Hmmmmmm..........
STAND ALONE NARRATIVE
ADVICE NEEDED URGENTLY
Not even for general weekly service oh. I know something was wrong when he didn't mention the friend's name because he is the type that always mention names when talking like "baby you know Kenny that my friend that stays on my street".
His ex girlfriend.
I asked him who was the friend that took him to meet a man of God. My people guess who....
His ex girlfriend.
Same girl he has condemned in my eyes, telling me how she is manipulative and how the girl caused a lot of issues between him and his mum. How he never loved her and she is the one forcing herself on him but he will never get back with her, so i have nothing to worry about.
When i meet him he said he was single and had no woman in his life oh. I asked him what is he going to meet the pastor for? He said for his personal salvation and prophecy. I was angry and asked him of all people in this world, is your ex you followed to meet a pastor. Like you are not scared the pastor might be fake and they would have planned behind your back to mess your life up. Same girl who is angry that he left her and now dating me.
What happened to your church pastor or even your mum or any neutral pastor? Because his mother is a born again woman from the way she talks and advice us.
The guy said i am getting angry over nothing, that he is not dating her anymore that i shouldn't be scared. My people is this right? Biko don't read and pass without commenting. Please give me your opinion. Thank you.
*Hmmmmm,your guy might have used Church to lie....he might not be dating her anymore but still prolly back with her for the shagging.His explanations are empty of meaning...
You are far away so there's not much you can do for now but my dear stay WOKE in that relationship before you get served less than you deserve!!!
Poster, what you don't know can't kill you. You're fuming over nothing. Unless the event is repetitive. Don't let your anger spoil a good thing going.
ReplyDeleteWhen you smell a rat kill it,The ex girlfriend came to claim the price she lost.Poster, stay woke!!!
DeleteYou go fear advice.
DeleteI am with Stella on this......
DeletePoster it seems he lied to you. He knows why........
Could be wrong so take it easy but shine ya eyes.
Shine your eyes like the halogen light on a trailer. When you feel off about something,something is usually off.
DeleteDo not put all your eggs in one basket in Linda's voice.
DeleteBe open for love
I’m so annoyed and it’s not even my relationship. That girl is evil! Tell him to cut her off or you walk. I went through this early on in my relationship and that was all I needed to reset his brain. And he never even saw her o, they were just keeping in touch over the phone. Don’t risk it! If he hesitates, check out emotionally and prepare to meet someone else. Easy peasy!!✌️
DeleteApply wisdom!
ReplyDeleteDear women, if your man is always talking about a particular lady: especially saying things like;
Deleteshe's not my type
She's ugly
She was bad to me
She's obsessed with me... bla bla bla... please pay attention cause that must be the girl he's feeling.
When I was doing a pre-degree program, I had a fat roommate who was about 5years older than me, she was very fat with boobs bigger or equal to that of Dorothy BBN. Whenever she follows me home for weekend, my Dad will be telling my mom stuff about how such a young girl let herself get so big, how he hates fat women, and how her boob size irritates him... meanwhile he sneakily got her phone number, he was always calling her even when we were together, sending her money which he never did for me, and inviting her over to visit him... you see men ehn, forget their matter.
Do I talk about how my husband always had negative things to say about his ex; like she left me cos I had no money, she's this and that, meanwhile he was secretly apologising to her for marrying me. Please don't take men's word to heart, they are scum!
Madam poster, your fears are valid, please investigate properly.
Oh dear @ 8.14, that was low of your dad and hubby.
DeleteAnon 20:14 you are absolutely right. They say stuffs like, she means nothing to me bla bla, but still call d chic and bang too. Oil dey ya head
DeleteKaị!!!
DeleteSo damn loooooow!
Some men sef🙆🙆🙆
This two combination does not go well,ex girl and prophet. Very bad combo. Be very careful with this olodo guy of yours.As a matter of fact you should be planning your exit before the guy announces their wedding. Ex kill him there.
ReplyDeleteThis is serious and he's possibly cheating on you,hun
DeleteI actually don't like guys who have nothing good to say about their exes. I also think he lied about going to church with the girl. The probably had a "fellowship " but not in the church.
ReplyDeleteToo much sense dey over worry you🙌🏽🙌🏽
DeleteGbam👌👌👌👍
DeletePoster they will soon tell him you are not his wife you have bad luck and he should marry madam besty
ReplyDelete@ Tiana. You be sabi game, u know the drill well well.
Delete@ poster, u better start searching, the old fire wood is burning again ; that is if the firewood “ever” stopped burning
He's dating two of you, I think you're the side chick here.
ReplyDeleteUse your head, don't use your heart here.
Don has said it all.
DeleteI agree with you Don.
Delete"The mom is a born again woman," yes.
ReplyDeleteAre you a born again woman?
Are you in Christ, is your name in the book of life?
Do you live like Christ taught?
Are you chaste and not fornicating with this boy?
You know why I ask all these questions? Because, your life
and that of this guy seems to be revolving around "pastors" instead
of around Christ and his teachings.
When someone is talking about "personal salvation and prophecy" he
begins to seek "pastors," there is a problem.
You might be going to churches but if your life is not patterned after the
teachings of Christ, you are none of his.
If the boy returned to his ex, the only explanation is that he has left you
and that is a truth you have to grasp.
And do not just walk away and move on, move on to Christ.
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You said all I wanted to say and way better!👌
DeleteI join you in 🤸♀️🤸♀️🤸♀️🤸♀️ out of this post.
Nice one👍🏼
DeleteThis is true 👍 👏
DeleteIf he was banging her, then he was banging you.
ReplyDeleteSo banging continues.
Why are you complaining?
Were you not the one going to church and still eating
stolen cookies? Please leave this charade you call relationship
and focus on building your faith in Christ. In him you have
salvation and a sure and fulfilling relationship and direction in life.
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Once they begin saying only bad stuff about their ex, that just puts me off. So, you saw nothing good in this person, but decided to camp there ba. Poster, shine your eyes oo
ReplyDeleteCandy👌
Delete“she is the one forcing herself on him” ... many a-times, the opposite is the case.
ReplyDeleteA lot of those men that badmouth their ex-wives, ex-girlfriends, mother of their children...🏃♀️🏃♀️🏃♀️🏃♀️🏃♀️🏃♀️ faster than lightning if you come across them.
The way people who’ve been truly hurt in the past discuss their past relationships if they even venture to do so, tend to be different from the way those ones I mentioned 👆 there do theirs. Those 👆will trash every single thing about their ex and demonize her. Run when you meet them.
3 Amigos you are right on point! 👍
DeleteHe lied to you
ReplyDeleteIt's not adding up
Once ex is in the picture, she's back to beg with sex😝😝
Stay WOKE!!
Hmmmm, how are you not sure he is not the one chasing the ex? There is nothing to suggest that what he even told poster is the truth.
DeleteHmmm, smells fishy,and if it smells fishy, definitely it is a fish.
ReplyDeleteWhy should a man I'm dating tell me about his ex and bad-mouth her at that?
ReplyDeleteThat's a weak, nasty man. 😣
He is dating his ex and might be possible they get married very soon,you are miles away from them so you had better dump the motherfucker before you are dumped.Start preparing your mind for the groundbreaking news,belle or traditional marriage rites.
ReplyDeleteMrs poster, kindly open ur eyes ooo... don't let him deceive you
ReplyDeleteThey are still dating oo, And he probably still has feelings for her, So shine your eyes.
ReplyDeleteHe's double dating.
ReplyDeleteSo apt ma'am SDK,it may the that you are about to be swept to the side chick corner,nothing is sure but be prepared !
ReplyDeleteHe could have lied and said he went with someone else. Just saying.
ReplyDeleteAnyway, if your guts tells you he's cheating, your guts is probably right.
As for me, if a boyfriend spends too much time talking about a particular ex for good or for bad, it's usually a bad sign.
Can't some of us write or make a statement without the oh ,ooo sound?
ReplyDeleteYours can lie in paragraph with the right quotation marks for you to read between the lines and understand what is going on unlike mine that lies without those and give you migraine trying to grab it.
ReplyDeleteHe once told me that the lady I was suspecting was dating his friend and they had problems so he was talking to both of them, that she also supplies him dry fish he use in drinking garri, same girl has a boyfriend that sells motor parts and help him get cheap motor parts,same girl mom runs a low budget cleaning services and she smells whenever she comes around to clean thats why he left a female perfume for her to use before cleaning. Haba uncle! Easy with the lies na a. Ohhhhhh chim o!
The day I saw her almost naked, he started praying for real right before my eyes!!!!
Telling me he is praying for her to stop sleeping with too many men and get married! I cried, the reason for my cries was how the thick uncut lies flows like a modern day river!
Same player almost killed himself when I got married. Yep, I had back up plans when I couldn't stand the uncharted lies and wanted to pay him back in hard coins.
So just bear in mind that they're doing something behind you and you should do what Stella told you to do or take a long walk and tell him to his face that you can't be in a complicated relationship. Take off your rose painted glasses and be see.
Oh dear!
DeleteYou really ate shit in that relationship 21:18.
Kaaai!
The guy's lies di legandary and epic!
Thank goodness that you realized on time and took a loooong walk!
If i were you I will check out of the relationship without telling him. Just start dating someone else abeg no time mans going to waste the time and don't try to compete because that's you selling yourself short
ReplyDeleteExactly what I would do now if I'm the poster. Start dating another.
DeletePoster your guy is back to his ex and as I'm telling you now,you are the sidechick.
Please do not believe any single word that came out from his mouth, yea.
And to be frank with you,they mostly love their ex more than the present partner.
Thats most men for you.
You said please don't waka pass without commenting.
ReplyDeleteIf I tell you to break up with this shady guy now, will you do it in the nest 24-48 hours? Will you?
That's what I would do if I were you.
I don't have time for dishonesty and deceit in a relationship. I want to end by saying you should prepare for a rude shock because him going to see a prophet with his ex doesn't portend well.
Break up with this guy immediately.
You said please don't waka pass without commenting.
ReplyDeleteIf I tell you to break up with this shady guy now, will you do it in the nest 24-48 hours? Will you?
That's what I would do if I were you.
I don't have time for dishonesty and deceit in a relationship. I want to end by saying you should prepare for a rude shock because him going to see a prophet with his ex doesn't portend well.
Break up with this guy immediately.
I think the both of them are still into each other and you are the side piece in the relationship.
ReplyDeletePoster this is the sign right there. This is the warning and clear sign you need to get out of this relationship. A real relationship shouldn’t be stressful at all and are you ready for that kind of stress??. If you don’t leave this guy immediately, then be prepared for more bullshit coming your way. U never start. For the fact that the girl is even in the same state with him, you have no chance. Forget it. Their emotional connection is much stronger than your connection With him because you’re far away. End this relationship and move on and please find someone in your area/location. It takes Gods grace, a real God fearing man and discipline to control that sexual urges. Your guy don already yield to temptation. Keep it moving please and wishing you all the best. You’ll be fine and you’ll find a much better man who will love and adore you. If you need to work on yourself and set your deal breaker(s) before embarking on a new relationship, then please do. It is well with you. Hugs.
ReplyDeleteYou are the sidechic,he night be attending marriage counsel class
ReplyDeleteMy dear, you have every reason to be concerned. This was how my ex of over 4yrs said one of his lady friend took him to her pastor and the pastor said the lady was his wife. Without my knowledge they got married. Within 2 months the marriage crashed and the guy came back to look for me. Telling me how the lady and her pastor deceived him. How how did not know what he was doing bla bla bla... I still gave him a second chance but I knew he was a time waster, I moved on with my life. Am married now but he is yet to marry and still telling me how he made the terrible mistake of allowing me to go. Poster, shine your 👀
ReplyDeleteHmmn... I will just continue my 2 cents bcos you said not to read and pass without commenting.
ReplyDeleteNowhere he no dey rain my dear. All men except few cheat, whether single, married, engaged, entangled, complicated, whatever. For me, you'll have to accept this fact if you want to remain in a relationship. The only one I can't stand is a Casanova. Having one, two or three is and has always been a Nigerian thing. Girls do it too. Once the person ticks most of your boyfriend/husband material boxes, Just find out what position you. are If you're number 1, be wise and intelligible enough to stay there. If you're 2, try to become number 1. If you're number 3, please excuse yourself. One can never get all what you want in one package. Unless, multiple dating is a deal breaker for you. That's when I can support you to leave him even if you catch him red handed which you haven't.
Girls do these things too. Don't put all your eggs in one basket either. Be celibate while at it or use condoms.
Don't waste time, three months is enough to know where a relationship is leading. Pull out if it's not leading anywhere. I'm not a fan of 'long' distance relationships cos men will always have sex with or without you.
Stay woke, your guy is up to something. The ex is up to no good at all.
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