He did the worst thing you can ever do to a woman and his reason is so annoying that you will rant inside this post.....WHAT!!!
Why are some Naija men so concerned with age?Age is nothing but a number...Marry a good woman and move on,dem no dey use age cook stew!!!
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His parents said absolutely nothing. He wants out and has made the 'parent' lie
ReplyDeleteExactly. Who told his parents about the age difference???
DeleteLol, na so one young guy dey shele for my case but I no give am face. I nor fit shout. E get why........ Na Naija I dey......
DeleteYou gerrit anon
Deletei agree with you. he used her for selfish reasons and now that he's done, he comes with this lame excuse for breakup.
DeleteI completely agree.
DeleteHe used her she was dumb or desperate to allow it
He is done and wants to keep it moving.
Ladies this is 2020 dont allow men use you uselessly like this. be wise.
whether you slave or not man that will go will go so dont add time wasting to his going the earlier the better
Exactly he wants out he's parents didn't tell him anything and they dont have to know her real age ...4 years isn't too much in my opinion even 5yrs is ok ..
DeleteAnon you're right his parents said no damn thing
DeleteAll my brothers are married to older women and they're happily married , my parents encouraged them that age was nothing their is mutual respect .
This guy is looking for an excuse .
If this story is true, go naked by 12am with two knees on the floor and report him to GOD!
DeleteCry as much as you can! Pour out your soul to GOD, Ask for mercy/forgiveness/blessings that will shock you.
Go to bed, wake up and NEVER drop a tear over him again. It may take a while, but you will heal completely in a way that your body cells can't recall what it was like dating him. Those number of years you spent with him are mere seconds in the eyes of God!
Commit wholeheartedly to your self growth and development! Someone better will step in with time!
Revisit his case in 10yrs time to see how far!
That's when you'll know that God doesn't joke with his children especially if your heart was pure towards the person!
All the best!
Anambra men slang “ MMA Anyi shi “. Nne move on better things r in front of u. Don’t even lose sleep over him Biko
DeleteMost of us will be typing AMEN without knowing the genesis of their problems in marriage. If she lay curses on him now and he marries and 💣 boom it starts manifesting...
DeleteHe's still immature in age. That's all i see here.
ReplyDeleteMeaning you were 26, 3years ago while he was what...still in dippers? Come on Girl, you wasted a wonderful age dating a child . Men at 21 are babies. How did you even find him attractive at an age when you are supposed to be raking in all the attention from men in their early 30s? So at 26 you were already footing a man/boy's bills? What will you do when you are 36 and single? And he saw through you that you were dragging him to the alter at 25,. He had the decency of breaking up with you. Others will just ghost you.
Deleteragging him to the *altar*... 'alter'...
DeleteThis post is a made up WhatsApp chat.
It's not that such things don't happen but the ages posted up there is a dead giveaway.
How many 25 year old graduates in Nigeria will be talking about marriage with the raging economic situation?🙄😏
To all ladies, whenever in doubt, believe it. Your womanly instincts are very real. Annoying thing is u wil even blame yourself when shit hits the fan.
ReplyDeleteI have been chatting, video calling and in a kinda relationship wit a guy staying in the east, I stay in Abuja. He asked me to come visit, which my mind is not so comfortable with. So I prayed that,if my going wil not favour me, may he not call for two days. This was a man that calls almost every hour,but guess what, he didn't call for two days citing he was busy. Need I say more. All man go answer their papa name last last.
Putting out a fleece like Gideon doesnt always work ooo. Be mindful of how you put out a fleece before you'll lose out on something great
Delete11:09 a man you don't know from Adam is inviting you for a visit?!😳😱
DeleteThat's how one girl lost her life to a guy she met on SM,dated and hoped to marry against her only brother's advice. The guy who was living off her, killed her in her apartment and locked her body up after an argument over his transport fare back to his Abuja base. Her neighbours heard the argument but didn't know the guy hit her fatally.
He was later apprehended and confessed. The guy was only interested in her because of her business and apartment which ironically were set up for her by her aunt that lives abroad.
LADIES BEWARE OF DATING TOTAL STRANGERS!!!
Unbelievable 😳😳. I thought age is just a number. When she was helping him, he didn't remember she is older.
ReplyDeleteI don't understand
DeletePeople are ungrateful
Users
Gold digging
Have no self respect
Mean and cold
The above description is for a lot of creatures today in the world masquerading as human beings
Women YOU CANNOT BUY LOVE
ONLY BROKEN DAMAGED MEN LIVE OFF A WOMAN COMFORTABLY
No.one with a working conscience, self respect and exposure will yarn the dust said up there
Follow GOD oooooo
Fear Him
You won't see that one called danburuba Dante on a post like this. If its to degrade women he won't waste time in answering present. But see a guy living off a woman now,mr Danburuba has gone into hiding.
DeleteAge is "not" nothing but a number!! The day many Nigerian women will come to terms with this, that day, many will set themselves free from falling victims to men like the guy in this narrative.
ReplyDeleteI don't believe in dating a youngie, majority of them have no mind of their own and they talk like kids still.
That girl should count her loss, pick up herself and move on and keep living the good life.
She can't force that guy to marry her. She will never be happy in that marriage.
some youngies are mature that is the difference.all ladies should try to date guys that have emotional etc maturity
DeleteI totally agree with you on this, you will always feel something odd especially if the guy is much younger. Women learn to listen to your instincts.
DeleteI keep telling people do not put up with anyone hoping for a better future when they make it but when you say it people will come for your head. Personally I don't blame Collins at all I mean he's not interested period look at her saying she fed and housed him and whatnots Chile who sent you? So you want Collins to marry you and be unhappy? Who sent you? Talking about his parents praising you when you were doing alladat! nobody asked you to period!
ReplyDeleteScamal!
ReplyDeleteOgbeni, stop lying on your innocent parents and say the truth with your chest! There's someone else. Na wa!
They always find all kinds of lies to tell. They are never man enough to own up to their shit.
DeleteUsers, cowards
DeleteMadam Girlfriend, stop toturing yourself. Just block him and move on abeg, what's with all the drama? He doesn't want you, he doesn't want you, forget all this talk.
ReplyDeleteBlock him, heal and move on (if this is real sef).
You guys say move on like it's that easy so you just wake up and move on abi?
DeleteHe still wants to take advantage of her but remove marriage from the table. This type you block completely. Block am from ya brain sef.
Delete11:42 I understand it's not easy but my dear it's better than deceiving ones self that anything good would come out of a dead relationship, and we all know a dead relationship when we see one if we're being honest with ourselves.
Delete11:42 it is ACTUALLY EASY to move on. Nobody is tied to your umbilical cord.
DeleteThe FACTS are STARING you in the face, IT WON'T WORK! Keep walking. No Loitering. No Stopping. 🚶♀️🙅♀️⛔❎
Some people just wallow in their emotions over unreliable human species.
Women, let's learn to LOVE WITH OUR HEADS NOT OUR HEARTS. 👋
Its a pity,I don't know what to say because they both hare to blame .
ReplyDeleteThis one na mumu na...
ReplyDeleteAfter using her to sort himself through school. He suddenly remembered age limit...
ReplyDeleteHis lost...
His own reward dey wait for am in front
DeleteHe wants out, doesn't know how to say so and is only using his parents as an excuse.
ReplyDeleteThis is why I have no business dating men my mate, younger than me or a few years older... They're usually not long sighted enough.
Nawa o. Housing,feeding and assisting in educating a boyfriend. Very wicked fellow dat didnt talk abt age wen she was doing all dat for him.
ReplyDeletePersonally i cld never date a guy i am older than. A guy 1yr younger dan me was once asking me out once,it just didnt feel right for me.
He's just plain wicked and a fraud. four years isn't that much if you ask me. I even prefer women same age as mine or wouldn't even mind if they are a little older provided the love and maturity is there.
ReplyDeleteGreedy wicked parents that led the poor girl on. They must have assured him that they were solidly behind him while they clearly had their plans mapped out. He on the other hand cannot stand his ground if what they had was truly beautiful. He is not different from his parents, leeches!.
ReplyDeleteThe lady too betrayed her instincts. She knew this moment would come but decided to give it a try? She should have known better, such stories don't end well
She was considering her investment, but alas she still lost.
DeleteStella it goes both ways.
ReplyDeleteLadies do it more, just that men don't speak up.
Do you know how many ladies that dump guys after training them?
The Collins in question is evil.
Ladies and gentlemen,
Before entering any relationship, bear two things in mind, break up and continuity (marriage). Any of the two that happen, accept it with good fate.
Please when in relationship, give what you can let go after break up. Do not give sex, money or gift to please your partner. Give because you want to give.
When someone say it is over, please lick your wound and move on. Do not blackmail them emotionally to marry you, because you will see hell in that marriage.
Ladies "I want to date you" is not "I want to marry you"... Please learn to let go when it's time.
Men do not promise a lady marriage when you know you won't marry them... If she swear for you, Mr. You are gone.
Good one! 👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽
DeleteGood one Chike.
DeleteChike TEFLON nwoke ma ife. You said it as it is. 👌👍
DeleteNicely put fam
DeleteHmmmmmm, thus is sad, just move on dakun
ReplyDeleteWhat are you doing with a 25 year old baby ? 💁...please move on ,God will reward you with a better man ,this kind of men e no go ready for 10 years...
ReplyDeleteI quite empathize with this lady. But Surprisingly I don't feel any anger reading this. I don't know why a lady should live with a man that hasn't married her. Which of these silly desperate men will reject free sex, free accommodation, free food, free "wife" with wifely duties, which man.
ReplyDeleteWe ladies have our honor, dignity and delicate heart to protect in making decisions about who we marry and how to comport ourselves. That overfed toddler just had a free "wife" for about four years.
I concur 💯%!!!
DeleteGbam! If you as a lady decides to give a man sex, don't come and complain that he did not marry you.
DeleteHe as well did not rape you.
This is exactly my story, he came with marriage proposal,I thought it was love, I asked him repeatedly if he was ok with the age difference he said yes, little did I know I was being scammed. He is in the UK presently, I didn't know he was using me to get to his next destination,I won't blame anybody but myself because he didn't force me to do all the things I did for him. I picked up myself, cried, dried my tears and moved on. I am living the good life and hoping for the best. I pay my bills, I make myself happy. My happiness isn't dependent on a man. If the right one comes fine, if not we move. Everybody go dey ok las las
ReplyDeleteYou will get the best by God's grace. I am so glad you have moved on and doing well. 👍🏽
DeleteNice to see that you take every blame for what happened. If ladies here will learn from you
Deletenot to expect marriage whenever they are spending on and living with a man. Going to live with him
is a bad moral choice to make. Fornication does not turn out pleasant. But one thing I don't believe
in your comment is that your happiness does not depend on a man. A woman wants to happily get married and have
children, that is the way God created us.
@12:24, she is right in her last sentence. It is fine to desire marriage as it is an honorable thing, but your happiness shouldn't depend on any man, including your husband. That's how women place unrealistic expectations on their partners, to be their source of happiness. No man has that ability, only God does. Discover your purpose, goals, dreams and hobbies. Be a full rounded self-loving individual before you enter a relationship or marriage. Wanting to be happily married isn't synonymous to happiness depending on someone. Pls don't idolize marriage.
DeleteThat still doesn't justify saying my happiness depends on a man. I will choose to be happy regardless of whether there is a man or not. My happiness should be on God and nothing else because he is the giver of all good things, happy family life included. Gaskia
DeleteThumbs up @NiB
DeleteAs they say, if you were not happy before the lotto, you'd not be happy after the lotto.. it's money, not happiness. If you were not happy before the marriage, you'd not be happy after marriage.. it's marriage, not happiness. As my father says, marriage aburo so suga suga (marriage is not only sugar sugar). So in this pursuit of happiness, find ya niche..
DeleteJust stories.oga wants out period
ReplyDelete95% of ladies commenting here wont allow their brother to marry a lady who is older than their brother but they will come here to pretend like age is nothing,just like naija feminists they are feminists on Twitter but will cry for one Alhaji or one chief for their house rent
ReplyDeleteAllow when I am not his mother nor is he a baby. Well, maybe it should be blamed on the way people were brought up. You can’t tell an adult what to do. You only advise and it should be when solicited. Anybody can cry to anybody for house rent. Check the meaning of feminism. It doesn’t mean super human.
DeleteI tire o.
DeleteAll of you shouting "age is just a number" wouldn't support your brothers marrying a lady older than him
Mine has, and I see nothing wrong with it as they are very happy together. Una sabi quote inaccurate statistics. Stop with the fake statistics.
DeleteThen I'm among the 5% who see absolutely nothing wrong with it and I am fully Nigerian. I don't stress about age at all. When Stella posts celebs birthdays and BVs stay arguing about their ages, I laugh and pass. I really don't care for anyone's true age, whatever they say their age is, I accept. I can date 2 yrs younger but to be wise, I'm careful with younger Nigerian men cos I know people reason according to their culture and it ain't their fault. However I am an advocate of celibacy. Keep your body to yourself don't give pearls to swine, they will desecrate it.
DeleteWho told you? Speak for yourself and your unexposed group.
DeleteA good heart is what truly matters.
By the way, why should I choose a wife for my brother?
The real reason he left her is not really the age issue, but for the fact that she will always drum roll it every chance she gets of how she fed him, catered to him, paid his school fees radarara....
ReplyDeleteNo one really wants to constantly be remind of their pathetic past n how they were your pity project least of all an egotistical Nigerian man. Ko le work.
In her next relationship she should date someone in her level for mutual benefit and interests
From your analysis it is safe to say he's an ingrate! You will only be reminded if you act wickedly
DeleteHe gave her a reason to remind him.
DeleteThe real reason he left her is not really the age issue, but for the fact that she will always drum roll it every chance she gets of how she fed him, catered to him, paid his school fees radarara....
ReplyDeleteNo one really wants to constantly be remind of their pathetic past n how they were your pity project least of all an egotistical Nigerian man. Ko le work.
In her next relationship she should date someone in her level for mutual benefit and interests
He lied
ReplyDeleteOlder single ladies, please be smarter. Many men who claim age is not a number usually use the same age against you when they meet someone else.
ReplyDeleteA friend who once called his older girlfriend the best thing that happened to him changed his mouth barely a year later. All of a sudden, the same lady was now someone who "will have issues giving birth". All because he met a younger lady he wanted to move on with. Thank God for God, older lady is a married mother now. He is still where he was.
Just don't begin a relationship with any man who hasn't gotten his shit together. Older men have been messing up how much more men younger than you.
Also, it's better the man is in his 30s if you must date someone younger. Some women have been fortunate to have married good younger men.
And he has the guts to say he is different??? As in he is mental!!
ReplyDeleteMade-up WhatsApp chats.
ReplyDelete25 and 29.😏
Age difference is a big factor when the woman is the older partner but not in the post here.
The guy is too young and newly employed. The chats were concocted to make a point.
This man is evil. His parents said nothing, after using the girl he wants to use the parents as an excuse.
ReplyDeleteGosh! The girl really tried for him. After so many years he turned her down like this. Ladies when you want to help do it for God sake and don't attach any feelings to it to avoid disappointments like this.
well, i value myself too much to put myself in this kind of situation...in fact to kiss me self, you have to be worthy of it because i am very precious....please oo, i only open window small for you to be peeing to avoid stories that touch the heart. I detest weakness in girls (emotional, financial, etc etc)
ReplyDeleteMight be very painful now but the lady dodged a bullet,this guy would never stand up for her in the marriage if they get married!
ReplyDeleteYou just get over the sadness quickly,live your day to day in pleasantness,your own man will come,shebi we all reap what we sow?
Ghen ghen ghen ghen...
ReplyDelete