I am sure you know who a whistleblower is?.A mouth that cannot stay shut when it should....
Have you ever whistle blown on anyone?spill something that you should not?
Let me ask you a question.............
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I try to do to others what I'd like done to me. If a friend witnessed such concerning someone I was about to spend the rest of my life with..I'd want to know.
ReplyDeleteNa so
DeleteAKA Amebo right
DeleteI have a first class in minding my business, Sometimes I can be in the my apartment for one week no one will know I am around.
I thought they say u don’t choke your mouth in lovers matter before they will use u to settle. My opposite Neigbor went with her younger sister to fight another neighbor that is single, heard it was a whistle blower that told her, that her husband is still seeing the babe, I think they used to date, na so fight scatter everywhere, meanwhile this my direct neighbor is a nursing mum, after fight she and her sis took hter kids voom to her state.
Guess what, after COVID-19 inter state travel resumption she came back to her husband’s house. The sister is now seen as an enemy.
So u see love I no dey put mouth, I wasn’t even around I came back and heard d gist. 💃🏻💃🏻💃🏻💃🏻💃🏻 Lmao
I caught 2 of my sisters husbands with women. I never opened my mouth to tell them until their shit finally hit the fan. I did not send anybody to marry philandering husband abeg.
DeleteIf they're still courting,I will definitely tell so enable he or she weigh the options of going in or not, but if it's in marriage,I will keep shut and allow them find out on their own.
ReplyDeleteI have learnt not to chook my mouth in ppl's relationships except u directly ask for my advice or it's a case of domestic violence.
ReplyDeletei'm pretty sure i might spilled something i shouldn't have and yes i'd tell my friend if her trifling fiancé was messing around with other women. I will not mind my business because it's better the marriage doesn't happen than for it to break down a couple of years in the future.
ReplyDeleteSame here boo. It's better he or she knows and take a decision
DeleteI won't talk.ohhh so they wiv use.me to settle quarrel if I'm very close to the person or it's a family member I would surely tell 🦋
DeleteIt depends on the kind of mindset my friend or family have. It's not everyone that can handle such news...
DeleteOf course I will tell them as far as I caught them in the act!
ReplyDeleteI once told my uncle's fiancee that her friend who was also my uncle's friend used to arrange girls for him whenever she travels outside the country.
She was a bad friend and I needed to do what I thought was right at the time
My uncle's fiancee now his wife was such a lovely and kind lady and she deserved better treatment from both of them.
I stopped greeting the green snake 🐍 too.
You did well Ms A.
Delete👊👊👊👊. I am team tell it as it is.
DeleteAnd she still married him? How is your relationship with your uncle and his wife now?
DeleteYou can see why I will face front jejely. The lady in question still went ahead to marry your uncle after the whistle blowing. Time always exposes such things.
DeleteThis is part of the reason I mind my business in people's relationship. After alerting her she still went ahead to marry your uncle and probably dumping the said friend knowing fully well your uncle is no saint. For matters of cheating and indiscretions time always exposes such, it's now left for the individuals involve to decide what next.
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My cousin's boyfriend once asked me out and I told her, she left him but even if she didn't I'd still do it for someone else I'm close to and can't imagine myself in the dark about something as serious as cheating and a friend will know and keep it from me in the name of minding her business...when i find out you knew about it you'd join the ex.
DeleteLovelace with the multiple IDs. Lovelace, anon Lovelace, laceylove only you one.
Delete16:49 don't be unfortunate. You can see I did not change my ID I posted with my blogger account which has been acting up. It showed error, since I don't save my comment I decided to type again which you can clearly see is similar. If there's a laceylove is not my ID. I don't do shitty stuff, you hear.
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@anonymous 15:09, my relationship with them is still very good.
DeleteMy uncle didn't loved me less and his wife, we are very cool.
But, that green snake is no longer their friend.
Uncle has since repented.
Who want to lose a good wife for five minutes of pleasure?!
There's Laceylove, Lovelani and Lovelace all different very old IDs.
DeleteAnony 16:49 she complained weeks ago about her Gmail account. Make una dey read comments na. Haba.
If the guilty is my inlaw or relation I will so blow. Don't have a penchant for stupidity.
Anon 16:49, I dey my lane o. We are not the same person biko.
DeleteThanks XP.
DeleteI won't mind my business.. They are not married yet so there's still time to choose right or otherwise depending on my friends decision tho! But I will Sha tell him/her so my conscience go clear
ReplyDeleteIt depends on the friend o
ReplyDeleteI have some kinds of decent friends I will forever feel guilty for if they end up with a promiscuous women. So I must tell them even if It was a few days to the wedding I don't care abeg
In that kind of a situation I am not a whistleblower I am a lifesaver.
Another Set of friends I would look away because these ones aren't innocent so they fit themselves. I won't involve myself and look away I would even think they and their cheating wives are in an open relationship based on their lifestyle.
Very well said Gates👌👌👌
DeleteSame thing I will do. If both husband and wife are both olosho wetin consign me.
DeleteWhen I was in School. There was this girl who is known to be "born again"
ReplyDeleteBut every night, I'd see her around 12 midnight sneak into the apartment adjacent
mine. Now the boy that lived there is a known philanderer.
She was so confident that no one saw her.
A year to my graduation, I accidentally met a guy who worked a big oil conglomerate
and who just gave his life to Christ. Seeing that I was in same school with this girl
he asked ma about her. I said, "oh she's fine."
He persisted with his questions about her "character, faith, trustworthiness and so on"
I then understood what he meant. I had to satisfy my conscience about telling the truth.
You know I always tell the truth. 😊😊
So I called him aside, away from the crowd where he was blowing those questions and
told him what I knew. He asked me to describe the dude and I did. He said, that his suspicion
has been confirmed. That he had met that same dude in her room and she always introduced him
as "her roommate's boyfriend."
My conscience was at rest and at peace.
All the girls that sneak in at midnight, jisie nu ike o. 🤦🏻♀️🤦🏻♀️🤦🏻♀️🤦🏻♀️🤦🏻♀️🤦🏻♀️🤦🏻♀️🤦🏻♀️🤦🏻♀️🤦🏻♀️🤦🏻♀️🤦🏻♀️🤦🏻♀️🤦🏻♀️🤦🏻♀️🤦🏻♀️
You did the right thing. It hurts me when I see good men/women end up with people who don't deserve them
DeleteWell it depends tho! Sometimes you pass out advice to a friend and they take offense,so I tend to mind my business! But for the question above? I will defo spill
ReplyDeleteU r right my friend was dating one guy like that had one kind of attitude like this very touchy person she seemed clearly into the guy but me I had my reservations about the guy but I didn't not say anything so that somebody will not say I am planning my wedding n I don't want another person to marry after much much the thing scatter we were now talking n d guy gist came up I now said I always fought the guy had odd behaviour but I kept out of it cis she was acting in love na so she n another girl wet dey there begin para say I 4 talk den I laughed if I had told her then maybe we for don turn enemy long before then.
DeleteAfter I got married. My husband told me what his dad and uncles found out
ReplyDeleteduring the "inquiry about me." They called names of our neighbors and their lines... 😊😊😊
*"That girl, will she ever marry a man...all she talks about is Jesus, Jesus"
*"She is a good girl o...but ladies who have big behind don't usually stay with one man"
*"We have never seen her with any man in spite of her beauty and intelligence, If not that
she talks about Jesus, I would have called her ogbanje..."
*"Is your son born again, if not, don't bother, she has turned down very rich men, even those
from abroad..."
*"Her mother talks too much, I don't know about her..."
*"She is too serious to be a wife...but she greets people well"
And the one that touched me most. An old woman that lived nearby said;
"I was under the sun trying to catch a bus with my loads. None of the conductors agreed to
carry my baskets of tomatoes. She was driving back from church and stopped and even with her
nice dress, she packed everything inside her boot and seats and drove me home..."
Mark 8:27 Jesus and his disciples went on to the villages around Caesarea Philippi.
On the way he asked them, "Who do people say I am?"
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I once influenced a relationship between my close friend in school and a "brother" who also worked in my school then. I would have swore that this said brother was a virgin and a saint not knowing that he was also dating two other ladies in the same office who happened to be my customer as at that time. My friend didn't know this and was vouching of how spiritual and holy "unku" was. The day I found out that "unku" was dating other ladies apart from my friend ,i told my friend straight up and "unku" started giving me attitude o he even went to the extent of telling my friend to stop associating with me saying i was a bad influence to her. Long story short,"unku" had his way with my friend o, dumped her and also went ahead to marry someone entirely different. My friend is happily married to a good man and also a doctor from my school at the moment. Her hubby worships the ground she walks on.
ReplyDeleteI remember when I managed a 15 room suite..hmmm...I knew what I turned a blind eye to...when the owner told me discretion is important, I knew what he meant n I applied it well 😁 no be for my mouth u go hear say yansh get centre parting. The patrons ..omg...they loved me for it, I had d ones I personally serve cos they dont want to be seen...and when we meet in d neighbourhood, I wont even greet u cos "I dont know u"..😂
ReplyDeleteMe I will not say fem, before someone will be referring to mea one who destroyed her marriage before it even began.
ReplyDeleteIt depends on how close me and the person is. I will tell you the truth. It's left for you to make your decision. If you decide to make me an enemy because of it, that's your problem, not mine. I prefer to have a clean conscience.
ReplyDeleteAs per Bro code I will tell my friend. No time.
ReplyDeleteI'm in a similar situation..
ReplyDeleteMy childhood frnd who got married since 2017( the paid her bride price they are yet to do Traditional marriage & white weeding).According to her she said she doesn't want to give birth untill the guy walk her down the isle.... Thought d guy was doing all menial job before he got a better job where he worked for almost 2years(100k+) and yet he refused to do d necessary even wen dey paid him off he still didn't do it..( despite the fact she wanted it in a small way)
Some months ago I heard from her husband's frnd cause he is a very good friend of mine. he confided in me,He told me my frnds husband been his frnd got his ex pregnant. He begged me not to tell anyone including my frnd.he even sent me d baby's picture on my phone, the baby is a replica of my frnds husband. baby is 2 months and some weeks old now.infact he even regretted y he told me according to him,cause he felt he has betrayed his frnd from that time till now he has been extremely nice to me.( He is a nice person though). I also heard it indirectly again 2 weeks ago from d boys cousin.in her words she said ( your frnd dey sleep wen she go realize her self everything go don spoil by that time.i dey laugh her, time waits for no one,that whatever her brother does dey are in full support). I asked her to make it more clear to me but she refused she,said d remaining one we go see am for eye eh go shock us!
I feel for my frnd knowing the fact that she's been played by d guy. I wanted to to send her a text message 2days ago using a new sim card but,then I remembered how she rubbed this very marriage with d guy on our faces, infact she normally shade I and my home girls all d time then for been single.
Meanwhile all this year's she has been trying so hard to concive she has been drinking all forms of concotion and has been going from church to church (her elder sister told me abt it), but she kept lying with d reason( her traditional marriage & white it's stoping her from not conciving).I really do feel for her,to think we all weren't in support of her relationship with this guy..
I really do not knw how to help her she's just floating on top of water.
Your friend is the one that played the guy first.
DeleteAfter her bride price was paid, she was married to this man (as far as God is concerned)
She refusing to bear kids was betraying her marital covenant.
Tell your friend the truth and ask her to show you a Scripture both Old and New Testaments
where ladies were "walked down the isles" in marriages. There is none!
You are not a friend
DeleteWhat do you mean by she was rubbing her marriage in your face
If you truly like her,scatter everywhere now.Its best she moves on oh .
She was always mocking us since we were single she keeps telling us how unlucky we are just because we are single. If u must know this Is wat I meant.. so tell me how am I not a good frnd?
DeleteU hve ever heard a frnd that keeps shading u Abt something u are yet to achieve? Just because she got hers first?..
Mind u I love my frnd nd I always want the best for her.
She was always mocking us since we were single she keeps telling us how unlucky we are just because we are single. If u must know this Is wat I meant.. so tell me how am I not a good frnd?
DeleteU hve ever heard a frnd that keeps shading u Abt something u are yet to achieve? Just because she got hers first?..
Mind u I love my frnd nd I always want the best for her.
He paid her dowry. He is married to her. She is doing herself. So guy man got tired of waiting and went to harvest a child outside. Hmm. And his family is in support. Tell her o. At least e din reach two people wet din inform u. If he go scatter, make e scatter. E go arrange later. Or send message through new Sim to her.
DeleteThat he paid her dowry isn't marriage abeg. What stops him from legalizing their marriage? Besides, even if they got married, the man would have still gone outside and impregnated another woman.
DeleteI advise you tell your friend. It isn't fair that she's kept in the dark like that. How would u feel if it happened to you?
@19:25
DeleteWhat do you mean by "legalizing marriage?"
If someone takes your daughter or sister to the registry
and they move in as husband and wife without informing you,
will you recognize that as marriage?
Please marriage happens when the girl's dad or a representative
receives the bride price.
Anon 21:51 whether you recognize the marriage or not,its legal. When dowry is paid, its legal. When registery is done, its legal. So she is legally married. Make dem return dowry if marriage no do again
DeleteFrom experience, I won't. I did something of similar magnitude while I was in the university. I have talked about it here before. My supposed friend went back and told her man (who was also my friend) and she was dumb enough to mention my name simply because they eventually settled. I just noticed whenever I was laughing with him he always looked upset. Well, I guess he got tired of hating me and asked why I ratted him out. He said he thought to hurt me with his friends for trying to ruin his relationship but couldn't because I have been good to him so many times in before.Another friend of mine wanted to date "those guys". I told her not to because we all knew he was into incriminating acts. She went ahead and told her man everything I said. Since then I look the other way. If her man is cheating most times she probably already knows.
ReplyDeleteMe, I am team talk. If at the end you both end up together and make me your enemy,fine. But I won't see and don't talk.
ReplyDeleteI'm will talk if I see and with Evidence because I will like to be told if something dey happen around me..
DeleteI bin try to save my sis but till today she no the carry eye see me.
ReplyDeleteIn 2008, back in 400level in uni, i was staying with my aunt and husband. I caught her husband with a babe numerous times on campus. Had to tell my aunt. Na inside sleep around 2am my aunt wake me bounce me from her house say i wan spoil her marriage say all wetin i talk na lie. Had to risk taking a bike to campus gate. Waited for long and got a lift with 3 drunk guys up campus. Squatted with a friend till grad. It was my room mates boyfriend's friend i married.
ReplyDeleteChai, I thank God for your life now
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