People should stop putting pressure on women trying to conceive,it is not fair at all....
This troll deserves a slap for going on Nabila's page to ask her when she would have a baby for her popular Musician hubby Oritsefemi.......
The troll even had the nerve to tell her that it's not only money she should be spending..........
Wicked world with wicked people. No boundaries or respect.
ReplyDeleteBut I still can’t believe Caro chopped all those insults only for Nabila to carry her box on her head back to Femi.
Very wicked world indeed.
DeleteShameless trolls , evil people everywhere with so much opinion yet most of them are living in misery.
Thats the world for you. Even if you have just one child they will ask...its so so yrs. Your son needs a sibling to play with o,time is going bla bla.
DeleteWhen u have many like my friend dat just had her 4th dat was not planned dey are askn her if she wants to kill her husband with school fees.
How one will leave one's issues and be poke nosing in another person's own is what I will never understand.
DeleteNa wah, hmmmmmmm. May the Almighty God grant her all her desires, this time next year she will be called mummy in JESUS mighty name. Celebration galore ππππππ½
DeleteVery insensitive and inconsiderate human being. Not minding what she's going through....
DeleteAsking personal questions that's none of their business...
She even had time to reply the idiot! ''When will you give birth to Oritsefemi'' nonsense English.. Look at his head like VHS tape..I dunno understand mehn we really have some people that are badly behaved!
ReplyDeleteππ indeed for her popular musician hubby oritsefemi, Kai Stella π
ReplyDeleteJeez what's wrong with some people!
ReplyDeleteThis is all shades of wrong and so unfair. Sigh.
ReplyDeleteNails may God grant your heart desire.
*Nabila
ReplyDeleteWhy are some people like this? Not nice!
ReplyDeleteLol @ “when are you going to give birth TO Oritsefemi”
ReplyDeleteThe silly troll can’t even speak English!
How she go born her husband?
Some people just have empty brains! So much pressure on women to give birth! He should use that energy to better his life.
ReplyDeleteSenseless people everywhere. Na their types no dey allow their brother wife see road bcos she never born after one year of marriage.
ReplyDeleteThis Nabilla is a nice person.. The way she talked to the guy shows she doesn't like wahala at all, I have seen why she married OritseFemi,she needs someone with wey im werey dey disguise to shut off troublesome people from her side.
ReplyDeleteEven though she replied the stupid troll,it sounded so mild compared to what the troll deserved.
Yeah, you're right...
DeleteThe pain we go through
ReplyDeleteEven men are not also finding it funny. Pressure from family and foes
I have told my hubby I am not visiting my in law this December.
God please give me a child as December gift.I am the strongest woman but sometimes I break down.
This journey is not for the faint hearted at all.Sigh
You will be fine my dear, keep trying and maintain peace in your spirit while avoiding ill mannered people that don't know how to talk. Nabila answered well, let the troll tell her the address of where to buy a child. You can also consider alternative methods of conception if you can afford it. All the best.
DeleteI was once in your shoes my love. If you don't feel like travelling pls don't. I didn't travel home for 3 good years cos each time I did I came back worse emotionally. I have a daughter 8yrs old.
DeleteMy mother-in-law gives me lots of respect and doesn't joke with me, made other wives to hate me and then mock me with my condition then.
Guess what? My son came as a miracle and today 10months after I'm 2months pregnant again. Wasn't even expecting it.
There is a God in heaven and at his own time he will bless us. Just try and be in the right standing with God while praying and waiting for his will.
If you are dealing with pcos, watch your diet, portion control, low carb, more protein, fruits and vegetables, reduce weight and exercise 4 times a week brisk walking for like 2hrs, drink lots of water too. Eat breakfast at 11-12noon to use protein instead of carb this way you burn stored fat faster. You can eat an apple in the morning if you get hungry, no sugar or sugary drinks, low milo and milk.
Once in a while drink apple cider vinegar, 1tablespoons in a small cup of water.
May God help us women.
Amen dear. May God answer us waiting women with December gifts.π
DeleteNawaoo.i dont knw how people feel comfortable asking such question...only God gives a child.May God grant her desires.
ReplyDeleteI had a similar experience with someone I barely talk to; this was 3 months after I had a still born o!!
ReplyDeleteSomeone:what's happening now?
Me:(pretended like I didn't understand her)
Someone: speak up o, so I can take you to see one prophet.
Me: Am I God? When He's ready,He'll do it...hahahah
She felt insulted cos' she's quite older than me. She stopped greeting me, I just kuku pack her one side too. Yes, my baby is 16 months now.
I wonder why people don't mind thier business????
Thank God for you my dear, my wedding is coming up in a months' time and fibroid surgery immediately after, I will testify with my twins in due time by God's grace.
DeleteInfact she was courteous in her reply.. I wonder why people won't mind their business.. we should learn to be sensitive because we don't know what people pass through
ReplyDeleteMake una dey MYB.Awon gbeborun and gbefila.
ReplyDeleteNt fair
ReplyDeleteWe are only 5 months and the questions have started...
ReplyDeleteI wonder why people are like this.
Especially from my parents church.when I visit and attend.
I think it's the way you carry yourself that results in these crazy questions.
DeletePlease take your time.
These same people asking you wont pay for clothes for your kids or healthcare or even buy birthday gifts for your kids .abi will they pay school feeS???
Everything is so expensive now so Pace yourself and never break under nonsense pressure!
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DeleteChildren are a gift from the Lord. And He gives when it's time Time, that's the answer.
DeleteI'm still waiting and confident that I shall carry a normal, brilliant, unique extraordinary baby. After 7 years. Because God cannot and does not lie. For me that's it. My confidence is His word and His word is He.
When ever any idiot asks you such a useless question, Kindly give them the rudest reply in the whole world. Trust me, The fool will pass your reply to it around to its fellow idiot. Next time they won't even dare! Assholes everywhere.
Delete@Lady T, From your very mouth to God's ear. It shall happen soonest.
DeleteI got married while in 2nd yr PT. 2yrs later 4th yr wasn't pregnant yet. There was these group of girls then each time they saw me one particular one will always ask me
Delete"ah! You never still carry? I will smile and say noooooo....
They will all laugh.
So one day I was coming and she asked me same question.
I didn know when I told her.
My dear, I'm waiting for you to get married first, like the day you get married I will consider pregnancy while still in sch. You know you are like 7yrs older than me.
They all looked at each and from that day she kept malice with me till our 5th year. Me no kokuma send them.
The different cars I was driving to sch was eating them up. Witches.
One said to me 1day while I was on call with my husband, all these small small girls wey dey marry anyhow self, na to dey dey change cars like clothesmake she born na?.
Then I was 22yr old. Today I'm a mother of 3kids.
TTC is not something I wish even my worst enemy. Most Nigerians will make you hate yourself. Not knowing the hell you are going through, spending your money, the emotional trauma, the isolation.
God pls help TTC women in Jesus Name Amen!!!!
Amen
DeleteSilent is the best answer to people like him!!!
ReplyDeleteMay God come through for all the women TTC π
ReplyDeleteAmennn.
DeleteSome people will keep bringing problems for themselves because of their miserable mouths.
ReplyDeleteMadam your husband could be the one behind that account. From the way he beat you till you fled your home, I wouldn't put this pass him.
ReplyDeleteI won't be surprised if he has beat pregnancies out of her before. God will answer her prayers about being a mother
ReplyDelete@Chisom, Amen.
ReplyDeleteThanks.