FRIDAY IN HOUSE NEWS

 

Hailings........

IN HOUSE MEMO.....

All giveaway i planned is postponed until i come out of under the weather....This Uncle Rona eh.....I had this headache and small fever and kept checking Rona symptoms.......Any small thing one has to check very well...

Thing is,i caught cold but did not do anything to recover,like stay warm and in bed...was too busy to relax but now ain't got no choice but to relax....

Have a nice weekend and don't forget to be your brothers keeper....

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TEEJAYS CORNER

RELATIONSHIP THROUGH FRIENDSHIP.

When it comes to love and relationships,I would say, it's different strokes for different folks. This implies that, different things appeal to different people. What works for one might not work for another and what didn't click with one may be the perfect hookup for another. 

One grave mistake some people, if not most, often make is placing the cart before the horse. I will explain this as I proceed further.

A couple of months ago, I met someone on this platform, and even though we haven't met, we communicate frequently both on calls and video calls. If there's one thing I've come to like about her, I will say, it's the depth of her maturity and reasoning in holding good conversations. I've equally learnt a thing or two as well from our friendship.


In the course of our discussion one day, I brought up the issue of a relationship. Calmly she told me how she loves, and values our friendship at this time. So I asked, "What is it about relationships that you are afraid of?" Her response was "I've been in relationships that didn't work out and I want my next to be my last;So I am taking my time. If I go into a relationship with you and something happens, we might go our separate ways thereby ruining our friendship. I cherish our friendship and I don't want to lose it. Let's be friends at the moment."

In that comment of hers above, I saw a woman with a sincerity of heart and purpose. Now read this- Love is being built over time. A relationship often times comes through healthy friendship. Putting the cart before the horse is to say, delving into a relationship without first building true and lasting friendship.

 Am I enjoying every bit of our friendship? Oh Yes I am,and trust me I never want to lose it, not for anything even if it does not lead to the altar. I love the serenity, the free spiritedness and the encouragement shared among us.

Relationship should be a step further through friendship. I feel it's wrong when people hurriedly say 'I love you' to someone they barely know or someone they just met for some few weeks. Before professing love to someone, the question should be, have I seen their weaknesses? their emotional triggers? Is it okay and can I handle it? Love is a perfect conviction from the heart and the readiness that despite one's short comings and flaws, you are still willing to see beyond their imperfections and stick to them provided it's not life threatening.

*Ah ah Teejay and whoever this is congratulations in advance ooooh...I am a little jealous eeeeeeh.LOL

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FROM SP COMMENT SECTION

PLEASE bvs in the UK, your advice is really needed. A family member was stopped by the police on his way from work and when they found he had no papers. He was arrested and later released after 24 hours. His case was charged to court and he was told to leave the UK before the expiration of 7 days. 

His wife and kids have residence permit but he's yet to get his. Please what can he do not to be deported and separated from his family. His lawyer advised him to seek for asylum but that may not work. Please help with any tangible advice 

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Let him return home before he is deported..I think he can re-strategize from Naija....How come his family has papers and he doesnt?Is he not their real father?or is their wedding not properly documented in the UK because of the money she is getting to maintain herself and the kids?

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