STAND ALONE NARRATIVE
BREAK UP TIPS NEEDED
Good day, please I need help . I have a boyfriend (A) that stays in the same city as me since January last year. A has a long time girlfriend in the UK.
I am in love with A but he only cares about me,in his words. last year,I started dating another guy (B)in another city . B loves me so much and I know it .
Last week B proposed and asked me to marry me and I accepted. How do I tell A that it's over between us ?
PS: not started having s#x with B.
*Send him a whatsapp chat and tell him that you wanna move on..Don't tell him you found someone else or that you agreed to marry anyone..block him on all social media after that....its what they would do heartlessly so dont look back doing it.
And stop giving A your booty ok?
Send a text to him and block him, so he won't blackmail you emotionally. Congrats to you.
ReplyDeleteIn love with someone who only uses you to relax his 🍆. Joan, continue deceiving yourself 😏🥴
DeleteUre the only one in a relationship, A doesn't see himself in a relationship with you, only using you to step down. Get a life abeg
DeleteVery cheap lady, inferiority complex worrying you bah 😏. I don't understand why you have to tell him anything, A is not interested in you at all. The only reason you would consider calling A is because ure hoping he will change his mind 👹. Ure a cheat, oloju kokoro.
DeleteYou know someone has a steady girlfriend but you want to chook your head and destroy it.
Shame on you.
This shouldn't be difficult because you were not his first choice , he was probably using you to pass time and relieve 'tension' so why are you putting his feelings into consideration?
ReplyDeleteTell him you want to move on and can't be with him again. Okwu agwula.
You are in love with someone who already has someone. Inukwa!
ReplyDeleteNo need to tell him anything just forget him.
Very messed up situation...that's why she's finding it difficult to say it.
DeleteGbam. Don’t let your emotions get the best of you because he won’t even bother about you if the tables are turned. Just move on.
DeleteSince A has a chic, no need remaining as the side chic naa, just move onto B...if A likes let him hug transformer. Unless you are missing his D game.😁
ReplyDeleteAbi ooo
DeleteAbi o, just tell A you have found your Cock and moving on. Simple as that or you want ti be side check forever ni?
DeleteLol
Delete#Lillysimple#
Poster, you're a horrible person.
ReplyDeleteYou know A has a girlfriend, and you're still choking head. If I dey close, I for break that head for you. Mtcheww
she's trying her luck since A's girlfriend dey 'away
DeleteWomen coming off cheap since 1900
Annon easy na.thjs your vexing ehnn🤣🤣
DeleteLol
Deleteshe did nothing wrong so far the Mr A is not married yet... I date married men fir fun, dont care if he's married or not.What am after is good sex and fit body.
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Delete16:26, be deceiving yourself. The lie you thieves tell yourselves while snatching right? Like the heart has business with a signed marriage certificate! Man snatchers!
DeleteAnon 16:26, see as shame catch me on your behalf. So you're proudly a cum bucket. Tufiakwa!
Delete16.26 One day you will date a mad married womans husband..lol
DeleteThe sort of married woman that feel their entire life and existence revolves around their man who will put a stop to your fun like they'll do Mz lovey lovey soon
If you ask meeeeee,na who I go aaaask?
ReplyDeletePoster, A has a long time girlfriend, meaning you're his side piece. How do you tell him it's over? Were you guys ever "on" in the first place? And there's B, meaning you were "dating" two guys (from your write up). Do yourself a favour and block A, focus on B. I hope you don't go back to smash A, cos I feel you would.
ReplyDeleteFollow stella's advice.
ReplyDeleteFirst lemme say he wasn't in a relationship with you since he has an abroad babe. Thank God you had sense to accept B's proposal. Tell A straight up that you are moving on. Don't block him Nada as Stella said: allow him see your wedding pictures. For all you care,he may be looking for a way to end things with you even.
ReplyDeleteSis I concur with Stella.
ReplyDeleteAnd never you agree to meet up for one last date or anything, even if it's in a public place.
Stay on your lane and face your new relationship.
Follow what SDK said nothing else to add
ReplyDeleteSo you've started "having sex with A?"
ReplyDeleteAnd that is why you are finding it difficult to tell him?
You knew that A like most Nigerians, wanted to marry the girl
abroad and you began spreading legs for him.
Jesus loves you and does not want you
to live this way. Think about
eternal life and what that will
mean to lose it by living this way.
Dating does not mean you must fornicate.
And when you get pregnant, some depraved men will want you to kill him.
Think, think, think. Your soul is precious.
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Lol
Delete😂 she spread legs
@Gifty
DeleteI don't understand why when girls go into a relationship
the next thing is to spread legs. That is not the way
to build the foundation of an enduring marriage.
No big deal, tell him via message and block his sorry ass, I hope he doesn't have any of your nudes o because he can use it to blackmail you when he discovers you are with someone else.
ReplyDeleteGirl say it the way it is...why are you trying to make it sound good. He would do the same thing in a blink....
ReplyDeleteYou didn't tell us if you love B or not ...and please don't tell us you are still in love with A...it will be a hot mess.
Say oga, I really care about you and I don't want to lead you on. I really did love you but you paid me no attention and unlike you, I don't wish to lead us both on therefore, I just got engaged to someone who who really loves me. Goodbye Mr A.
ReplyDeleteI wish we still could be friends."
stella thank you for that 'its what they would do heartlessly' men break up effortlessly but we women go consider their reaction.
ReplyDeleteJust forget and delete A from your memory and move on biko.
ReplyDeleteTell him to break up with his UK girl else you break up with him
ReplyDeleteProposal is not enough to shut all doors.....wait till a wedding date is fixed before you close the doors.
ReplyDeleteAnother angle o
Deletewell said...Dont put all your eggs in one basket until the d day.
DeleteIrrespective that A's door needs to be shut. He doesn't love her and has a main chick
DeleteBest option is what Stella gave you.
ReplyDeleteDo you know why A is keeping you. You give him your pussy and booty anyhow and anytime he needs.
Don't be surprise he will join the girlfriend in UK without you knowing.
Dearest please tell him you want to move on with your life because you relationship with him is going no way
So in your mind now you and A dated??? Nothing to breakup there
ReplyDeleteJust move on
ReplyDeleteHow's this even difficult? You don't know how to stop being a side chicken? You need to start thinking better.
ReplyDeletePlease break up with him fast, he deserves someone better. And I know you added the 'he has a long time girl friend in UK', just so people here won't yarb your cheating double dating ass. You and I know that's a big lie, if not you won't be asking us the best way to dump him.
ReplyDeleteYou have also fuckd B, but for the same reason you added the lie above, you also had to lie about that to avoid insults. You think you're smart.. hell NO.. far from it.
I have no advice for someone like you
Keep crying boy.
Deleteso what if she slept with mr A and B..Mr judgina, what matters is safe sex.
DeletePls do as stella said,he's a time waster,and he would dump you as soon as his love in the uk comes, drop him asap
ReplyDeleteNo tips needed here. Simply tell him it's over. Remember to tell him it's not him but you that's the problem. Cry a lil if you want ....Good riddance to bad rubbish with his IK long time girlfriend before you'll sit down and receive his wedding IV
ReplyDeleteA is ur boyfriend and has a long time girlfriend? But she's in the UK, therefore........?
ReplyDeleteAnyways, close your eyes and imagine that this longtime girlfriend of A returns from the UK suddenly, would you still be described as A's girlfriend? Would A introduce you as his girlfriend?
You dont need to tell A anything pls.do to him what he would have done to you,start ignoring him.girl play him till he sees your wedding pictures everywhere,while at it stop giving him booty.ghost him,you dont owe him any explanation really.once you marry stop talking to him entirely. But you must serve him his own tea. Someone that may even be married for all you care
ReplyDeletePoster, how about like this? Either on phone or in person. "Hi A, how are you today? How is your UK girlfriend? Anyways I just wanted to let you know I'd be getting married soon by God's grace! Don't pretend to feel bad because, you and I know you couldn't care less. So take care of then"...
ReplyDeletePoster which ship do you want to break?
ReplyDeleteJudging with your chronicle, there was no ship sailing before now.
Mr A's heart is with another so just drop the message already and block him all round and move on with your life with Mr B.
ReplyDeleteTell him you are moving into a different direction in life. Wish him well for his future and move on. This does not require any deep explanation or great thought out of you. Don't tell him no details about anything, it is none of his business. It's Corona time, lots of folks are breaking up. He has a girlfriend so he will be just fine.
ReplyDeleteHow is it difficult to tell A?
ReplyDeletewhy can't you tell someone that doesn't love you, and has another person whom he loves, that you have found your own love?
He won't even be heartbroken, only feel bad for the end of free bumbum, so what is difficult there?
He might even be secretly wishing to end it, just doesn't know how to tell you because you might just die.
Please tell your self the truth, cos you are the one that will be heartbroken if you breakup with him.
You know what to do jare 😎
LMAO Stella,don't i just love you?🤣🤣😂😂,poster marry B and don't look back no time to waste time,cut off the Nigga A
ReplyDeleteBabe withdraw yourself all round from him
ReplyDeleteA with the Ul girlfriend might be planning on marrying in his uk girlfriend nd even doing application to relocate while u are fooling yourself on how to chase a man who isn’t yours , if I ever sleep with a man that had girlfriend or wife , I will let him know I do t belong to him nd owe him no explanation! U need to grow some brain girl
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