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This is unbelievable. But why go ahead to marry a man you once dated his brother? You kept quiet cos you didn’t want to lose him.
ReplyDeleteYou won’t only lose this man, you are going to be labeled an adulterous woman. Now you are not at peace with yourself.
I think you should open up, the earlier the better.
That swine of a brother in-law was bold to sleep with his brother’s wife. Some things can be avoided for peace of minds sake. Na wa.
The poster is very selfish. Her husband deserves better. So many secrets just so she can remain a Mrs.
DeleteDear women, lets try and be using our complete brain. How can you go on knowing fully well he is your ex younger brother? Not cousin o.. havent u heard of okafors law?
ReplyDeleteU love him and dont want to loose him indeed. Abi u felt uve seen a cooling spot to spread,not knowing your ass is about to blaze up. And no, its not about keeping secrets because that marriage will still pack up anyway, its about walking away from impending thrash with your shikini dignity still intact.
Paddle your keno madam.
Seconded, gentle work out 🏃🏃🏃🏃 before you will be digrace by both brothers.
DeleteWhat is wrong with this woman,If your husband truly loves you he's sure going to understand that it's your past. Tell him the truth
DeleteYou should have told your fiancee the moment you found out your ex was his brother. There are some secrets not worth keeping. "Take it to the grave, take it to the grave" but their are limits to that. Before you got pregnant you must have known your ex and his brother were related somehow either through pictures or any other way except you don't have deep discussion. And if you didn't you ought to come clean the moment you found out no matter how hard it was. She waited too long to tell him. She needs to tell him now else the abuse will never stop. The man will be shattered by this betrayal coming from both his wife and brother and hope he doesn't do anything funny.
ReplyDeleteA family friend found out his girlfriend was how ex girlfriend's sister but they went ahead with the wedding considering he never had carnal knowledge of his ex. It was easier to come clean to both families and they gave their blessing and they are both married till date. I think she had sex with the first brother hence the difficulty in opening up else he was just an ex and they have both moved on so why hide it?
There*fiance*
DeleteYes, she should have come clean, i can never understand why people like to complicate their lives.
DeleteI tell you gifty. The way the whole thing is now. It's best she just ease herself out of the marriage like it never happened. Write the man a letter,pack her bags and go into oblivion before the man returns. Instead of still hanging around talking about not wanting to lose her marriage.
DeleteI saw the post somewhere, and commented 'you are stupid'.
Delete🥴🙄 Abeg
ReplyDeleteNa wa ooo
ReplyDeleteOh my God!!!
ReplyDeleteShe should have told her husband the whole truth before the wedding and if it goes on all well and good at least she will have peace of mind.
Now she's at the mercy of the useless evil brother in law.
She should better still confess. Say the truth and it shall set you free. It may no longer restore her home but she will have rest and not permanently watching her back and living a lie.
Someone like my husband marriage don end ooo because he's a very trusting person, it takes the grace of God for him to let it go.
He will tell you that anything I need to know let me know now don't let me hear it from outsiders and now feel stupid like a fool
This is not going to stop anytime soon oo....the ex will keep coming for more....which kind wahala be this mbok
ReplyDeleteGbam
DeleteShe's a graduate and writes like this? Mtchw!
ReplyDeleteWell, me thinks the marriage is doomed already...unless the husband's maturity is out of this world. Again which man would swallow all these n stay calm? It's over once u spill...love will fly out of the window.
ReplyDeleteMaturity law? Nigerian women do a lot of nonsense and want a man to let it go because of 'maturity'. Maturity kee you dia.
DeleteShe should tell her husband and be be prepared to leave the marriage too. They started everything on a false premise. Besides, men are not worth killing oneself for. She would end up in very serious depression if she is not careful. It's a serious matter
ReplyDeleteI always say that some secrets always stare at you laughing because they will confront you in the very nearest future.
ReplyDeleteIt is better to speak out to your partner than keep it in, setting yourself and your partner up for future premium heartbreak by keeping such secret is not an option.
If she had told her husband that she dated his younger brother before in school, this evil story that touches the heart would have been avoided all together.
If your husband truly love you, he would have forgiven you and still go on with the marriage; but, you decided to listen to the devil and play smart.
Why not report the rape case first and damn all the other consequences.
I don't know oo
ReplyDeleteShe should have played her own script
Stop playing your in law's script.
You see how he has messed you up and fled. Now he fled to another house which you thought was never available.
So long you keep quiet this shit will continue.
Please activate your brain.
That lack of peace of mind will make you look older than your age and like say na you born your husband.
ReplyDeleteWhen you tell him, the marriage will still pack up and that "baby mama youre insulting" is what youll turn out to be,so u can understand that not everyone chose to be babymama, life happens.
Then when you start looking like mamaNku in yr youth,that ur husband will goan pick a much younger lady, your ex will see you as a cumbin,then youll relearn all the lessons of life you ought to av learnt, using common sense. Prayer cant fix broken shit. Patch it all u can.
12:25 you are a bitter baby mama. no be anybody do you. for your info, prayer can fix anything. couple that have gone apart from adultery have come together years after when forgiveness happened so dont say what you dont know. stop being bitter cos it shows all over your comments
DeleteShe should have told her hubby about his brother before they got married. The idiot now raped her. She should tell her hubby everything, and damn the consequences.
ReplyDeleteYou should not have married him in the first place,you will be the looser at the end! What were you thinking?
ReplyDeleteIt is better for you to spill everything now because that guy is still going to tape you more and it will turn to blackmail,if your husband truly love you he will forgive you.it is better to be in peace with oneself than to be in a troubled marriage.
ReplyDeleteNne, 'cry me a river', both you and your ex are birds of the same feather. YYou are selfish/self-centered and wicked. You don't LOVE that man, you just want to be 'married.' So you think your ex and brother in-law is through with you??? He'll keep having you for the rest of your married life in that family. How can you not know it is his brother you dated? Is it not the same surname? Do they not look alike? Is it not the same family? That your ex will eventually kill your husband and kill you. Better open up now and be prepared for all the consequences including divorce. The choice is yours.
ReplyDeleteThis is an example of not all secrets you take to the grave.
ReplyDeleteI ended a relationship after my introduction becos my exboyfriend slept with my cousin some years before we met...guess how l knew. My cousin visited me in the city and one particular night she was chatting on Facebook with friends. While l was watching a movie. She slept and did not log out from Facebook. And l pick her phone to see her picture behold she was chatting with my beloved boyfriend. I quickly screen shot the messages and off my phone. For like a week l didn't sleep in that house. I went to a friend's place and stay and from there l make more investigation on my cousin through my friend brother. My cousin doesn't know any of my friend. She only came on a visit She called that her course mate is wedding that she will be coming to my place to stay before the wedding and that their school is on vacation that time. So after making my findings l decided to visit my boyfriend and ask him about my cousin, he denied it. As l was talking to him l was with his phone. I quickly send a message to my cousin with his phone to come and meet me at a particular restaurant, my cousin didn't know l was the one that sent the message. I purposely fall his phone on the ground and it's scattered. Because l didn't want him to call my cousin before l will meet her at the restaurant. Immediately, l went to the restaurant my cousin was there waiting for lover boy. She was surprised to see me. When l asked her she denied it, but later she open up to me begged me not to tell her mother. Later my ex came begging. I forgive him. But we can't marry.
ReplyDeleteYou is super smart and a sensible woman.
DeleteI throway headdress for you!🙌🙌
Licious babe, this is not to take anything away from your story but your written English is very poor.
DeleteWhat type of school did this generation pass through? 😖
Anonymous, please l was in the bus heading to church when l sent in my comment on this post. I didn't proofread before l sent it. Abeg leave me alone.
DeleteStella where are my comments??? 600 years sha 😋
DeleteMy dear,I will advice you to tell your hubby everything but before you do,have a heart to heart talk with your ex( brother in law) record everything without his knowledge.discus everything that happened both in the past and present including the rape saga. Reason for this is bcos if he want to turn the table on you,the only thing that will save you and your marriage is the audio clip.
ReplyDeleteThis is a good one.
DeleteWomen and constantly wanting to eat their cake and have it!! I'm sure she's a BV. I stopped reading chronicles because of how aggressively stupid some women are.
ReplyDeleteI cannot fault you for not telling him that you dated his brother in the past, he would have dumped you with a baby on your hip.
ReplyDeleteHowever, I blame you for being cordial with his brother & living under the same roof with him. You made your home too comfortable for him to stay& you paid the ultimate price for it.
My fiance comes from an Igbo polygamous family & all the family members are closely knitted. They love & support each other's well well being, he doesnt even regard his half brother as his step brother.
I come from a nuclear family & we have zero family relationship with auntie's and cousins.
Some of his cousins & step siblings are living with him in their 3 bedroom apartment & he expects me to easily assimilate into their family values.
My first assignment when we get married is to motivate all the relatives to look for their own apartment by making the home uncomfortable for them using non- aggressive measures.
If you know what gives you peace of mind, you have to protect it with your last blood & by all means.
My Dear, it is better late than never. Get ready for more rape eventd because as long you conceal the truth he would surely come back for more.
ReplyDeleteIt is better to loose the marriage now than later when the brother and the family would have finished you. It is better late than never because more abominable acts is on the way.
He told you that for his own selfish reasons. Please be wise, there are some truths that cannot be hidden for too long else they would hunt you for the rest of your life...
@ Blessing Williams
ReplyDeleteThis is a good one
Blame will not solve the problem but good way out suggestion like this.
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ReplyDeleteYhe secret may be the reason she lost her first baby.some people's spirit are too strong for you to hurt them.
ReplyDeleteThis is too bad.
God forbid bad thing oh, heii 😥😮
ReplyDeleteI would have rather he killed me than allowing him to rape me oh. 😣
What kind of Messiah is this?
Just tell your husband, and pack your load jeje and go, I because even if he forgives you, he might harm his brother oh, and the family will never forgive you.
Anyways, the family don scatter
And mind you, if you keep quiet, this situation will get worse, and the end will be more disastrous.
Madam husbands fuck their wives sister,even mother inlaw yet they're not divorced, pls don't open your mouth to say pim, use attitude to chase your brother in law/ex outing your home, is not as if you dated him while married, He is past keep him there and diverse method to keep him off your home
ReplyDelete*devise* not "diverse" method to keep him off your home
DeleteDevice*
DeleteMy elder brother got some one pregnant anD the child is the same age with his wife's child but he's scared to tell his wife till date..some peeps will rather take their secrets to the grave than spilling to save face
ReplyDeleteSo I dated a guy for a few months, then there was an issue with his ex. The ex said she was pregnant, there was back and forth. I just left him, I was just 21 at the time. His younger brother was still in school, their last born and co. 7 years after, my mom was sick and we were at the hospital and a guy came over to greet me. I didn't even remember him but he turned out to be my ex's baby brother.
ReplyDeleteWe exchanged numbers, and that's how this guy started calling me, coming daily to check up on my mum. My mum was like "this guy loves you". I told her impossible but didn't go into details. Then we became friends, and he will say "you are my wife". I told him to disasbuse himself from that notion. This guy spent the next 3 years practically wooing me. My mum died but he was there for me. Although he's 3 years older than me, there was just this babyish view I had of him because of his brother. There was no sex or anything between us and I was dating other people, sometimes he will drive me to my date and pick me up. I don't know exactly when I fell in love with him but I did and we wanted to get married. That was where the problem started, he's the last born and the baby of the house, so everyone is protective of him. His sister told his mum that I had dated their firstborn, that's how mama refused o. It took 2 years to get mama to agree to the marriage. We've been married for a little over 9 years now and I thank God daily for making me marry him. I can't honestly imagine my life without him and our three kids. Honesty is key, I told mama one day it's not my fault her sons are after me and I didnt seek them out they came to me😃. More importantly, my husband knew about me and his brother, it wasn't a secret. Mama and I are cool now and we are one big happy family.
It pays to be in Christ.
ReplyDeleteFlee fornication.
This lady's whole mess began with fornication while in school.
If she has closed her legs, she won't have had it scattered when
she is supposed to be happiest in her life; newly married.
Yes, that's the truth. You can crucify me now that I've said it.
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Just open your mouth and tell your husband what he ought to have
ReplyDeleteknown before you ever got married. If not, the opportunist rapist
will keep eating his "free stolen lunch" till he slit your throat.
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Anon 13:59 you is a ticking time bomb,Tufiakwa! I pray God helps that young man
ReplyDeleteIt's because of ladies like anon 13:59 that they admonish young men to use the dating period to study their potential partner. It's not the time for sex because your vision will get clouded. Imagine the witch above 👆planning to scatter a loving and united family for her own selfish reasons. I will say a prayer for the young man, he'll never marry you and God will send him a good woman.
ReplyDeleteTell your husband on an outdoor date, not indoors. You cannot predict his reaction. Mine will “kill” me if I drop such a bomb indoors with nobody around! You have no choice but to tell him at this point. Do not let the devil lie to you to cover anything again as the brother is evil and your husband might end in prison because he may end up killing you both when not if, when he finds out! May God show you mercy and help you in Jesus Name!
ReplyDeleteNa that secret go kill her. Open up to your husband or your brother-in-law implicates you later. He doesn't mean well for you!
ReplyDeletehot mess. that is why some information should not be kept secret. you should not have married your husband withholding that kind of information, also you allowed his brother to be too comfortable around you and your home. your brother in law is wicked and evil. for your peace of mind and doing the right thing for the man who loves you, tell him the truth and danm the consequencies. you might loose the marriage but at least you have come clean. tell him the truth about what his brother has done and as long as you are sure he truly raped you dont let them make you feel ashamed as a victim. you made very stupid mistakes and as long as you have realised and come clean even God will show you mercy. wish you well cos this is truly hot mess
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