According to PM news ,the mother of one in a recent interview disclosed that she is scared of having a failed marriage.
According to the 41-year-old, she decided to remain single because she does not want to experience a failed marriage.
In her words; “If I get married, I really want to stay married, and staying married is not an easy thing. It means you are completely in tune with your partner. It means you have found your soul mate and will have to be able to stand a lot of disappointments that would definitely come but then again you have to learn how to forgive.”
Genevieve who has never been married gave birth to her daughter, Theodora Chimebuka Nnaji when she was still in secondary school, at the age of 17.
Theodora is now married to her Heart throb, Prince Chigozie Ikediwa.
from PM News
*This report sef...I thought Chimebuka is her youngest sister?
Nope Stella that is her daughter.
ReplyDeleteGenevieve do whatever makes you happy, not everyone will get married.
πππππ€£π€£π€£, Stella you are a clown. We all know Chimebuka is her daughter, no need to hide anything anymore nah π€·πΎ♀️ππ
DeleteI think every woman has that fear.
ReplyDeleteThat's my fear, I don't want to have a failed marriage too.
You will not. When it's time, you'd marry a man that you'd live happily ever after with.
DeleteAmen to your declaration . Thanks Chisom
DeleteI have this fear too and anytime I'm close to getting to that married point with someone, any small mistake you make, will trigger me to leave!!
DeleteI hope it's not ogbanjeπππππ
@Cookie, it's not any ogbanje nne. Who wouldn't be worried or scared with the current happenings everywhere?? We should all just be smart and careful, and at times use our own parents as a yardstick because, If your parents marriage didn't fail, yours too will not fail.
DeleteOne aunty i know was resently kicked out of her house by her husband of 11 years, These are people that started dating since they were small, (They started as childhood friend) The aunt's people did everything to stop her from marring him cos he wasn't rich plus she herself had richer suitors coming for her but she refused and chose him, After some years, The man started doing well only for him to move out of their home with another woman. Abeg tori plenty but ehh, THAT ONE SHOCK ME I SWEAR. Life ain't balanced and tomorrow ain't promised eziokwu. Just shaa have your wisdom, voice and money as a woman for this is the greatest weapon and shield ever, uwa di egwu my people.
Our parents are not a yardstick for judging a failed or successful marriage. Individuals are different. Children from broken homes can decide not to repeat the mistakes of their parents, children from well put together families also end up with broken marriages. There’s no hard and fast rule to how this thing works. It’s just God and guidance.
DeleteMy dear, my own parents are my yardstick in terms of marriage,No point breaking everything in details but they sure are my yardstick. I look at them every day and am assured that my own marriage will not fail, so help me God.
DeleteI got you Genny.. staying married is the real deal and it takes a while lot to achieve that
ReplyDeleteGenevieve made it sooo hard for one to know who her real daughter is.
ReplyDeleteTrue talk
DeleteI tell you. Till date, no picture, no comments.. Genevieve is the standard when it comes to being secretive.
DeleteWow,nice!!
ReplyDeleteShe will be a grandmother soon...!
I think she already is a grandmother.
DeleteHer choice
ReplyDeleteI think her fears are legitπ€£ getting married and staying married hard oohh
DeleteI go talk my own oohh...hoha!
Whatever reason she has, its well welcome.. Enjoy yourself and have fun with life.
ReplyDeleteThere are so many saints, apostles, disciples who never got married.
You can decide to go to convent self.. Its a welcome idea.
SDK!! The best blogger in Africa!(If not in the world sefππ) Na only Nicole Bitchie fit contest with you but she got tired and sold hers, So you remain the bestest mommaπ₯π₯π₯ππ.
ReplyDeleteEhhen, Yes Nollywood's most beautiful, most popular, Most successful and most loved and cherished is a grandmother alreadyπππ. She's quite right though, let her take her precious time ojare, no need to get married to someone that will ruin the legacy she's managed to build for quite a long time now. If she sees the man of her dreams, she should happily marry him and stay with him forever. If she doesn't, she should happily stay single and bound with her grandchildren.
I don't even think she granted this interviewπππ
Deleteππ, Even if she did, might be an old interview plus Genny does not talk about her privacy to anyone.
DeleteSame here stella, I thought that was her sister. but so many differrent information about the girl. She is said to be married to her hearthrob of 9 years two years ago and she was said to be 22 on the day of her wedding. Does it mean gene's daughter started dating her man at the age of 13?
ReplyDeleteShe was also said to have rounded up her nysc 2013 which means she was 17 then? I think gene daughter is older than the age they are giving her. But she sure looks like her mom.
About her being afraid, I think everyone feels that way about certain areas of lif times not just marriage but taking it to God surely helps.
I remember a blog visitor talked about the daughter actually being her sister. I went back to the news of the wedding stella did 2016 and chikito said the lady was 27+ on the day of her wedding and her best friend so how the lady be her daughter.
Deletehttps://www.stelladimokokorkus.com/2016/11/genevieve-nnajis-sister-or-daughter.html?m=1
Very valid questions about that.
DeleteEbuka went to FGGC Akure and graduated in 2005. How can she be her daughter?
Delete@Anon, what is throwing off your calculations is Genevieve's age. She is closer to 50, and definitely not in her early 40s, as reported. Her daughter was born in 1990, so she is/will be turning 30 this year. I'm not quite sure what age she had her, but if we go by this article, then then 30+17=47.
DeleteLol. You dey believe chikito? πππ
DeleteFear is a bad thing,just do you.
ReplyDeleteSo her daughter is married,it means she will soon be a granny, congratulations in advance.
Fear is Imaginary, it doesn't exist. It is mostly just the figments of our imaginations. How people allow fear of the unknown beat them blue-black is very difficult for people like me to understand. Think of the things you have been afraid of and allowed to limit you, how of them eventually happened. It was Harley Chase who said fear is the key to the wallets of the rich. Fear can be very destructive, frustrating and dehumanising if you allow it. I honestly believe she is just using fear as an excuse. She probably doesn't want to be married for personal reasons or she hasn't met the right man
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Fear of the unknown. Gene if you wish to get married do because it feels right in your heart if not stay unmarried and still live your fulfilled life.
ReplyDeleteI wish you love and the best man for you sis.
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DeleteBut she has been repeating this statement overtime? I don tire for dis excuse,should say another biko..ok we do hear..all the best to her
ReplyDeleteI think she just hasnt met the right one. When u meet d right one,u wont even feel like letting go. Yes there will be fights and issues from time to time,but u will feel dat peace with him dat u cant even imagine ur life without him.
ReplyDeleteWhen she meets dat man her fears will ease.
Na so my dear. When she meets the right man, All those ones she's saying won't be an issue any more.
DeleteShe hasn't met him yet. When it clicks, you won't even read the warning signs anymore.
ReplyDeleteShey it was reported on SDK Blogu some years ago that there was a wedding or about to be wedding in Italy? Where she refused the groom's parents to attend? And bride price had been paid long before that white wedding that held or did not hold oo.
ReplyDeleteI know she is with the basket ball biz man in California, (that very tall Igbo-Yankee Mr.) the one who did or owns the African Basketball tournament.
Amebo issa job.
I don't think they are still together cos the guy stood her up on the wedding day. Guyman's parent must have advised him to take that route cos she was the one calling the shots
DeleteShe has dated all the big men in Nigeria, she doesn't want to marry a married man and these big men can't allow their children to marry her either cos they or their friends must have dated her in the past. She was once engaged to a Nigeria basketballer in the abroad but her insistence on not wanting to get married in Nigeria and a very low key wedding probably with the family as guests of which I think her reason boil down to her lifestyle, the guy didn't show up at the destination of the wedding which was presumably Italy. Herself and Rita should go marry a white. Few years ago, she was showing off an engagement ring but stopped wearing it after sometime. Stella if you like don't post my comment
ReplyDeleteIs Chimebuka the one that attended Unizik? I heard they where sisters when we were in school. There was a rumour she was married one time that I read here. Coded Genny, how many yrs in the industry yet people are still guessing when it comes to matters concerning you. You too much joor
ReplyDeleteGene, when you're ready and willing to give it a trial, it will definitely come... Stellakoko, alot of people said its her daughter but i like the way she made people to continue guessing...
ReplyDeleteIs this not a very old interview cos I'm sure I've read this before and not this year. The lady is her sister, not daughter. Genny said it then on her IG page, I doubt she'd lie about that, she'd rather keep quiet. But of course people prefer to believe it's her daughter.
ReplyDeleteI thought some blogs claim she goes both ways? Why are naijas afraid to come out if true? All these football age, God Dey. This woman is 41? She has been acting since I was a teenager and she seemed way older than me and I’m in my fifties. Can we be honest in our country “star or moon”. If you are not into guys just say so. Abuses go back to sender in Jesus Name
ReplyDeleteRest mama!
DeleteNo use implying subtly that she's telling a fib!
She don claim 41 be she don claim am!
We cant all force her to claim she is 50
And noone will abuse you sweet momma.....we dey find multibillion naira contracts you fit connect us?
You make sense Anon. I have heard severally that she is a lesbian so no surprise that she could be making up excuse not to get married. After all who is not afraid of a failed marriage?? No one ever wishes to marry and fail but it is a valid concern for many singles and married.
Deleteyou are in your 50s and have no common sense...so anyone who has fear of marriage swings both ways..blogs are carying indeed, so did anyone come out to clain her lesbian partner or na you? when someone does not come out to feed your gossip hungry selves with plenty talk talk una go dey vomit rubbish. respect your old age cos no be only you dey 50s for here
DeleteYou are in your 50s and you are talking like a juvenile!! So If someone tells you Genevieve is 50 now you will believe?
DeleteGene dear when the right man comes you will feel and know it from your heartbeat..
ReplyDeleteSoon you will be singing another song dear❤❤
How many times are we going to hear this.this has been in the news for more than a decade
ReplyDeleteHmmmm the fear of the unknown in marriage, the same reason Iam still here, so many what if on my mind.
ReplyDeleteGenny, please stay single. You have a daughter and rumours say you're already a grandmother. Please enjoy the rest of your life. Don't ruin it by marrying someone that won't give you peace just because of what people will say. Ignore tongues as you have always done. Na only talk dem fit talk.
ReplyDeleteSee fresh face
ReplyDeleteMay be she has never been in love or truly loved , as in finding true love. Ds is bcoz , if u have been in love b4, it’s like jazz, u forgive easily & several times over. U get to over look so many shortcomings of that person , that u ordinarily will not think twice to back out. Every body has a choice in life & ds is hers. Chukwuebuka is her biological daughter & she’s already a grandma.!
ReplyDeleteDon't i love you?? @Anon 10:54kikikikiπ€£πππππππ€£π€£π€£π€£π€£
ReplyDeleteKai see post. Please stella, this is soooo a wrong info. Chimebuka is their last born and not her child. All FGGC Akure babes know this. I know this too cos i know chimebuka.
ReplyDeleteKapish
Ebuka told Chigozie and Blessing Ogbonna that she's her daughter.
DeleteThat is her daughter. Last born ke
ReplyDeleteSome of you on this blog should better go and claim your daughters you call last born and your sons. Some of you should repent, go to that orphanage and take your child or children.
KING XOXO MYSTERY
ππππ Kingggggg I salute you!
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