Even if i cannot marrya man younger than me,change the number 1 for the male to maturity and wisdom.That he is older, doesn't mean he has sense or wise.Prayer should be equal.
Its the man's place to love his wife, while she submits to him. So i think LOVE should be added to the man's list and SUBMISSIVENESS should be added to the woman's list in place of LOVE. Again, neatness is for both parties too. I will not come and marry a pig biko!
Not entirely correct. I may not know all about marriage, but I believe prayer isn’t something that should be one sided. Prayer to me, is always the key and should be from both parties, equally. Knowledge should also be from both side. Infact, all mentioned above except age, should be from both sides. It’s about time we start viewing marital qualities both couples should possess in equality. Not one sided. Abeg all these divorce going about these days should be minimized. It’s becoming scary.
Patience - Check Neatness - Check Love - Check Planning - Double Check. Na my calling. ππ Prayer - Infinity Check Momma your baby girl is ready ooo.ππ
I love my men older, more knowledgeable and financially stable. Like they stated there. I love when they're in control. Those are the kind of guys I attract sha. Strong on the outside babies inside πππ
These days, everyone has become a marriage counselor. Both single, married, divorced, widow and widowers each have an advice to give Which is not actually bad because no knowledge is a waste. However, I believe the best advice when it has to do with marriage comes through intelligent trial and error. I believe that in marriage, you learn as you grow. Marriage is a partnership deal during which everyone should be respected. It is only during marriage that you will truly understand the true meaning of respect is reciprocal. Finally, it's not all about being a good husband/wife material. In the hands of the wrong tailor, even a material weaved in gold will be rendered useless and in the right hands, cheapo go turn Vera wang
That Bv that was able to get the guy she want online by following him,how did you do it? when I do see your post then,I never thought of being in such,I need your help, there's this guy I really admire and love,I follow his post though it's so hard to know if he's in a relationship or not because of his line of profession.I have even gathered strength to say some encouraging words in his inbox,what are the strategy needed?biko help a sister in love.I love this guy seriously,I admire him a lot,I just love him
Hi dear,it may be infatuation .You don't really know him you know,it's true you admire him but check within,how at ease are you about the whole approach.If you're finding it hard and not at ease,then don't do the chasing.
Through out the Bible, the men were the spiritual head of the house. They heard God and led their families. Example Abraham Isaac Jacob Joseph They relayed God's blessings to the next generation. In today's world and Christiandom The man has lost his place and has left the position for the woman to fill. Churches are filled with more women, claiming the men are busy with pursuing, the good things of life at the expense of their spiritual headship. Yet we wonder why our society is getting messed up by the day.
I met my husband in my office,I noticed this man who usually come in to check his account balance and nothing else.sometimes he will appear and disappear for like two weeks or a month later he will resurface,but all these times he has not said anything to me only to write down the account for balance...but on this faithful day instead of him to write his account nuber,what he wrote was pls can I have your phone number honestly I didn't give him but i wrote maybe next time.I remembered vividly when he was walking away I raised my head to see him fully all I noticed was his boot and height.he was patience with my shakara...on the line of dating I got know he works with oil company and goes to rig that why he appears and disappear.couple Need to have patience and study each other it's needed in marriage,I thank God we're 11yrs with 3kids still waxing strong but he usually tease me that accepted him because his account balance.nevertheless all the above listed qualities are needed but prayers works wonders.
Nope, nope, and NOPE. As a couple, it should be 100/100 abeg. Why must the wife carry more matters on her head. Pray as individuals, but pray more as a couple. Both should be patient,neat,love each other, not everytime women this, women that. My opinion.
Women, own your age and money and have your knowledge o! As for age, if any man who doesn't want you because of age, free him. No need for the nonsense of reducing your age. Man that loves you will love you.
My husband is younger than me, far richer than me and neater than me, I am more patient and tolerant than he is, we are both understanding, there is no hard and fast rule, do what works for you mbok. We are 7years strong
There is no certain dynamics to things in marriage,anyone can be the best in any thing,the most important is the 3rd paragraph and making sure you COMPLIMENT each other!
I agree with the men's list but don't quite agree with the women's list.A man should be above a woman in age yes though some marry younger men that's what works for them.A man should also be above the woman in knowledge.That does not in any way mean the woman is not knowledgeable.A man should be above in cash also.Yes the woman should be more patient,love more? No the man is to love her while she submits to him.Prayers is for both,neatness is definitely for both,yes the woman should be a better planner.I also agree with the last list,both should be understanding,tolerant and respect each other
The man is the PRIEST of the home, therefore, he should be more prayerful than his wife as the priest. But MOST Nigerian men have left that priestly duty to their wife.
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Na igbo man compose that thing.
ReplyDeleteAs in eh?
DeleteAdontbelieveit!
DeleteIs it a crime if the man must be above his wife in terms of prayer?
ReplyDeleteMy hubby is 2 years younger, and the best man ever so age is nothing but a number
DeleteMen are supposed to be the priest of family altar
DeleteHowever spiritual laziness and silly distractions does not allow such to be great
Single girl like wey never plural. I am here to learn.
ReplyDeleteI actually believe in this like π―, but, you see this life, man is wishing and planning, but, God is laughing.
ReplyDeleteI'm only in support of the third section.
ReplyDeleteExactly. Every relationship is unique. There is nothing cast in stone
DeleteRubbish talk.
ReplyDeleteEven if i cannot marrya man younger than me,change the number 1 for the male to maturity and wisdom.That he is older, doesn't mean he has sense or wise.Prayer should be equal.
DeleteIts the man's place to love his wife, while she submits to him. So i think LOVE should be added to the man's list and SUBMISSIVENESS should be added to the woman's list in place of LOVE. Again, neatness is for both parties too. I will not come and marry a pig biko!
ReplyDeletecorrect!!!
DeleteNot entirely correct.
ReplyDeleteI may not know all about marriage, but I believe prayer isn’t something that should be one sided.
Prayer to me, is always the key and should be from both parties, equally.
Knowledge should also be from both side.
Infact, all mentioned above except age, should be from both sides. It’s about time we start viewing marital qualities both couples should possess in equality. Not one sided.
Abeg all these divorce going about these days should be minimized. It’s becoming scary.
Both of us should possess all equally..
ReplyDeleteI no gree for the wife own...
ReplyDeleteTrue oooo
ReplyDeletePatience - Check
Neatness - Check
Love - Check
Planning - Double Check. Na my calling. ππ
Prayer - Infinity Check
Momma your baby girl is ready ooo.ππ
I love my men older, more knowledgeable and financially stable. Like they stated there. I love when they're in control. Those are the kind of guys I attract sha. Strong on the outside babies inside πππ
No, I do not agree. All these qualities aren't gender specific in my book.
ReplyDeleteMe too
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DeleteThese days, everyone has become a marriage counselor. Both single, married, divorced, widow and widowers each have an advice to give Which is not actually bad because no knowledge is a waste.
ReplyDeleteHowever, I believe the best advice when it has to do with marriage comes through intelligent trial and error.
I believe that in marriage, you learn as you grow. Marriage is a partnership deal during which everyone should be respected.
It is only during marriage that you will truly understand the true meaning of respect is reciprocal.
Finally, it's not all about being a good husband/wife material. In the hands of the wrong tailor, even a material weaved in gold will be rendered useless and in the right hands, cheapo go turn Vera wang
facts!!your last paragraph is on point.
DeleteEverything should be equal mbok
ReplyDeleteThat Bv that was able to get the guy she want online by following him,how did you do it? when I do see your post then,I never thought of being in such,I need your help, there's this guy I really admire and love,I follow his post though it's so hard to know if he's in a relationship or not because of his line of profession.I have even gathered strength to say some encouraging words in his inbox,what are the strategy needed?biko help a sister in love.I love this guy seriously,I admire him a lot,I just love him
ReplyDeleteYou should be ashamed of yourself
DeleteShooter pls why should she be ashamed of herself???
DeleteHi dear,it may be infatuation .You don't really know him you know,it's true you admire him but check within,how at ease are you about the whole approach.If you're finding it hard and not at ease,then don't do the chasing.
DeleteThrough out the Bible, the men were the spiritual head of the house. They heard God and led their families.
ReplyDeleteExample Abraham
Isaac
Jacob
Joseph
They relayed God's blessings to the next generation.
In today's world and Christiandom
The man has lost his place and has left the position for the woman to fill.
Churches are filled with more women, claiming the men are busy with pursuing, the good things of life at the expense of their spiritual headship. Yet we wonder why our society is getting messed up by the day.
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DeleteLost their place really
DeleteI met my husband in my office,I noticed this man who usually come in to check his account balance and nothing else.sometimes he will appear and disappear for like two weeks or a month later he will resurface,but all these times he has not said anything to me only to write down the account for balance...but on this faithful day instead of him to write his account nuber,what he wrote was pls can I have your phone number honestly I didn't give him but i wrote maybe next time.I remembered vividly when he was walking away I raised my head to see him fully all I noticed was his boot and height.he was patience with my shakara...on the line of dating I got know he works with oil company and goes to rig that why he appears and disappear.couple Need to have patience and study each other it's needed in marriage,I thank God we're 11yrs with 3kids still waxing strong but he usually tease me that accepted him because his account balance.nevertheless all the above listed qualities are needed but prayers works wonders.
ReplyDeleteLove is beautifulπ
DeleteMany more blessings by Gods grace ma'am!!
Nope, nope, and NOPE. As a couple, it should be 100/100 abeg. Why must the wife carry more matters on her head. Pray as individuals, but pray more as a couple. Both should be patient,neat,love each other, not everytime women this, women that. My opinion.
ReplyDeleteTomorrow, they will say women are materialistic.
ReplyDeleteWomen, own your age and money and have your knowledge o! As for age, if any man who doesn't want you because of age, free him. No need for the nonsense of reducing your age. Man that loves you will love you.
My husband is younger than me, far richer than me and neater than me, I am more patient and tolerant than he is, we are both understanding, there is no hard and fast rule, do what works for you mbok. We are 7years strong
ReplyDeleteThere is no certain dynamics to things in marriage,anyone can be the best in any thing,the most important is the 3rd paragraph and making sure you COMPLIMENT each other!
ReplyDeleteWhy do world people think women are the ones to carry everything on their head like gala.
ReplyDeleteI agree with the men's list but don't quite agree with the women's list.A man should be above a woman in age yes though some marry younger men that's what works for them.A man should also be above the woman in knowledge.That does not in any way mean the woman is not knowledgeable.A man should be above in cash also.Yes the woman should be more patient,love more? No the man is to love her while she submits to him.Prayers is for both,neatness is definitely for both,yes the woman should be a better planner.I also agree with the last list,both should be understanding,tolerant and respect each other
ReplyDeleteGala even good self!!
ReplyDeleteThe man is the PRIEST of the home, therefore, he should be more prayerful than his wife as the priest. But MOST Nigerian men have left that priestly duty to their wife.
ReplyDelete