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Monday, September 21, 2020
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Nigeria men finds it difficult to remain platonic with their girlfriends, must they kiss or gbensh!!!
ReplyDeleteMust the girls demand for money? When you do, you give room for him to demand for pussy.
DeleteIt's a shame that some people don't know the difference between courtship and constant harassment/creepy behavior. Extreme coercion is not cute and any woman that has been conditioned to see that as love needs to unlearn a few things.
DeleteQueen, i sincerely hope you do not raise your daughters to see Ozo's behaviour as chasing or courtship. No means no. I have encountered Ozo's type and it took me two years and a flight across the Atlantic to feel safe again and get my life together. Men like this are borderline obsessive and tend to be both physically and verbally abusive. Ozo needs help and strong advise. This is not love or chasing, this is lack of self worth and inability to take no for an answer biko and it is a complete recipe for disaster. To all ye calling for a man like ozo in u your life, i sincerely wish you well. Come back to tell the tales.
DeleteYou said it all
DeleteWell said! Narcissist! No means No
DeleteOmg, well said. I usually do not comment on these bbn folks. He looks like a woman beater for real. The kind of guy that will deal with you after you finally agree to his advances. No means no for real. There was nothing cute about the way he was after that chick. When toasting, both people involved are interested.
DeleteSome of you typing didn't even watch the show. Good enough Nengi cleared all of you yesterday that she initiated the chase. She said she found him attractive and would want him.
DeleteYou all just watch 5mins clip on instagram and feel u understand dem or know what they had.
DeleteWhen dis boy will give up and let her be. This girl will do everythn in her power to win him back. Is dat someone dat is being harrased will cook,eat and shower with him. The day he eats with someone else or spend too long with someone else shes upset.
Leave dis boy alone and stop calln him names.
I totally disagree with her Stella, a man should be able to know when he is not needed,just like wat prince did. u don't force things especially love relationship,because of nengi ozo seems to be having low self esteem.. Ozo is an handsome and intelligent young man that attract any kind of girl buh he just begin fool himself,run foolishly after some1 DAT treat you like trash.....she would not hug him or appreciate him...Stella would u like any of your handsome Bambinos to have a nengi in dere life?
ReplyDeleteMy dear wake up!are u sure u are not part of the indomie generation?.if u hear love stories of some older folks it started like nengi n ozo story.most of the women then didn't appreciate the man immediately.
DeleteOzo's borderline obsession would have climaxed had Kiddwaya still been in the house.
DeleteThe night Ozo was awake watching Kidd when he went to urinate to see if he would hit on Nengi by waking her to follow (My observation), is the day I knew something was wrong with him.
Ozo started sleeping at the foot of his bed to be close to Nengi and despite all the advice from housemates, he still kept going back to be manipulated. And I say that because Nengi had her role to play too. She would get upset when he is talking to or helping other girls in the house and when he decided to give her all his attention, she would say that he is closing her space and that they should mingle with others.
Once she got Ozo where she needed him to be, she remembered that she needed to be left alone sometimes.
Ozo, love is good but commonsense and self worth is better.
Giy behaves like someone who has never chased a woman before and from his regular remarks that he has never been a relationship guy, believe me when i say that the thrill and challenge is what kept him pushing because he does not know how to lose.
Once he gets Nengi where he needs her and how he wants her, the scales will fall off his eyes. I know guys like that.
You also forget most of the women in that generation were also trained to accept a man who says he loves and wants to marry them?
DeleteMoat of those women were also made to marry men that r*ped them too.
I have an Aunt who was made to marry that way and everytime she keeps saying that if she had known better, she would never have married her husband. They are still together but you get my drift?
Do you even watch the show anon 19.02 him even moving his bed there was Nengis idea when Tochi left. She told him to come sleep next to her.
DeleteThe day they fought and he moved his pillow other side. What did Nengi do she got angry and returned his baby pics he gave her.
Leave d boy alone. Hes not ur cup of tea but stop slandering him haba.
BED AND ROSES, I watch the show very well and I know that bed was Tochi's before he left. What excuse did Ozo have to be sleeping at the foot of his bed if not for Nengi? Wasn't it to be closer to her? Is that how a normal person should sleep?
DeleteRomeo and Juliet theme,very romantic, I really love nengi's diplomacy ,a lady shouldn't price herself cheap because of love.kidwaya and nengi are my favourites courtesy of SDK blog fans ,I have never watched the show
ReplyDeleteYou clearly hqve no sense. If you like, lead a man on for 5 years or date him after a week, what will work will work and what will not work, will simply not.
DeleteAt least Romeo and Juliet loved each other equally yet their foolishness led them to kill themselves.
What Ozo has is obsession, lust and infatuation mixed into one. He does not know Nengi enough to love her and Nengi is smart enough to know that her paymaster has more to offer than Ozp's puppy love.
All you people think love alone is enough to make a relationship work? Very funny.
I really love your upbringing, typical of you
DeleteAnon 19.06 i know u are the same person. Bitter humanbeing, Ozo is not d cause of ur lack of love.
DeleteIf he is obsessed does Nengi not have right to report him.
Common sense is not bitterness BED AND ROSES. If it were a woman who did all Ozo did, I know how people on this blog would have shamed her and called her all sort of names. Ozo has OCD and needs to check himself. Love is not by force. Stalking Nengi as though he has not seen a woman at his full age of 28.
DeleteHmmmm!!!
ReplyDeleteEveryone wants to trend with Ozo's name😕🤔🤔
Nobody have time for chasing again. Lots of motivation speaker, and experiences we read from the blog have taught s to value ourselves and do away with anyone who does not value us. If anyone doesn't appreciate you, leave the idiot and move on, to where you're appreciated. Lots of more beautiful Nigerian girls will beg Ozo to even snap with them not to talk of relationships. No time for nonsense.
ReplyDeletePart of the indomie generation mentality.how far with their no time for nonsense in terms of marriage n relationships.failure all the way!
DeleteOzo was just clowning away. Nengi is a street-smart girl that knows the importance of other factors in a relationship beyond love.
DeleteThere is no amount of love that Ozo gives that will make Nengi love him back the same way. That's just facts.
I also find it funny that anyone believes she is 22.
Indomitable generation all the way. Suffering and Smiling in marriage generation, your time has passed.
DeleteAllow the indomitable people love their way.
On point, got the kind of reply I wanted. The truth is lots of people just misinterpret the core of motivational messages and misinterpret most of the time. Seen how the new generation have misused terms like feminism and independence to mean bitterness and frustration, capped with lies, fabrications and deceit. Let people know you for who truly are.
DeleteThis kind of toasting wasn't what we had then abeg, it is irritating, Nengi even told him if he had tried it with her outside the house she would have embarrassed him seriously yet oga keeps following her.
ReplyDeleteHurpe u de on point jare
DeleteU can love and toast a babe and still give ursef some senses, he refuse to give nengi some breathing space and forgot his game despite her telling him she has a relationship outside the house. Even nengi told him relationship isn't her reason for coming to the house, that babe nengi isa real gee she so loyal. She deserves accolades.
U didn't have it then,doesnt mean others didn't have it.speak for yourself
DeleteI couldn't agree more
ReplyDeleteHmmmmmm.
ReplyDeleteI agree with her completely.
ReplyDeleteYeah yeah yeah but it was a big turn off because he had no other preoccupation and always looked creepy. At least in the real world those days, you go to work or school, exchange love letters, go to the stream together, take long strolls etc.
ReplyDeleteI beg to disagree
ReplyDeleteToasting is fun if you are interested
If you ain’t and deep down your No truly means No
Then it’s harrassment
It’s blatant disturbance
You don’t try to kiss me just because you have asked me out and I said No and somehow you think you can straight up kiss me like that??
How? Why??
Outside the house, ozo type are guys you block their calls and avoid at all cost
They are the guys that come to your house (if they happen to know there) to see you without prior invitation and beg and beg you to come out
It’s annoying
I have been there
Lol, I completely agree.
DeleteI agree with her but Ozo and Nengi is a wrong analogy. Ooo was not chasing Nengi. That was stalking and suffocating abeg. I never condoned those type of creepy and persistent toasters in my time.
ReplyDeleteThere is a difference between going the extra mile for what you want and being obsessive and refusing to take No for an answer
ReplyDeleteNengi repeatedly told you she had a relationship outside
That you are just her friend
And yet you seen on camera trying to give her a full on kiss on the mouth 🤦♀️
Let’s be sincere, how many of us girls can take it from a guy we ain’t that attracted to? As nengi has said it severally that she doesn’t see him that way
Those that are married and still admire this trait
Let’s see if you would find it cute if a guy asks you out and still refuse to take No
👌👏 Ozo is smart but went overboard with this... it was just too much please.
DeleteShe's right oh. Chasing made toasting fun.#spotremover#
ReplyDeleteNot when the girl has consistently told u she's not interested in dating you but being friends.
ReplyDeleteYou would start to irritate the girl especially everytime u bring up that love talk abeg. I only want u to love me this way (not this obsessive tho) if I love u in return.
So Queen, I do not share this ur sentiment at all
Story!no be today,some women may not want today but after 5years they want.it happens.
DeleteI 🤔
ReplyDeleteWe're presently in a smart world.
ReplyDeleteWe cant be chasing money and women playing hard to get.
We cant be chasing one woman for long when the world population has more women than men.... even in Isiah 4:1 it says "And in that day seven women will take hold of one man......."
Any man caught doing so is a descendant of Tony umez, a Durrrrling or a Simp.
I agree with you. Prolonged toasting may be cool for older centuries, but our century is a 'tech smart' one. Then, a man will only see a woman once in a full moon or every market day (once in 4 days). Now we have phones, social media..to quickly connect if you don't see physically, thus speeding up the dating process. I am a lady and I don't play 'hard to get' o. If I like you, I like you and see if we have same values. But then again, I believe in celibate dating, so that's different. Cos most 'hard to get' means 'hard to sleep with'. And for me, that only happens when married.
DeleteNIB u are somehow like me. If I like u, I don like u, my shakara is only for a very shortwhile. What's the point of playing hard to get if u will still agree.
DeleteI don't have time for such games. If e no work, e no work be that.
@Eka, abi oh, no time to waste time, chop knuckles jare😘
DeleteLoud it Queen 👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏
ReplyDeleteLove is sweet if your grow up in the home of love you will not lack to give it
This is not love,is called suffocation
ReplyDeleteI don't know where you "twitter generations" got that usage of "toasting"
ReplyDeleteHope nobody writes that thrash in official use or examinations.
Whether it is "chasing or quickie,"
The best thing is to allow sound and enduring friendship to develop and get
to know each other without the confusion and addiction of fornication coming in.
For me, after more than three years of friendship, I said yes in a matter of
minutes of popping the question.
🤦🏻♀️🤦🏻♀️🤦🏻♀️🤦🏻♀️🤦🏻♀️🤦🏻♀️🤦🏻♀️🤦🏻♀️🤦🏻♀️🤦🏻♀️🤦🏻♀️🤦🏻♀️🤦🏻♀️
I do not agree with Queen. Courtship and chasing arenot the same.
ReplyDeleteThere is a big difference between chasing and body guarding
ReplyDeleteOzo too do abeg
Ozo type of chasing is very irritating and dangerous,the girl has made it known to you that we're just friends and Oga is still pushing like his life depends on it.meanwhile why people like me are angry is because there is a price tag,why allow Such thing take away your focus from the price not minding the outcome...I don't pray to have somebody like ozo in chasing woman in my life despite that ozo is from my LGA I reject his second for imolite.
ReplyDeleteWhen the feeling is not mutual, it becomes stalking and harassment.
ReplyDeleteThe stone-age generation love marrying the first man that professes love to them and not care if they feel the same and that's why most of them remain in the marriage because of their children and not because they love who they married. Matchmaking was the order of the day.
People need to understand that giving your love interest a break when they are not interested so you can be missed isn't a sign of weakness.. It's commonsense.
But nengi likes the boy. The other day he ignored her she went crying to big brother. She is just respecting the camera but she like ozo.
ReplyDeleteSmart one.most of the people commenting na indomie full their coconut.They r too blind to see
DeleteQueen help me to increase the volume to 💯 so that those at the back can hear you loud and clear.
ReplyDeleteThe guy is toxic a narcissist
ReplyDeleteDo u even know the meaning of the words u are using ? I doubt.
DeleteWhile I find his obsession with her troubling,I also take into consideration that we were privy to only a portion of the happenings in the house.such as the fact that she regularly showered with him!so she keeps presenting a false image for the public, making him look MAD!
ReplyDeleteThats how queen jumped into her first marriage as a young girl and left quickly when she saw it didnt favour her now she is talking about courtship.
ReplyDeletewow Queen was Married before shuoo... iya boys blog is the greatest oooo....
Deleteso what...
DeleteYou are talking about courtship which you didnt practice in your first marriage.
ReplyDeleteI totally disagree, ozo was choking nengi, won't excuse her too cos she lead him on. Trust me dating someone like ozo in the real world would be tiring. He would want to involve himself in every aspect of ur life, the type that might even follow his girl on a girls night out just to feel secured.
ReplyDeleteBeing with his type before, its starts to choke, even as married couple both parties need time alone abeg. Ozo needs to work on himself, its his type that would calk , once u don't pick up can show up to ur house unannounced.
Ozo has dome mental instabilities in my eyes. The way he stares at nengi and the way he behaves and giggles to himself while in the arena for games. I feel for him and I wish he could get evaluated. I will teach my kids how to accept no and how to manage rejection from people. Imagine all the insults from nengi,ozo was still busy following her like one mkpi. Tufia
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