He explains his side of the story in his native language...
He added that he fell in love with Risikat because of her eyes and that he did not regret having daughters with blue eyes.
His claims were however countered by his mother-in-law.
Screen from video on @punchnewspapers on instagram.
His claims were however countered by his mother-in-law.
Screen from video on @punchnewspapers on instagram.
He sounds more believable than her...She is swooning in all the social media attention but it will end and reality will set in.....
They were made up and their looks transformed and that is good but telling lies on your hubby is not right Madam...Go and settle ooh.
She said in the video that if the first lady can settle them it would be good....So it is only the first lady that can settle?
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I hope that I am not biased!!!
She said in the video that if the first lady can settle them it would be good....So it is only the first lady that can settle?
I don't even know who to believe..the husband said he saw his children pics on Facebook begging for alms..so apparently it's cos they are not well taken care of reasons she left and not her eyes ish
ReplyDeleteGuy man ain’t being honest. If it’s because of her infidelity, why didn’t he take the kids away from her? Don’t know why people revel in lying. You are an adult, take responsibility and quit the lies.
DeleteI knew d man would come out once she gained public attention. He want them back so he can enjoy a piece of the pie...typical.
ReplyDeleteHe came out more quickly than I expected 😁
DeleteBini 🤣🤣🤣🤣
DeleteLet her continue
ReplyDeleteFirst lady will settle them with money. Poverty just make life no balance for this couple.. This life no balance at all
ReplyDeleteEnough with " this life no balance" its getting highly irritating.
DeleteStella pls post, I did not insult anyone o
Very irritating. Every time 'this life no balance. Balance it now
DeleteLol @ balance It now. You guys ehhh.
DeleteVery irritating something. I can understand saying where and when relevant, but always ending each sentence with the nonsense talk is irritating to me biko.
DeleteStella I have a feeling this man is lying.
ReplyDeleteHeseem to be all over the place. You provide and your beautiful kids and wife look so unkempt. Abeg make e shift jare.. but I pray they settle their differences sha.
Poverty doesn’t justify lying against the man. If he didn’t provide, the lady should have just owned her reason for leaving with her chest.
DeleteHe is a vulvanizer from the pics. How else do you expect them to look ... Like the Indimi's?? He provides according to his level.
DeleteHmmmmm, why would the woman lie? Was she the one that brought the issue to social media or someone else did?
ReplyDeleteShe's not the one jare, that man is lying.
DeleteThank you o. I'm very sure she didn't have an idea that the picture would go viral
DeleteIll rather be single,have my kids and remain single and doing good, than be married, stay married and be miserable. Times have changed, and i am empowered,i can never depend on a man for anything ever. And may my God never let me depend on a man for anything. Not even child expenses.
ReplyDeleteHmmm nice. Love this mentality
Delete#Word ........ IamWoman 🙌🏼
DeleteI believe the husband.
ReplyDeleteSame way I don’t believe Maureen and her petty rants on sm Until i hear blossom’s side of the story.
Some women no dey try at all.
The husband does not strike me as a responsible being. Why is he not living with them in the first place? Some men just go around impregnating women while hidding under religion of many wives
Deletedont believe who cares...man lying he brings 10k, brings juice brings this yet pickin no go school cos of fees. see how hungry they look. how much is school fees in that local partof Ilorin? i believe the woman cos you will be amazed at how these illiterates interprete issues they cannot understand. he should waka far and allow the woman enjoy the new open doors abeg.
DeleteWho's telling the truth?
ReplyDeleteHmmmmm, na wa...o
ReplyDeleteDude, wants a share of whatever money and fame she’s got. He’s not being truthful.
ReplyDeleteYou understand his game. He has some allies cooking the lies with him. O L E.
DeleteThe man can be lying.
ReplyDeleteSome men are enemies of progress
The man is just a vulcaniser so much how can he give her? I always tell people marry your type. The woman is not satisfied with the man and wants more. This social media attention would soon end then she would come back to face her realities. I remember the case of the bread seller how many people remember her name.
ReplyDeleteIf anyone wants to help let it be in the form of a scholarship or trust fund for the kids before we see another success story. You kind decide to dress and look anyhow just to gather pity. The more wretched you look the more people feel sorry and give. I think Nigerians have gotten wiser because despite the story I haven't read about people giving her money except the first lady who decided to come in. Let's keep on watching how the drama would finally end.
This man wants to tap from the fame 😁😁
ReplyDeleteYes you are biased Stella,did you hear the part where the girl's mother said she has been with them with her children since last year ileya,a man that abandoned is wife and children for a whole year is what you say sound more believable,so all the gibberish this man is saying is believable to you ba??? You don't know the iletracy mentality in men like this,yes the man may have liked this girl at the beginning cos of her blue eyes out of curiosity,but he must have lost interest along the way when his family and friends started making snide remarks about his blue eyed wife and children,did you hear the part where they said her inlaws said they don't like to carry their grand children that their eyes scares them,with all these,you can imagine what the girl has passed through cos of this special eyes she was blessed with but made her a misery to the uneducated circle of community she found herself.Yes she feels so happy with the sudden fame,my dear,she deserves it after all the pain she's been through cos of this unique eyes but I just pray she got her head screwed on and don't get carried away by it all,whatever help she gets from people should be utilised properly to train her children and get herself more education and as well start a trade cos she won't live on charity forever.I do not advice she takes that man back,he only came back cos the woman and the children got noticed,but knowing us women with fish brain,she will take the man back.
ReplyDeleteGod bless you 😘😘
DeleteAnon, you have some elements of truth in your write up.
DeleteLol @fish brain. I don’t believe the man too
DeleteGbam. So on point
DeleteI agree with you jare
DeleteAnon you will live long. The man said he saw them on Facebook begging meaning that for real he had abandoned them.
DeleteHe says the woman was wayward bla bla bla. We're the children also wayward for him to abandon them too.
I'm sure if he has the opportunity he will impregnate someone else again meanwhile he can't care for these ones.
The woman is free to enjoy the attention abeg but hope she doesn't turn to those parents that people helped and all they could do was to throw a lavish wedding.
Stella I am with you on this one. They probably had issues and he left married he because of her eyes. I never believed her story at all ..
ReplyDeleteStella, if you watch the lady video interview, you'll understand she never talked bad of the husband when they were together, she said her husband abandoned them when her in-laws started meddling in their affair because of the children blue eyes, they were like so your generation now is going to be blue-eyed, so the foolish man stopped performing his duties. It's possible he married her cos of her eyes but never envisaged all their children will have the same color of eyes as their mother. I believe the wife joor.
ReplyDelete😘😘😘
Deleteyou have sense... thank you
DeleteOnly God knows who is saying the truth
ReplyDeleteThe truth is between both of them.
ReplyDeleteHow can the man leave you coz you and your kids have blue eyes? Was your eye not blue when he met you?
All I see here is that she might feel she's not living the life she deserves and want more.
I wish them well.
I love their eyes though.
Irresponsible men have left women for flimsier reasons.
DeleteI knew he would crawl out of his hole when this woman blows. I guess he did not know someone would meet her and take her pictures and she would go viral. How come he didn't address her shop that packed up because they were using it to eat? That woman should please be careful. They should set her up so she would be independent. That man would run away again if the money dries up.
ReplyDeleteJoker.
ReplyDeleteI dont believe he left because of her blue eyes,cos he married her knowing fully well she had such eyes.
ReplyDeletemy thoughts too, after all he married her with the blue eyes, or did she suddenly grow the blue eyes?
DeleteBut this woman is beautiful sha.
ReplyDeleteReading comments from most ladies on this blog ehn, it's not hard discern why marriages don't last these days.
ReplyDeleteConfused set of females. Always looking for opportunities to play the victim card and insult men. Daily blaming men for their predicaments when the few females with sense are taking all the opportunities coming their way and making MAJOR MOVES with so much appreciation and thanks for being a woman.
In the last few weeks, I have seen three opportunities exclusively for women: Scholarship for women in valuation (Finance); Grants for women in business, Awards (with financial benefits) for women writers. But you'll never hear men complain of being marginalized. Just because men stay calm, these women who are the problems would still run to social media to tarnish a man image like Toke, king Tonto etc, and these jobless useless ones on blogs too that don't have sense would rally supports as usual. Just take a look at that yesterday post on Blossom and what's that Red vigor abi na Red lady name again.. the lady never pinpointed exactly what Blossom did wrong but as usual this senseless ones were just talking trash insulting the guy..
Or is it that other post yesterday on that lady holding a placard taking about financial support to the husband and these same ladies who have always scream "wives not cooks;wives not cleaners, wives not slaves".. etc are now coming to claim that they are holding down the home front, and that's their support? How? Holding down the home front by not doing what is to be done in the home or coming to nag after doing it?!.. what exactly is the problem with these feminine folks sef...
And na one unfortunate man go still come marry these kind girls put for house oh.. na to die before him time remain nah.. one was even saying they supports by giving comfort.. Visit the nearest beer parlour closest to you and see what's really giving most men the comfort they need..
Nonsense and dumb ladies
Wailing wailer! So if they call men now,you too will come out? Smh
DeleteThis beef is too much you hear?try fish!
Bye!
Danta, I love u and a million likes for this statement u made. Honestly in all my years of existence, am never seen a gender so biased and selfish like the female gender. God forbid! Most(cos few wise ones exist) are quick to play the victim and apportion all their problems to the men. Whenever, there is issue involving both gender, they are always quick to sides and bash men, the man is always the cause of all their problems and misdeeds. Anyone with a functional brain will know that this woman's story about her husband abandoning her cos of her eye color is false, thesame eye the man saw o and married her even when he wasnt blind,....now the man has come out to say his truth and without reasoning, some are yet opening their useless mouths to
Deleteinsult him. He wasn't providing enough cos in Nigeria a vulcanizer and his family should reside in banana island abi?.Their hatred and wanting to control men will bring their very downfall, always wanting what they can't give. Little wondering marriages don't last these days, two captains cannot sail a ship!
Oga Dante you sound soooooo pained. Are you still talking about the blue eyed woman? Wow someone must have hurt u bad. Don't worry it'll all be better soon. Ndo oooo!!
DeleteWho is lying then?
ReplyDeleteThis woman did not bring this issue to social media by herself, she barely speaks English ohh.
ReplyDeletePlease keep this in mind.
This is just a case of God deciding that it was time for someone to be blessed, then those who abandoned her, mocked her, abused her, told her she was nothing but an abnormal person due to her natural features, now find out God has decided to use that same feature they mocked to lift her up.
In fact, am just pained by what this "husband" is insinuating.
Imagine, he wants fFirst Lady to settle them now abi, did he go to try to settle before now?
Let him give us evidence and call witnesses.
Learn to read and comprehend now. You can meet someone close to you to read and explain something to you if you find it hard in understanding things.
DeleteWhere did you see that the man is the one asking the first lady to settle them?
She didn't bring it to social media but sat down for an interview bah? What exactly was the interview for?
You might not have sense but you can at least meet with someone that has, let him tell you what is sensible then you can post.
You have the "whole world" reading your comment please.. it should serve as your lil help to making the world better.
Blessings
You are such a big baby 😂😂😂🤣
DeleteDon't worry, a woman will help you sort your life out ohhh, that is how God made us.
Take care, help 👰 💪is on the way😝
So Dante the man must be right simply because he is a man? No need to reply you sef. Always blowing hot to abuse women. Thank God you were born of a woman. You are welcome to rant like a he goat under my ass.
DeleteLmao @anon14:01. That one? Always talking in the nonsense!
DeleteObioma,more like cry baby. Tueh!
#UntoTheNextPost#
I belidve the woman. You will be surprised at how stupid some men (educated men for that matter) can be! One of my best friend, an albino, got married. Very beautiful girl. Most people don't even know she's albino. They mistske her for awhile lady. The man really loved or shoukd I say liked her at the beginning (so she thought). Along the line, the man started acting funny. Maybe his friends were talking or so. Their 3 kids are fair but not albinos. The fookish man had the nerve to suggest that they use egg donors to have subsequent children. That he doesn't want albinism in his children's genes. The girl asked him if he did not know she was an albino before he married her and the man said he didn't really understand it initially. The story is quite long
ReplyDeleteThe girl took a walk from the silly man and has since remarried to a much more deserving man. I can bet my last kobo that mxn started making nasty comments about the woman's eye colour eg claim that they are bringing him bad luck. Educated men have done foolish things so you can imagine what the uneducated ones can do.
Just imagine! And he married her! Thank God she took a walk
Deletethank you oh, imagine people saying he cant change because of the eyes....you can imagine the man saying they are using his children to beg for alms on facebook. was it the lady who brought her case to social media? it was a girl wholike them and saw they needed help who brought the story out. am sure he knows people might have started giving her money. i pray the kids get to go to school at least
DeleteNa wa for you, Stella. All of a sudden you believe the woman is lying?
ReplyDeleteThat is why many women are dying in silence. If they talk and the man talks, they are branded liars
Poverty is a bastard. Look at the havoc done to this marriage because of it.
ReplyDeleteMore like ignorance. There are poor people who are married peacefully. Their issue is lack of finance which they take in their stride.
DeleteLife challenges....
ReplyDeleteStella this man abandoned them,I saw someone wrote a comment here that the man is only vugarnizer that how much can he provide,so he didn't know he's vugarnizer before he went and marry wife huh??? And started birthing children he can not take care of.Let me put more light on that,yes the man is a vugarnizer,it doesn't stop him from providing for the wife he married and put food on the table for the children he made from his own loin,ilorin is not so expensive to live in,aside from that they could manage from whatever little money he makes from his little hustle.I don't believe this man at all,he is making it all up and to me he's not a very good liar,habaaa mana,hear him saying he takes food,rice ,elubò ,juice and all to his children everyday 😃😃,are your children not supposed to be living with you?Did you hear the part where the mother said when they complained that his wife was getting lean,the man replied them that people who are working are not eating talk more of his wife that is not working,they even called the man and spoke to him to please change his ways and look after his family,he refused to listen,it was after that the wife went back to live with her parents,the wife did not even speak bad of her husband except that she said her inlaws were meddling in their marriage and that was part of the reasons that led to their seperation cos this weakling man she married gave in to pressures from his parents and friends complaining about his wife and the children she was giving birth to cos of their blue eyes.When she said if the first lady will settle them,she didn't just come up with that,that was what was put to her from the question asked,the interviewer voice was not heard,only her own response was on air.it's only normal for her to feel elated with the attention she and her children are getting,I think people should stop hoping evil on her as an aftermath already,let her enjoy this fame abeg,den don suffer,now God has picked their call,make them enjoy am in peace biko.
ReplyDeleteAbi oooo. Let her enjoy the little she can. This man will still leave her once the money she has been able to get now runs out.
DeleteYes i hope she really enjoys herself and comes out of poverty FOR GOOD!.
DeleteStella you are wrong on this one. How can you say She's lying? did she bring the matter to social media herself? no! Sometimes ehn, your judgment can be somehow.#spotremover#
ReplyDeleteI think the man only came out of hiding because of the sudden fame. He said the wife is wayward, so what has changed, don't you think she will be more wayward because if fame? Another point is that he left the upkeep of his children and never bothered to enrol them in school, so is it excusable for a man to abandon his kids because their mother is wayward? The man is irresponsible period, the mother in law affirmed it so he should crawl back to where he came from an abeg.
ReplyDeletePeriod
DeleteSome men can lie I don't believe this man. I remember when my uncle want to divorce his wife in order to make his family resent his wife if you hear the lies he told . Jesus a stranger that dont know his wife will hate her very much without hearing her side. He actually succeeded in making everyone hate his wife. Until one day my decided to hear her side of the story ,the lies are unmendable.
ReplyDeleteMehn I have seen many cases like this. I am surprised Stella fell for this one.
DeleteI watch the full interview of the
ReplyDeleteman,honestly I don't even know
who to believe,the man said he
takes care of her,the woman said other wise. even though some
men in cohort with their
families maltreat their spouse,
if they still love each other
they should reconcile and go back
and start afresh.
As if the first lady doesn't have her own problem
ReplyDeleteTheir blue eyes, their children, their cup of tea.
DeleteTHEY ARE BOTH PHYSICALLY AND MENTALLY ABLE❗
If you must marry, be ready to take care of your responsibilities.
Enough of this social media stunts.
FG be provide free education and skills acquisition from primary to secondary school level for your citizens and reduce poverty!
everyoung next time comment with sense...did they say she has no problem? so if the man has problems he should not feed his wife and daughters?
DeleteAnon 14:08 what are you talking about? You sure you are alright?
DeleteFG *provide* free...
DeleteThe man is a thin slim lier!
ReplyDeleteThe lady never spoke ill of him in all the interviews I've read or watched. She even said he comes once in a while to see his daughters and brings beverage along but doesn't drop money for their upkeep. It's her parents that are caring for her and her children.
This is a typical behavior of an average Nigerian man when he sees his estranged wife is about to make it or making it - bad mouthing her in order to assassinate her character.
The part of this interview that peeved me the most was the way he was swearing upandan.
After all the fame and charity gestures, this lady needs to be lectured and advised on how to manage money and keep yourself afloat cos nothing lasts forever. Everything is for a time and season; this is her time and season. Another person will come up to captivate the Nigerian online space.
Soldier come, soldier go.
Barrack must remain.
Na so my sister.........
DeleteI don't even know who to believe but we should try and look at some things...
ReplyDeleteFrom one of the pictures posted above, it seems this man is a volcanizer. If that is the only thing that generates income for him, how much does he earned in a day?
Some of us are shouting, they are not well taken care of/well fed, does this man look like someone that has more than enough yet he chooses to neglect his family?
What does the woman do to also generate income?
Men, look at the kind of woman you want to marry before finalizing the union. If she is the type that doesn't want to know when the harvest is plenty and otherwise, leave her alone and go for the one that help improved your condition. Women on the other hand, should learn to lend a helping hand to their partners especially if he can't foot the bills 100%. The country is "extra hard" abeg!
#ReservedQueen
If a supposedly educated and enlightened actor can deny abi abandon his daughter cos of her albinism, nothing can ever shock me about them.
ReplyDeleteHe left for some other reasons,not cos of the eyes.
ReplyDelete