wife. His village people are really on his case as he goes back to zero!😜
DeleteE don happen🚶🚶🚶🚶🚶🚶🚶
ReplyDeleteOsetiego🚶🚶🚶🚶🚶🚶🚶
I hope his new wife in Nigeria uses him too.
ReplyDeleteThe man, his family are users. Kai..this kind thing can pain ehn.
Seems he is also being used............ This life.......
DeleteAdim very speechless! Nwoke yellow paw paw eeerrrr imele aru kwuo nwa!!!!
ReplyDeleteNwunye Okeke
😂 ezigbote nwoke yellow pawpaw
DeleteNa so so red I dey see. Ella, are you a red Indian? Wickedness in highest places. Tufia!
ReplyDeleteThis girl will be thinking she has seen better maga.May God punish u Abraham
ReplyDeleteFunny enough nothing fit happen to Abraham. I'm a realist sometimes and I feel like, if we're okay with our already married Nigerian brothers moving to the USA and marrying "akata", we should also use the same energy to support them when they start doing it to our own Nigerian sisters. What is good for the goose is also good for the gander. *shrugs out of post*
DeleteMost akata marriages are arranged abeg n both parties know what's involved.some gat to be settled with cash,stop spitting trash here.
DeleteTHANK YOU @Anonymous donor...
DeleteSome of the same BVs that encourage marrying abroad in order to get papers are insulting the man today!
I still remember the comments from the woman who wrote in about whether or not to "divorce" her husband, so that he could marry an European lady for papers. A lot of people even told her she was dull for wasting time; claiming they would have already filed the divorce papers instead of writing in to SDK.
What about the comments from the man who wrote in about being illegal in one of the Scandinavian countries. His boss was relocating back to Nigeria and was unsure of what his next move to be. Majority of the comments told him to be sharp and look for babe to marry! Even though he clearly mentioned that he had a wife and kids back in Nigeria.
There have been many instances were a lot of you BVs have encouraged such behaviour. Don't act holier than thou now!
Most of you here are just as wicked, if not more wicked than this man!
SMH do you know you are the wicked and foolish one? do you know you can juat pay money and marry for papers? yes you do not mneed to live with them. just arrange certain stuff like same address for delivery and know information about that person so you can answer questions if nned be. this case is pure wickedness and anyone who sees nothing wrong here is evil simple....
DeleteSome Men!!!!!Some Men!!!!Some Men
ReplyDeleteThey will disgrace themselves😱😱😱
Just coming from her pages on IG
DeleteShe is living the baby girl life
So sorry madam,get your properties back and divorce him.Some dont just have the fear of God.choi,10years down the drain.Wahala be like keke Maruwa oo
Hmmmmm
ReplyDeleteMadam, just forget him and move on. Kama awaits them
ReplyDeleteIt shall NEVER be well with evil people, NEVER.
ReplyDeletePlease couple operating joint account should make sure that the both parties are signatory and also co sign cheques, to avoid one party unlimited access to money.
Some in laws sef.
Such a sad story.
Oriegwu.
ReplyDeleteNa wa o!! So sad. Now this one would think she has seen a man to marry. Didn't she question him before getting married to him? Or she just doesn't care. So many questions.
ReplyDeleteWhether in marriage or not, when you love, love with your senses intact.
ReplyDeleteMen will disgrace you. It is well. Not easy to move on though but that is the right thing to do. Ensure he doesn't come back to US, block him by every means. Jobless ,lazy ass man. Divorce him. You gave him your all but he betrayed you. Na their way. Change all documents and accounts to your name please and don't let him access your funds again. You will rise again.
ReplyDeleteThe man will be entitled to possibly half of everything she owns no matter whos name is on the account. Sorry to her ooo
Delete@Femilivoous never! It does not work that way in the U.S he can’t cause problem in the marriage and have the right to get her income or benefit. He has already committed bigamy! And that’s a crime. Plus if he has ever been violent towards her I’m the marriage and she documented it he can’t get nothing!!! Take this to the bank! Evidence is what speaks power in this country! This picture right here and the marriage rite he did is one of them..
DeleteFemilicious who told you that, that man just succeeded in ruining his life, not with all the evidence , he will get nothing and also get deported if she wants to go that route which I pray she does
DeleteHa you guys should not get it twisted ooo. An affair has no effect on divorce settlement. Only if there was a pre nupital agreement that put that in place. Only way to avoid paying is maybe if she blackmails him to agree to a smaller settlement or else she will report him for bigamy😆.
DeleteMain thing that dictates who gets what is who has been the main parent to the kids, especially if they gave up their job to take care of the home and kids.
Anon 19:06: Exactly,plus he's a damn fool. The girl is using him too. Check out her IG page. She's young and pretty. She will squeeze is a$$ dry and discard him like the trash he is.
DeleteFemilicious you don’t know what you are talking about. He gets NOTHING!
DeleteI pray he is used and dumped like a public toilet, useless man. No poor man is humble till they are made, never trust a man you help build, majority of them disappoint.
ReplyDeleteDid anyone see the difference between the fraudster's skin glow? 10years of feeding fat on someone's elses livelihood turned him to a fresh oyinbo.
ReplyDeleteWhich skin glow? Do you know the meaning of skin glow? This over-bleached lazy and shameless toad? I am a guy and always ashamed and disgusted with lazy men, especially when they take advantage of and deprive hardworking women. It is obvious the lady was a little desperate to get married at the point they hooked up. Cos I wouldn't advise my kid sister or daughter to be the first to travel down to go visit a man (even if the man is the one paying for the tickets), not to talk of "cleaning him up". A man should work hard and own up to his part of the responsibilities and not pampered to laziness.
DeleteO bad gan... wicked
ReplyDeleteWhen you have money, don’t lie to family members that it belongs to your husband. They will start to try to control him and the money by putting trouble in your life. Like convincing him that he’s a man and should act like a man by not listening to his wife. Also marrying a new wife because he’s a big man. Madam make sure when he comes back to the US you take him to the cleaners for everything he stole. Make sure he goes to prison and gives you your money back. He thinks he can ruin you? Make sure you ruin him to the extend that when people see him they will run.
ReplyDeleteShe really can’t do anything to him as his name is with her own on everything. Ladies pls learn to stop putting ur husbands names in things u get with ur hard earned money. Learn to stop covering up for them. It only makes them lazier and also have ownership mentality. Some have learnt the hard way and some of us were lucky to learn from others mistakes like this one. Poster it is well. Leave his sorry arse and move on. Poverty will be his new name. Shebi he has bankrupted the biz? Let’s see where he will get anything from. As for u thank God u have a doctorate. Move on with ur life and start afresh.
DeleteShe can do a lot to him as per fraud. I live in the US. Even if it’s a joint account, if he stole money from there without her consent she can file charges against him. He also embezzled and destroyed her business which will attract criminal charges and possible jail time if she choose to pursue the case. Even if you own a business you cannot steal from it. US is not Nigeria. Anon if you are his new wife, you better run away and stop letting that man deceive you. He will enter the US and not return without being an ex-convict.
DeleteAnonymous 16:18, you advice ladies to stop putting their husbands names in things. My question is do would you advice guys to do same?
DeleteWhat is marriage all about if people want to live as singles? Why marry if you can't trust a partner? If it is all about children, then it is not necessary to get married as people can have children without being married. But then again, we come here, on this blog, to shame baby mamas, right?
Thank you so much for correcting that impression. In marriage the partners should be fully committed. We shouldn't generalise. There are a lot of good husbands out there.
DeleteI have no pity for women that marry down and end up being used.
ReplyDeleteIf you think that you do not deserve a man at par with you financially, or a provider then continue dealing with dusties.
You always sound cold hearted, awon perfect human beings.
DeleteI am very cold hearted. You people with heart should keep having problems that common sense can help you solve.
DeleteThis thing pains especially when you know you were nice to them and wanted the best for them. For such people it is difficult to move on. I still sit up at night sometimes wondering why i was so nice if ex-h and his family were still going to treat me like trash.
ReplyDeleteIt is hard! Infact my MIL told someone who told her that her daughters lived with me and i fed them that it is a lie; that all the food her daughters ate they brought from Ijebu... Hmmm
The only thing i just tell God is to have mercy on me and grant me what i desire for my kids and I.
Let this woman move on at least she is in a system that works. she can always get up back. I wish i can relocate with my kids but fear of will my income sustain me and three kids is my fear. At least here i know uncle has no choice but to pay sch fees, and i know if i move he will stop every support. Men ehhhhnnnn !!!!It is shocking because my brothers are well behaved. their wives are enjoying them! Na wa oooo
I am shocked oooo Mr. Abraham you are a wicked soul sir.
ReplyDeleteHe's doing big man on someone else's money,shame! Madam,cut him and his off.
ReplyDeleteConcentrate on yourself and your kids,this thing can be painful Sha.
Dis one weak me.. madam pls move one ..change your details to prevent your funds.. I hope his name your lander property (s) name o
ReplyDeleteEgungun have finally enter express.Nah wah o.
ReplyDeleteThis is why most of my friends who are citizens avoid Nigerian men and marry white guys (and their marriages are great). If a man marries you for something he wants, either papers or for money, once he gets it, he leaves. There are countless stories of Nig men abandoning their wives and kids once they get the paper or defraud the rich lady they married. On the other hand, even if a woman marries a man for money or paper, she still stays, working with him, praying for him to be richer and building him up to greater heights. Men are wired differently, their deceit levels are high.
ReplyDeleteSorry Ma. At least you have evidence in case the matter goes to court. Forgive yourself, don't be thinking it was your fault visiting him and loving him in pity and all. He is responsible for his actions.
Women that marry men for paper don’t stay. And this is why Nigerian men abroad have started to avoid marrying wives from Nigeria too.
DeleteLord have mercy
NIB, do you even know what you are saying? Women do it more than men here in the US. A lot of women marry abroad based guy, once they come, get their papers, they run! Some will wait until they become a nurse, then they will run away. It happened to my cousin oh! Why do you think men are shooting and killing them? Please, it is both ways oh, bad thing is bad, people should stop this, some people don't take it lightly, I pray Mayowa doesn't do something crazy once this one comes back to the US. Many have been killed because of something like this, especially women.
DeleteNigerian women looove marriage and being Mrs so much that whenever they willingly leave their marriage, its mostly abuse and violence. In most of the stories I know of, the men, being intimidated by the education and exposure of women in abroad, go back to Nig to seek meek/naive wives and bring the over. These women of course after the initial shacking of abroad go to school to get nursing degrees and then a job. Then the men begin to force them to submit their salaries to them and send nothing back home. They become the same women who the men are intimidated by. But still, nothing justifies shooting or killing your wife and leaving your children to child care services for life, nothing. Sorry about your cousin though, my comments are based on the stories I know of.
DeleteI've known this for long that men don't truly love women that spend on them. Most of them don't want full independent women.
ReplyDeleteMadam, count your losses and move forward
*Larry was here*
They really don't, especially Nigerian men cos that's our cultural set up. He will choose a village girl he can control over a pharmacist with a doctorate. He feels like a man with his Nigerian wife cos the girl sees him as a rich guy. That's why I encourage smart Nigerian girls abroad to be open to marriage outside your race. You've escaped the society, you're in the abroad and you still want to tie yourself by fire by force to low mentality Nig men?
DeleteVery true Larry.
DeleteNiB so true. I pray my children stay awau from Nigerian men. Especially the ones that grew up in Nigeria....destiny destroyers
DeleteGod bless you. I smile to myself when I see women proudly proclaiming to be ms. Independent and career lady hoping that makes them be seen as wife material. Sweetie, men are too self centred and egotistical to care about a woman's achievements and degrees. Issa bitter truth. Most times when they care to know what a woman can offer or bring to the table, they are looking to use her. Work on your career to your heart content but don't do it as bragging rights to impress any man..a man should want to impress you ok. On a first date, I never discuss what I do for a living, how much I earn or my citizenship. N yes some guys will grill you on all those things. Obviously u know those ones are sharks..one guy did that last month. I just ate his free food, thanked him and left. N never spoke to him again. I'm sure by my mood during the date he realised he had messes up. It really spoils the flow of a date when all a guy is doing is prodding you for answers and all the questions point toward how u can be of benefit to him.
DeleteAnon 22:37 GBAM!! I tire when I see women bragging about how they are so independent they are doing everything. So then what is the man to do???
DeleteDon’t go and work. Be consoling yourself by insulting independent women. What they do to dependent women is much worse. So pick your poison.
DeleteI pray God gives her the strength to move on....chai what did she do wrong naaa
ReplyDeleteHoney, no time for heartbreak ooo! Is this not bigamy according to USA laws? Report him for fraud and bigamy. Get the little many you have left and divorce him. Thief!
ReplyDeleteIf it's traditional marriage, he can deny it because no proof. But if it's court or church wedding, then she has a case, because it is documented.
DeleteShe has proofs
DeleteInside life
ReplyDeleteNne Nne, I thank God for your life. Gather evidence of his illegal transfers and have him extradited.
ReplyDeletePick up the pieces love . Move on and remarry. You will be fine,inugo
Man wey no get running biz. The money e embezzle go soon finish. Madam pls report to the authorities to revoke his citizenship one time abeg
ReplyDeleteDoes US government recognize traditional wedding?
DeleteWhat this man did is so wrong! How can you bit the fingers that fed you and even cut off the hands that carries the fingers!
ReplyDeleteLook at the sisi oyinbo smiling not knowing she's marrying someone else's husband.
Deceivers abound!!
She might know and he will tell her that he just married that one to get his papers, that he doesn’t love the American wife but loves her the new wife. She will believe because she wants to and because she is seeing money.
DeleteWho told you she doesn't know she is marrying someone else's husband, she knows
DeleteEndtime husband
ReplyDeleteMadam poster your story is so pathetic! How can you be silent and money is missing from your business? You kept quiet till he finished the money coming from the business. From your story up there you are still working and he is not doing anything na Nigeria him dey follow yellow pawpaw! My dear sue him for bigamy and collect child support drop his ass he is not worth it! You didn't come to this world because of a man. I know it is painful and hard but it can be done! Get rid of that man he just used you to get papers na dem dem! My Auntie in US who is a certified nurse divorced her husband what was his crime,he refused to work he was depending solely on my Aunt no cheating or woman was involved. She dumped him after 6kids! So my dear it is not the end of the world! Dump his ass case closed!
ReplyDeleteIf he did just traditional marriage with the new wife, she can’t sue for bigamy. I stand to be corrected though.
DeleteEwoo see AB o, he will never change. He graduated from Ekpoma. We stayed in the same Lodge. Na woman train am for school.
ReplyDeleteHe’s a well known male prostitute then.
DeleteReally?
DeleteReally??? Na wa oh.
DeleteLol you know him? Pls download more gist biko
DeleteLmao
DeleteI trust our bvs !!
Damn. .
DeleteVery sad.Umu nwoke,they will always disgrace you.Life must go on,we move😎
ReplyDeleteUncle might have thought it better to chop and clean mouth but got stuck on this particular woman. He acts as if he is under spell.
ReplyDelete%98 of men that live abroad come home alone to flex. The other %tage that don't flex are scared of STD, spiritual stuff from girls or have no time from their busy schedule
ReplyDeleteNever ever give your all to a man financially!! Ever!! That always comes back to bite you in the ass!
ReplyDeletethis is truly painful......but i dont get the outrage. this is something men have faced, are facing and some will still face. Someone talked about how men dont value women are independent....bollocks as if rich men dont cheat, as if dependent women and housewives dont cheat and in some cases even give money to their exes.. Like i said this case is sad..but abeg dont make out to be special...rich men cheat, broke men cheat, independent women cheat, dependent women cheat, housewives cheat
ReplyDeleteSweetie always try to read to comprehend and not just respond. Noone said they don't cheat. We just said the chances of a man leaving a woman that built him up are high compared to if it is the other way around. Say what u like but men are wired to give and feel most manly when they are providing for their woman. Women are wired to receive. When a woman starts giving n giving to a man especially financially or helping him get on his feet, get a job he likes it but a part of him feels emasculated n wanna do everything to get back that feeling of masculinity by cheating, being disrespectful, spending her money on dependent women. Men love feeling needed and many independent women don't know how to make a man feel needed. When that man finally makes it , he doesn't wanna be reminded of how his life was before he made it, he will also resent the woman for unknowingly emasculating him. Men are not wired to have sympathy or compassion or loyalty to someone just because she was nice to him. Women are the ones designed like that because God put women on earth to nurture children.
DeleteHope it makes sense to you.
You said it AS IT IS @22:47❗
DeleteThank you 22:47
DeleteThis is really sad o. I don't even know what to say, hmmm.
ReplyDeleteWaiting for ndi women are always wrong, it's always the woman's fault to come defend their amazing brother.
ReplyDeleteUseless lazy man looking like a pork meat.
Lol @ looking like pork meat 😅😅🤣🤣
DeleteI can relate to her story. Very similar to what I’m passing through. In my case I brought the fool here.but he has Chosen to remain extremely irresponsible and useless chasing different old women while I’m working hard and even a Dr. he has landed himself in so much trouble in this country. A lot of maintain men are users and irresponsible they pacakage like they have something, nothing very useless men looking for hardworking and successful women. In his case He is stucked and I would put him back to where he belonged! You can deceive and cheat yourself even bitting the finger that fed you! Gigolo men everywhere! Very shameless..
ReplyDeleteE.g Obionelove, that Edo boy 'loving' different women just to escape poverty but he keeps drowning in poverty. From Asia to Australia, America etc, promising them marriage once he crosses over. All to no avail. After everything he is still Obi is a boy.
DeleteWhen will stupid Nigeria women learn? You married a man less than you? What happened to men in your professional level that are other race? Must you die with foolish Nigeria men?
ReplyDeleteA fellow doctor here in Houston did this same trash, married a fool and brought him from benue. Guess what on the wedding eve in Atlanta, hubby was fucking girls.
Till today, dear doctor don’t know her husband has 3 kids from different women. He’s using her money to fund them.
Shame on Nigerian women!
Madam, you were never his specs. He only used you to climb and get his needs and wants. I keep saying love and finance don't mix. Even when they mix, each should have separate accounts or spending limits with the consent of the other. He is hand-in-hand in all of these with his family and be assured they will come for you by every means. But the good thing is, these kind of men don't end well finally. The Ella is his karma and will deal with him well, well unless she is not a real Benin girl. Just wipe your tears, et your acts together, move on and face front. More importantly, watch your back. If you like, let the love you have for him push you to accept him back, you'll only have yourself to blame because he can poison, assassinate or kill you himself or through others.
ReplyDeleteYour head dey there.
DeleteHe never loved the woman one bit.
Planned everything with his family as far as I'm concerned.
These guys don’t have specs. Even this fool he married he will soon replace her if she can’t bring in money or does not allow him to pimp her. Such men are only loyal to money.
DeleteThis life no balance at all
ReplyDeleteOne thing must kill a man. Oga traded up to newer chasis. Look at Ella. Who no like better things? I wish a lady like Ella can tie me sef
ReplyDeleteThe new bride is here ..welcome o ..
DeleteYour eyes needs glasses, I am light skinned oh but that ella there is no where near mayowa
DeleteNot just glasses, double lens!!! 👓👓
DeleteThat Ella with all her bleaching is such a plain, local and classless woman. 🤮
Mayowa fine pass Ella hundred times
DeleteYou can tell this woman is arrogant and pompous. The man must have seen hell. It is not always about money. Men need respect. Your husband has masters degree and the best job to offer him is ordinary clerk. Why not make him the manager? She should have made him the janitor na. Useless woman
ReplyDeleteWhat is wrong with being a clerk? There is dignity in labor. You see why I say women should marry outside their race and leave these low mentality Naija men? If the man was the pharmacist with a doctorate and made his wife a clerk, will you complain? Does what you said in anyway justify marrying another woman and spending the family money on her while still married to your wife?
DeleteHe was in charge of the money hence why he was able to run the business down financially. Abi you didn't read the story well, or you are just rushing to defend your gender. He was just as well managing the place, title or no title. Someone that took care of him for donkey years doesn't respect him. It is slay queen that is receiving money and expensive gifts from her maga that is respecting him. The way some of you men reason just shows the way you are and you deserve whatever is coming to you. The woman's crime now is being open and sharing everything with the man she loves and trying to build him up. Now you are twisting things and talking about respect. When he has been used and dumped in his old age this man will want to return back to be taken care of by the wife. Anofia.
DeleteI bet you are also a lagy ass useless gigolo. Idiot
DeleteWhat does he know about medicines to be able to order, organize and dispense? It would not have been correct. Gibi8 him. Clerk probably put him at a place where he knew everything and every one.
DeleteWell, his end has come..
NiB, you too talk joor. What is marry outside their race. Your inferiority complex stinks!! There are useless people in all races! Don't sound stupid in an attempt to sound intelligent.
DeleteIn all my "too talk", I don't insult any BV as I am open to differing opinions.. try it, it's possible. And I never "attempt to sound intelligent", if you deduce that from my comments and it threatens you, that's on you.
DeleteWomen should start recognizing his type. They usually look like ajebutter but they are usually from poor backgrounds and their problems are never-ending.... They don’t like to work and use their looks to get by through deceiving women who don’t mind taking on the masculinity role. Problem with women who emit these tough and masculine aura is that they attract the wrong type of men, who only want to take. The good men love their women to be feminine in nature, they want to be able to take care of their women and also love that their women need them sometimes. It does something for their egos. Anyway, the man will surely reap what he has sown. Only a short time and he will be crying out for help. It’s his type that their second wives do abandon in hospitals when they become sick and then they will start calling their first wives whom they abandoned.
DeleteNib is annoying, mehnnn. When it comes to whites, black people don’t care about level. They can marry the mad, the fat, the sick, the ugly, the old, etc... but when it comes to marrying blacks, they want the tall, the beautiful , the handsome, one that can speak English, etc... So maybe If they can reduce the standard also for black folks, they might find a good man or woman. There are different types of whites too, the polish, Turks, Russians, Croatians, and the likes have the same mentality as Africans(even worse) My German friend was married to one lazy Italian. Dude was very shameless. He will even ask the girls mom for money to buy cigarettes. Complains the gurl doesn’t buy enough food, and I know lots of “white guys like him. So there are bad folks from every race. Why don’t u suggest other African countries?? Must it be outside our race? What kind of mentality is this?? Why do black people hate each other? Why do we blacks look down on ourselves?
DeleteHmmm
DeleteMayowa!!!!!!!!!!!
DeleteAh! If you're reading this you know it's me. The guy is both right and wrong, I lived with them for a while and yes Mayowa is nice and pompous, but her husband was a clerk in name only. 45th street pharmacy,in west palm beach Florida.
I came for a link, her hubby and her saw I was useful to work in her pharmacy, since they planned to travel to Nigeria. Mayowa is hard working, but probably had her own side gig also. I never saw her with anyone else though.
Back to my story, I and another lady who was a trainee pharmacist, but did not know much. We held the store for them, my situation then was one kind.
Because I had stayed with them, I couldn't go back to where I had life easy.
Mayowa influenced the link she introduced me to to misbehave,( this was after they got back from Naija and I was no longer useful. I had a choice to be very subservient or be my regular self. I chose my normal self, and that was too much for her. I wasn't to have any opinion, I was supposed to allow her MIL tell me she would slap me and smile, cannot have my own opinion on issues. I'm a medical professional immigrant feeling my way through the U.S. system that she's been accustomed to.
When I left Mayowa's place, she didn't allow me pick my things. It was by force of threats of calling the police , she counter threatened me that she would call immigration on me. I was a nobody, stranded!
Anon 18:56, men like you disgust me, u are such a disgusting chauvinistic imbecile...You think that is how it works here, she is definitely in trouble in the first place for employing that man because he is uncertified to work in a pharmaceutical co or whatever .
DeleteSee what desperation to get married caused her, she married down and see where it landed her. If she ddnt look his way when they met ppl will say she is proud but she brought herself low to marry this scum of a man and see the outcome. Mtchewew abegiiii
Anony 17:51,Stupid comment!,from your comment I can tell u are a sexist or an ignorant fool.u think being a pharmacist here is beans.u stand 12 hours working without rest.someone that works extra hard to keep a family demands to be respected be it a man or a woman.yeah she offered him a job of a clerk in her pharmacy cos he doesnt wanna work for anybody.fool!like you that cant read and comprehend, he cant be a pharmacy manager cos he isnt a pharmacist.carry this your silly nigerian mentality and shift.There is dignity in labour here,he needs to start somwhere but he is lazy.u are calling her useless cos you have embraced stupidity and feels its d standard.
DeleteMadam you played yourself so go and lick your wounds! You opened joint account and put properties in the name of a dependent Man what do you expect??? The Guy is a bloody Scam and you even made his Mother have Green Card. You were a fool! Women wise up and STOP giving your Money to Men!
ReplyDeleteThank you o!
DeleteWhen I say it I’ll be termed a cold hearted gold digger.
After everything a woman gives in a marriage, you’ll now open your eyes and marry a man that you’re feeding, and giving property on a platter of gold.
How can you value something that you did not work for? She will still accept him back.
Please lets try and be empathetic it can happen to the best woman ...we dont know it all
DeleteHow is she a fool? 10years of marriage and 2 kids?
DeleteUncle has used some glowing creams too,see as he fresh😒😒!
ReplyDeleteYou will be alright madam!
My own carry my 22k pounds away, did birthday, carry women. What is my blame? Maybe he will say i didnt respect him. Nigerian men! God forbid. His yeye sister is here too. Bukky in Toronto, your brother is a fucking retard.
ReplyDeleteWhy are men abroad like this? My Ex sister was scammed by one; after 4kids he left after emptying their joint acct. She collected loans for him,left her in a financial mess with 4kids.
DeleteHes unemployed she cant even get child support from him.
Bloody gigolo's everywhere. Will rather remain single dan to give a man my money.
Anyways, God took care of his own and I'm where I am now, still feeling my way through, but have a better road map. Mayowa will be fine, but it's hard for me to empathize with her. Plus, she low key knew her hubby was like this, one of the reasons she treated me poorly was because of her husband.
ReplyDeleteNumber 1, I could never do that to anyone, much less someone in her house with, number 2, I used by tongue to count my teeth, everything she wrote up there is true, she was the one carrying her home.
Abraham, you no try at all. I never thought you were a saint, but did not realize you were this treacherous. If you're reading this greet Dr. Chinyere for me, tell him I'm still trying to match.
Stella post the rest na!
Anon 00:17/ 01:35. Take ur lying set out of here, go and meet ur deceitful brother abi husband that is not f I are not Ella, gosh, disgusting lying been
DeleteWhen will women learn?
ReplyDeleteHmmm some men!!! This is the same way I’m going to call out my ex soon. Went ahead to marry in the US without divorcing me, And when I asked him for the docs he told me to do my worst!!
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