STAND ALONE NARRATIVE
MYSTERIOUS PREGNANCY
Good day Stella
Please I want you and our follower readers, wives and mothers to advice me, I'm confused and I'm going crazy pls help me.
I did IVF in August and I came out positive on the 4th of September I had all my pregnancy symptoms but suddenly 3 days ago my symptoms disappeared and today I decided to go for both ultrasound and Transvaginal scan and also blood test. I went to the 1st clinic they told me both blood test and scan where negative and I went to the another hospital and the blood test came out positive and scan wasn't clear. The doctor wasn't sure if he was seeing any thing or not..so I was asked to come back in 2 weeks time for us to run another test and try another scan, but I'm so scared and confused. Please has anybody experienced this before?
Will my babies be seen, AM I ok? Will my symptoms come back, I can't sleep, I'm going crazy, somebody pls talk to me.pray for me for my babies to be seen please. Thank you pls hide my identity. Thank you so much and God bless you.
*Hmmmmm is this the Cryptic pregnancy they talk about?The hospital or scan centre that tested you positive,go back there and do it again...You were told the babies are more than one?
Please be careful so that you don't fall into the hand of 419 Doctors...
God please take control. I just pray its not 419 doctors at work. All is well
ReplyDeleteThis is seriously serious
DeleteHello, this happened to my cousin. She did several tests in the UK that were positive and had pregnancy hormones but it turned out to be ectopic pregnancy. You need to get another scan done ASAP because ectopic pregnancy can be very dangerous. Hers was also IVF. It’s not a case of 419 doctors , it was just where the egg had implanted itself. Good luck
DeleteI suspect ectopic pregnancy. You CANNOT wait for 2 weeks. You might loose your life in the process. Please go to a proper hospital thats got all equipments. You need a scan done immediately. This is not a joke. I am talking from experience. Had mine in 2018 and your symptom was my exact symptom. God will do yours. Better to be alive than dead.
DeleteAh! I pray it's not ectopic o. It's most likely. This happened to me and I almost ran mad. Not a funny situation at all. But you will be fine. Just make sure if it turns out to be ectopic as I am sure it is, don't wast time in commencing medical evacuation. Usually they use Methotrexate injections(very painful injections). I had to get the injections 3x b4 it resolved so to preserve my precious tubes.
DeleteIf you don't, the baby will grow and rupture the tube. You can very easily bleed to death internally.
It's not an easy decision but you must get rid of it fast b4 it ruptures. I am doo sorry dear.
I have been in your exact shoes.
I also suspect it's ectopic.
DeleteIf it is, I am really sorry, dear. I was pregnant in April too. It was meant to be my first at 38. My first OBGYN appointment was scheduled for the 3rd week in June. By second week, I started feeling pains. I couldn't sleep and started taking pain killers. After 2 days, the pain was so much that I drove to the emergency alone. Regular scan didn't show my baby but they had to insert in my VJ to see that the baby was stuck in my tube. I had to have an emergency surgery because it ruptured already. My baby needed to be taken out ASAP. I lost one of my tubes in the process because it was damaged. I pray your case is much better than mine and wish you the best.
Calm down. Stop thinking about it. Wait till its 4 months then go for another scan. Keep praying with Psalms and don't allow fear into you
ReplyDeletePregnancy symptoms tend to disappear around this stage.
DeletePlease take a deep breath and rest your head, it might just be your placenta has taken over... I lost all my pregnancy symptoms at 11wks 5days, and I'm currently 22weeks, so it's not abnormal to loose all symptoms.
Just to add that some women don't even have symptoms at all...
DeleteLet her be sure now biko, the symptoms is like ectopic pregnancy and she needs to act now.
DeleteGo to a general hospital or if you have money a top rated private hospital in your state. Also, try two more hospitals outside the ones you used. If you’re in Lagos try LASUTH. There you’ll get the truth. God be with you.
ReplyDeleteMadam it is too early, it will take about 20 weeks for ultrasound to see it clearly. And I don't know why you are calling them "babies."
ReplyDeleteNa wa o...an ultrasound can see a 6/7 weeks viable embryo with a heartbeat sef.
DeleteNot true anonymous.
DeleteSaw my twins at 7 weeks through Ultrasound, I didn't even know I was pregnant. Was very busy and carried away with other things till I spotted blood that night, thought it was normal period, called my Doctor that same night when I noticed that the blood was abnormal, he insisted on scan that night and everything came out clear. It's well with you, you will surely testify.
DeleteMe I don't understand all these people saying wait till four months. Ma, this problem is a very simply and cheap one. Get a pregnancy test strip, its between 50 to 100naira. Pee on it first thing in the morning. If it reads two lines, then you are pregnant. Observe how intense the lines are especially the second one. Repeat one week later. If the second line is fainter than the previous week. Then something is wrong. If it's much deeper, then your pregnancy is progressing.
DeleteThis does not rule out that scan you need to still do at the hospital. And pls note when doing the test, don't be discouraged if you don't see the second line, just leave the strip somewhere and check again later. I pray its not ectopic pregnancy. Just keep praying the Lord is your strength.
@ Anno 15*
DeleteOh please stop it there, the poster is being positive minded
Madam calm down , everything will be ok. Wait for the 2 weeks and you will see your babies heart beat via ultra sound in Jesus mighty name . Amen . Please I will be their God mother oh . 🤗
ReplyDeleteDuring IVF, your hormones are all over the place due to the hormonal treatment. Its normal go get positive results during period of treatment. So please wait couple of weeks for things to settle before taking another pregnancy test. Wishing you all the best
ReplyDeleteIf it is IVF, then it will eventually show. This is the devil playing mind tricks with you.
ReplyDeleteIf it is cryptic, please remove your mind ooo. No babies there. You will testify. Amen
Go back to original hospital and scan again, then check in another trusted hospital, in all keep on praying. You will carry your babies inn Jesus name.
ReplyDeleteStop worrying and tell God about it. All will be well and you will come here to share your joy with us in Jesus' name. Amen
ReplyDeleteThis is not cryptic pregnancy. You have probably lost the pregnancy.sorry
ReplyDeleteYou know this just by reading her Chronicle @15:19❓
DeletePlease, don't be a killjoy.
Poster, please don't allow fear and worry to weigh you down. Trust in Jesus Christ, confess in faith that your pregnancy is growing to term and you are a joyful mother of many children. 🙏🙏🙏
Go back for that hospital test and come back VICTORIUS! 💞🤗🤰
Please and please you need to calm down, agitation is not good for pregnancy it could lead to hbp, please calm down, I would advise you go to a teaching hospital.
ReplyDeleteGod please🙏 keep her babies safe for her.
ReplyDeleteMadam please don't be anxious ok. Just believe in God and ha e faith that all is well,and it will definitely be well.🤗🤗🤗
Am not a doctor but maybe your hcg is too low, maybe the day u went to the first hospital it was too low dectect pregnancy but the day u went for the second one it increased a bit for it to read positive. I had miscarriage last year, the first time I took the test it came back positive with very dark lines, I took the test again when my pregnancy symptoms disappeared it was not as dark as the first time and I kept testing everyday and the lines keeps getting very faint even though I was not bleeding then one morning I woke up with heavy bleeding. ...all these testing was done at home but I pray ur case will be. It's either your hcg keeps fluctuating when it supposed to be doubling or the the second hospital uses more sensitive test than the first. Please this is just what I think oo as am not a.
ReplyDeleteIt might be possible you've had a chemical pregnancy. Go back to d clinic that did the procedure.
ReplyDeleteIt's not cryptic or anything. In ivf, nothing is guaranteed.
THIS!!!!!!!!
Deletebut pls keep us posted. praying for you
All is well with you poster. You shall come back and give a testimony soon 🙏
ReplyDeletePlease be calm, avoid stress, repeat the scan after two weeks, go to a reputable hospital where you will be taken care off like lagoon hospital in ikeja or ikoyi they have good specialists that can attend to you
ReplyDeleteYes, symptoms disappearing does not automatically mean loss of pregnancy. It happened to me, my symptoms subsided for about 5 days or a week when I was about 7/8 weeks and It felt like I was no longer pregnant. My dear,my symptoms came back in full force.
ReplyDeleteWas there a sac when you were scanned??
Try not to panic, pray and book an appointment with an obyn/gynaecologist to double check.
You will not lose your babies in Jesus name, amen.
It happens sometimes, you may have a sac and amniotic fluid but no foetal pole. Sorry dear, it happens. Your Doctor may order evacuation because even though the hormones are there, the foetus is n9t there or did not develop.
ReplyDeleteI am so sorry to type this I pray I am wrong and please I will be praying for you.
ReplyDeleteIn March this year I missed my period did pT and it was positive, after a while the symptoms stopped I became worried and went to the hospital and I was told It failed abortion(the first time I was hearing the term) it was a very painful experience for me. I was given a medication to bring out the blood.
I pray your case is different in Jesus Name
thats called a chemical miscarriage or a missed miscarriage
DeleteSpeaking of 419 doctors, I was recently reading an article about a couple that did IVF, and were elated when it worked. Only for the woman to deliver...and it was an Asian baby. When they did a DNA test, it was found that the baby is not related to either of them. I think they were hoping that at least it was either the man's sperm or the woman's egg that was erroneously fertilized with an Asian's.
ReplyDeleteThey are now suing the doctor and clinic because the biological parents of the baby have still not been found, and they do not know where their fertilized embryos are!
This unfortunate incident took place in the US, where there are laws that will work in the favour of the couple. They will surely be awarded millions in damages.
What about Nigeria where the almighty Naira/$$ precedes ethics?! I cannot imagine the horrors that are silently going on behind the scenes that no one is speaking of, because of shame or otherwise. Sometimes the couple may even seek legal action, but we all know they will be frustrated into dropping the case. After all, someone who never specialized in a field, is currently doing surgical procedures and botching/killing patients without a care in the world. Another refereed doctor run to open a practice in Nigeria, after losing his license in the States after one too many malpractice infractions.
I really empathize with women/couples trying to get pregnant! @poster, may you and others TTC get their desired outcomes ❣.
ReplyDeleteDon't panic.
ReplyDeleteThat's the first thing you should try out..Keep speaking positive things about your children
Go for another test, this time do all test. Scan, urine and blood test.
Get a diary and document how your body feels everyday since the IVF.
God be with you.
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Sorry poster it might be an ectopic pregnancy, am trying to concentrate, I want to try iui and I don't know how to go about it
ReplyDeleteconception aid (medication) , timed intercourse or turkey baster method. all the best
DeleteDo a blood hcg, if the numbers are high and the uterus is empty then it is probably ectopic
ReplyDeletePraying for you to test positive...
ReplyDeleteHonestly,i know how u feel.
Dear poster, I understand the anxiety but you have to be calm, prayerful and hopeful. After implantation, 3 wks is sufficient to do a blood test and scan,you dont have to worry, take ur drugs, rest well and be prayerful, repeat test and scan after two weeks
ReplyDeleteRule out ectopic pregnancy
ReplyDeleteGet another opinion quickly
I experienced something similar to this .. sometimes in 2017 I was planning to get pregnant and I started feeling all the symptoms . I missed my period and so I went for test and it was confirmed I was pregnant ..on my 10th weeks the doctor could not find fetal pole and heartbeat . He said he saw the sac but it was empty .He said it was a condition called blighted ovum . The egg got fertilized but it didn’t grow . You can google more on blighted ovum. He said it’s either I wait for the body to expel the remains naturally or I do an evacuation . It was a very difficult moment for me but the Lord blessed me with 2 more kids after that experience.
ReplyDeletePoster although your case might be different because sometimes the baby doesn’t show in early pregnancy hence the 2weeks wait ..I was told to wait 2weeks also in my first pregnancy after the miscarriage but after the 2weeks the baby’s heartbeat was detected through a scan .
Plz go back to where you had the ivf.also u don't need to get yourself stressed.
ReplyDeleteRest helps also during mental stress. I think you need to visit a good hospital with hubby after a week. Keep positive and we will celebrate with you soonest.
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