STAND ALONE NARRATIVE
DATING A DIRTY PERSON
Some guys are just too dirty and thinks that grooming is for a female. Just started dating this guy and I just saw his feet and His toenails are so dirty like those mallams that carry kaya in the market. It seriously bothers me and I am already thinking of calling off the relationship and my best friend thinks that I am being too picky for a 32 yr old woman.
Is proper hygiene too much to ask? I see those kind of people as creatures that would be extremely pigful to live with. Women that are married to dirty men, how do you do it?
*Please women that are married to dirty men,come out and tell us how you cope
Take him for a pedicure, brush him up.😁
ReplyDeleteThank you blackberry. Why not tell him how you feel and help him brush up. Unnecessary complains from some people
DeleteSimple. And quite obvious.
DeleteIf this chronicle wasn't so short, I would think the poster was a budding writer.
For how long Will she continue to take him? There are basic things a person should do on their own. My dear you don't want to baby a grown-ass man. Being a wife is work, having kids is additional work, then catering to a man's hygiene is double wahala when he should be a relief. Me I can't deal abeg. Babe if you no fit cope nothing spoil, move! Which one is carrying mallam leg about. Him no dey see him leg?
DeleteFor how long will she be doing that?
DeleteTiana did she state up there she has for once taken him to clean up or asked him to? Una go just dey rush to comment
DeleteHmmnn, a lot of smart looking guys you see around were groomed by their wives/girlfriends. Teach him hygiene, nobody is perfect. God brought Eve to Adam to complement him. Be his strength, where he is weak and vice-versa.
DeleteShe should start 1st, he would pick up. My sis hubby was a bit dirty and a colour block guy,but now guy man has upgraded. Goes to the spa 2x a month and has a personal stylist. The guy should just be willing to learn.
DeleteFollow internet and your real world is doomed.
DeleteWe have heard you ma. Please save him from a future bitter nag by dumping him
See story! You are obviously not with him for love.
Silly girls
Very petty woman. Because his feet and toe nails are not pedicured doesnt mean he is dirty. People are brought up differently. How many people go for regular dental cleaning. Should they now be termed dirty because of that. Take him for the pedicure and talk to him about it. You no get sense sha for a 32yr old. No be everything u suppose dey run come SDK come drop. This one na common sense u suppose take resolve am
DeleteMy problem with my husband is that he can write for Africa...
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My dear once a pig always a pig. If she starts taking him for grooming she will have to continue that way. Poster waka I beg. Worst thing in a relationship is stinginess followed by dirt. Suwah!!!
DeleteTiana and 18:31 you gave the best advice.
DeleteThe first things I notice about people is how clean they are especially teeth nails, hair, odour,clothing. You could wear cheap clothes but be clean from head to toe.
Personal hygiene should be learnt early.
Poster, he will slip back into his dirty habits no matter how long you teach him. Next he will tag you a nag or get upset with you when you remind him.
Besides, he will have other dirty habits that will irritate you no end!
Dirty is dirty.
This is not a question of being picky, regardless of what your age is. What you don't like, you don't like. You don't need to confront him of being dirty, take him for a pedicure, encourage him to do hygienic things and do together... Watch him if he eventually gets it, if then e no work, Waka if you know you know you can't live with that fact.
DeleteY’all calling her names for refusing to MOTHER him, are you sure you know what’s up? Is it her job to do it? Wasn’t his mother supposed to teach him proper hygiène? Wasn’t he supposed to learn more from home economics back in primary and secondary school? Wasn’t he supposed to groom and grow himself better as he matured? Y’all just be talking anyhow. So she should start taking him to spa and after entitlement mentality will enter followed by other stuffs he would start displaying/doing to make her do more for him.
DeleteM’y Mama say, when you train child, as w grow, e go restrain himself for better or worse. Poster please don’t mind them. Since you can’t stand it, free him and move on for your peace. You didn’t come to this world to MOTHER anyone. He is an adult like you. Would he be dating you if you were in the same ship with him! He won’t waste time to compare you with another and let you know how he doesn’t like it without bringing any solution. I can’t stand dirty and untidy either.
Dirty is dirty I agree...but poster,try talking to him first.
DeleteHe may not know his dirty habits till someone points them out to him.
ReplyDeleteIf you are serious about him, instead if dumping him like hot coals, tell him his flaws and see if he is ready to change and do better.
Do you know how long his parents have told him, sisters told, ikwu na ibe told him too. Okay 😔 sister tell am and see.
DeletePoster have you talked to him about it? From his reaction you will know if he is someone that takes to corrections or he is stuck in his ways..Sit down and discuss with him about it..It may not end in marriage or relationship but at least he will know you made him see his flaws..You can take him to a pedicure shop so they can take care of him..all the best
DeleteTwin squared,I find it hard to believe that a grown ass adult wouldn't know his hygiene level. Ok o.
DeleteIf that is very rich or adeleke's or dangote's, I swear down we wouldn't be reading this complanicle
DeleteTiana you are not relationship material; you totally lack empathy. I feel sorry for whoever dates/marries a selfish and immature person like yourself.
DeleteThank you @16:06. She and the other creature under her will be single for longgggg with such childish mindset
DeleteMany of you don't know their card of image building here. Tiana is on her way to hers. Clear road 😂😂😂
DeleteI am with Tiana on this 💯%!
DeleteFor those that want to be dirt-packers/cleaners for fellow adults, go ahead. YOUR CHOICE!
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ReplyDeleteI'm not married to one ooo. But want to congratulate you for finding out on time. I.e before marriage. If you don't run eeehn, you will see DORTY in marriage. Maybe one week, he won't bath and still demand sex. So, my dear. Check am out. To be 32 and single or to be 32 married to a soon-to-become......
ReplyDelete🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣you're so wicked. Please be nice na
DeleteApart from this toenail issue, what other dirty habits does he have? Maybe he hasn't paid particular attention to his nails. I don't see this an issue, tell him and ensure he pays more attention to It.
DeleteIn my opinion, this is not why a relationship should end except you have tried and he is not cooperating.
I took my man along for a pedicure and manicure when he came visiting just cos i like to pamper myself, Plus he chews on his nails which is something i absolutely detaste and he suspected this was my reason for booking an appointment for the both us, lolz not far from the truth but i laughed it off. We sat side by side he found it weird but ended up loving it. I encouraged them to put nail hardner on his toe and fingernails with the hope it will stop him from biting on the nails lolz. So if this is the major flaw this can be your treat to him. If you love him enough you will find creative ways to pass your message accross without him feeling disrespected.
Delete*detest* not "detaste".
DeleteTake him to the saloon, let them give his feet better pedicure. And then tell him how you feel about hygiene.
ReplyDeleteYou just started dating the guy, why can't you tell him the things you don't like about his hygiene?
ReplyDeleteYou can start by asking him when was the last time he went for pedicure and manicure, tell him you don't like the way his toenails are unkempt. You can even suggest to cut them and clean them for him.
If you like him, these things won't be difficult for you to say or do.
Imagine small problem she can solve and here she is lamenting.
Delete@Jerusalem,its never that easy. What if she does all that Ms A said and after a while,he changes towards her?
Delete@tbabe, let her try telling him first and let him know she not is not comfortable with such dirty life.but clearly she did not say such up there. We all need each other to grow. What you see as a big deal might be nothing to me if you don't tell me.
DeleteIf you like him, you can playfully yab him about it then schedule the pedicure date with him. The issue is if you don't like the guy and you're trying to force a relationship just because you're 32 years. Then you will be turned off with disgust rather than show him empathy to help him get better
DeleteGod Bless u Ms Amazing
DeleteSo the first time he approached you, you did not see those finger nails?
ReplyDelete😮
And if you love him, what's difficult in giving him a romantic nails cut?
Let's just put it succinctly as truthful as it should be...
You probably just discovered that the man is not a moneybag. Full stop.
Cut out the pretense.
Now, that I've let out the truth, get the crucifix and crucify me
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Awon holier-than-thou-know it all! Ekuse o! Kai! See how you just saw everything in the spirit! *rolls eyes and clicks tongue... For your information, if his pockets were not deep enough for her, it's her business. Her preference is her preference plus she owes you no explanation and also needs no approval from you or anyone here. no one knows her so why would she lie anyway?? Na wa.. Get a life o!!! Get a life!!! Sheesh! Your comments always rub me the wrong way!
DeleteAccuser of the brethren!
DeleteANG, you try well well. You seem to always know the 'truth'.
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Don't you get tired? Thank God you didn't call the name of the Lord in vain on this one
Delete@Kami
DeleteJudge, jury and executioner of the brethren,
you seem to always ambush me and shoot?
I see that you and your "Sanhendrin sisters" have
already executed me without trial. 😮😮😮😮😮
@15:30
DeleteWhat is "holy" about what I wrote up there?
If a man wrote in that he was dumping his girlfriend because
her nails were long, will you type all those stuff?
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Ang! You are bearing false witness. That’s ugly and God doesn’t like ugly 🤦♀️
DeleteRomantic nail cut 😂🤣😂🤣😂🤣😂
DeleteIt’s today that I know you are actually living a lie and using us to catch one hefty cruise. 😂🤣😂😂🤣😂Are we sure this is not oga ceaser‘s alter ego? How can we let one person take us fi cruise like this for so long. 😂🤣😂🤣😂
🤣🤣@ romantic nails cut
DeleteANG, you only ever see what you want to, ofcourse.
DeleteWhere is the judgement in my comment? Where is the attack? Do you hate truth? Have you done something to warrant an execution? Why do you feel like you are facing a firing squad? Okwa ajuju n'ese okwu!
God bless you, Prettiest Rosie!
@Rosie
DeleteWow! False witness? That's a new one.
Let's go to the Word of that same God you are referring to;
1 Corinthians 13:4
Love is patient, love is kind. It does not envy, it does
not boast, it is not proud. 5 It does not dishonor others,
it is not self-seeking, it is not easily angered, it keeps
no record of wrongs. 6 Love does not delight in evil but rejoices
with the truth. 7 It always protects, always trusts, always hopes, always perseveres.
8 Love never fails.
Are those characters we read about love what this poster demonstrated?
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In other words, Was this poster;
Deleteimpatient
Self-seeking
unkind and un-persevering concerning this man?
And no, ANG, I only call you out when you unjustly accuse without facts. Frankly, it is disappointing.
DeleteIt is not a surprise that you go temporarily blind though when I commend you considering I actually do like your preaching.
@Kami
DeleteSo where is the "accusation" in my comments?
I only reasoned that if this is a law court and I am the accuser,
then you should be the judge, jury and executioner, so that the courts
will sit well; that's all.
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How can you boldly say It is about money? You need to shush when you have nothing to say. Is every lady poor or jobless?
DeleteIn your warped reasoning, every lady sending in a Chronicle has to be poor and after money.
@Kami
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Whenever people tell me they "like my preaching," I have
to re-examine the contents. Jesus' preaching caused divisions
and severe attacks from you know whom. I am not blind. At least
I see you, I can read your pseudonym Kamikaze which I found on
google to mean "WW 2 Japanese bombers making suicidal crash" 😂😂😂😂😂😊😊😊
Even when this lady is right, they will join bandwagon and be dragging her. Even those that just wants to drag and belong
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me im just here to laugh @ Romantic Nail cut 😂😂😂😂
Delete@ ANG there are some rich people that are untidy , my only concern here is the poster doesn't seem to have made any effort ( well unless she just didn't state this )
There is nothing wrong in helping improve the quality of life of a person you love .
Even when this lady is right, they will join bandwagon and be dragging her. Even those that just wants to drag and belong
DeleteOriegwu
You are never wrong, that’s where your problem lies. You can never apologize when you’re wrong, you must always twist your words to get you out and it’s not right.
Delete“You probably just discovered that the man is not a moneybag. Full stop.
Cut out the pretense.
Now, that I've let out the truth,...” these quoted words shows you are bearing false witness because you are trying to add what the poster did not say and money might never have been in the equation.
Try to take people’s words for what it is except proven otherwise.
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@Chocolait
DeleteExactly! If the man is rich and untidy, will she
not cut those nails and kiss them and tell us a better
chronicle; "how she helped to clean up her rich husband?"
Please I wish the poster well, it is only the crucifiers that are
seeing a half empty cup instead of a half full one.
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You already know they will crucify you even when they know most of the things you say make sense.keep being you.
DeleteYou are a clown. I'm just having a good laugh.
DeleteANG you need help! Let the love of God shine in your heart.
DeleteYou have a fixed mindset about every Nigeria lady. Lumping everyone into a stereotype is WRONG❗❗❗
You quote the scripture about love but your comments reek of condemnation.
PRACTICE WHAT YOU PREACH!
Drag him from left to right 😂
ReplyDeleteWhat you cannot take in the beginning, dont bother continuing it unless he seems prone to the idea of sprucing himself up. Otherwise Sis, abeg run
ReplyDeleteEwwwwwwww. Dirty guys? I can never deal
ReplyDeleteIf this "pigful" [sic] man were to be a multi millionaire, will this chronicle have been written?
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ANG, abi? She should just manage his toenails and pockets. Soon, he will be able to afford a full hangar, designer socks and fluffy slippers to hide the toenails so she never has to see them again.
DeletePlease help me insert appropriate scripture.
Naija Sisis dem, they never hear!
Yes it would have been written
DeleteYes it would have been written
Gosh! I dislike how you bully people, putting words in their mouth so to speak.
This shim has used us to play for too too long. 😂🤣😭🤣😂🤣😂🤣 Using the emotions of blog visitors for serious cruise. This right here is a very bored man using his comments to lash out at women. Hunkulu, I greet you 😂😂😂😂😂
DeleteLmao! Prettiest Rosie, that is why I call her 'Accuser of the Brethren' when she starts with her unfounded accusations.
DeleteKamikaze take one shot on me biko. The way she jumps into conclusion on Issues she has no clue is so ridiculous.
DeleteYou make sense. 🤣
Delete😂😂😂😂😂😂 Kami bye 👋 🤣 😂😂😂😂
DeleteMy dear Kami, her own is too much!
DeleteRose where is the bully in that comment? Y'all just follow crowd and lie in wait to attack someone. You won't even look well to be sure your chosen attack day is in sync. You will just jump in!
DeleteShe's sometimes extra yes! But never always! She preaches God's words and says it as it is.
Y'all better take notes down and change your ways! The day she is a bit extra, you keep it moving and leave her alone.
She tries so hard not to respond to Y'all with bitterness. Yet Y'all keep pushing her buttons even when she is RIGHT!
Respect yourselves all you agbayas!
Anon 16:57: you are very stupid for calling my name, are you not a voltron, you are also doing what you are accusing me of i.e attacking. Get out of here and keep it moving also because last I checked you were not in any way connected to what I wrote up there. Anumpama!
DeleteWhen we lie in wait to agree, It is not a problem but when we disagree, It becomes an issue😂😂😂.
DeleteTell him ooooo.. Tell him! And if he's not ready to change, do what's best for you.
ReplyDeleteKilode nau
I’m the cleanest and neatest man any woman can meet(I almost even have ocd) but it wasn’t till I met my ex that I understood the importance of proper pedicure and manicure(used to do it myself anyhow) and I can’t do without it now.Book an appointment and take him there.He night not even be dirty.
ReplyDeleteThere is no diagnosis called "almost OCD."
DeleteYou are OCD or you are not.
So why did the lady become an "ex? in spite of her good-naturedness?"
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Thank you, my dear. Exactly why I think this Chronicle is silly. A lot of people arent so concerned about grooming. They shower everyday, brush, wear clean clothes...but the little things might escape them.Doesn't necessarily make them dirty people. I am also quite obsessive about my grooming. Years ago, I took a friend for a pedicure. Up until then, he didn't even know such a thing existed. From that one visit, my friend was hooked and pedicures have become a part of his routine.
DeleteMadam no one is perfect. When I met my hubby, na so e dey carry hair for armpit plus say e no dey use perfume. I started by telling him the need to shave and use perfume, today he's a perfume freak. Try to teach him first, if he's still adamant and does to seem teachable, you fit waka... Cos you obviously cannot stand a dirty partner.
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DeletePoster...go with this👍
DeleteÀbí.. She should tell him!
DeleteThank you.
DeleteOn point
DeleteLet him know but be wise in telling him in order not to brush his ego. Suggest pedicure treatment for him and other stuff. Let him realize its important for his health but don't insult him in any way while doing that....
ReplyDeleteYou could suggests he goes for professional pedicure and manicure every few months. Suggest he scrubs properly using a pumice stone or brittle brush to get rid of grimes and dirts when he showers. He is your man you can suggest ways for him and see if he will abide by them. The most important thing is if he is willing to learn and doesn't scoff at you for trying to help out only then can you say there is a problem.
ReplyDeleteYou can also get him 'at home foot scrubbers'. Just make sure he employs a foot care regime and stick with it. The most important thing is If he is receptive and willing to change. Black toes could also be due to an underlying health concern.
P.s: No, I am not married to a dirty man.🙂
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DeleteYour advice is on point 👍
Good one!
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DeleteBien dit babes !!!!
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DeleteQuestion - do you like everything else about him? Is the only problem you have with him just his dirty toe nails?
ReplyDeleteṢeé Ehn...you can't Base your decision to stop dating on one issue that can be fixed.
Look at it holistically. Take stock.
Why not have a conversation with him and tell him his feet will look nicer if he has a pedicure makeover. If he is open to change I don't see this s a problem
Plus some men don't care that much about washing feets as they are busy with other sides such as hustling...making money etc.
Stop trying to pick out little faults and basing your decision on them except it's a deal breaker.
My wife is untidy. We've been married 12 years now and she is still untidy.
( she is not dirty. Just untidy with putting things in various places they don't belong)
but everything else about her is amazing.
I am now in a position to have a cleaner come in four times a month to help with tidying up the house.
There is no perfect man out there ó. Forget what Danielle steel and Mills and boons make you think.
Best of luck.
Anonymous Abeg you get (young) friend? Na this kyn person I dey like.The poster is probably too immature to be dating
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DeleteGod Bless you anon 🙏
DeleteThank you for this .
Exactly, some of these issues can be fixed.
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DeleteGod bless your home and make your marriage sweeter.
DeleteTalk to him and fix a pedicure appointment for him. Give him a chance if he's willing to learn and be better.
ReplyDeleteAll these "take him for pedicure, manicure, "womancure"
ReplyDeleteI am getting confused.
Is it that no one here is smart and sincere enough to write
"cut the nails?"
Good nail cutter costs 50 to 100 naira in the markets.
Faithful Razor blade costs next to nothing.
Have we become so hypocritical, pretentious and vain in our thinking.
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Can she bring him for you to help out? 🤷🏼♀️
DeleteNo dear. Everybody is dumb. You are the only smart and sincere person here.
Delete'Cut the nails' is the most brilliant advice ever.
Razor blade? N50 nail cutter? 😂😂😂😂
DeleteANG you are a Bariga boy abeg. Cruise master! 😂😂😂🤣🤣🤣😂🤣😂🤣😂🤣😂😂😂🤣🤣🤣😂
@16:04
DeleteAbeg what is Bariga boy?
mmmhhh
DeleteWell saying having a mani and pedi is just a good way of making the man in question look forward to having a well groomed nails .
Doesn't make anyone fake , i personally I like cutting my partner's nails but I get mine done at the spa .
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DeleteI’m out of breath here. Person dey take una catch cruise for months now, una dey here dey call am ‘preaching the word of God’
Kam’ nukwa!
@Chocolat
DeleteWhen they say "take him and do pedicure" are they not talking about those spas?
I think I read them well.
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Some men can be very dirty,my X boyfriend would go to the toilet without wiping his bottom he would wear his boxer and come to the dinning table for dinner,when i ask him why he didn't wash up he would say cos he wants to bath after eating. By the time i want to wash his clothes na so you go see say shit don stain am
ReplyDeleteI run for my life cos e go tell you say na so im cousin dey wash am before and she no dey complain
Yeah at least you tried your best .
DeleteYou can't even cut his nails? Is it when
ReplyDeletehe gets sick that you will accompany him to
the hospital? Won't you just abscond with
anything you can grab?
If that is the only flaw you see in him, it can be fixed if he's open to change. Tell him in a nice way or better still, take him for manicure and pedicure for a start. He will surely get the message. Best of luck.
ReplyDeleteIs not a big deal abeg,wt time he will find out urs too,so fix it n nyoy d relationship mbok.
ReplyDeleteIf a man wrote that chronicle that he was dumping his 32 year
ReplyDeleteold girlfriend for having dirty nails, you all will skin him
alive and use him for kilishi suya.
Most girls on this blog are hypocrites.🚶🏽♀️🚶🏽♀️🚶🏽♀️🚶🏽♀️🚶🏽♀️🚶🏽♀️🚶🏽♀️🚶🏽♀️
Kpom kwem!
DeleteHunkul ANG, why are you carrying this thing on your head like this 😂🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣😂🤣😂
DeleteOkay sorry. She will use razor blade, broken bottle, teeth, nail cutter, file, buffer even small knife to cut and clean dirty nails until they because as white and neat your baptismal pant. 😂🤣😂🤣😂🤣😂
If you weren't a hypocrite, you would have seen that most comments are actually against this poster.
DeleteAccording to you, everybody else is dumb so why not skip all the other comments and just read yours?🤷♀️
Thank you Kami
DeleteAwwww!! I love you. You nailed it
DeleteKami you really have ANG's time today 🤣🤣🤣
DeleteLooks like every anonymous commenter on this blog is now anonymous Nigerian girl?
DeleteWe know his or her signature 18:07 and it's still you. Go and rest, it haff do.
DeleteYou saw his toenails and concluded that he was dirty. You've not even gone far in the relationship. Anyway, let the guy be so you don't end up wasting his time. Hopefully, you will find a guy that suits your taste.
ReplyDeleteLol@ women that are married to dirty men. It's well. Start by talking to him about his personal hygiene.
ReplyDeleteIf u love him y can't u buy #10 blade sit down on his leg romantically and cut his nails except u don't love him.
ReplyDeleteBabe, abeg if you can't cope, leave him! I hate dirtiness and bad odour. I can't get wet for a dirty man. I met one recently and visited him. He is very dirty. Toilet dirty, kitchen dirty, room dirty, living room dirty. Kissing him sef is not fun because he has small mouth odour. I left the next morning without doing anything with him. Dirtiness is a deal breaker for me. I won't teach a grown adult personal hygiene.
ReplyDeleteJust started dating an oil company guy in his mid fifties, clean fingernails but feet and hands are so dry and wrinkled. My problem is that he sprays perfume in his armpit instead of deodorants which gives him some sour body odour. Argh i don complain tire
ReplyDeleteANG reminds me of a classmate that was studying the Bible instead of studying his books. He read two versions of the entire Bible before the end of one semester. Exams came and he failed woefully. During an exam security had to bundle him out because he was commanding the Holy Spirit to release the answers loudly. We also heard he was writing psalms as answers to a few questions. Last we heard of him, he was a destitute preacher going about saying he’s the John the Baptist of our time clearing the path for the second coming of Jesus. The thing ANG is doing that we are treating with kids gloves is a manifestation of a deep seated problem.
ReplyDeleteI agree with you.
DeleteIt seems like a joke, but ANG has deep rooted problems, most of them psychological.
Lmaoooo! Please don’t kill me with laughter!
DeleteTell your story and leave ANG alone! She speaks her truth, speak yours. Pharisees
Delete16:25
DeleteGod bless u for saying d truth
If you are sincere, you would have learnt few things from her write up, but no, she is always wrong. Majority has positioned their minds to believe that when ever one person disagrees among many, that person is not right.
DeleteANG I know not all your contributions are perfect or the best but majority are inspiring and I learn from it most especially the scriptures. Thanks.
@ 16.04, I have learnt absolutely nothing from that write up there. What has she said that others haven't said In a better way? Sabella, Kamikaze and other reasonable bvs have advised the poster. Please tell us what she has said that is unique or outstanding amongst other comments, shior.
DeleteStella, some men are dirty. I swear, neat women can date such men. Smell and dirt turns me off I swear to God. How then will I marry and leave with such man for the rest of my life? I'm not perfect but I try my best to smell good and look clean especially when I'm in a house with other people. Stella, do you know that some men have smelly penis and balls? And they want you to give them head. Men, you all should try to take up your hygiene. That believe that it is only women that should take hygiene seriously is long gone.
ReplyDeleteThis your waka much ooo.. Softry with man n head
DeleteSome men are dirty yes, but believe me women are worst, i know what i'm saying.
DeleteDear poster,
ReplyDeleteI'm not sure you like the guy at all. You are already irritated sef. You can pass on your message to him with love and he will become your mumu. Tell him that you have a surprise for him and take him on a date to a spa. He will love you for it and would try to reciprocate. Then give him the "news flash", that to please you, he has to be clean and soft. Be romantic Nwa! Lots of love ooh.
I married one. Changed all his boxers and underwears. Bought him perfumes. Good guy but very dirty. If you pick up his boxers to wash, they will be slimmy. He never really changed. We broke up but not because of that. When he sits and decides to get up. The whole sofa will be smelly.
ReplyDeleteGod help me not to ever date a dirty man, i do not think an extremely dirty person ever changes reasonably though.
ReplyDeleteI hate any odd smell, like mouth or body odour. I also hate when i visit someone and there's a peculiar odour in one's living room or house, sometimes this odour could be as a result of dirty clothes, floor or furniture. I may likely never visit that person again.
I dont know if I'm actually ok or not, but if i kiss a guy when his mouth is not clean, i will have running stomach later. So it's a serious torture for me, even some pungent smell upsets my stomach.
I feel its laziness causing these dirtiness. I always tell anyone that cares to listen, apart from taking care of your body, it takes approximately one hour to keep your house clean fairly enough for a week. The worst are those that keep a dirty kitchen, like thats an area you prepare what goes into your body for God's sake!
How do you start dating a guy without first being a friend and deciding if u would want a relationship.
ReplyDeleteMy only issue with this poster is the fact that's she's clearly an unrepentant ethnic bigot. The effontery to describe him using a "mallam carrying kaya'got me pissed. I'm of northern origin and it's crude hearing stuffs like this. A mallam would never profile other ethnic groups in such manner. Cos he wld be busy minding his business. But madam "pristine clean" is here spewing in the ""nonsense" such. I'd say ur attitude shows clearly that ure worst than the so called mallam. IfMIf u were Abit better than the Mallam.ud have used other adjectival phrases instead of ethnic profiling.grow up.
ReplyDeleteNna this is the best rejoinder. I love your guts
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