STAND ALONE NARRATIVE
ADVISED TO DIVORCE HUBBY OR DIE
Dear Stella and Bv's,
Where do I start from? My story goes like this
I come from a family of 5 , we are just two girls and am the youngest. My sis is divorced and presently lives with her children with my mum.
I on the other hand have been married for 5 year, and be ttcing all these while. I have had an ectopic pregnancy, a pregnancy that didn't grow. In fact the last one was via IVF, which after 12 weeks it stopped growing. The complication that came with this pregnancy was life threatening, I almost ended up in the theatre and almost lost my life but God showed up. Up till date no pregnancy, we are planning towards another ivf.
Now here's my problem, my sis has being having dreams about me dying with pregnancy. My mum went ahead to check some places and they told her that were I married from, my in-laws are pretending. They have vowed to kill my enemy with my next pregnancy, the only solution is to leave my husband.
Stella to say I was shattered was the least, I am married to an amazing husband that loves me to the moon and back. He adores the ground I walk on.
I need to know what to do, I need insights, am confused. I love my husband God. My mum is so scared and in tears, can't blame her. Now if I leave my hubby it would be both my mums daughters are divorcee.
The shame the stigma, she feels terribly bad, as my hubby has being kind, how would she tell him?? Where do I start from? I ve just 1 tube, my remaining tube is blocked amongst others, where do I start from?? I really feel like dying, I need help, advice, anything.
Dear Stella and Bv's,
Where do I start from? My story goes like this
I come from a family of 5 , we are just two girls and am the youngest. My sis is divorced and presently lives with her children with my mum.
I on the other hand have been married for 5 year, and be ttcing all these while. I have had an ectopic pregnancy, a pregnancy that didn't grow. In fact the last one was via IVF, which after 12 weeks it stopped growing. The complication that came with this pregnancy was life threatening, I almost ended up in the theatre and almost lost my life but God showed up. Up till date no pregnancy, we are planning towards another ivf.
Now here's my problem, my sis has being having dreams about me dying with pregnancy. My mum went ahead to check some places and they told her that were I married from, my in-laws are pretending. They have vowed to kill my enemy with my next pregnancy, the only solution is to leave my husband.
Stella to say I was shattered was the least, I am married to an amazing husband that loves me to the moon and back. He adores the ground I walk on.
He's being so supportive and has never used my infertility to insult me.
Before I married my husband I had other suitors, I prayed very well and God showed me a clear sign that he was my chosen hubby. The same day I prayed the other suitor miraculously disappointed me. It was a clear sign
Stella and bv's, I know my God does not make mistake, his words say "who is that that sayeth a thing that it will come to pass when I the lord has not commandeth it? How do I choose between the the man I love and staying alive and having my children??
Before I married my husband I had other suitors, I prayed very well and God showed me a clear sign that he was my chosen hubby. The same day I prayed the other suitor miraculously disappointed me. It was a clear sign
Stella and bv's, I know my God does not make mistake, his words say "who is that that sayeth a thing that it will come to pass when I the lord has not commandeth it? How do I choose between the the man I love and staying alive and having my children??
God knows how much I love kids.
I need to know what to do, I need insights, am confused. I love my husband God. My mum is so scared and in tears, can't blame her. Now if I leave my hubby it would be both my mums daughters are divorcee.
The shame the stigma, she feels terribly bad, as my hubby has being kind, how would she tell him?? Where do I start from? I ve just 1 tube, my remaining tube is blocked amongst others, where do I start from?? I really feel like dying, I need help, advice, anything.
*Wow...........,,what if the prophet or whoever else is wrong?if you prayed and God revealed your husband,cant you pray for God to reveal the enemy if there is one?
Why don't you tell your hubby about this?You don't need to think about dying because you are yet to be a mother,remember that some women have had their wombs removed and they are still alive and still with heir husbands and they still smile genuinely.
Na wah
I pray that God be kind to you IJN.😮😳😮
ReplyDeleteYour sister wants you and her to be the same. Don't have sense o. Be there and be talking trash. You don't have issues with your husband, but want to manufacture issues with your own hands. Mumu somebody.
DeleteAnon 15:51 ready well and understand before criticising,you sound like a retarded human with your insensitive comment. Poster please fast and pray,if you can go to the mountain please do.
DeleteAnonymous you're the mumu here... Nonsense insensitive being
DeletePoster, please don't let any prophet deceive you. Pray and fast seriously, with midnight prayer. God in His infinite mercy will reveal the enemy to you if there's one.
All the best
Go back o your knees and seek the face of God for yourself.
DeleteWhy dont you try surrogacy. Atleast you wont be the one carrying the child and they cant harm you or even know someone his carrying your baby until she puts to bed.
DeletePoster, you need to fight for your marraige and home. Give no place to the devil. Pls connect to NSPPD on YouTube. The ministry is streams of joy international. We pray every mon-fri. 7-8am. It has been raining babies on nsppd. The testimonies have been outstanding. God has spare parts in heaven and can give you new tubes if only you would dare believe. Join us and pray as God will give u a testimony that would sound like a lie and make every diviner on your matter run mad!
DeleteRemain with your husband. Hand it over to God. Listen to sermons. Read about hannah and pray at midnight
DeleteYour case is obviously spiritual. I didn't even need to read about your sis prophet before knowing it wasn't normal. If you say God gave you this husband, then let me tell you something, prov 10:22, says, the blessing of the Lord maketh one to be prosperous and adds no sorrow. Hence, they shall be no sorrow in your marriage. Madam, you need to become a prayer warrior, a vessel of the Holy Spirit to overcome these spirits. Start by attending a hot church like MFM or any warfare church around you. Then begin night prayers from 12 am to any time in the night spend your time worshipping God and attacking the demons against your home. Be specific and mention their names e.g demons of fear, divorce, foetus eaters etc. Build yourself up with the Word of God and take warfare very seriously. Barrenness is an affliction so pray to God to release his Angel's to free you from the affliction. You can download Olukoya and Joshua Selman's sermons on warfare. Just google them and download. Remember nothing is too big for God. Best of luck.
DeleteAnon: 15:51 why are you being bitter? What will her sister gain by wanting her sister divorced? Abeg borrow Sense.
DeletePoster, the God that showed you your husband is still on the throne and has never changed. Get down on your knees and begin to speak life to yourself, your husband and your womb. God will see you through.
If you are a Catholic start the Perpetual Help Novena daily.
God will see you through.
@poster yes the Blessings of God maketh Rich and added no sorrow.. all things being equal it will be but the devil will never allow that.. Remember the bible says we wrestle not against flesh and blood but against principalities and powers and works of darkness and also it is written that only the violent take it by force.
DeleteJust because he's ur appointed spouse doesn't mean there'll be no battle.
The devil only attack where there's is a prospect.
Just the same way you were divinely guided into marriage, go back to your marker and seek all the answers you desire.
One thing that have helped me through life is relating to God as my FATHER.. son I can talk/ask him of anything and I'll rest assured of having it according to his will.
This is the time to ask for your Right because Children are God's heritage and the Fruit of the womb His Reward.
How can you even think of leaving your marriage? What happened to prayers and fasting?
DeleteLet your mom stop going from place to place, most of those people don't see Nada, some of them are even fetish.
You know your fertility challenges, speak to your doctors and explore your options. If you think carrying the pregnancy will be too much stress for you, get a surrogate.
Go directly to God and forget all these prophets. They will always tell you what you want to hear so you will keep coming back and live in perpetual fear. Pray against your sister's dreams and stay with your husband.
This one pass me..o. It is well with you,I believe God's revelation comes with victory if truly its from God, pray and Fast about it
ReplyDeletePoster why not pray by urself and tell God to reveal all of it to u. U are powerful u know. Tell God to speak personally to u.
DeleteYou can have a baby through a surrogate. You can use the rodding medical centre in VI and the surrogate can stay with your mother during the period.
DeleteDon't give the devil a chance,reject every evil prophecy concerning your life,pray with the word,you shall live and not die,find Bible quotes that suits your present situation and keep decreeing,reject every evil pattern for your life,you shall not be a divorcee,you shall give birth like the Hebrew women,take it to JESUS,FEAR NOT FOR GOD IS WITH YOU,YOU SHALL HAVE WHAT YOU SAY,THE DEVIL IS A LIAR,peace✌️✌️
ReplyDeleteGod is able. Hold God tight and think positively.
DeletePoster, follow this comment by Amazon baroness - she said it all.
DeleteYou started this marriage journey with God, please keep Him close as the FIRST and FINAL AUTHORITY in your life.
Stella pointed that out with her red pen.
Stay in your marriage and OVERCOME all lying vanities.
NOTHING is bigger than GOD MOST HIGH. 🙏♥️💞🤗
Nigerians, living their lives off prophets and others because they're too lazy and lack understanding. God is now confused Abi???
DeleteAbeg, leave the man. He deserves better than you and your family.
One of the most annoying chronicles I've seen so far
I'm just speechless. May God come through for you sis.
ReplyDeleteIf you are that scared, why not do surrogacy. Grt a surrogate to carry the baby for you and your husband. It's not that expensive in Nigeria.
ReplyDeletePoster this is the best solution SURROGACY
DeleteI agree!!! This is your best option now. Save that IVF money and use it for surrogacy. Get an iron clad surrogacy contract.
DeleteWho knows, God might be merciful and give you more kids when you least expect. There’s a million and one stories like that. For now just get a surrogate. Don’t leave your marriage without hearing from God
Take the angle of prayer on this , the God who gave you your husband did not lie, but He didn't say there wouldn't be challenges.
ReplyDeleteThose who are planning your death are not greater than your God.
This is the time to pray;you and your hubby without relenting and also WATCH.
You can start your fasting and prayers once in a week 6 to 6 till you take in again and then stop when you get pregnant again.
Also midnight prayers is also very very effective.
Be fervent and BELIEVE you will win this battle.
Don't believe the report of any man above God's .
Your sis and mum who also heard the negative news should also start praying for you.
YOU WILL WIN.
Amen!!! 🙏🙏🙏
DeleteTwin Squared, much love. 💞
Poster, this is the best comment. Do this.
YOU ARE MORE THAN A CONQUEROR IN CHRIST! Hallelujah! 🙌🙏
Poster, God showed you your husband, and "those places" revealed that nonsense to your mother. It's obvious you believe "those places", and have forgotten all about the God you serve, thereby giving the enemy the upper hand. You have a personal relationship with your Heavenly Father, go on your knees, seek His face. Do away with all fears. I wish you the best. 🤗🤗
ReplyDeleteUna no de tire to go those "places".
ReplyDeleteTueh.
Dear Poster, what if the prophet is living?
ReplyDeletePlease fast and pray about this issue, let your mom join, and pray hard, seek God's face, because God can do something and the enemy will decide to sow tares.
So pray to God to uproot it, There is nothing impossible with Him.
May God show up for you,amen
Peace ✌
Surrogate
ReplyDeleteIt’s quite cheap in Nigeria
I was going to suggest the same thing
DeleteAnother good angle...
DeleteThe mouth you used to pray to God before nko???
ReplyDeletePoster please go for surrogacy and do not disclose this to anyone even your own family until the child is born.
ReplyDeleteA family friend here in Abuja just welcome a set of triplets via a surrogate. The wife has had countless IVFs all done in the US yet no success. She almost died at some point.
From your story, you and your husband are well to do, so don't stress yourself. There are legal Surrogacy agencies in the country now, check IG.
Most importantly keep the news to yourselves ONLY until the babies are born.
Better stop checking ndi amuma uya before you scatter you marriage.
ReplyDeleteDo you think it is easy to find someone who will stand by you during this your predicament.
Better start praying to God by yourself. And keep your mouth shut with your problems, because your mum probably checked "some" places because of your too many complaints.
Face your marriage poster and talk to your God.
You couldn't have said it better. Keep your testimonies (speaking positively) to yourself and take your petitions to God... Mothers may think they're doing right but then, it's well. Only the counsel of God shall stand!
DeleteIf God gave it to you, then He is in it. God will never take you to a place of sorrow or shame.
ReplyDeleteSince you said that God confirmed your husband as yours, then go back to God.
Why listen to all these prophets plus your mother's fears when you can take this back to the One who gave you this marriage?
My advice, listen to Pastor Steven Furtick's sermon on WALKING ON WATER 101.
My own case is different. I'm currently experiencing pains all over my body. It gets worse during my menses. It feels like I'm gonna die. Been to the hospital and have run series of test. Still have more to go. The doctors say that they are seeing anything serious from the tests, but I know I'm unwell. I've googled various cancers(God forbid) and there are symptoms similar to ovarian/gastrointestinal cancers. My husband tells me I'm overthinking stuff. I had to turn to my aunt who God has been using to minister to people (I usually kept her at arms length cos I didn't believe I've ever need any kind of spiritual warfare). After praying, she revealed to me that it was from my husband's place. She reminded me of asking me to pray against what killed my mother-in-law after my marriage. My aunt is unhappy about where I married into saying that the LGA is renowned for Jazz. She said that they needed my husband to come over.
DeleteSpoke to my husband about it. Said he can't come course of his job. He also concurred that his family are serious jazz people and that jazz was the reason his mom was late. He however assured me that he would be praying on his own and that my aunt should go ahead with the prayer as he didn't need to be physically present for a prayer to work. I don plead with him tire. Still going to the hospital and praying about it. Like the poster, he's the best thing that have happened to me. We have two kids even though we started trying for a third one last year but nothing was showing.
I used to be a high flyer before marriage (career wise) but everything has locked up after marriage. I love my husband but I'm seriously considering quitting cos na person wey get life they do marriage. Still considering my options. Quitting might be my last resort. Want to stay alive and watch my kids grow
Chee Chee wise words!👌💯%
DeleteI love Steven Furticks messages too. 👍
Poster, I’d advice you tell your husband. Corporate prayers have more power. And if after prayer, you still don’t have peace in your spirit , why don’t you consider surrogate carrying your IVF pregnancy instead of you. I’m sure the vision is not for the surrogate.
ReplyDeleteWhat if telling her husband brings more problems? Most men don't like hearing things like "I or my mum went to see a prophet concerning this and that". It can lead to something else. It's better to just tell her husband to join her in prayers for babies than saying her mum went to see one prophet or pastor. He may not like it.
DeletePoster, please, tell your mum to stop going from place to place on your behalf. They are not all genuine dear.
You will testify of God's goodness soon in Jesus' name. Amen.
Cynthia Iyede you so are right.✔️✔️✔️
DeleteThat going from place to place seeking solutions is faithlessness and like those heathens consulting various idols/mediums.
The "seeker's" state becomes worse than it was. Besides, they could lure one into witchcraft like King Saul did in the Bible.
If you trust so much in this God, why are you now helping him when it comes to having children instead of you to wait and let his blessings come that adds no sorrow. Why the urgent need to conceive. Have you thought for a second that God knows the beginning from the end? Stop this ivf thing and stop putting your body through pain. Let God do it for you. What if you now finally have the baby and then the baby comes with so many complications? Pls dear learn to trust God. Stop trying for babies let Gods will be done. Get enough rest, pray and enjoy your husband. While doing that or making love, let the thought of having a child not come to mind so you can enjoy ur intimacy and then watch God bless ur womb with his own fruit.
ReplyDelete👌
DeleteFaith without works is rubbish, if she doesn't try medically n otherwise for a baby, how would she get pregnant? Immaculate conception?
DeleteWait wait wait...years are piling up. If na u u go fold hand wait? She has a tube left n its blocked, she needs a medical HELP plus prayers...gorrit?
Stop ivf indeed...
Rubbish comment. When should she start trying for a baby? When she's 100yrs abi.
DeleteSo God will just drop a baby for her without her making any efforts? Y'all will give meaningless and unrealistic advise you won't even take. Mtchewwww
Blackberry please, 15:24 spoke the truth.
DeleteA lot of people go for IVF WITHOUT asking or seeking God's guidance.
They put themselves through so much pressure and pain. Of course, life is not free from both but it's better when God is in it.
God loves us more than we love ourselves and gives us the best through the best ways.
There are experiences we would not have (or have had) IF ONLY we ASK and FOLLOW God's leading.
Poster, please seek God in the secret place of your personal prayer. ♥️🤗
Hmmmm
ReplyDeleteEleyi gidigan.
Baba God please locate these poster.
Please don't leave your marriage, you and your husband can adopt, just discuss it with him
DeleteYou said you prayed and God showed you your husband. So how is it that you are faced with this difficulty and you can't face God until you hear him? Why leave your amazing husband over a speculation? Even if what your mother's seers have said is true, what is God telling you? Have you asked him? What is His word telling you concerning your situation?
ReplyDeleteWhy is it that we hear God once and then there is a storm on the sea and we can't keep our face straight focused on Him.
Has He changed? Is He now powerless to help you? What I see here is someone is after your marriage. If God could give Sarah and Elizabeth children, if God can give people children who had no wombs then I don't see why He can't give you or I our hearts desires. God has not changed. Maybe like Daniel, our prayers and requests have been released but we need to press in from here to handle our miracles.
Dear Poster, you need to pray. Pls stop your Mum from seeing people.
Go into prayers and ask the Lord what you should do and what is happening.
Jeremiah 33:3 says,call upon me and I will show you great and mighty things that you don't know...
Start praying and reading the word and stop crying.
Whose report do you believe?
Take this advice poster
DeleteWell said 👌
Delete👌👌👌😘😘
DeleteLady T, WE BELIEVE THE REPORT OF THE LORD! 🙏🙌
DeleteIF YOU HAVE FAITH AS SMALL AS A MUSTARD SEE, YOU CAN MOVE MOUNTAINS! Just have a little, a little patience..
Poster, stay focused on Jesus Christ, the AUTHOR and FINISHER OF OUR FAITH! ❤️❤️❤️💞
God didn’t show you your husband
DeleteYou prayed and the other guy disappointed. That doesn’t mean marry the first guy. Listen to your mothers issue. Seek God in prayer and go to another prophet if you must. Be willing to learn. They said family is pretending. How do u know the good husband is not pretending as well
Stay with your husband and get a surrogate to carry your children. You already had high risk pregnancies, it's dangerous to try again. Your life is important. Save some money so you can pay for a surrogate. In this way you will be able to have your own children without risking your life.
ReplyDeleteSimple! Forget the prophet warefa. In reality you can't carry a pregnancy to term, your body is not strong enough for that. Surrogacy please. Stop trying, you're putting your body under so much stress. Inugo
DeleteMy dear only Jehovah has the final say. You can explore different options like 1. Surrogacy (i.e if you can afford it)
ReplyDelete2. Adoption.
There's no family without battles,even if you leave your husband,the next man may come with a whole new level of battles. So I'll advice you to trust in God to help you fight your battles.
Whatever you do don't divorce your husband. God will come through for you.
That reminds me,mama triplet, you dropped a message in FNP Yesterday, how was the operation?may God be with you.hoping to read from you.
"if you prayed and God revealed your husband,cant you pray for God to reveal the enemy if there is one?"
ReplyDeleteStella please what is your brand? I want to send you a bottle.
You are a mumu, you want to leave hubby because a fellow human like you told you they saw thrash. Abeg swerve. The God that showed you your hubby can also remove any stumbling block if you pray genuinely for his help
ReplyDeleteYou mentioned who can say a thing and it cometh to pass if God has not commandeth it. That should reset your brain. It is not Gods command for you to leave your husband or die.
Poster .let your sister help you carry the belle.so that you won't die.
ReplyDeletePoster why are you with a man you cannot share things with? You should discuss this issue with you husband and both of you will join hand together and fight it.
DeleteThank bible said two heads are better than one. Two shall face thousand.
Talk to your his husband about it. Both of you can fight your enemies together by holding hands.
EbdiEn your marriage cannot be the best solution.
Poster, believe in God that He will do it. You shall have your own children,please dont lose hope yet.
ReplyDeleteFrom your story, the few pregnancies you've had stopped growing @ some point. This has absolutely nothing to do with your in laws. Please stop trying and go for adoption. Not everyone must carry their children in their wombs.
ReplyDeleteWhat I’d the problem is with the embryo and not the carrier. She needs to know which one is causing the foetus to have issues
DeleteThis your advice no follow at all."Not everyone will carry their children in their womb"? After the bible said none shall be barren. Are you for real? You better stop misleading people with this your advice.
Delete19:38 how am I misleading people? The truth is the truth! Do you think people that are barren don't read the bible? Be there fooling yourself. God is not stupid. He gave us brains for a reason... make use of yours.
Delete18:53 👌
If your faith is not strong enough ... just forget it and look for other means of getting a child. I wish you best of luck.
ReplyDeletePls i beg you do not listen to anyone. God showed you your husband and approved the marriage God us not an author of confusion. He can't change. That's a lie from the devils . don't believe such demonic thought. Rather pray and God will bless you with your own. Join NSPPD by 7am monday to friday at streams of joy international on facebook or instagram.
ReplyDeleteHello Poster,
ReplyDeleteI don't think there is anything God cannot do. I think you should tell your husband about the death dreams your sister has been having, as two heads are better than one and I believe if both of you solemnly go to God in prayers, you would emerge victorious.
About your inlaws, they might be the cause of your problems or they might not. Just be prayerful and arm yourself with God's word. Still continue trying to take in, when you go- get a good doctor that would take care of you and monitor you closely. Let no one know of your pregnancy and be on guard with prayers. The bible says the key to death and life are only in God's hands. He also said his children would not die but live to declare his works in the land of the living. Always use passages like these to pray every day. Let your church assemble a prayer team for you as well...
Trust me, you would testify...
Poster why not go for adoption if you like kids that much...
ReplyDeleteForget what those prophets said.
Judging from your experience about pregnancy,it is obvious your life is on the line without being told.
Poster, I hope you know that fake prophets are plenty. Why not you pray on your own for God to give you wisdom and direction?
ReplyDeleteAt this juncture, na God you need. Remove fear and face your God. Go before Him in prayers. I've always trusted God in prayers and He has never failed me.
ReplyDeleteHe's the God of all flesh, there's nothing too difficult for Him to do.
Meet your mum and calm her down with all these. A sincere prayer of faith to God works wonders. She needs to be strong for you, besides all these prophets might be wrong cos they are not God.
It is well with you.
Your mother went to "places" to consult Satan through Satan's agents
ReplyDeleteand he, Satan does not like marriage,
He wants to scatter what God instituted. Or are you telling us that
the marriage was joined in those mediums?
Why don't you and your "amazing husband" seek God in fasting and prayers?
Why listen to the destructive dreams and seek Satan in confirmation?
Why seek gods that mutter in place of your creator? Isaiah 8:19
If you my dear should submit to Jesus, seek God with your amazing husband, you will find peace in Jesus
and have peace.God hates divorce Mal. 2:16 😘😘😘😘😘😘😘😘😘😘😘😘😘😘😘😘😘😘😘😘😘😘😘😘😘😘
The posters mother is a suspect honestly,i have watched my mother slipping out of this world when she was sick,i kept seeing visions about witches in the coven warning me to back off so they can feast on their meat. I was heavily pregnant though but don't worry,i spent money on work,went naked every night to pray......to God bear the glory my mum survived and her younger brother died instead. The culprit was my grandma,my mum's mother. Story long.
Delete@liz
DeleteWhere in the Bible did you see anyone go naked to pray?😳😳😳😳
Test all spirits
ReplyDeleteDon’t ignore the prophet
Check with another one
Dear poster, there's more than one way to have kids. You can hire a surrogate or adopt a child.
ReplyDeletePray against the dreams but hold unto your husband if there's no reason to leave.
I declare in your life, you shall not die but you shall live to declare the lords goodness in the land of the living. Declare unto your life and that of your family.
Your marriage will be a blessing upon you, your children shall surround your table and you shall see you childrens children
Remind God of his promises upon your life
' If the foundation be destroyed what can the righteous do?' Check your foundation prayerfully. Be careful, foundational battles are extremely subtle, hidden and deadly. Separate yourself and embark on a 3 days dry fast (use on communion & anointing oil and Psalms 51, 35, 68:1-2, 94:1-2, 47). At 12-1am, embark on genuine worship &praise. From 1-2am, using the Word, confront your foundation and that of your husband( Hannah type-no shouting/screaming, just u and your Creator). From 3-4am, INVOKE THE BLOOD to fight whatever is fighting u. Close with thanksgiving, tell God exactly what u desire. Be sensitive to recall your dream and write it down. Break on the 3rd day. Then continue with midnight prayers for 18 days (total 21 days warfare). Foundation understands only one language- VIOLENCE USING THE THREE WITNESS ON THE EARTH (WORD/NAME OF JESUS, BLOOD OF JESUS, CONSUMING FIRE OF THE HG). Return and testify so others can benefit too.
ReplyDeleteWhat if it's your mother that's behind your ordeal. You better pray yourself and trust YOUR judgement
ReplyDeleteBlessings
@Dante you are too intelligent,That's exactly what my spirit is telling,mother that wants all her daughters divorced!!!! Saying stupid prophecy instead of seeking solution. Poster,Your mother is a suspect!!!
DeleteI was in a similar situation, dont leave your husband, start praying, go to mfm get prayer book ,their bible have prayers behind it...any prophet dat has no solution no b prophet.
ReplyDeletePoster tell your husband about the revelation and try other options like Surrogacy. Please keep it to yourselves do not disclose to anyone until the baby is born. Let noone know it is through surrogate to avoid any form of discrimination in years to come. Do not break your home with your own hands. A wise woman builds her home and a foolish woman scatters hers. Always remember to continue with Fasting and Midnight Prayers. The God that knows all will Surely Deliver you.
ReplyDeleteAvoid throwing accusations to anyone and Let God Fight your own Battle. Trust God and you will be Victorious.
You need to watch and pray. Dont give in to any pressure. Believe in God and this will pass away.
ReplyDeletePlease when you get pregnant again let it remain between you and your husband until you deliver and out of the hospital including your own family. Don't ever leave your marriage and pray for revelations
ReplyDeleteWhy not use a surrogate instead of risking it again. dont like your loving husband becauase of what a prophet says biko, just pray and stop worrying.
ReplyDeleteThe way you people believe most of these prophets that couldn't prophesy the "birth of Coronavirus"amazes me Sha..
ReplyDeleteKai, you want to leave an amazing husband because of what one pastor has said??
Are you for real?
Chizzy j.
Hmmm. Why not try surrogacy through your sister or mum?Forget all this their talks and hold onto God.Be wise...
ReplyDeleteLai lai. Through her mum or sister ke? Oti o!! Remember Sarah in the bible?? See what 'helping' God caused. Poster, God will give you your own children. Just be very prayerful.
DeletePoster, relax. You won't die and you will carry your children. I'm happy you have a loving and supportive husband. Please, do not let him go based on what mortal man said.
ReplyDeleteDiscuss with your husband about what your mother said and both of you should take it to God in praying and fasting.
Look for another option of surrogacy or when you do the IVF again, try and stay away from certain people and environment.
Do not ever entertain fear or allow the devil defeat your mind.
YOU WON'T DIE... THAT'S THE LIES OF DEVIL. NOBODY WILL TAKE YOUR LIFE....
Sister please silent that negative voice/s speaking evil against your situation. You have the power to speak what you want into existence. The same God you prayed to and you got your conviction about your kind husband is the same still. Go back to Him and present your case and ask for more revelation and what He want you to do in this situation rather than what you want Him to do ( because He already knows) . Fear and worry is the enemy here, shut your heart against it. And let the word of God guide you, speak the word and Hallelujah will be your language and song. Bring your husband onboard as well.I pray for God's intervention in your home.
ReplyDeleteWhich kind condition be this na?
ReplyDeletePoster you need to visit genuine man or woman of God that sees tru prophecy so you can know how and where to direct your prayers.
I don't believe leaving your husband is the solution. Your problems might not only come from your husband's side, your foundation too may be faulty. If you remain steadfast in prayer you will prevail.
My advice, if the ivf is successful, do not tell a soul. Not even your husband. Not even your family. Manage till it can’t be hidden and travel far away. Outside the country if possible. Until the baby is born, keep your secret. And pray to the same God who showed you your own husband. Pray without ceasing. His word is true and His promise is true.
ReplyDeleteYou can’t do successful ivf without your husband knowing. The doctor has to tell him and there are documents for him to sign each step of the way
DeleteDear poster I totally understand how u feel ! Pls do u, let God take the wheel ... u stated clearly that u seek the face of the Lord before getting married n it was revealed that this man is your soul mate ... he adores you, love u unconditionally, and take good care of you , so what’s the issue ? Please I was once in your shoes I almost got a divorce.. n in my sisters words if I go bk to my husband , na die my enemy go die oh ... my sister I went bk to my darling husband and I tell you it’s been a very smooth right ever since then through the grace of the most high ! We’ve been married for years with adorable kids after TTC for a while .. Do u know there are fake prophets ? Be careful my sister be careful , don’t let the devil steal your joy ... seek the face of the Lord , have faith and reject the devil ... my sister our God is too faithful to fail !! Hang in there u will testify real soon IJN !
ReplyDeleteGod bless you spicy! Poster you may have a weak cervix. This means that once you are pregnant you need a stitch called a cervical cerclage. Please trust in God. he gave your an amazing husband. He will also give you your own child in due course.
DeleteYou people that seek for public advice. Some people here are already turning you against your mum and sister. Medically you are not fit to carry a baby. Why not try adopting or surrogacy. Don’t let anyone here advise you against your family. Meanwhile tell your husband , pray and fast . God is too faithful to fail.
ReplyDeleteThe doctor didn’t say she’s not fit to carry a baby
DeleteGod didn’t give her any sign
ReplyDeleteShe believed what she wanted to
The other guy she had disappointed her and she believed this one is Gods will
I’m not saying he’s a bad husband I’m saying leave sign out of it.
Poster you have been doing it your own way since, please stay in your marriage and allow God to take the wheel of our marriage, there is nothing in this life that we are going through that is not in the bible,search out for the scriptures and pray alongside your husband using thisame prayer points while reminding God of his promises to his children that there shall be no barran woman in thee mist and he also said that children shall be round our table,God shall give you double for all ur troubles, just take it to him in prayers and watch him prove everyone wrong by making your testimony to be worth it.God always want to take all the glory all by his self.I have a friend that don't menstral but has 3kids now,she went other Dr to help her tie her womb after her third child but her Dr told her that the can't do it since she doesn't menstral so it can only be God.
ReplyDeleteWhose report will you believe?? The report of the Lord or the report of 'those places' Perfect love casts out fear!!! Fear not!!! The Lord is with you in everything. Stop ivf. Just fast and pray and you will carry your baby by this time next year, so sayeth the Lord. Do not let anyone frighten you. Enjoy your marriage. Love your husband and enjoy your pregnancy. Be careful of your sister and mother. Love them and take whatever they say as their own confession. Your case is different because the God of Israel the Holy One is your sword and shield.
ReplyDeletePoster, Pray like you've never done before and praise like your life depends on it. Don't I repeat, don't leave your marriage. It's the trick of the devil for Gos is not an author of confusion.
ReplyDeleteOh it's your sister that dreamt? Mtcheeew..... Rubbish! She didn't see vision that she'll leave her husband Abi? go to God in prayers and he'll answer but pls don't leave your husband for any thing, the kind yeye and entitled men wey full every where no be here oh, so hold that good man well and look unto God Almighty.
ReplyDeleteWhat adoption? Since there's a lot of bad waves hovering around
ReplyDeleteTry surrogacy dear, All the best. Don't stop praying and believing God.
ReplyDeletePoster take everything to God in prayer 🙏🙏🙏. I am the Lord, the God of all flesh is there anything too hard for me?
ReplyDeleteMy dear you will not die neighther will you be divorced, go and look for Jesus Discipleship Fellowship, find out the one in your state, follow their teachings and watch your life change!!! You will come back and testify. I pray Auntie Stella posts this!!! Your enemy is no one but the Devil. He hides and manifests himself in the bodies of men. That man is not your enemy, he's a hijacked victim of Satan. Do everything you are taught there. You will see your life change and above all they prepare you for heaven.
ReplyDeletePoster trust God and he will see you through
ReplyDeleteDear Poster, please seek God. I dnt mean going to mountain or churches or pastors. God is everywhere around you. Talk to him, cry and study your bible( focusing on stories similar to yours). There is nothing impossible for God but first you have to sincerely seek him yourself. Set up daily covenant time with Him. You will not die.
ReplyDeleteWe are praying with you.
Prophets and G.Os destroying lives and families in Nigeria like no man’s business. It beats my imagination how fetish has so much permeated the Nigerian society.
ReplyDeleteJust why would you hurt a man that has been so good to you because of a false prophet.
Better stay in your husband's house and start thanking God for the children He has in store for you. What makes you think your mother and sister are not the enemies that want to destroy your home? Una go get good men come carry Una hand spoil Una marriage. So the God that showed your your husband made a mistake abi? God forbid.
ReplyDeleteBetter stay put in that house.
The person tormenting your life is using your dear mom and your sister to put fear in you so you can run away from your hubby.
ReplyDeleteMy dear go in prayer direct with the Lord,have faith and believe you will win this battle.
While doing so,u can try an option of surrogacy or adoption, please don't relent, God will finish what he has started if you beleive. Don't even reason that way of leaving your hubby to any woman
And please poster, don't let anyone put you against your dear family,I mean your mom and your sis,they all meant good for you. Learn to sieve a public opinion or advisers and pick the one good for your life.Don't mind them saying your mom or your sis may be behind this. Tufia to some people, nawa o
ReplyDeleteMy sister, I have just one question. Who is the God that you have believed? Those that know their God...
ReplyDeleteUnfortunately the seed has been planted in your mind already, you have to fight the battle starting with the mind,dreams are normally revelation and can be cancelled if negative, but you need to know how to do that!!!I am saying this because it happened to me, few weeks before I got married, my mom and aunties kept having dreams of the marriage scattering before we reach 5 years, I was not told initially but my mom went on prayer and fasting after the wedding,long story short the marriage crashed, so you need to battle more of the spiritual aspect and more importantly your mind and once you have been able to do that then look for bible verses that speaks to your situation and keep confessing them until it comes alive in your spirit man, you sound like you already have a personal relationship with God so take the battle to Him, for if God has not said it then it wouldn't come to pass.praying for you
ReplyDeletePoster no real pastor from God will advice you to divorce especially when you husband is not treating you bad. Beware of fake pastors God dont like divorce, Read your bible, pray, fast and your enemies will see you carry your baby till the end IJN
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