Tuesday In House News....

 Halings!!!

IN HOUSE MEMO

Na wah!!!

Yesterday i could not find any 5 fingers but today i already did.........

please no one should ask me what 5 fingers mean cos i wont say...I will soon increase it to ten fingers and then we goooooooooooooooooooo!!!

If you become a recipient of 5 fingers,you must not come on the Blog to say what you got oh,you can say thank you but if you reveal what you got,i go collect am back (like that 10k hahahahahahhahahaahahahahahaha)

5 fingers can be anything or anyone.................

My darling PA will announce the date for December STELLAS SINGLES MINGLE inside the Wednesday spontaneous post....

Una dooooooooooooooh!!!

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BIG BANTY GIST - PART THREE

Find part ONE and TWO .....HERE

There was a time my ex beat the living daylight out of me one night just because I stumbled upon a drug she took.... I asked her what happened to her and why  she was taking the drug, she said she was sick,I looked at the drug and I knew that drug wasn't for someone who is sick.... I memorized the name of the drug and I googled it ,alas it was a drug for STI.



STI how?????she had refused me s#x for a month, I politely confronted her and she got upset next thing I heard was a hot slap followed by blows,elbow and biting.I did not raise a finger on her,I had a swollen mouth the following morning ,I was ashamed... how can i explain to people that it was my fiancée that dealt with me. 


I went to see her mom the following morning ,but can you believe the mom too was telling me the drug is for malaria that she was the one who even recommended it for her haaa,could google be wrong or am I the daft person?. 

To confirm it I called a friend who is a medical doctor,told her the name of the drug and she said it is a drug use for treating STI,both daughter and mother still insisted that it was for malaria,with everything I was still the one who apologised to her.


See you might be wondering how true can this be or you think I am trying to make myself look like the saint? trust me all I have said and would still be saying happened for real.
I have only witnessed all this in a Nigeria movie and I had never imagined something of such would happen to me.


Time for her birthday...... I asked her If she would be celebrating it ,she said no but she would love to do a photoshoot I told her I am broke but I will hustle up before then to raise some funds for her,so she can do the photoshoot and probably get a cake.


So I got 25k from a wallpaper job I did,I took the cash to her and I said I'm sorry that was what I could raise just help me manage it, she collected it and said ''you can leave''.....I said leave ke? I want to spend some time with you and she said does this place look like a visiting place? that I should get out I just jejely left her place and she could not even say a thank you or ask ''how were you able to get the money''.


There was even a time I called her and she invited me to her place very late at night,I got there and we had a little misunderstanding she threw me out and locked the door,I couldn't go back to my place because it was around 12am so I ended up spending the night outside her house on a cold tiles and with enough mosquitoes.


We had an argument one time,she boldly looked at me and said I have never done anything for her,I listed about 15 things she was able to achieve since she has been with me 15 things that I was directly involved and indirectly involved but the reverse was the case there was no single thing I achieved while I was with her even an advice or an idea,nothing at all when I told her that she kept trying to see if there was actually something she did but she couldn't just list one,when she realised that na still curse end am. 


I never knew my friend who lives close to me was really noticing me and he was also talking to my mom what i was going through. He called my ex fiancée then,told her if she doesn't want me she should free me and let me go,according to him she said she is not leaving me and no one born of a woman can come between us.


My friend came to my house one morning and said he wants to take me somewhere gbam he took me to church and I was there for 7 good days after the 7th day it was as if a veil was removed from my face that was it.Raphael may God bless and prosper you for all you do for me you are indeed a good friend even though I know you are here and going to read this.


After that,I was told by the pastor not to set my eyes on her for a couple of days then I traveled down to abuja,she would call to ask where I was ,she started acting all nice and cool, I would just tell her I am busy she got angry and asked ''why won't you tell your wife to be your movement''.


Then she called one day that she was done and she was coming to my place to pack her things,she thought I would start begging her as usual and I would quickly come see her because she threatened to leave.I told her to give me a week, that when I am around I would let her know so she can come pack her things.


she was shocked and got angry and started with her heavy curses,like she would literally go on WhatsApp and send numerous messages,and I will be seeing over 85 messages and it would be heavy curses would just delete it without replying her or even open her chat.


The final saga one beautiful afternoon while I was in abuja eating hot delicious spaghetti my phone ranged it was my friend he called my name 3 good times and he said are you sure you are the one talking I said yes and I asked why was he sounding that way he said did I see what my ex fiancée posted on Facebook and WhatsApp I said no he munched it and send to me and it says "I LOST THE GUY I DID INTRODUCTION WITH MAY HIS SOUL REST IN PEACE" in her words. 



I couldn't eat anymore,I was confused,what was my offense for someone to publicly wish me dead,what did I do to deserve such hatred from someone I only showed true and genuine love to?.

My parents,family and friends started calling and sending messages to check if the story was true and if I am truly okay,my parents and brother got so mad and wanted to call her and her mom but I told them no one should call her or reply her because the "Egyptian I have seen today I shall see them no more"..

I was welcomed back by my parents like a prodigal son who wandered away,for good 2 weeks I was still getting calls and messages if I was dead or alive,I remember a distant relative called my mom and was consoling her over my demise,,my mom said nothing happened to me that I am fine....after the call,

 my mom cried,but yet was thankful to God.


I came back from abuja packed every of her stuff and threw it out I called her and I told her your stuff are outside my house whenever you are ready come pack it and I hung up.


The mother was calling my phone to know why I threw her daughter things out of my house the same mother that couldn't call me when her daughter put up that rubbish on social media but I am a well trained guy I did not pick her calls cos if I had done that I would have said some nasty things to her mom.I remember Olori was telling me to get my ex fiancée arrested because of what she posted on social media but I told her I don't want the issue to linger for long.


It was later I realised she had a 7 years old son,she didn't tell me, she lied that she finished from the university whereas she did not even finish secondary school.I was the only responsible guy she has ever been with hence why her and mother never wanted me to leave her.


So many very dirty things I later discovered about her that I wouldn't want to disclose.

Trust me I saw the signs but I thought it would be something I could correct and make her a better version of herself but I was totally wrong.


I remember when I spoke to Castle Windsor about the whole issue I could feel her reaction and how angry she was from the phone God bless you sis for your concern and show of love.


When I look back and I remember what i went through I have every reason to be thankful to God for,Introduction was April 2019 and within April and July 2019 all that happened.

I am very much okay and I have moved on .....
I hope sharing this will give me a final closure and people would learn one or two from this.


Trust me I know I was stupid lol

I have not gotten to where I want to be but I am in a better place.

Thank you so much Stella for allowing me do this and chocolat noir for encouraging me that I can do this I love and I appreciate you.


To all bvs thank you for reading through I love you all.....

OMG this is so shocking....what!!!!!

Banty you are such a good looking guy.....Please do not ever let any woman do this to you again...NEVER!!!

We still have a lot of women on this Blog who might wanna love you just the way you are.............give someone a chance if you are interested oh..

I love you Banty..............

Today you will be my 5 fingers...please send me a mail!!!

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JULIANAS OPINION

CUCUMBER AND BREASTFEEDING MUMS

In response to the question about cucumber drink and breastfeeding mothers; from my research, It is better for new mothers to avoid cucumber while lactating.
Cucumber is usually termed as a "cooling" vegetable which can cause indigestion in new mothers. If you are breastfeeding , this may cause diarrhea and colic in your baby.


So based on the fact that the drink contains mainly cucumber, it is not good for both pregnant and breastfeeding women. I will also advise that you consult your doctor first, before taking this drink if you have any medical condition. Exercise is still the best way to lose weight.

Cucumber is bad for digestion?wow,who knew!!!...I need to read this up!!!

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FROM MONDAY SPONTANEOUS POST COMMENT SECTION

You need to report this because those kids need help fast.

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SAD COMMENT IN THE WRONG POST

OMG.....I am so sorry you are going through all these....You are indeed married to a rare man and i pray God gives him the strength to continue to hold on............until the Blessing pulls through.....

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