Following the recent paternity scandal involving the gospel singer and one Mayegun Olaoye;Ayomikun , daughter of popular gospel singer , Tope Alabi , says the only father she knows is her mother ’s husband , Soji Alabi.
Based on online reports , Olaoye claimed to be Ayomikun’ s father, while alleging that Tope Alabi had blocked every avenue for him to know his biological daughter in the past 22 years.
Reacting to the allegation, Ayomikun , in an exclusive interview with The PUNCH on Saturday , stated that she was not surprised about the development as her mother had since informed her about the man who claimed to be her father.
Ayomikun , however, stressed that the only father that she has is Soji Alabi , who has been married to her mother for over two decades.
She said , “ I will always know that my father is Soji Alabi . I do not know any other person and I have never met any other man. I cannot blatantly deny him because I have heard about him but I have never had anything to do with this man. ”
My mother never blocked the avenues for us to see . My mother even tried for me to have a relationship with him . I remember when I was about 15 years old , she used to tell me about him but he never tried to reach out to me .
“ I am very grateful to God for the kind of mother and father that I have . After God , my parents are next in my life ,” Ayomikun said.
Ayomikun also said, “ I cannot bear his surname . How can I bear the surname of someone that I have never met? There is no sense in that. I do not even know his surname . How can I bear the name of someone I have never met ?
“ God knows my real father and everyone knows who my real father is . I did not know this man when I was in crèche, daycare, primary , secondary or during my university days . I graduated and did not get a congratulatory message ; absolutely nothing from him.
“ So, there is no much story to tell. It is just a story about an irresponsible father and he is trying to cut every relationship he could ever build with his so-called daughter . I genuinely do not know why he is coming out after 22 years .”
Also a sonorous singer like her mother , Ayomikun stated that the only way she can give Olaoye a listening ear is if they meet in court and there is a judgment to that effect.
She said, “ If the man wants to reach out to me to patch things up, it will be in court. I do not think that I want to patch things up with him but I know that I will definitely meet him in court if he ever wants to talk . It cannot be a civil matter because he did not make it a civil matter when he went to the social media to talk".
Despite the occurrence, she said her family is fine and everything is normal as they were not shocked by Olaoye ’s actions.
“ I have spoken to my mother about it and we are all fine . It was not something that shocked us. He is not blackmailing the family but he is an example of a very terrible father ,” Ayomikun said.
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This is what happens to sperm donors when they turn up to cry wolf....If you are not existent in your child's life when they need you,dont show up when they are adults to cry wolf......See how she had disgraced him now....LOL
*Ayomikun means my Joy is dead?If yes,thats a bad name already and brings no Joy
Stella AYOMIKUN means MY JOY IS FULL,lol. Not AYOMIKU but AYOMIKUN.
ReplyDeleteStella you're so funny abeg. Your meaning of the name had me in stitches. I used to think same before
DeleteNa my Joy is full ooooo. No be "ku" (die), na "Kun" (full)
Deletelol, stella, nawa for you. how will somebody open their eyes and name a child their joy is dead. lmao. anyways. even ayomiku, can mean 'MY JOY REMAINS' it only depends on the pronunciation.
DeleteAyomikun means my joy is full.
ReplyDeleteAyomikun doesn't mean my joy is dead o🤣🤣🤣🤣... it means I'm full of happiness
ReplyDeleteAyomikun means my joy is full.
ReplyDeleteIt is different from Ayomiku which can mean two things:
1) My joy remains
2) My joy is dead
Tope Alabi daughter's name is Ayomikun meaning my joy is full.
Very true with the first interpretation.
DeleteThe man should have reached out to them first before going online.
DeleteEpic reply.
🙄
No Stella. Ayomikun means my joy is FULL not my joy is dead.
ReplyDeleteI hope all sperm donors are learning from stories like this. Being a father how's far beyond just donating sperm. He who has ears to hear should hear.
Some believe the child will look for them when he/she is grown.
DeleteThat one na before, not nowadays. Children of this age are getting more wiser day by day.
DeleteAyomikun means my joy is full. Not dead
ReplyDeleteWhere are those team when the children grow up, they'll look for their father? I'm glad the narrative is changing.. Lemaoo
ReplyDeleteHapu fa. They go wait tire😂😂😂
DeleteStella dey use google yoruba check na; u feel Tope Alabi will name her child my joy is dead???
ReplyDeleteIts my joy is FULL or my joy is overflowing.
As for the sperm donor pls leave dis family in peace. U didnt look for her in nursery,primary,sec or university. You now come when Mr Alabi has trained and moulded her into adulthood.
Ayomikun means my joy is full. Why will someone name her child my joy is dead na?
ReplyDeleteMaybe the man told her to even abort the pregnancy and flat out denied it and now wants to claim father.
I used to say to myself then that if I ever got pregnant and u deny it and I go ahead to have it, u will never ever have anything to do with that child no matter what u do.
AYOMIKUN means MY JOY IS FULL.
ReplyDeleteIt is evident father and daughter had no relationship while she was growing up why he is trying to force it now? You can tell from what she'd written that there is no love lost between them.
ReplyDeleteStella, Really? What a name then! Parents need to be careful with the kind of names they call their children.
Ayomikun means my joy is full , one of my friend's bears this name.
DeleteLol Stella got it wrong.
He wants to force it now because there is no more financial responsibility or obligation. The girl is done with school, probably working or will soon start working. He wants to reap where he didn't sow.
DeleteNa him type go dey make demands as per ' I am your father', nonsense.
Oh, thanks Noir. 😅 I was confused. Stella but why? 😂
DeleteMy joy is full. Nice name by the way.
My joy is full. Thank you better pikin, as for that sperm donor he want to reap where he did not sow. After attending BABCOCK university, he crawled out from his hole to claim father. His fowl dey born cow for him 😂 🤣 🤣 🤣.
ReplyDeleteThe funny part is he wants social media relationship instead of approaching them in person.....
DeleteMy joy is full. Thank you better pikin, as for that sperm donor he want to reap where he did not sow. After attending BABCOCK university, he crawled out from his hole to claim father. His fowl dey born cow for him 😂 🤣 🤣 🤣.
ReplyDeleteImagine
DeleteAyomiku without the N would mean I have joy left or more literally my joy "is remaining" and noy what you think Stella. This is due to words with same spelling but different intonation in Yoruba language
DeleteDeadbeat father,rubbish!!!
ReplyDeleteSomeone fed, clothed and saw her through school and you just gonna re - emerge to claim 'father'. No shame whatsoever
ReplyDeleteMy joy is full Not dead Stella,Sperm donors learn from this,u have a child u know nothing about,u never involve urself in the child’s life then one day u come from nowhere to claim the child.even God seff go judge u.
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ReplyDeleteAssociation of my child/ren will look for me when they grow up, una don see am. There's nothing for sperm donor in the future.
ReplyDeleteNgwanu, ndi audio fathers everywhere.
ReplyDeleteNonsense and ingredients!
Na real audio fathers
DeleteIrresponsible charlatans trying to reap where they did not sow
No be to give woman Belle
Na who take care of pickin na im be parent ooo
This Ayomikun and Ann Njemanze's daughter (with Segun Arinze) are definitely in the same Whatsapp group. If Tope Alabi had not done well for herself or if Ayomikun (my joy is full) had turned out to be an embarrassing drug addict, would Mazi Mayegun be "famzing" and talking to the press in the corona year after another man had done all the job of raising a total lady? Damn deadbeat joker!
ReplyDeletelol..mazi mayegun
DeleteNo be small mazi🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
Delete😁😁
DeleteThis is the situation of me and my so call father,
ReplyDeleteOh dear...🤗
Delete🤗🤗🤗🤗🤗❤️❤️❤️
DeleteIt is well
DeleteAnyone can be a dad but it takes a real man to be a father. I sense a lot of pain from her voice. Forgive and move on. This life is not long at all. I am still praying for the day my father will reach out to me even though in his heart I do not exist when he truly knows I am real. Cant wait to reconcile with him even if it’s 5mins God gives me with him. But since he is still young, I will wait for him until he gets a lot older. 50 something years old men this days no wan gree o. Their guy man plenty o. Love u my dear father regardless of your mistakes❤️❤️❤️
ReplyDeleteAnd if he doesn't? Try get sense naa
DeleteYou think you’re a better person because you claim to have forgiven. Get over that pseudoscience and don’t go around telling people what to do with their pain. Face yours
DeleteMake peace with the fact that he is a selfish and mean person who may never reach out to you except to USE you
DeleteWhat do you need him for when he is old and looking for who to be a liability to?
Be careful with your heart
Have sense
Guard it for out of the heart are the issues of life
Ayomikun, way to go. Mr man, meet her in court. Case closed
ReplyDeleteAyomikun, way to go. Mr man, meet her in court. Case closed
ReplyDeleteI'm laughing cos I see my daughter doing this in years to come. In my case, it's my younger brother. Their bond is strong, even calls him daddy whenever his picture pops up. 😆
ReplyDelete🤗🤗🤗🤗🤗🤗🤗🤗🤗
DeleteMy Aunty’s daughter is currently doing the same and she is 19.
DeleteI see my son doing this too because his dad doesn’t care and does not reach out after making promises but na his type will come back in 20years and say I blocked access may God punish him
Association of my child will look for me when the time comes, the story is gradually changing, be involved in that child's life before its too late.
ReplyDeleteHaaa,my son's dad told me,my son will look for him when he grows up,I never for one day denied him access to see my son,he willingly decided to stay off.I really don't know how a person can comfortably abandon his child.its well
ReplyDeleteMy son’s dad said exactly the same thing and I have not blocked any access he just doesn’t care let me see him open his dirty mouth in future to say I blocked access na ogun go kee am
DeleteI will never beg a man to look after his child; he should keep calm because my son will treat his fuck up very soon
That's how i got a '5missed flashing from my sperm donor dad's sister on Monday morning after 11years.. na me do ultimate search go find them in 2011, they didn't reach out back to me since then oh.only to start flashing me a week ago! They should just remain where they have been.
ReplyDeleteThat’s how Erica’s dad was making noise with her name when he saw her fame and relationship with a billionaire’s son. Meanwhile he ignored her for 25 years
ReplyDeleteSorry o i tot she said she married as a virgin. How come she get baby daddy. I am just asking ni o
ReplyDeleteI have excellent relationship with both my dad & my step dad. Mazi Mayegun should f*xking leave the Alabi Family alone & stop all these embarrassment.
ReplyDeleteSuch insensitive and selfish action of this baba were is why many men & women will rather not marry single parents, no one wants action.
I commend Ayomikun for not throwning his real father under the bus. You stood by your father and deny that impostor. Omo naa a pon e le (Your children will honor you too).