Who fed this false info into your brain?
Thursday, August 27, 2020
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The Nigerian woman mentality believes THAT only a man must give money in a relationship or Marriage....................
Who fed this false info into your brain?
Who fed this false info into your brain?
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Hmmmm….the society.
ReplyDeleteThis type of stereotype of women can frustrate men
DeleteIt’s the same way some men feel only a woman should cook and clean in the home even if she is the main breadwinner. It’s a two way thing!!!
DeleteThank you Anon.
DeleteAnon 14.43👍
DeleteIf you're a woman, and you have a source of income, sometimes, try and support your man. It wouldn't take anything away from you.
ReplyDeleteRhoda baby, you are a good woman. Where do I send your pizza and chilled juice to? Not as if they will die when they do that.
DeleteMaybe this is for ladies in Nigeria, if you live abroad you support each other.
DeleteVery apt
Delete🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄I thought you guys (I mean the Man) planned to meet.
DeleteTeejay yimuuuuu yimuuuer yimuuuest. Always looking for locations
Same way if you are a man and are able bodied you should try and support your woman with domestic chores. It wouldn’t take anything away from you.
DeleteThank you anon 14:44
DeleteAnonymous 14:44, we support each other with domestic chores in the abroad ooo. No househelp here.
DeleteNa to help each other in everything ni ooo
Women should support their mates that they are married to, if you give man money and he deny u, u are on your own 🦋
DeleteI doubt a woman with a job would sit and watch her children starve. Meanwhile, check around you, leave social media first, check the people you actually know, how many married women are full time housewives?
DeleteTeejay, 80% of women support their husbands whether they know it or not. And I mean financially.
DeleteMay God never let us jam girls with such mentality. It's always about money for them. Greedy and selfish lot. No wonder some of them end up in ritualists cooking pot. Any woman with such money money mentality is not a wife material. As a man I'll always do my bit for you financially, but the moment you start seeing it as your right and narrowing down everything about the relationship to be about money money, you don lose me be that
ReplyDeleteOshey superstar, as if u are even a prize, who will lose you and bother.. Mofo
DeleteOshey superstar, as if u are even a prize, who will lose you and bother.. Mofo
DeleteChai Anon Why vexeth thou?
DeleteThe Anon is one of them. All they can offer is between their legs.
DeleteFor me I’m partially in support of woman demanding money from Men (reasons:)
ReplyDelete* you see the ladies as your chefs
* washing machines
* mandatory babysitters
* sex object ( one was even chasing his wife with knife 🔪 for xxx)
* see them as your prayer warriors
* some driver for the kids
* Some Goodluck Charm
Etc
Future wife should just pray I get everything she needed I won’t mind
🥳🥳 too
Bless you King Jerry, may you find the bone of your bone and flesh of your flesh.
DeleteYou na man ojare!.
DeleteIt is not like woman ain't supposed to support but don't come and be making it obvious like your life depends on it especially all those stingy koko like that one up there.
Abeg, say you do it csuwa it massages your ego.
DeleteAll what you listed can be done yourself. I don't expect any lady to come do all those things for me, maybe my perception might change when I get married, I doubt tho. As regards the baby sitting, you also providing the mandatory financial assistance, the baby belongs to you both, you're both contributing your quarters, stop making it seem like she's the only one making sacrifices. Though sensible people help, support and compliment each other, but don't make it look like it's only her making the sacrifice abeg.. if e easy to make money, they'll stop using all the means and manipulative strategy they can think of to BEG and DEMAND for it, just like the pix Stella posted above.
What baffles me the most is how someone can love money so much but won't go out and get it, but would sit here silly ass down waiting for it to fly and come to her on a platter.. omo ehn.. these people reasoning dey tire person..
Have a productive day ahead.
Bless
No matter what you say, people will still hold on to what they like.
ReplyDeleteAll I know is that being stingy with money makes no sense. We met it here, we'll leave it here. It costs nothing to be good.
It is not the "Nigerian women" mentality because it's not everyone that has same mentality bikonu.
ReplyDeleteEven on this blog, we read chronicles of women who did rather too much just to keep a man or to get the man to marry them, These includes building houseses for the man, starting up businesses for the man and even giving them money, so it is not the mentality of every Nigerian woman.
Another good angle
DeleteI tire o! Many homes are financed by women. Most of them don't talk because of their men's ego. It's on social media I see things like women demanding money from men, etc conversations
DeleteIt is the average Nigerian women mentality. There are only few exceptions just like it is with every general rule abeg. We don't judge things with its exceptions
DeleteAnon 14.11, God bless you. Even while growing up, all my friends' mothers worked. How many jobless full time housewives do we actually know in real life? That is the exception and not the norm.
DeleteInfact, being a full time housewife is even a worthy occupation. It is not easy at all.
Stella please can we talk also about "oriaku" men who abdicate their duties to the women and are covered by them
DeleteIn relationships, I believe in 100/100, not 50/50. Give your best, be it your time, your emotions, and if possible, your finances. I mean it's good to be taken care, but if I'm able to support my (future) hubby when I can, why not.
ReplyDeletevery apt thank you
DeleteGood. That is what marriage is. A partnership. Both of you supporting each other.
DeleteThank you Phoenix darling.
DeleteKami dearie, that's what marriage is, a partnership. I looove my sister's marriage, I wish all men could be like her hubby. They have days when they take care of the kids: bathe them, help out with their homeworks. Hubby doesn't leave housework to my sister. Some men will see him and say "he no be man"
My own is, as a lady be financially stable, have a work, job or handwork before marriage.
ReplyDeleteI didn't know who gave some ladies that mentality of seeing men as meal ticket or escape route from poverty.
Very correct thank you
DeleteI didn't know who gave some men that mentality that as a woman, you are automatically a slave to sex, to house chores, to taking care of the kids, etc.
DeleteAnon 14:12
DeleteAre you aware that ladies enjoy the sex more than men. The man spend their time trying to satisfy their woman during sex. If men begin to complain how some women are lazy during sex, you will see that some ladies sex game are worst than 2mins man condition. A man will kiss, romance, finger, suck nipple, change positions, caress breast , etc. and you say men see women as sex toy?
As for house chores, every reasonable man suppose to assist and same goes to taking care of the children.
You as a mother, train your male child to know that house chores and taking care of children is not for the wife only.
I have seen a lot of married men cook for their family.
I know one who will give his wife money to buy groceries and keep, when he comes back from work he will prepare the meal, just to ease stress for the wife.
Tell your husband that you guys should contribute money and buy washing machine.
Anon14:12, as long as you sit there waiting for a man to give you, a man says hello fine girl, you see an ATM, that man will forever see you as a sex object. Make yourself useful for yourself.
Delete😂😂as long as you sit there waiting for a woman to baby feed you, do your laundry, prepare your meals, run your household then women will forever see you as an ATM. make yourself useful to yourself.
DeleteLet women know you can do all these things without their help and don't ask for sex and see how uneasy they will be and look for other avenue to be useful to you.
Besides both men and women are sex objects to each other you just add money on the side. And if you pay for sex and call your woman a lovepeddler then you who visits or sleeps with a lovepeddler is also a customer to an ashewo. What a title right? You are not a customer at the bank, oil and gas but at an ashewo joint. Clap for yourself.
If you are bothered ladies bring nothing to the table but sex, don't accept the offer when they give you sex tell them you want something more and raise your standards if you have one. Let them know you are serious and won't settle for sex.
Support is mutual
DeleteEntitled Nigerians everywhere
Everyday relationship matter, una no dey tire?
ReplyDeleteThe matter no gree rest na.......
DeleteAnd na always women them dey like drag put ontop that relationship talk.
DeleteLike!!!
DeleteChisom the tin tire me o. The pressure on women matter na something else.
DeleteShooter gyal🤦 so exhausting.
Ikwakwakwakwakwakwakwakwa
DeleteAs in eh!!!
DeleteIts always good for women to support and/or help in lifting their husbands when they are down.
DeleteDon't see men as ATM pls, because atimes the ATM might be faulty and need help too.
I quickly disrespect any woman with such mentality. They always want to be at the receiving end always. Even the little they can do on their own, they will still demand money from the man. A man should take good care of his family no doubt but that doesn't mean a woman shouldn't help when she is able to do so.
ReplyDeleteI can't keep such a woman and this is one of the reason most men lately are going for financial women as to support the family and not one slay queen which all she could offer is her pu**y and nothing more.
I kinda disagree with your last paragraph. There are some slay queens who when it comes to their finances, lemme use this line "they full ground", they offer more, and it ain't their pu**y. Being a slay queen doesn't necessarily mean one is a bimbo. My opinion.
DeleteThis matter tire us 😒😒😒.
ReplyDeleteLike it's draining
DeleteMy own is, if a man is funding your lifestyle, he has every damn right to do what he likes....good or bad, he calls d shots.
ReplyDeleteAny woman or man who believes in 50/50 should make sure the man also believes in 50/50 household chores sharing else she will be looking old and haggard.
ReplyDeleteThe problem isn't sharing of money but will the man do the work in the house or leave everything to her.
You can't both be spending while the woman is the only one booking, washing dishes, running school errand for the kids, cleaning the whole house. Please have sense.
😘😘😘🥰🥰🥰 @ your comment.
DeleteAmen!🤣🤣🤣
DeleteI believe a woman should be able to support in relationship, As far as she has something doing. But don't carry all the responsibility.
ReplyDeleteNot all women abeg. I have seen ladies that supported their broke guys when he had nothing, as in nothing, one of them even accommodated her guy cos he has house problem. But guess what, when things started getting in shape and money started coming in, the guys left them, these are the ladies that invested financially, morally, even career wise in their guys, and it's not as if the ladies are below their new status. Do you think those ladies will want to do such in their next relationship?
ReplyDeleteI tire o.
DeleteEven the ones who get married to the ladies that sacrificed for them end up cheating on the wives
Seriously it's only in Nigeria women has a mentality of entitlement when in a relations. Ask, ask, ask and ask. This is while most men have no rest or value for women. Many feels being in a relationship with a man includes him taking over every single of her responsibilities.... A very wrong mentality!
ReplyDeleteGiving should be both ways and not something you demand or force. Have met women abroad who buys you gift, pay for dates and will never demand a dime from you or ask that you pay her shopping expenses. Until Nigerian ladies change this mentality, they will always be used and disrespected. Some thinks offering sex is enough to get money from him... oh really? apart from sex what else can she offer? Nigerian guys now go the extra mile to make money all so they can please a woman.
Your first paragraph is because it is only in Nigeria a man has a mentality of entitlement when it comes to housework matter.
DeleteI remember a blog visitor here told her male friend that his house was dirty when she visited with her friends and he said to her that is the reason he wants to marry because if he has a wife now she will be taking care of him and the house will be clean as a paralysed man that he is abi.
Go figure.
Nigeria men and women fit each other abeg. Two hypocritical gender breathing down each others neck.
Another guy sent a chronicle to stella on this blog that his fiancee and him are having issues o.. we even thought it was something meaningful until he said she has refused to be the one cooking, cleaning and doing everything a woman should do in the house after marriage and she said to him, if they marry she would only cook if she is hungry not because he is hungry after all he get hand and he was cooking before they met.
You see men have an entitlement of house girl when marrying
While women have an entitlement of men being financial problem carrier and solver. So everybody y should let us hear word.
The sex that only them enjoys cos they'll not calm down and 'return the favor' back to the guy.. very passive and docile in the sex, while the man would be actively giving them pleasure. Kiss forehead, eye lid, nose, lips, neck down to her toes, suck breast,eat pussy and ass etc.. come still begging dig from top.. ask am to do back now you go begin hear excuse.. even to ride na so dem no fit.. so which sex are you talking about abeg.. 'someone i know' doesn't even allow such kinda girls around him.. at this his level make him dey run all those kind paroles weh na secondary student dey run.. God forbid..
DeleteMen needs to get wiser.. they deserve better
DANTE God bless you. Most of them are very lazy during sex, but will still say they "give you sex" like they didn't enjoy it. Ladies enjoy sex more than men.
DeleteMost Ladies want a man that can penetrate for 45 minutes but can't even do 2-5mins reverse cowgirl.
😘😘😘🥰🥰🥰 @ Anon 14:36.
DeleteMen, help your wives with house chores and see if you won’t bring out the best in her. Even if you piss her off, she’ll remember some of those little things you do for her and forgive more easily. Allow your wife breathe and take a break, and see if she won’t sparkle and treat you better. Many Nigerian women are under the burden of contributing financially to the house and also running the household. Not every household is able to afford a help so help out with chores. It makes you more of a man to help your mate without being told. It’s not rocket science.
What about women who their men help out in house chores and they turn around and decide its his permanent duty.
DeleteLovetoloveu...nothing wrong with that especially if the lady also contributes financially. There has to be a balance. You can’t overburden your spouse and not expect her to possibly break.
Delete@ Lovetoloveu
DeleteWhy does the men think it is the women permanent duty? Why do you use that word "help with house chores"? who is he helping? The woman? This must be a joke. He Took care of his house as a single guy but suddenly became a crippled when he got married? A man taking care of his own house is helping the woman? Very hilarious.
Until we realise no one is helping no one and all responsibility must be shared equally only then can we have this discussion which you all aren't ready for.
Is nt abt d woman, even men has d mentality that they are to give to women, that's why some of them feel they can use money to get any woman they want,n if u check wella,only broke guys keep complaining abt this matter while cash out babes will be like,don't depend on d man,no one want to depend on anybody, life no just balance, pls I'm independent, I hustle out.
ReplyDelete