What exactly do you mean when you say someone broke the girl code?someone broke the brother code....?What are these codes and how do we avoid breaking them?
Have you ever broken these codes?or is someone around you that broke the code?Are there repercussions of breaking the code?
what are the codes?Lets see if we agree!
Oya,gist!
Who created the codes, when was it created and for who by who?
ReplyDeleteGirl's code: DON'T date or have s** with your friend's guy.
ReplyDeleteBoy's code: DON'T kiss and tell!
and don't go after your friend's sister @ boys code .
DeleteSo if you and your friend's sister really have something good going on you shouldn't go ahead with it cos of your friend? If you want to get married to her you shouldn't cos of your friend? That one no make sense nau.
Delete@15:11
DeleteIt doesn't make any kind of sense , I wonder how these unwritten codes came into existence 🤔
Was having a conversation with a friend of mine he was saying the same thing ,
Maybe the men here would elucidate better so we can know .
For me,Loyalty means a lot. I can never date any man my friends are interested in or dating.
ReplyDeleteOnce had a roommate who went on holz and came back to learn that her boyfriend and bestie were dating. I was shocked to the core because they were so close! Even when she confronted her she didn't deny it. She said they were in love! That is how our roommate became an ex o. When I graduated, her bestie and ex were still dating. The girl code means nothing to some women as long as they get what they want. No loyalty whatsoever.
BRO CODES
ReplyDeleteNEVER LET YOUR BRO (OR YOURSELF) SACRIFICE DIGNITY FOR A GIRL
IF YOUR BRO NEEDS A WINGMAN, ALWAYS STEP UP TO THE PLATE
NEVER HIT ON A BRO’S GIRLFRIEND
NEVER HOOK UP WITH OR DATE A BRO’S EX-GIRLFRIEND (WITHOUT PERMISSION)
ALWAYS TELL YOUR BRO IF HIS GIRL CHEATS ON HIM
NEVER SHAME YOUR BRO FOR HOOKING UP WITH A GIRL YOU DON’T FIND ATTRACTIVE
NEVER SHAME YOUR BRO FOR GETTING REJECTED
ALWAYS HELP YOUR BRO GET BETTER WITH GIRLS
BROS OVER HOES
Isi Gini🤔🤔🤔🤔
DeleteNa wa .
DeleteSo who are the hoes ?
chocolate it’s part of the code that has been in existence for long
Deletealso it’s a saying so please excuse my french dear
Apart from not sleeping with your friends'/sisters' men, girl's code also include not dating your friends ex. Some people do the latter and are happy and fulfilled in the relationship. Shebi na ex? But most babes won't forgive the act of their friends dating or getting married to their exes. Na wah
ReplyDeleteBoy's code means don't sleep with your friends' babes and sisters. But men are breaking these codes right, left and centre. Sleeping with their sister(s) pain them more than sleeping with their babes sef.
i have no code
ReplyDeletebrb
ReplyDeleteFirstly, who created the so called codes?
ReplyDeleteI'm loyal to the core and I expect same IF I call you friend or family.if you break it,just forget it I won't forgive or forget I will just delete your existence from my mind and head.
ReplyDeleteI once broke the code o, and I did it out of love, my friend who was a baby mama started dating one married man, introduced him to her parents, and they started planning marriage, then i got a new sim, called her mum, and gave her the full gist, somhow she figured I did it, gave me attitude for a while, laslas she married the guy, my amebo no work, lol, sadly she is suffering there now.
ReplyDeleteCodes are rules that govern the dating world among does in the sea of relationships and friends and families caught in the net.
ReplyDeleteIt is a form of verbal contract inscribed in the hearts of many and shouldn't be broken for any reason. Unless in special circumstances like when true love is tested and trusted.
Plainly put, it draws the line between love play and friendship.
E.g a bro or babe is not to sleep with his/her bros or babes parent and sisters/brothers are off limits unless special permission is taken from bro or babe and all party involved.
Most of the rules have moral grounds and a few are selfish
I do not have anything like "girl code"
ReplyDeletewhat I have is the "Jesus code"
"Love your neighbor as yourself"
"Do to others as you will want them to do to you"
And of course, I have my 🤸🏻♀️🤸🏻♀️🤸🏻♀️🤸🏻♀️🤸🏻♀️🤸🏻♀️🤸🏻♀️🤸🏻♀️🤸🏻♀️🤸🏻♀️🤸🏻♀️code!
1. A bro shall not gaze at a naked bro.
ReplyDelete2. A bro never cries.
3. A bro is not required to remember another bro's birthday.
4. A bro never wears pink underwear.
5. If a bro ask another bro to keep a secret, he shall take the secret to his grave.
6. A bro shall not damage another bro's chances to score.
7. It is never accepted for a bro to sleep with another bro's ex.
8. A bro does not masturbate in front of other Bros.
9. A bro never gives another bro the silent treatment.
10. A bro never ask another bro to come with them to the bathroom.
11. Bros DO NOT pout in selfies.
12. A bro never uses another Bros toothbrush.
13. All Bros are distracted by the number 69 and it's sexual meaning rendering a bro unable to read anything that comes after it.
14. A bro of a bro is a bro to you.
15. Bros don't break up chicks fight until a sufficient amount of clothes has been pulled off.
16. A bro and a brother are not the same thing.
17. A bro never leaves another bro behind.
18. A bro never makes eye contact with another bro while eating banana.
19. If you catch your Bro's partner cheating, you immediately tell your bro regardless of any shit-storm that may arise.
20. A bro never tickles another bro.
21. A bro always offers his bro a drink when getting one for himself.
22. Bros don't touch each other's hair.
23. Women can also be a bro.
24. A bro shall never engage in any sexual activity with a girl-bro.
25. A bro shall leave whatever he is doing and run to help his bro dump a chick.
26. A bro's sister is out of bound.
27. Bros before hoes, unless hoes head no clothes, then bro can wait😊..
Girls have no code.. 😏😷😈
E go be ✌
🤜🤛... A true guardian of the code
DeleteLollll, this is funny!!!
DeleteEspecially that no. 6 very important.
DeleteMy elder sister was chatting romantically wit my then suitor now husband because I rejected his advance then.I didn't like him then but I felt betrayed by the both of them.
ReplyDeleteAnd you went ahead to marry him? Unless he didn't reciprocate, then I understand.
DeleteNa wa for your elder sis o! Please keep a distance. I can't even date someone who showed interest in my sister. Come on ladies.
I think men are more loyal to their bros than women are. Women easily betray their friends and relatives for a man and want it known so they can't keep a man. Happens too often. If a man breaks the bro code, he'll rather take it to the grave.