She says...
''My name is Rosemary Afuwape,
My moment of Truth is that having to live without my second son for six months really tore me apartment. I'm willing to tell everyone that I'm not a killer. Yes we won, thanks to everyone and and grace of God.
We were actually looking for drugs because my period delayed for four weeks. The day we won the show I was on my period, it stopped on the 31st and came out on the 4th of April. When we started looking for drugs was towards the end of April. I have proofs on my phone. I have a doctor who told him that my period would be out subsequent time.
It got to a point he questioned me why I haven't gotten pregnant, that am I sure something isn't wrong, I said I'm okay that I have two sons so am not barren. Pressure kept coming from left and right that I have to get pregnant.
When we left Abuja from the hotel we saw once in a while. I later left for kaduna to visit my parents. He also came to kaduna but he didn't state his intentions then my son already started calling him daddy.
Now I'm being called an abortionist, a murderer, I'm a mother of two lovely boys, when I saw the interview I cried, I couldn't sleep at night, I started thinking, where did I go wrong? was it a crime to love a man? was I wrong to stand by him?
I'm really bewildered by all of this, I don't know what I have done to deserve all this.
This has tarnished my image from far and wide as a mother and a daughter.
All I ever did was to love and respect him. I have seen on the media people saying so many things about me . Saying that I love money, no I'm not materialistic
He spoke about food poisoning, yeah I had food poisoning. He took me to the hospital, I was crying in pains, I was hospitalized and checked. He never slept with me in the hospital, he came the next day and I was discharged.
I wasn't pregnant, people kept saying I had an accident and lost my pregnancy. Before the accident I'd already lost the pregnancy.
I have been quiet all these while, there was a leaked chats better me and a fan and people thought I leaked it but no I'm not petty to do that.
I'm sorry to everyone that I have wronged, I was emotionally broken because of what I was going through.
In September I travelled to Lagos to sign for a skincare brand, before then my mum told me I was looking Fuller, my breasts we're full so I went for test, and I didn't wait for the results before I travelled, I also told Kachi everything.
When I returned I discovered I was pregnant, I don't reveal to him because I wanted to surprise him on his birthday. My mum had a surgery, so I told him about the pregnancy and he didn't seem excited and I asked, he said nothing he's just shocked.
During our stay at kaduna we had an argument and some people said how dare I tell an Igbo man to go and help my dad in the kitchen. All through our stay in my parents house (kaduna) it was my dad who prepared food daily and still drove down to Zaria everyday. One-day we went with him and on the journey I noticed my dad's arms was hurting but not once did Kachi request to drive him.
Our problems started in September, when got back from Zaria and my dad wanted to make meal, i wanted to bath my son so pleaded with Kachi to assist my dad but he said that was an insult to him, that what about my brother. I angrily made the food and served him, I didn't sleep on the bed with him. Then he said that would be the last time he eats from my house because I served him in anger.
The next day was the shocking day of my life. I saw Kachi dressing up to go out, so I locked the doors knowing fully well that he knew no where in kaduna. I held the keys firmly, we started struggling then he hit my hands thrice, I was shouting and crying, then my brother tried to open the door from outside, he couldn't then he went to get help. I had to let go of the keys, then he left. When my dad returned he called him and asked what happened, Kachi said all was well.
What led to my miscarriage, was on my son's birthday, we had a photoshoot, organized a little party for him then my manager called me to check what Kachi posted on social media, what I did, I started calling Kachi he didn't pick. So I moved slowly to my car, then I told my make-up artist to help me with pad that i felt like my period was coming out.
The next day when I woke up I saw I was bleeding heavily and I called him to inform him about it, he said sorry. Then I went to the bathroom, when I returned Kachi ended the call, I tried calling him back. He said he had to call my mum, because he was scared that I fainted on him when I quickly rushed to the bathroom.
I was in pains, I was pushing, some many thoughts kept on coming out. That's how I had a miscarriage a day after my son's birthday.
The reason for this video isn't to reply him but to say the truth that I'm not an abortionist. I don't want to give anyone a bad name. Several times Kachi said he doesn't want the relationship, that's how he kept on postponing our wedding.
The things I cant tolerate in a relationship is violence, you tarnished and slandered my name, taking food from my mouth that I would use to feed my son. There's several stories but this is the truth.
To everyone I have offended I'm sorry.
*I dont really understand all this...so she went into shock after she read what he posted on the social media and lost the baby?OMG OMG!!!
Babe,you will be fine,move on and start again!
It is sad that it has come to this. I do not like this at all. They need to put to stop the washing of their linen in everyone's view. Wish you the very best, love.
ReplyDeleteWhat is it with an igbo man not entering the kitchen? The ones I know, not only enter the kitchen, they also make good use of their hands, even step into the grocery stores.
Do not generalize. There are some Igbo men that do the cooking in their homes. Didn't you read where she said Kachi asked her what of his brother? Meaning his brother was at home, she could not call him to help her father but was quick to call a visitor to enter kitchen, really? If you're that brother, how will you rate Kachi? Blanket generalization is not good.
DeleteIsn't it obvious I was not generalizing here and only asking a question based on what she said her ex-fiance said?
DeleteDid you see where I went further to say, "The ones I know, not only enter the kitchen, they also make good use of their hands, even step into the grocery stores?" Tell me, how is that for generalization?
It is not fair to throw accusatory words like that around just for the sake of it. I only reiterated his comment for clarity since this is the first time I am hearing such, that's all.
You shouldn't blame me for almost believing it since it came from the horse's mouth and I am not privy to the culture.
@Baltika,read what Sabella wrote again.
DeleteTo be honest i cant tell my fiance to join my mum/dad in d kitchen,will rather do dat myself as hes a guest in d house. Thats just me sha.
A mother of 2 lovely sons, invited a MAN to her father's house and was sleeping on d same bed as well as fucking? In the same house and ur sons, father and brother????? Ahhhhhhhhaaaa.
DeleteYour papa dey enter kitchen cook for u and ur guest? Ahhhhhhhhaaaa.
How LOSE can a girl be? 2 different baby Daddy's and an almost another one?
Jeeeeze. This woman pls ZIP it
You guys will go to reality show and be having sex like drinking water... Close legs like Nengi and be a mermaid.
DeleteYou dey cry and rant now...
If I say u understand a sentence then na lie I dey yarn. What's all these nonsense, must you write out all of these crap? Why not ignore the crazy guy and let him carry his market somewhere else.
DeleteNa wah ooooo, 2 silly idiots 🥴🙄🥴.
It shows how unintelligent they both are, jokers 🚶🏽♀️🚶🏽♀️🚶🏽♀️
Biko this story doesn't add up. She said she knew she was pregnant and still said she asked her make-up artist for pad that she felt her period was coming...🤔
ReplyDeletePerhaps she said that to the makeup artist cos she hadnot told people she was pregnant yet.
DeleteHonestly very ridiculous story! Both her and the Kachi are very silly.
DeleteJust imagine this hanty that want to gather public sympathy it will not work for you this time,cos plenty people know you already.your neighbor's in brick estate Kubwa abuja just dey yimu for you.the best thing that happened to kachi is the breakup.
DeleteHmmm
ReplyDeleteThis is the problem with talking too much. You make contradictory statements.
DeleteBtw that pic don't look like her.
The story is so disjointed I don't understand.
DeleteI didn't watch the show anyway, so I can't relate. 😏😏
LIES
DeleteWahala be like bone straight hair
ReplyDeleteSeems you both were not compatible and the love isn't solid.
Iykeresa should have won the show.
You both should move on with your lives,a broken engagement is better than an unhappy marriage and union.
Iyk gini?
DeleteDouble Chris should have won abeg
No be only iyke reesa,pls allow those kids to keep improving on themselves and mature more. They can get married later.
DeleteI might be late to their story but why the emphasis to get pregnant and not to tie the knot? Or was getting pregnant part of the contract?
ReplyDeleteMe sef confuse oh.
DeleteI thought she should be smarter than this for someone who has 2 children already.
It is well with them.
ReplyDeleteI thought she posted yesterday that it was a missed period and she wasn't pregnant abi I did not read it well
Abeg help me ask ooo,yesterday it was a missed period. today it was pregnancy and miscarriage. please which one is that she asked her fiance to assist her father in the kitchen and he refused, a visitor? as in what? you don't force a man to enter the kitchen, they do that on their own will. it is even a thing of shame for you to allow your Dad to prepare food for you and your fiance even though he willingly wants to do that when you are there, it is a very big shame. not even a day thing that he prepared the food but all through your staying in Kaduna with your fiance and you are saying it with your mouth. Mbanu!
DeleteImagine the nonsense,ur dad is preparing food for grown adults in the house and ur not ashamed to say it out.
DeleteThat is what she also wants to turn Kachi into,cooking for she and her son daily.
Like! Your dad is cooking for you,your son and your boyfriend. Your younger brother inclusive!
DeleteWhy stress the old man like that!?
You mean your Papa entered kitchen and prepared food for you and your guest both your brother, and you open month and eat the food. Is your father your maid? What an insult to your person. You mean you or your brother cannot prepare the the food. Madam Rose pls change your attitude.
DeleteBoth of them are so immature and have no business being with each other or any other person until they both have sense!!!
ReplyDeleteYou were going through all these yet y'all were posting loved up photos and peppering 'haters' on SM!! .
Na una know Wetin happen between two of una but y'all should give it a rest!!
My mind went straight to the all those lovey-dovey displays. Frankly, They really did put up a show.
DeleteHope you are okay, sweets. 🤗🤗🤗
It is amazing that at 36 after 2 kids out of wedlock she is still so foolish as in how?
DeleteSabella Love, I'm alive ☺️🙏
DeleteFemi, e no shock you?
Cookie as in i just cannot comprehend. How can somebody be so daft?. She is extremely irresponsible. Whatever happened to learning from your mistakes.
DeleteNa wa
ReplyDeleteI see no essence for the show.
You don't force love.
The signs were there.
If all she's saying is true, then he's immature.
Her version
His version
The truth 🤔🤔🤔
Yesterday was missed period and today again suffered a miscarriage.
ReplyDeleteHmmmmmm!!!!!
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Wch nonsense talk about Igbo men not entering kitchen? My husband is a better cook than me and cooks a whole lot. My eldest brother is a very wonderful cook. He was the one that taught me how to cook ofe akwu when I was in jss2 and we are all full blooded Anambrarians.
ReplyDeleteBack to her case, I don't even know them, never heard of them or the show till I started reading it here but they should desist from this their childish banter.
Damage control story.Not straight forward
ReplyDeleteSo not straightforward
DeleteNever seen a story as confusing as this....she had a "missed period" at d start and bought a drug dat will bring d period back or whatever. Then later she says shes pregnant and was taken to hospital by Kachi for food poisoning not evacuation. Then on her sons bday she felt her period and told her PA to bring pad.
ReplyDeleteI didn't want to say anything so not to sound insensitive but the story is confusing af.
DeleteVery incoherent.
DeleteAhhh you used the word I wanted to use anon. Incoherent! So disjointed, feels like a primary school kid writing a story.
DeleteAll this is not necessary. Both party should just move on and hope for the best.
ReplyDeleteShe should move on. Their love was never genuine from all indications
ReplyDeleteThier chemistry sef no bam at all from the onset
DeleteWhat a load of balderdash. What's all these nonsense? When you want to get into the limelight, you need to be educated or educate yourself on the need to keep certain things private. Every Tom, Dick and Harry wants to be popular when they don't even have an inkling of what goes with it.🤬🤬🤬🤬🤬🤬🤬🤬🤬🚶♀️🚶♀️🚶♂️🚶♂️🚶♂️🚶♂️🚶♂️.
ReplyDeleteRosie rest please!!! Stop contradicting yourself, this stories did not add up. Why would your father be the preparing meals when you are there? Kachi was staying with your family at Kaduna as what?
ReplyDeleteEpp me ask! Why did he stay that long @ their place? What happened to hotels? Ayam tired of their story!
DeleteSeems rosie's dad sef is too calm.
Chai. See what quest for fame is reducing some people to! Inukwa pressure to get pregnant.
ReplyDeleteRosie tie your legs n pretend to be a mermaid.
How can you even ask him to go and assist your dad in the kitchen? This one's just controlling and sick. Foh!!
ReplyDeleteShe had an abortion.
ReplyDeleteHis story is more straightforward than hers.
It understandable if Rosie says she didn't want to have a 3rd child out f wedlock that's why she had an abortion. But saying all these isn't helping her. OWN IT,YOU ABORTED. Nobody is going to kill you.
Probably she got tired of their issues and decided to abort so they both move on.
DeleteIf you watched the interview, you'll know she's just doing damage control!!
DeleteShe kept saying "As a mother and a daughter" as if anyone would beat her for aborting!!!
" I was not pregnant, it was a miscarriage" tf?
ReplyDeleteStella you truly believe this story? Hmmmm abeg I don’t believe one line up there. They are both shameless and very childish
ReplyDeleteOh God help women i read people's comment here and truly Nigeria women deserve the men there in Nigeria what if there is truth in what she I saying Kia I feel so sorry for women in Nigeri. When kachi came out to say all those things about her I knew he wasn't a good person he wanted to tarnish her image because she moved on from him. And it's just so sad many of you cant see beyond your fish brain God help this world.
ReplyDeleteOga/madam, Rosie first cried to the public. Kachi's interview was to state his own side of the story.
DeleteRosie and kachi it is well with you guys.
ReplyDeleteThe good thing about life is nobody knows when it is going to be his or her turn. While we are all casting aspersion it could be you tomorrow your sister, your mother, your love ones. we all think some things can't happen to us but that is a lie as long as you are on this earth it can happen to you.
ReplyDeleteScattered explanation. Just not adding up. Reading it is so confusing. Una go dey alright.
ReplyDeleteJust forget about trying to prove a point, take a break, leave social media for a while...nobody is above mistake, you still have people who would love you no matter what...and hire a good PR, your current PR is doing a horrible job...mytwocents
ReplyDeleteTrying so hard to win public sympathy for killing an innocent child🐤🐥🐤🐥🐤
ReplyDeleteYesterday it was a missed period. Today it is a miscarriage😳😳😳😳😳
ReplyDeleteAnakogheri mtchewwwwww
ReplyDeleteYour father cooking for you and your fiance when nothing is wrong with you?. Anyway this your story doesn't add up, yesterday we saw medical report from your doctor saying you were not pregnant, now you claim you had miscarriage. Na wao, it would have been better if you never said anything at all .
ReplyDeleteI feel her parents baby her,reason she keeps getting pregnant and rearing kids in her fathers house. No1 my father will NEVER allow any man dat isnt my husband yet sleep with me under his roof. Trust they will give him guest room if he has to stay over. Then why is he spending so long there. Is one weekend not enough.
DeleteThen my father enter kitchen to cook for grown adults. He hasnt even cooked for himself. My father that doesnt know where they keep cup in the kitchen.
"... I saw Kachi dressing up to go out, so I locked the doors knowing fully well that he knew no where in kaduna. I held the keys firmly, we started struggling then he hit my hands thrice, I was shouting and crying, then my brother tried to open the door from outside, he couldn't then he went to get help. I had to let go of the keys, then he left..."
ReplyDeleteHow do I forgive myself for reading this crappie write up with my productive time. What's sort of dumb girl is this.. and this one is already a mother of two boys.. no wonder! And this is the kind of lady many young Nigerian girls look up to as mentors.. wahala dey oh..
The whole write up is crap.. lame attempt to Tanish the guy's image and blame him for the "fake miscarriage".. when they come out crying like this, just know they're guilty of what they were accused of..
Now to the part I quoted above, You lock door and held the keys so he won't go out cos- wait for it- he doesn't know anywhere in kaduna,.... and then he hit your hand thrice so you left the key...
Madam you are toxic.. very toxic and full of drama and only a fellow toxic man or mumu man would cope with this attitude of yours.. so you locked a grown man inside room cos he doesn't know outside.. as per pikin weh him be nah.. so a matured man can't find his way around a 'developed' state like kaduna, which to me is the Lagos state of the north with more educated and civilized people compare to other parts.. and then your trying to imply domestic violence with the nonsense talk of him hitting your hands thrice.. your are very stupid and dumb.. and for your information, the hitting of your hand would be considered necessary in a law court cos it only commensurate with the issue on ground, it was a necessary attempt needing in other for him to collect the key and escape from your captivity. You are the wrong one here, it's safe to call you a kidnapper, holding someone in isolation against his wish..
Nonsense girl.. allowing me read crap on a Sunday morning
She still didn't give him the key oooh, she threw it under the door..... They had to break the door from outside to get them out!! And she's accusing him of DV
DeleteWomen!!! My Gender!!!! SMH
Girl, you are entitled to your opinion but the many stories you have been fishing out is contradictory to say the least.
ReplyDeleteBut hey, your life, your choice, your story.
What happened to bathing your child after cooking? This whole story is just annoying, I don't understand a thing
ReplyDeleteMe too o
DeleteVery stupid girl at 36
ReplyDeleteYou have two kids out of wedlock yet you were opening legs and collecting raw sperm from a man who had not wifed you and searching for another pregnancy. You brought your boyfriend into your family house and your father was cooking for him? If no one else can cook in your family, you could not hire a cook? Imagine telling her boyfriend to come and cook for them, you think he is like your dad? Idiot somebody. I feel like slapping you from here
The only person I pity in the story is her father!poor fellow has been conditioned!!!!
Delete'we we're actually looking for drugs because my period delayed for 4 weeks'. Drugs to do what exactly?🤔🤔🤔🤔
ReplyDeleteIt could have been better if she didn't come out to say these things. She messed up big time.
'we we're actually looking for drugs because my period delayed for 4 weeks'. Drugs to do what exactly?🤔🤔🤔🤔
ReplyDeleteIt could have been better if she didn't come out to say these things. She messed up big time.
As much as I like Rosie, this her particular tori no Mke sense. D lie lie toooo much...ahhh headache dey worry me sef. To avoid further embarrassment...make dem both 'FEM' & dat Yeye show shld stop!! U can't force love Bikonu. I'm full bloodied Igbo n I cook up a storm. No try my Ofe Nsala o.
ReplyDeleteSee as I just dey shame on behalf of this MUMU lady 🤦🏽♀️ what's with all these unnecessary epistle 🤷🏼♀️ to the extent of how the father was cooking for them, kachi refused to assist him in cooking, driving, them sleeping and not sleeping together for some reasons in her father's house o, locking up the door in order to prevent him from going out, he hit my hand thrice, I started crying and my brother started hitting the door, yen yen yen etc, etc, etc......tueh! This is disgraceful biko🤦🏽♀️🙄
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