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Hello Stella..... thanks a lot I got all the advice on the post, and this is an update on the issue.
After the last post on this issue I was still pondering on what to do when one morning I received a message on my whatsapp it wasn’t a number I saved so I checked the profile pics and saw it was a young lady I met when I went to that woman who helped me find a solution to my problems, I greeted her and she begged me that she stole my contact from the woman’s phone that she wants to tell me something if i can keep it a secret , she sent a voice note explaining that she overheard me on the phone speaking with the woman about the guy ...
After the last post on this issue I was still pondering on what to do when one morning I received a message on my whatsapp it wasn’t a number I saved so I checked the profile pics and saw it was a young lady I met when I went to that woman who helped me find a solution to my problems, I greeted her and she begged me that she stole my contact from the woman’s phone that she wants to tell me something if i can keep it a secret , she sent a voice note explaining that she overheard me on the phone speaking with the woman about the guy ...
She said she knows the guy well that he’s not a good person, she said he can do anything for money, and that he’s a very promiscuous person , that he was pursued from the church he was serving as a pastor before due to his sexual escapades with the females in the church both married and single and that he’s just pretending he actually behaves like an animal, she mentioned the word animal. She begged me not to let the woman knows that she’s only doing this because of how generous I was to everyone when I came to their place and that I gave her money when I was leaving so she knows I’m a nice person, I really thanked her but she said if I refused to listen to her I should save the message because in future I will remember that a young lady warned me.
Since then I’ve been really sober, and I knew I had to end things before I enter new month November, we had planned that I will come home in December so that we can meet, I summoned up courage to break things up with him last night but to my utmost surprise he said he doesn’t care if I’m no longer interested in the relationship, I was shocked, and he immediately removed my picture from his profile on whatsapp cause he’s been using my picture for sometime now.
Since then I’ve been really sober, and I knew I had to end things before I enter new month November, we had planned that I will come home in December so that we can meet, I summoned up courage to break things up with him last night but to my utmost surprise he said he doesn’t care if I’m no longer interested in the relationship, I was shocked, and he immediately removed my picture from his profile on whatsapp cause he’s been using my picture for sometime now.
This morning when I woke up he messaged me and was begging that he’s sorry and changed his dp to my picture again , I only ignored the messages and deleted his numbers, the woman number and the lady who contacted me I deleted all of their contacts, even I noticed since last week the woman has stopped responding to my messages On whatsapp she only read and doesn’t respond I was surprised cause we had no issue and I even sent her money last week when she said her children has not eaten.
Right now I’m so heartbroken not mainly because of the guy or the woman but because of my life entirely I’m tired.I feel so sad and I’m not happy.
Right now I’m so heartbroken not mainly because of the guy or the woman but because of my life entirely I’m tired.I feel so sad and I’m not happy.
I wish there’s something someone can do and not have feelings for humans again because everyone I come across in my life both MALE AND FEMALE always take advantage of my kindness and it’s tiring.
Hopefully I will get over this before the year is over and start life afresh next year, I have canceled my coming home for now. Thank you and happy new month in advance.
*Awwwww.my dear,you will fine OK?And know that when the time is right,men will line up behind you asking for your hand in Marriage....
There are still a lot of honest men.....
As for the prayer,she is fake and is done with obtaining you.....She already prolly moved on to another mugu....I hope that you blocked them everywhere possible...don't listen to any stories.....God give you strength
Block them everywhere!
ReplyDeleteGod will bring the right people into your life.
You did the right by blocking the both of them.I wish you the best
DeleteThis woman, we asked you to block them, you refused . Which one is deleting contacts again ? Shebi the man is still seeing space to send you messages?. You are still sending money to the woman?. Enabling fraudsters. You get coconut head sha. Block them all, including the whistleblower, yes, including the whistleblower cos whistleblowing sef na format.
DeleteYou no dey hear word. Continue ooo.
Original coconut head.Hian!!!
DeletePlease move on with your life , do not ever settle for less, please thats the worse mistake you'd make.
DeleteI pray that you'd stick to this route you've taken , there are good people out there both male and female, pray about it , see you can know God for yourself and he would communicate with you .
Please do not give up true love would find you but always be on the look out so you don't make such mistake again.
All the best.
@anon, right she is enabling their bad behavior. There is kindness, and there is wisdom. Be kind to all, but trust A FEW. That is why we give to the poor and homeless, yet lock our doors at night. Foolishness is leaving your doors open at night in the name of kindness. Her sending money to the woman even after everything is like manipulative tithing (let me do this good, in hope that husband will come my way or in hope that life will be kind to me). Be kind, but be wise. Everyone can get your kindness but not everyone should have your trust. These are 2 different things.
DeleteYes. Can you imagine? Still sending money to the woman as at last week because her kids haven't eaten?
DeleteHow does that concern you? You should have asked her if you are running an NGO.
You see all these people that belive in going to find solution,...fear them. They are are gullible, feeble and very cheap spiritually. They don't believe in God's direct love for them. They believe God loves some other person and they have to pass through this person, perform certain rituals b4 God answers simple prayer from them.
DeleteWhat is with ladies and desperation for marriage sef such that they put themselves in harms way with strange occultic people, just to get married?
Now see the messy chronicle!
Block them everywhere but one small trial tomorrow now, she will seek out another problem solver.
Hi poster, you see that WhatsApp phone number he uses to chat with you, he bought it specifically for you.
DeleteThat's why your picture has been on his do.
Block all of them. Run to Jeses because they about to go spiritual on you.
Inside life. Sorry poster, love will find u 🦋
DeleteYou be real MuMu! You deleted instead of blocking them. You are enabling them to scam you further. Go and listen to Myles Munroe on Be single. Your eyes will definitely open.
DeleteMarriage is not by force! Listen, not everyone is meant to marry. You can have a baby on your own, after all, many women are doing it today. You can still adopt. Why do you seriously want to be with man? Get pregnant, and train your baby, you will find joy with him/her.
Make una dey use una brain. How person wan run you format for this Country, and you dey feel "empathy" for them.
Babe
DeleteBLOCK THEM o o o
Please start covenant time. Seek God on your own. Build a relationship with him and allow holy spirit to direct you on how to navigate your life.
DeleteConnect with your spiritual so you will understand what the problem truly is and face it squarely
BLOCK AND DELETING ARE NOT THE SAME.
DeleteAm really happy for you miss but please not all men all scum and scammer ,there are alot of honest men like us who are still very much single and searching ready for a life time union with a woman with a heart of gold
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DeletePoster avoid this leech oo, this is their MO.
DeleteScam
DeleteE hug sis🤗🤗🤗 your own LL surly get to you in no time, occupy your mind with things that makes you happy...a happy face attracts blessings
ReplyDelete🤗🤗
ReplyDeleteJust pray and continue to believe that God will sent the right man to u. That man wasn't the right person for u.
ReplyDeleteHmmmmnnn.....
ReplyDeletePoster, I want you to know that your miracle is near. Satan brings distractions, sadness & false goodness when he sees that our God given gift is almost at our doorstep. Thank God you weren't a victim of the set-up.
ReplyDeleteIt is well with you dear poster 🤗
ReplyDeleteThank God it was a clean break up.
ReplyDeleteRelax and stop fretting, your God ordained hubby will come.
Don't give in to desperation.
Can't even believe you still waited for someone else to tell you the guy ain't good news after everything BVs told you from your initial post. His red flags are bleeding red. Time to let go and move on.
ReplyDeleteE-hugs dear, I know it can be hard but you need a mindset change. Being single is not a crime, not a curse, and not a spiritual problem. Forget what society told you. Live deliberately. Put God first in your life. Let your 'kindness' be free and not with expectations. Don't be kind to a man in hopes of marriage.. it doesn't work that way. Human beings are flawed, but we still find our circles. Infact you need strong female friends around you, before you need a man.
I read your old post and i read where you wrote that the reason you were attracted to the guy at first was that he said any man that collects money from a woman is stupid and he asking for money. Pay attention to people's behaviour not words. That's as how one goal digger i met told me he can never collect from a woman because his mother will hate him for it. I was surprised when two days later he started asking me for money. I wondered if his mother has suddenly died that he no longer feels the need to care about her opinion anymore. He asked about salary, parent occupation, and the prices of things i wore. I did not waste time i ran from him after one week i did not drop a pin. I did not ask you out you asked me out so what is your stress.
ReplyDeleteNext time don't do a thing for others if they havent done a thing for you. And even if someone does something for you don't be too eager to reciprocate. Sometimes people drop peanut as a bait to get bigger things from you.
Beautiful decision!
ReplyDeleteGod bless the 'whistle blower' too, at least it really helped you to know that you were being played.
Don't worry, He makes everything beautiful at His time.
You did the right thing, that man isn't for you
ReplyDeleteThey are scams. Pls stop visiting juju people. Go to a spirit filled church and pray to God for solutionto your problem. There is no problem God cannot solve when you pray to him and align your life with his laws, regulations and principles.
ReplyDeleteDon't worry everything will fall into place for you.that is exactly how my elder sister is feeling right now and I get worried for her too but I pray God in his infinite mercy will put smiles on your faces.Amen
ReplyDeleteI had to go and read the story from the last one in September 20th. It is so sad that when people have problems, they leave God and go to some other beings to solve it for them. Whether it is "traditional, pastors or woman or man," as long as it is not faith in God who created all of us, it is a huge scam and bondage. The fact that it works does not make it right. Your main concern dear, right now is the mistakes made and the possible complications that visiting that "traditional place" has brought into your life. It is time to seek God. Download a bible app and study it daily and make sure that you read it daily and have times when you fast and pray. Developing a relationship with God is so important because it will also prevent more blunders in your life. Cheers.
ReplyDeleteI'm happy u weren't scammed, most of dis spiritual healers are scammers they use ur problem to get to u, gold diggers everywhere. Don't be surprised dos men ridding exotic cars are into dis scamming tins as well as u will be de one buying fuel into the car pending wen u will be wise enough to reject and dey even have dis entitled mentality. Ladies wise up .
ReplyDeleteAh...so u were still in contact with them till recently? U sef.
ReplyDeletePoster you will be fine, don't drown yourself in worry, just focus on the good things in your life, remember prayer works too, hold on to God. He never fails
ReplyDeleteLife is just so funny
ReplyDeleteI am here looking to get married and I haven't been fortunate enough.
And here is someone who is looking for a relationship like me.
Where do people like this are,and we keep meeting the wrong ones.
I wish I can connect with this lady
It is well
I swear the irony of this life can be soooo annoying. You see people that want love won't find love easily, people who want to treasure kids won't have kids easily. I wonder why this life has to be soooo complicated.
DeleteI would have loved to connect with this poster but i can't deal with diabolical rubbish. Please learn to pray yourself and connect with God and STOP LOOKING FOR MIRACLE CENTERS.
Mumu low self esteem woman. You’ll continue to get robbed if you don’t take charge of your life and people will continue to take advantage of you. You give people money in exchange for love you’re craving and emptiness you have. Seek Christ because he’ll fill that void in you and work on yourself man. You need to love yourself first! If not, this will continue to be a vicious cycle. You think you’re tired now? Wait and see now if you don’t change. You’ll end up totally drained!
ReplyDelete"You give people money in exchange for love you’re craving and emptiness you have"
DeleteGbam!
But Poster don't worry we all guilty but life has taught us. You don't need to give any man shishi to love you.
You are stupid. Shame on you...is this how Christ would have preached? Claiming Christians and wanting to draw people to Christ but you don’t do it in love...why call her mumu? And you expect her to listen to you? Learn to correct in love and be polite. Mannerless person,
DeleteYou will be fine poster,block them allband move on God has better plans for you,sometimes fear and desperation makes us seem for solutions in the wrong places,when u least expect God will suprise you and grant all ur heart’s desire.amen 🙏don’t give up.
ReplyDeleteMove on dear. U'll be fine.
ReplyDeleteHonestly I'm shocked that after all the advice you were given you were still sending money to that fake woman and you even continued with the man!!!
ReplyDeleteNne go and invest your money now, you see every woman has her set time to marry. Stop looking for men, allow men to find you. Get busy. Improve on your self. Get a degree, masters, PhD!!
Invest!!! Draw close to your God, shun sin, close your legs if you have been opening them. Leave prayer houses alone!! Know the Lord for yourself and watch your life change.
Trust God to bring a kind, godly man your way. You will be fine dmy dear, don't despair ok?
🤗🤗🤗🤗Its well with you poster. This is NOT how your story ends.
ReplyDeleteWhat did I just read? What you are exhibiting is not kindness biko! I can't believe despite all the good advice you got when you wrote your first chronicle you still went ahead to be communicating with them. Are you that desperate for marriage or companionship? Sorry sis, truth is, at this rate, you will keep on attracting monsters! I did not comment on your last chronicle because I felt you had enough good advice already. Well, at this junction, it's obvious there is nothing anyone can say to you. You don't need advice. So I will say, just do you sis! I only hope you realize your folly on time because experience is the best teacher no mean say it must happen to you. You have garnered enough experience yet learnt nothing! It is well o sista. Why bother to write a chronicle when you won't take advice though 🤔🤔🤔. Na wa o
ReplyDeleteAs in,I'm so dissapointed in her,that is why giving advice to some desperate women is just a waste of time.
DeleteCan't believe she was still with them ever since she wrote that chronicle.
She is just a complete coconut head
Most people who have horrible social capital have a way of blaming others for their woes.
ReplyDeleteIt's only when you relate with them one on one you'd get why EVERYONE is against them. And by the way, their lives are always full of drama and tales of how other people treated them badly. If you listen to their side of the story alone, you'd be sold on it.
Life goes on my dear, your man will come at the right time.
ReplyDeleteYou are a mugu, that's all I can say, if after the advises u got the last time u still kept in touch with them and even sent money, u be fool..
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