Desperate Woman Cries Out After EX Who Abducted Their 3 Kids Threatened Her With Lawsuit For Calling Him Out
Seluona Ubebe was married to Victor Nordi,a Lawyer based in Abuja but she left the Marriage after series of violent Domestic abuse and asked for a divorce which took the ex a long time to grant.... As revenge for leaving,he has 'seized' the three kids they had together....... This is another cry out posted on her instagram page @seluona_
What is the Nigerian Bar Association doing about this? What about Organisations that are meant to handle cases like this?This woman has been crying out,somebody should please help her...THIS IS WRONG!!!
Stella the NBA is busying with politics. I don't want to know her offence but abducting her children and keeping them away for 2 years from their mother is outright wickedness. There should be something that can be done,the man cannot claim to be bigger than the IGP or the Nigerian Justice System if we have one at all. Wicked man. I pray that NGOs who are expert in this type of case should come to her rescue, a mother shouldn't be made to go through this,not even for a day.
My name is motunrayo and I saw d post you did on tunde nordi and his ex wife... Lemme just put it this way 'my God never fails me'.. I know that man and I am here to tell you he is the "DEVIL".
*How I met Victor nordi*
I met Mr tunde nordi in a supermarket in November of 2018. He asked for my number and I gave him, he then started calling my line frequently and telling me he liked me and what not.. that he was a divorcee with three kids that he was looking eagerly to settle down, he called his wife unprintable names from witch to adultress to a gold digger that tried to ruin him, how he managed to escape from her grip by the grace of God(if I'm to say everything he said I would never finish up)..
One thing I noticed is that he talks a whole lot without stopping to take a breath..
O well! He is a lawyer I thought (talking is dia job!
He told me he wanted to quickly settle down and had no time for games as he is not a young boy and would love a woman to complete his household.. I wasn't really interested especially as he looked much older and had 3 kids(where will be the space to accommodate me and my own kids cus I surely want kids).
He told me he was 47 and he very much wanted more kids as he comes from a large family (he has 7 siblings) making a total of 8. That it was his wife that chose not to have more kids because of her philandering ways... That his 'ex' was too 'materialistic' and 'vain', all she cared about was shopping and traveling out with his money. How he had given her 3.5mil and she and her family squandered it.
He was so pushy, persistent and also 'sweet' he would constantly call to ask how im fairing... He introduced me to his kids and told me I'm the first woman he has ever shown to his kids to show he has true intentions,Took me on nice dates,told me plenty lies and made empty promises.. Assured me of the future and told me whatever I wanted to hear, with time I decided to give him a try.
*the Relationship*
After I had agreed to date him he was ecstatic and promised me the world(I greatly suspect he eats a packet of sugar every day because his words are nothings short of sweet and convincing)... The first day we had sex I told him to use a condom,after putting it on he couldn't perform and begged me to take it off, that no matter what he'll stick with me. That he was free from any diseases as he regularly checked himself and even if pregnancy was to come out of it he would take responsibility... That no woman would ever have an abortion for him as he strongly hates it...(in his words "God forbid such will happen")..
In the beginning d r/ship was Kool, he promised to help me out with getting a job as I was desperately searching for a good paying job. He made it seem like he had plenty connect..(but nothing ever came to pass only lies)..he came over to my family home to introduce himself as my fiance, he collected my mum's number and regularly called her to greet..he would send gifts through me to her and became known in my home... But 80% of the time I spent with him he was constantly bashing his wife and saying evil things about her and at a point it became tiring and his lies started contradicting.. today he would say A and B made them breakup tomorrow he would say X and Y and when I question him he would say some gibberish to explain himself, at that point I started questioning him in my mind.. Also I noticed he didn't have a good relationship with his kids especially his eldest, their relationship seemed forced.. he was always bullying and trying to convince them to forget their mum which was absurd... I questioned him and he said she wasn't only a bad wife but a terrible mother.. (then y don't d kids hate her naturally y was he trying to force them to let go of her memory) hmmm!
*The unraveling*
With time I started seeing things that made me question. First of all he is a bully, a liar, manipulator etc..he was always bad mouthing everyone and was always at logger heads with everyone from family to ex friends to ex colleagues to ex girlfriends the list was endless, all I heard all day was nag nag nag.. he had no friends except one... He was a loner.
He is very selfish, Everytime we had sex I would take postinor. In a week I could take up to 3 packets at a point it started affecting me and I complained he would always shout that there was nothing and I was just complaining for nothing. Just so he could have sex without caring what it was doing to my health..
Also got to know he is a difficult person and unreasonable... And he is hell-bent on dealing with his wife using the kids. He once told me if she is ever to come near d last born he would kill her... As nothing would let him let go of d last only the older ones could go.
If I say everything he is il probably run out of ink... Let's just say he is TOXIC!
*The break up*
I found out I was pregnant and told him... Let's just say the turned to a complete beast... He threatened me over the phone. In his words "go and remove it". Wow! Was this the same guy I knew? The 'anti abortion'. He started asking me to tell him who was responsible... To say I was shocked is an understatement... Endless insults followed... I was shook..
I made up my mind not to tamper with my pregnancy (God forbid). My mom called him and he told her I was a prostitute and all sorts that reminded me of how he spoke about his ex... Finally the cane he used to flog his ex wife was being used on me and it was damn painful... He reported me to the police that I was threatening him and his kids. I was invited but couldn't go cus I was heavy so I sent my lawyer... He was shouting in d police station that I am a prostitute... That me and my pauper family were trying to pin another man's pregnancy on him because we know he is a "multi millionaire"...LMFAO! Did I mention that this brokeass that was constantly borrowing from me. I mean as little as 5k. My family told me to forget about him and at that point it dawned on me that everything I knew about him was a lie and decided to do my digging...
*The truth* What I truly found was a shocker... First of all he has been married twice, his first wife ran away after constant battery and cheating... Wow!. He is 59yrs old,old enough to be my dad..he wasn't even divorced at d the time,so he lied... his first child from his first marriage is just 2years younger than I am..and to think he likes very young ladies (I'm even one of the oldest he has dated) he regularly brings ladies to introduce to his kids as a way of deceivingly assuring them of his deceitful intentions... What shameless father would do that.. Because of his penis he doesn't care about d damage he is causing d kids all just to get in-between a woman's legs... I hope his kids don't grow up thinking it is d norm.. He is also a broke ass... Plus plenty more...
He dsnt want more kids nor marriage but will tell u whatever u wanna hear just to get you... He goes telling anyone that ask after me that he found out I am a kidnapper. That I tried kidnapping his kids.. I even threatened him with a lawsuit when I was told. After me he started dating his little sons teacher (shameless man).. and not too long after he had issues with her and she barged into his house to take the air conditioner she bought for his room. Hahahahahahahahaaa!
But all in all why would a man go so far just for what... Coming to my home to meet my family knowing fully well he has bad intentions.. The length some men can go for "pata".
Well as for me I have a beautiful baby.. I constantly pray he gets his pound of flesh and that my child not take any of his stinking character... I was so happy to see the call out on ur blog by his ex... I pray she gets hold of the kids and fast.
*QUESTION* Please is there a way I can take legal actions to stop him from ever coming near my child be it now or in the future... I can't imagine being responsible for my child and hel come drag d child with me... I won't take it... No man born of a woman should leave responsibility for someone else only to come and claim ownership later on.. Impossible!
Your child is blessed already and God will strengthen and guide you on how to raise your child. For the ex, she will laugh last and best. God will fight her battles.
Tunrayo, I love your courage and maturity. Protect your child with your life. Don’t let this monster near your child, please. As old has he is, he still bullies women up and down!!!
Thanks so much for sharing anon. I think this may help some gullible female out there from falling into his trap. Continue to take care of yourself and your baby.
Stella cases like this nobody will say or do anything! Most lawyers are very wicked they feel because the know the law they are above the law! I saw this on your Instagram page up till now nobody has helped or said anything. In Nigeria husbands efter divorce try to hurt ex wife by holding on to the children! A mother is in the best position to take care of children a mother can deny herself things of life to make sure her kids survive in this life! That is why in most European countries the mother is considered before the father! This man is a very wicked man! See his face like fermented cassava!Shioor! I pray she gets the needed help ooo!
You don't know how people may be trying to help her. I tuned in to a TV show recently and say them discussing her case. She was on the show as well via audio and viewers called in to give advice.
Poster you say what? Hmmm...he must be a nut case. Since he is not legally or traditionally married to you then he has no ground to contest the kid with you...at least in our culture if u are not married to a woman and you get her pregnant, the baby belongs to her father. But you can also contact a lawyer to get all the necessary documents to avoid stories that touch.
Nobody wants to help her because in most cases ( especially with Nigerian women ) after fighting for women like this they will go back to their husbands and even abuse their helpers. That is husband and wife matter for you, ask Dino he is still with the children.
Father please deal with this man, and give this woman her children back. Make a way for her, send her helpers from above.
I pray this from the heart of a mother ,that can imagine what this woman is going through, and knowing that she is suffering. Thank you Lord, in Jesus mighty name Amen. 🙌
T know a colleague at work who is in this kind of position. She and her husband are estranged and separated. The estranged husband named MUYIWA OYINLOLA working with leadership newspaper in Abuja has abducted their son since last year. He refuse to let the woman talk to his son talk less of letting the boy visit his mother who resides in Lagos.
This is what my sister's husband is doing too, denying her access to see the children, and he has failed to appear in all the welfare offices he has been called too, will seek her consent and find out maybe we will resort to social media call out, and send message to Stella, make we kuku shame ourselves publicly since he has refused all pleas from our family, I am tired
Thank God my kids ran from their father oo, my sons ran ooo to my my father's house cos their dad hit them and remind them how he hate their mother, we are happy together, though I left with my daughter, thank God all my kids (2 boys and 1 girl) is with me now
some of you are so freaking rude...why say she is not serious? must you say that? some of you here just talk anyhow. if you priy to information others dont then you say they are not serious...learn to talk abeg
I heard that FIDA na for name only and that they aren't very efficient in such matters so don't be quick to judge. I know a few people who've gone to Human Rights Commission and nothing came out of it. Patriarchy in Nigeria is more powerful than we realise.
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She should go to ministry of women affairs or contact FIDA. I'm. Sure that she will get help..
ReplyDeleteBetter still, return to the court.
Wicked man
What manner of man is this? I basically can't deal with scumbags anymore
DeleteHas it occurred to you that she must have gone to these agencies but it's not yielding any results?
DeleteStella the NBA is busying with politics.
DeleteI don't want to know her offence but abducting her children and keeping them away for 2 years from their mother is outright wickedness.
There should be something that can be done,the man cannot claim to be bigger than the IGP or the Nigerian Justice System if we have one at all.
Wicked man.
I pray that NGOs who are expert in this type of case should come to her rescue, a mother shouldn't be made to go through this,not even for a day.
This man will meet his waterloo very soon! Mark my words.
ReplyDeleteEvil lawyer.. I pray he chokes on his wickedness
ReplyDeleteMy name is motunrayo and I saw d post you did on tunde nordi and his ex wife... Lemme just put it this way 'my God never fails me'.. I know that man and I am here to tell you he is the "DEVIL".
ReplyDelete*How I met Victor nordi*
I met Mr tunde nordi in a supermarket in November of 2018. He asked for my number and I gave him, he then started calling my line frequently and telling me he liked me and what not.. that he was a divorcee with three kids that he was looking eagerly to settle down, he called his wife unprintable names from witch to adultress to a gold digger that tried to ruin him, how he managed to escape from her grip by the grace of God(if I'm to say everything he said I would never finish up)..
One thing I noticed is that he talks a whole lot without stopping to take a breath..
O well! He is a lawyer I thought (talking is dia job!
He told me he wanted to quickly settle down and had no time for games as he is not a young boy and would love a woman to complete his household.. I wasn't really interested especially as he looked much older and had 3 kids(where will be the space to accommodate me and my own kids cus I surely want kids).
He told me he was 47 and he very much wanted more kids as he comes from a large family (he has 7 siblings) making a total of 8. That it was his wife that chose not to have more kids because of her philandering ways... That his 'ex' was too 'materialistic' and 'vain', all she cared about was shopping and traveling out with his money. How he had given her 3.5mil and she and her family squandered it.
He was so pushy, persistent and also 'sweet' he would constantly call to ask how im fairing... He introduced me to his kids and told me I'm the first woman he has ever shown to his kids to show he has true intentions,Took me on nice dates,told me plenty lies and made empty promises.. Assured me of the future and told me whatever I wanted to hear, with time I decided to give him a try.
*the Relationship*
After I had agreed to date him he was ecstatic and promised me the world(I greatly suspect he eats a packet of sugar every day because his words are nothings short of sweet and convincing)... The first day we had sex I told him to use a condom,after putting it on he couldn't perform and begged me to take it off, that no matter what he'll stick with me. That he was free from any diseases as he regularly checked himself and even if pregnancy was to come out of it he would take responsibility... That no woman would ever have an abortion for him as he strongly hates it...(in his words "God forbid such will happen")..
PART 2
ReplyDeleteIn the beginning d r/ship was Kool, he promised to help me out with getting a job as I was desperately searching for a good paying job. He made it seem like he had plenty connect..(but nothing ever came to pass only lies)..he came over to my family home to introduce himself as my fiance, he collected my mum's number and regularly called her to greet..he would send gifts through me to her and became known in my home... But 80% of the time I spent with him he was constantly bashing his wife and saying evil things about her and at a point it became tiring and his lies started contradicting.. today he would say A and B made them breakup tomorrow he would say X and Y and when I question him he would say some gibberish to explain himself, at that point I started questioning him in my mind.. Also I noticed he didn't have a good relationship with his kids especially his eldest, their relationship seemed forced.. he was always bullying and trying to convince them to forget their mum which was absurd... I questioned him and he said she wasn't only a bad wife but a terrible mother.. (then y don't d kids hate her naturally y was he trying to force them to let go of her memory) hmmm!
*The unraveling*
With time I started seeing things that made me question. First of all he is a bully, a liar, manipulator etc..he was always bad mouthing everyone and was always at logger heads with everyone from family to ex friends to ex colleagues to ex girlfriends the list was endless, all I heard all day was nag nag nag.. he had no friends except one... He was a loner.
He is very selfish, Everytime we had sex I would take postinor. In a week I could take up to 3 packets at a point it started affecting me and I complained he would always shout that there was nothing and I was just complaining for nothing. Just so he could have sex without caring what it was doing to my health..
Also got to know he is a difficult person and unreasonable... And he is hell-bent on dealing with his wife using the kids. He once told me if she is ever to come near d last born he would kill her... As nothing would let him let go of d last only the older ones could go.
If I say everything he is il probably run out of ink... Let's just say he is TOXIC!
*The break up*
I found out I was pregnant and told him... Let's just say the turned to a complete beast... He threatened me over the phone. In his words "go and remove it". Wow! Was this the same guy I knew? The 'anti abortion'. He started asking me to tell him who was responsible... To say I was shocked is an understatement... Endless insults followed... I was shook..
I made up my mind not to tamper with my pregnancy (God forbid). My mom called him and he told her I was a prostitute and all sorts that reminded me of how he spoke about his ex... Finally the cane he used to flog his ex wife was being used on me and it was damn painful... He reported me to the police that I was threatening him and his kids. I was invited but couldn't go cus I was heavy so I sent my lawyer... He was shouting in d police station that I am a prostitute... That me and my pauper family were trying to pin another man's pregnancy on him because we know he is a "multi millionaire"...LMFAO! Did I mention that this brokeass that was constantly borrowing from me. I mean as little as 5k. My family told me to forget about him and at that point it dawned on me that everything I knew about him was a lie and decided to do my digging...
PART §
ReplyDelete*The truth*
What I truly found was a shocker... First of all he has been married twice, his first wife ran away after constant battery and cheating... Wow!. He is 59yrs old,old enough to be my dad..he wasn't even divorced at d the time,so he lied... his first child from his first marriage is just 2years younger than I am..and to think he likes very young ladies (I'm even one of the oldest he has dated) he regularly brings ladies to introduce to his kids as a way of deceivingly assuring them of his deceitful intentions... What shameless father would do that.. Because of his penis he doesn't care about d damage he is causing d kids all just to get in-between a woman's legs... I hope his kids don't grow up thinking it is d norm.. He is also a broke ass... Plus plenty more...
He dsnt want more kids nor marriage but will tell u whatever u wanna hear just to get you...
He goes telling anyone that ask after me that he found out I am a kidnapper. That I tried kidnapping his kids.. I even threatened him with a lawsuit when I was told. After me he started dating his little sons teacher (shameless man).. and not too long after he had issues with her and she barged into his house to take the air conditioner she bought for his room. Hahahahahahahahaaa!
But all in all why would a man go so far just for what... Coming to my home to meet my family knowing fully well he has bad intentions.. The length some men can go for "pata".
Well as for me I have a beautiful baby.. I constantly pray he gets his pound of flesh and that my child not take any of his stinking character... I was so happy to see the call out on ur blog by his ex... I pray she gets hold of the kids and fast.
*QUESTION*
Please is there a way I can take legal actions to stop him from ever coming near my child be it now or in the future... I can't imagine being responsible for my child and hel come drag d child with me... I won't take it... No man born of a woman should leave responsibility for someone else only to come and claim ownership later on.. Impossible!
Oboy see gist, stella see early morning German juiced land o!
DeleteWow...🙄🙄🙄
Delete😲😲😲😲😲I'm speechless
DeleteJesus!!! What did I just read?😱
Deletehmmmmmmmmm
DeleteI honestly love the way you love your child. May your baby be a source of joy to you and you shall have no reason to weep over him/her.❤❤❤😍
DeleteHmm I like the way you wrote my child not my son or my daughter. Very matured and wise of you.
DeleteThe man would surely meet his downfall, randy idiot
Jesus Christ!
DeleteTake your child as who? Were you guys ever married? Very useless man. I hope your child doesn't bear his name? monster.
DeleteI pray this woman gets the help she needs.
iya boys... see pot of stew done full oooo with plenty chiken...choiiii
DeleteWow!!! What an eye opener.
DeleteYour child is blessed already and God will strengthen and guide you on how to raise your child.
For the ex, she will laugh last and best. God will fight her battles.
Hmnnnn
DeleteTunrayo, I love your courage and maturity. Protect your child with your life. Don’t let this monster near your child, please. As old has he is, he still bullies women up and down!!!
DeleteAhhhhh
DeleteSee juicy gist. He doesn't have any right over your child.
Deletesee how you took your time to break it down for us. Better gist
DeleteThanks so much for sharing anon. I think this may help some gullible female out there from falling into his trap. Continue to take care of yourself and your baby.
DeleteMotunrayo, you are not really smart sha
DeleteStella cases like this nobody will say or do anything! Most lawyers are very wicked they feel because the know the law they are above the law! I saw this on your Instagram page up till now nobody has helped or said anything. In Nigeria husbands efter divorce try to hurt ex wife by holding on to the children! A mother is in the best position to take care of children a mother can deny herself things of life to make sure her kids survive in this life! That is why in most European countries the mother is considered before the father! This man is a very wicked man! See his face like fermented cassava!Shioor! I pray she gets the needed help ooo!
ReplyDeleteHonestly lawyers are wicked and self centered. I pray she gets help
DeleteYou don't know how people may be trying to help her. I tuned in to a TV show recently and say them discussing her case. She was on the show as well via audio and viewers called in to give advice.
DeletePoster you say what? Hmmm...he must be a nut case. Since he is not legally or traditionally married to you then he has no ground to contest the kid with you...at least in our culture if u are not married to a woman and you get her pregnant, the baby belongs to her father. But you can also contact a lawyer to get all the necessary documents to avoid stories that touch.
ReplyDeleteNobody wants to help her because in most cases ( especially with Nigerian women ) after fighting for women like this they will go back to their husbands and even abuse their helpers. That is husband and wife matter for you, ask Dino he is still with the children.
ReplyDeleteFather please deal with this man, and give this woman her children back.
ReplyDeleteMake a way for her, send her helpers from above.
I pray this from the heart of a mother ,that can imagine what this woman is going through, and knowing that she is suffering. Thank you Lord, in Jesus mighty name Amen. 🙌
The way some men act ehn,u will wonder if it’s God that created them,very wicked and heartless actions!!! His downfall is near,Randy man
ReplyDeleteT know a colleague at work who is in this kind of position. She and her husband are estranged and separated. The estranged husband named MUYIWA OYINLOLA working with leadership newspaper in Abuja has abducted their son since last year. He refuse to let the woman talk to his son talk less of letting the boy visit his mother who resides in Lagos.
ReplyDeleteTo Motunrayo who wrote you there,
ReplyDeleteI hope his name is not on the birth certificate???
I would stay stop all communication with him, block him from you and your family members phones
This is what my sister's husband is doing too, denying her access to see the children, and he has failed to appear in all the welfare offices he has been called too, will seek her consent and find out maybe we will resort to social media call out, and send message to Stella, make we kuku shame ourselves publicly since he has refused all pleas from our family, I am tired
ReplyDeleteThank God my kids ran from their father oo, my sons ran ooo to my my father's house cos their dad hit them and remind them how he hate their mother, we are happy together, though I left with my daughter, thank God all my kids (2 boys and 1 girl) is with me now
ReplyDeleteThank God for you.
DeletePraiseeeeeeeee the Lord
DeleteAnon 15.22 you're not serious. Which State does your sister reside? Has she been to NHRC Commission, Fida etc.
ReplyDeleteThe most Complex B
She resides in lagos, will tell her to try those ones you mentioned, thank you
Deletesome of you are so freaking rude...why say she is not serious? must you say that? some of you here just talk anyhow. if you priy to information others dont then you say they are not serious...learn to talk abeg
DeleteI heard that FIDA na for name only and that they aren't very efficient in such matters so don't be quick to judge. I know a few people who've gone to Human Rights Commission and nothing came out of it. Patriarchy in Nigeria is more powerful than we realise.
Delete