Monday In House News...

 Hailings................

IN HOUSE MEMO

I am looking for five fingers inside this post....lol

I am sorry i cannot explain what five fingers is...it will be my thing for now......

Five fingers

five fingers

five fingers.....






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BIG BANTY GIST - PART TWO

Please read part one HERE

....I called my mom and told her mom I am getting married next month she laughed so hard thinking I was just joking not until she heard my tone and she was like are you serious I said yes.

She told me wedding isn't done that way even the said girl neither her or my dad has seen her and she said she wasn't in support of it.


Immediately she said that I flared up and I shouted at her(something I have never done in my entire life) I told her it was what I wanted and if she does not come to terms with it this is the last time she was going to hear from me.


Being a good mother she realised what was going on then she called after two days and she said you know what tell them you would be doing introduction with her not wedding that after two months we will properly do the wedding,oh God bless that woman she saw what I couldn't see and she handled it diplomatically I love you very much mom.


My mom couldn't even tell my dad about it until a week to the introduction my dad called and he said are you sure this is what you want I said yes he said you are in your early 30s and you should know what is good for you.


I went to see her with a friend so I met her mom, so her mom was telling my friend that ''hope you guys are preparing'' my friend was like preparing for what the mom said ''your friend's introduction now'',my friend said ''which yeye introduction'' he looked at me and I signaled him not to talk,so while I was seeing my friend off he was like what was the mom talking about I told him I want to do introduction jare he said am I sure I am okay, introduction how when did you meet her,I just told him not to worry jare that it is just introduction.


I went back to meet the mom and the mom was pissed off that I shouldn't have that kind of person as a friend that I should stop talking to him believe me that was the last time I spoke and I saw that friend.


One day I was with her phone when I saw a record of a conversation about me I was listening to her voice, her mom's voice and an old man's voice and what they were talking about had something to do with me sticking with her and not to ever leave her,the old man was telling them to a get goat and some other things after listening to it I felt it was just a normal thing and I moved on from it.


By April which was our introduction I specifically told her I wanted just a sitting room thing nothing elaborate lo and behold on the deal day it was something of an engagement party the only difference was there was no bride price I could remember my dad telling me are you sure this is an introduction and not an engagement because you are full of surprises this days.


I only went with my parent,brother, a friend and my cousin.
When I told her my parent were around she came to greet them and my dad was asking me who is this I said that's my fiancée that was the first time my parent and family would set eyes on her on introduction day trust me I know I am stupid lol.


After the whole introduction my parent did not eat anything not to talk of taking water. she noticed I never put up any pictures on my WhatsApp she collected my phone and uploaded on my WhatsApp status people were just so surprised and were like how come some even thought I got her pregnant which was far from the case.


Then my woes began I have never met anyone who is as heartless as this lady.she started giving me attitude and treating me like a piece of trash.I knew very well I had a responsibility of taking care of her when I saw that job wasn't coming forth I learnt how to install wallpapers and painting just so I could easily get money to sort her.

God is my witness I was able to provide basics needs for her even with the little thing and I don't think she should be complaining about money because she was doing well with her business and there was never a time I asked her for money.


It was so very tough for me I was drained emotionally, mentally,physically and financially there was no one I could talk to,my family never knew what I was going through I would be putting on a clothe for days not that I don't have want to wear but I was just mentally destabilised and the only thing I always have in mind was how to take care of her at the middle of it I had to stop my master's program because I couldn't concentrate on anything apart from her.

Then she started raining heavy curses on me ....I could remember one time I wanted to get a contract and I was going for the presentation that morning I woke her up very early in the morning knelt down and I told her as my partner please pray for me so I can get this contract,she told me she does not have any prayer to pray for me that the only thing she has for me are curses and she slept back I cried and I realised I made a wrong choice.


I will be in the kitchen making breakfast very early in the morning before she leaves for work my fiancée would be busy flirting with a guy on phone if I ask her who is that next thing I would be hearing is you this unfortunate person what's your business with my life.

At some point I realised maybe I have wronged her I woke her up one night begging and prostrating to her and asking her what did I do to her to deserve all this hatred she would say there was nothing I did wrong still I would apologise and ask for her forgiveness after all the whole talk first thing the following morning she is back to her true colour.


I am a very gentle soul and I don't react to things no matter what you would do to me,I bottled up a lot of shits,no one knew what was going on with me because I don't tell people my problem not even my family, but a friend of mine that lives close to me would see me and say guy what is wrong with you why are you looking unkempt I will just say nothing at some point I started talking to Olori Orente God bless you so much sis you were there when I almost lost it and your words of encouragement brought serenity to my life. 


There was a time my ex beat the living day light out of me one night just because I stumbled upon ....to be continued

Banty i cried for you reading this...OMG;I am so sorry you went through this..Oh dear!!!!

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SHOCKING SCENARIO

Stella that world has finished, I was packing my stuffs inside yesterday, so some kids rushed in as usual to help me, two girls precisely, both are 4 yrs of age, the went into my house, I waited a while for them to come out but they didn't, so I decided to check what happened, Stella to my utmost surprise, I met these tiny thots on each other fu#cking themselves, pants down...

 I flogged them carelessly, I also told them both parents, they were asked where they learned from, the one on top said "No where, it was Queen that said we should do", then the second one Queen said "I used to see my Daddy and Mommy doing it anytime we are sleeping", the mother almost fainted, things are really happening ooo....

WHAAAAAAAAAAAAT!!!!!......This is so so sad..

I hope those kids get help cos they will end up sleeping around if they don't.

Parents who live in small houses should be very careful of stuff like this

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