This post explains his side of the story
Wednesday, July 01, 2020
Twitter Influencer Accused Of Rape Tables His Side Of What Happened.
He was accused of Rape and she says she already filed a complaint before the UK Police ....Read the story HERE
This post explains his side of the story
This post explains his side of the story
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Abeg i cant
ReplyDeleteShalaye Season!
DeleteI have actually had similar experience with this so i understand too well. Its relationship gone wrong.
DeleteThe only difference is i went to school with the guy before he relocated to Canada. He is also a doctor.
We reconnected through facebook and started talking. I already had my canadian visa because my family lives there and i usually go for holidays. Me and this guy talked for a year on the phone but he never asked me out,but we both knew we liked eachother. He was very anxious to see me,i had to bring my trip forward because of him,cos i had planned to travel December but brought it forward to July. Trip was payed by me,i didnt expect him to pay as i was mainly staying with family. Anyway i got there,everyth went well. I will spend fri-mon in his house,he took me out shopping dinner cinema etc,we wld make love everyday,i will cook all sorts of Nigerian dishes but this guy never officially asked me out. Towards d end of my stay had to ask what are we doing. Because in my mind we were dating already. That was where the story changed. He started telling me right now he cant commit to a relationship, hes still writing exams and trying to settle his career and life in a new country etc. I went home broken and used. Got back and his calls drastically reduced. I was always the one contacting him. I felt hurt and used but i just had to give myself brain and move on. Will i now accuse him of sexual and emotional abuse ?
If she has a long reputation of being a trouble monger and desperate which has been attested to by her acquaintances then she should truly go in for this. It's women like this that brings discredit to true victims.
DeleteYou don’t like her yet you kissed her, raised her legs up and fucked her twice. You allowed her to stay in your house for 4 months. And you were keeping her at arm's length while she was cohabiting with you. Sometimes you don’t even talk to your guest for reasons best known to you. Someone you invited to the UK and allowed to stay with you. You treated her like an enemy while she was under your roof.
DeleteI am going to fault the doctor guy for few things: why allow her to stay in your house that long when you are not interested in her? Why have sex with her a second time with what she sent you after sex the first time? Why keep her in your house and your master bedroom with what she did after the first and second sex between you guys and the way she kept your room? Guy you sef no try oooooooo...
DeleteThat lady is a very wicked person. Dey both chop each other, he got tired of her and she wasn't happy about it.
DeleteNonsense 😏.
Men and kpekus sha! Even goat dey avoid some leaves for bush,because dem nor go good for him system. You could smell her desperation,from afar,and you nor still give yourself sense. When you see kpekus wey get skoin skoin,you come run.Hell hath no fury like a woman scorned. I thank God you were smart enough to keep records.Na this kain babe dey carry another man belle go give another man,all in a bid to trap the man she wants
DeleteI hope agbaya Daddy Freeze reads this?
DeleteLove gone wrong and the lady is trying to destroy the guy. She was hoping all will work out and then they will get married. Nonsense.
People like this lady makes it difficult to believe people who were genuinely raped.
This is a case of a promiscuous lady who met a guy on social media and decides to go stay with him because he lives in the abroad. What we're you expecting?
You both had sex as adults not once but you still stayed with him, once she realised he wasn't interested in her she decides to destroy him.
You know rape is not taken likely in the UK and you try to destroy a Medical Dr because he refused to give in to you.
Shame on this wayward girl.
There should be a law all over the world that deals with lady's who accuse innocent men of rape.
Anonymous 13:26 and 13:31, either that you didnt bother reading the notes or you already have a bias. Based on what he wrote up there, he answered your questions. Now, if he is telling the truth is the issue here.
DeleteThey are both not truthful.
DeleteShe however shouldn't have screamed rape over a relationship gone bad.
If she wanted to call him out, she should have gone straight to what he did her which was toying with her emotions.
She was desperate, yes! He was also not a better person. Fooling people you know you don't truly love is suddenly becoming the norm and nobody sees it as anything.
If he wasn't interested in chop and clean mouth, she won't be in his house in the first place. Even if the Queen herself stamped her visa.
He saw through her desperation but played along because body was sweeting him too. Unlike women, men no dey too carry sex for head like that.
Lady, lick your wounds and move on. You didn't have to lie against him to pour out your grievances. I understand you felt hurt, but your desperation led you to that pain. You knew very well he wasn't that serious with you. Why force it?
Ndi isi nkuka abuo! Mtschewww
Anonymous 12:50, you got this story exactly to a T. If you hadn't slept with the guy your friendship would still continue till today and you never know, because of the time you spent with him in Canada when you went back to Nigeria he might start thinking about dating you and having a relationship with you, but because you slept with him when he wasn't ready to commit your friendship got compromised in the end and you felt used.
DeleteThis girl should have just left London after the lockdown and count the whole thing as an experience, lifes lesson and never make that mistake again instead of disgracing herself on social media.
12.50 please dont flog yourself too much. In fact, experiences like this make you stronger and as time go by, you ll be fine. Don't harbour any ill feelings though it's painful. He is just one of the frogs you kissed and soon you 'll find your prince charming.
DeleteWhen someone is forcing love on you is one of the most painful things people go through and never speak about. Most times you don't want to hurt the person, but you are just not feeling that person. Feels like blackmailing you to feel what doesn't exist. And the karma thing makes you to be compromising what you just know is not there.
DeleteSorry @12:50, "Because in my mind we were dating already." - unless a man expressly asks you to be in a relationship with him, do not make any assumptions. That's what I have learned. Everything else is a situationship. Situationship is not a relationship. He must have the courage, boldness to expressly ask and even tell you his intentions. Until that, you are single. I have had the same 6-month long distance talk with someone and he will call, video call everyday, we used sweet names with each other. But oga never officially asked me out..he wanted me to visit. I insisted he must visit first, he came up with excuses. I finally received sense. All the calls, sweet names and messages mean nothing if he never asked me out and never visited. I had to let go.
DeleteGod bless you Anonymous 12:50 for being truthful. I don't understand why we women believe we must indict a man for a relationship that ends. It shows the value you place on your self.
DeleteHmmm
ReplyDeleteAnd someone said it on yesterday’s post ooo
That’s why it’s good to always good to hear from both parties...
Na dem sabi
DeleteBut someone attacked the anonymous.
DeleteEven before he spoke I already knew the girl was scam. It isn't victim blaming but there are some stories you see and you know them get as them be. Stella post my comment biko, the long one I wrote on Funke Akindele you put am for your pot. That one pain me to.
ReplyDeleteShe is on a revenge mission, wicked girl.
DeleteThe guy maybe guilty of using her, leading her on, taking advantage of her, chopping and cleaning mouth but No he didnt rape her.
This girl should fear God nau, do you want to destroy this guy's life over a relationship gone bad?? Rape isn't a joke in the UK and I hope all these is not a plot to live in the uk? Please feel free to deal with him in any other way but this step is a No No, fear God.
The girl is a Big time scam, they both had sex with each others consent. You had the gut to travel abroad to go spend weeks that turned into months in a guys house who u met on social media, you both had sex, he got tired of you and your ways then you decide to ruin his career.
DeleteCome on aunty, ure a thief and a prostitute trying to claim being raped, dont come on social media to disrespect claims of people who were truly raped and taken advantage off.
Unfortunately ure not a UK resident because it would have been nice for the police you reported too to actually deal with you.
Everyone knew this is a case of love gone wrong. Dude saw right through her..immediately I read the part where she insisted on going thru with the visa application the second time,,he should've known there was more to it.
ReplyDeleteBottom line, when a woman wants something, she'll go all the lengths to have it. Issues like this is the reason people will no longer pay due attention to genuine cases of sexual assault.
Exactly oh Doctor wey no know say the girl maybe bipolar? Odiegwu oh
DeleteShe is not bipolar anything, she is just a crazy bitch. Untrained and uncouth girl with a mother supporting her. Imagine the mother asking if she got pregnant already. This is why I dont trust all the so called team mermaid.
DeleteHmmmmm
ReplyDeleteOro pesi je.
Someone should pls summarize everything for me mbok😏😏
ReplyDeleteThe summary is that Funmi didn't sexually and emotionally assault her.
DeleteLobatan 🙄
I believe the guy!!!!!
ReplyDeleteDetails and scenarios.... Let the girl come and defend this!!!
I didn't comment because I knew Funmi will respond.... How can you be abused severally, went to the police, you don't like drama but you brought it on SM?? That was when I suspected she was lying 🤥
I completely believe him. I'm glad he'll make sure she pays for character assassination. Very useless girl
DeleteThat is how God will keep disgracing them. Her stupid type is mostly why people don't believe rape victims. Idiot.
DeleteI tell you my darling. Her likes are the reasons why some persons that reused to properly educate themselves on what FEMINISM is all about hates the Feminist movement becausetthey keep excusing their nasty disgusting and baberic characters as being a feminist,Her likes are the reasons why the actual rape victims suffer in silence because when they speak up, people will think them a lieing blackmailer. May every and any airhead sorry excuse of a woman trying or planning to accuse an innocent man of rape be truly raped in a very gruesome way, Amen. I'm sure that when they must have had a taste of experience,their various porous brains and mindset will reset for the better,shameless desperados everywhere.
DeleteAunty said she has reported to police so she can't comment any further. Yimuuuu
DeleteGod just wanted him to know there is no black white and white when it comes to rape. He just want to humble him a little so he is all Pius and sanctimonious. Human beings are very complex dangerous beings.the painful part is this has stained his reputation. No matter how we know he is innocent. It will always be mentioned in his name. Guys be careful with ladies, I beg you. If you are not dating don't fuck execpt you have concrete evidence that she agreed to be friends with benefits. A good name is better than silver and gold .
I believe him too
DeleteThe lady is bitter that the relationship didnt work out hence she want to pull him down. That's why she didnt press charges against him but went to Twitter to destroy him.
ReplyDeleteThe girl is extremely vindictive and wicked. Like you want to destroy someone's life because a relationship didn't work? I fear women o!!!
DeleteWay to go!!!
ReplyDeleteShe needs to be indicted and prosecuted , i wonder why some people are so devious , well we are in times where social media is the new court room so anyone can come on here to spill lies,
It's quite unfortunate that some females take advantage of the large sympathy that's expressed when things like this come up !! But I'm happy that People are waking up , no more hasty conclusions and wasted empathy .
I know someone that's waiting to testify against this girl .she is surely going down.
Horrible girl!!!
DeleteI never believed her. She is trying to get leave to remain due to domestic violence. These kind of women are an insult to women that have actually been raped!
ReplyDeleteI tell you Femi, A huge insult to the actual rape victims🤮🤮.
DeleteI am tired of social media. These twitter girls will end up being the reason real rape victims are no longer believed.
ReplyDeleteJilted exes are now using rape as a weapon.
It will take a lot from me to believe old rape victims now except with adequate proof.
Even the Busola and Seyitan I was inclined to believe, I'm now starting to rethink my decision.
Abeg, if dem rape u and u don't report immediately, u are on ur own abeg. Can't deal with this rubbish anymore.
Use sense before talking Eka Joy. Don't you know that some rape victims are too traumatized and ashamed after the act that's why they don't speak immediately? Some even take it to the grave because of people like you that will question their stories. I sha hope none of your loved ones or yourself ever go through rape or sexual harrassment because it can mess you up. As for this case in particular I reserve my comment. There are three parts to every story, his side, her side and the truth. Only both of them will ever know the truth. I'll wait for the police to start an investigation and deal with facts and evidences before making a comment. Yes, there are ladies that lie about rape but let's not use this excuse to discredit the real victim of rape and sexual harrassment.
DeleteAnon, if u don't understand my comment, I have no words for u so swerve abeg.
DeleteEka what the hell are you saying. So because we have few bad eggs we should now begin to question genuine rape victims? How does that make sense.
DeleteTrust me coming out to claim rape in Nigeria is not an easy thing. How many rapist have been succesfully prosecuted. Female kids are no longer even safe in dere homes because even family members molest them.
Out of 100 cases,lets say 10/15 will be false and mostly love gone sour. The majority of cases reported are true however. Do you think it easy to come out; the system is already against rape victims,dey cant even go to police because of judgement. We shouldnt now join the doubters and try and undermine them.
Anon, I said I'm not doing again. It's not by force. If you don't have sufficient proof, I won't bother cracking my head trying to see if u are right or wrong.
DeleteThe only solution is to report immediately it happens, if not, as far as I'm concerned, u are on ur own.
Anon, I wonder what truth you're looking for again that isn't staring you in the face.
DeleteEka, I was abused by my cousin staying with us at the age of 6 years. I had a black out but I got it back after he was accused of abusing another cousin but the way my cousin and the person that caught him was treated by my family made me shut my mouth. I'm 40 now but my family had no idea this guy raped me at 6 years of age when he was about 18 years. Thank you.
DeleteEka Joy, ure indeed a big fool for mentioning Busola Dakolo in this horrible matter.
DeleteWatch it.
Eka please what "adequte proof" do you need b4 you believe a victim? Even the Busola you mentioned had names of pastors and her asilant's wife and her own family e.g. her elder brother who went to Gucci's house to fight him that same week it happened after her sister realised what happened and told the family. Or maybe you never bothered to watch that clip to the end. Please do if you can still access it.
DeleteWomen like you only believe dead victims. Once the victim survived and is not a baby, you discredit it with all your being. Not fair at all.
For centuries sex has been the downfall of men and will continue to be. Knew she was a fraud but sex no gree u see road. Shior, for men that haven't fallen into this trap yet beware. Sad thing is they never learn.
ReplyDeleteYou must sha find a way to apportion blame to the innocent man. You're extremely daft for this comment
DeleteThe dick has a mind of it's own and in heat, it controls the mind of the owner.
DeleteWhose report shall we believe?
ReplyDeleteStay and be asking stupid questions
DeleteThis girl is a desperate liar.
DeleteI believe the guy' s story.I hate it when women misinterpret consensual sex as rape,he didn't rape you,he didn't assault you,you consented to it so why screaming rape now?
ReplyDeleteI'm upset.i hate liars and manipulators.
I believe him, when someone is desperate, he or she can go to any length.
ReplyDeleteKeeping her at "arms length" (in same house?)
ReplyDeleteBringing her (hips) at banging length (same house)
🤣🤣🤣😂😂😂🤣🤣🤣
People should stay away from twitter girls especially if they look and dress a certain type of way
ReplyDeleteTwitter girls have been on still this Twenny Twenny from one story to the other
Delete"Been on a roll"
DeleteAh! Eka! So when a woman look and dress in certain type of way, even if she is raped, we should turn a blind eye?😭😭😭😭.
DeleteSapphire, leave me alone na. I'm not doing again. Blame ur gender that has totally destroyed my trust in them. Leave me alone.
DeleteI perceive that this girl's game plan was to get impregnated by him
ReplyDeleteThus that will give her the claiming right to file for child support
and possibly extend her stay and have a bargaining chip to be married etc.
This was what the guy was running away from. But the blunder was keeping her
in his house. Those times she came in "naked" was during her ovulation.
Her moving to another man's house was probably to achieve same. When both
didn't work out, out of frustration, she went on those twitter rants.
She did not file for rape then because of the "guilt" cos it wasn't rape per se.
Yes, I did not comment yesterday cos I wanted to hear from both sides.
It pays to be in Christ, he saves you from a lot of sorrows and permutations in life.
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Doesn't it just pay to flee fornication? If the guy had resisted the devil and fled like Joseph fled from Potiphar's wife, we go dey hear all this story of sex after alcohol? It pays to keep the commandments of God.
DeleteYes my darling fleep tumbling queen!! You are so right, you totally nailed it. She became restlessly bitter, frustrated and vengeful when she saw that all her dirty evil plans were never ever going to work.
Delete@12:47
DeleteTruth like the clear blue sky 🤸🏻♀️🤸🏻♀️🤸🏻♀️🤸🏻♀️🤸🏻♀️
That is why as a man you should think with ur brain and not ur dixk.
DeleteWho invites someone u meet on twitter just like dat to stay in ur home,u dont even know her temperament; but d free sex he will get wont allow him reason. He didnt know the girl was a kolo girl. Someone who don feel she don arrive her husband house,(Doctor,with good job for UK), u now feel u will just chop her and clean mouth. Mbaaaaa o
If we all can flee from Sin, life will be better.
DeleteTrue and her mom called to find out if she has taken in. It was the plan from the get go.
DeleteI'm waiting for ndi women foolishly supporting women to come and fault this genuine defence.
ReplyDeleteI'm waiting!!!
They should be wiser than this now .
DeleteNo need supporting anyone blindly based on gender .
It makes no damn sense at all!!!!
I dont think anybody will, as a victim, I know when story is true or false.
DeleteWhy should we blame women when men are stupidly allowing their dicks think for them...he goats that have balls for nothing
DeletePheeww!! What a read.
ReplyDeleteI refused dropping a comment on this issue yesterday when it was posted,why?? Because the tone of the girls tweets sounded VINDICTIVE, and INCOHERENTLY MEANINGLESS!! Where I knew she was just a shameless bitter woe was where she said that she reported to the police and they told her to press charges but she REFUSED but felt the need to run to the streets of tweeter to write trash about the man. She desperately wanted to ruine his reputation and his career just because he refused to have anything to do with a DIRTY LAZY LIEING DESPERATE CHEAP SORRY EXCUSE OF A WOMAN like her. From what the wonderful man wrote in his tweets, it will be safe to say that the airhead bitch planned with her mother to get pregnant immediately for the man thereby tieing him down with the pregnancy and threatening and blackmailing him should incase he ever tells her to abort it, but unfortunately for her desperate lame ass, the man was way smarter than her and God was on his side too!! Dear man, don't know your name, you need to see how happy and proud you made me, thank you for clearing things up, thank you for being an example of, there are still responsible noble men out there, I'm very proud of you darling 😘😘😘❤️❤️🌹.
As for the shameless bitch, make sure you thoroughly deal with her Shamelees messy smelly ass for defamation of character, for assault and Blackmailing.
*SHAMELESS*
DeleteBastard liars like this girl should be shot...oloriburuku omo ale jatijati. How can you try to smear someone's image like that?
ReplyDeleteGbam @shot!
DeleteWho is going to read 11 slides.....im usually a womens advocate o,but this shit looks like relationship gone sour.
ReplyDeleteWhy invite someone u met and started rltshp on twitter to ur home just like dat. Some Men dont think with dere brains at all,sex he will get from d girl has clouded his whole thinking faculty. The girl don feel say she don see husband,u now try and back out after having sex and shes invested her emotions.
He invited her because they were supposedly in a relationship 🤷♀️🤷♀️🤷♀️
DeleteTwitter relationship. Is that one relationship? He cant possibly know her well enough. Thank God they didnt even harm eachother. It will be different story now.
DeleteHe invited her for sex, nothing more.
DeleteSome ladies behave like they are sent from the Marine Kingdom to destroy someone's destiny , I pray this Man is vindicated cus a good like can turn the drunk scenario into an actually rape charge against him
ReplyDeleteDid you just type they behave like they sent them??
DeleteSis some of them are from the marine kingdom for real, their aim and motives are usually destruction, disruption, ruining deaths etc. Usually the weak men that swore and refuse to respect themselves and stick with one partner are usually their victims
Both of them are having their destinies destroyed and are both in need of God's love and mercy. The devil is smart- he attacks man with his weakness (sex, women) and attacks women with her weakness (marriage). The man invited her cos of the possibility of free sex, the lady wanted to go because of the possibility of abroad husband and marriage (ask ANG). If both of them believed in God and celibacy, they will never be in this situation. There are consequences for sin, both physical and spiritual. Sin itself inflicts a punishment on those who live in it. Same way God blesses those who abide in him. Now see two brilliant medical doctors battling in the mud.
DeleteI agree with everything you typed except for marriage being weaknesses for women. It may be weaknesses for desperados shaa I can never fully know.
DeleteThank you Funmi, I believe you. Be very careful nexttime
ReplyDeleteE be things
ReplyDeleteMen flee from fornication and adultery. Bipolar women exist!
ReplyDeleteWhere them they see these kind girls abeg? 😩😩
ReplyDeleteWhy was he so overtly benevolent?
ReplyDeleteWhy the hell did he continue to house the lady(rent free) after she repeatedly abuses his kindness with her bad behaviour.
You vacate your master bedroom for her, she messes up your house, shows no form of gratitude, throws tantrums, etc for four months!!! Oga are you a saint?
Or where you just enjoying the seduction tactics?
Why do I feel like there is more to this story? That been said if what he narrates up there is true, then that Bola lady is a just a seriously horrible person.
My sentiments exactly. Read my comment to see why he possibly did that. I may be wrong but I've watched enough crime and law movies to know how very brilliant people think. Of course the girl is very flawed, but something went down that alcohol night that he may have tried to use extreme kindness to cover. But young ones pls learn from this story, both men and women, rhere are lessons to learn.
DeleteNibs, you are overthinking the matter. If she was raped the first time, what was she doing in the house for another 4months before this twitter rant. If he had sent her packing, Nigerians would say what wicked person he is. It's basically chivalry to give a lady the most comfortable room in a house. When i travel with my bosses, they give me the master bedroom because i'm female and need more privacy. All her family in Naija knows the she is with this guy in the Uk.if he has ejected her,this bipolar girl will turn up missing and the guy will be the first suspect. She is a vindictive dirty girl that makes people doubt the story of real victims. I hope he press charges as a deterrent to other people. Jobless lady looking for free meal ticket and a 2nd citizenship. I am so pissed because i advocate for rape victims and people like this just rubbish the works of well meaning folks.
DeleteIt has been discussed several times the reason why some women stay with a rapist even marry their rapist. All he needs to do is get her an uber to drive her and her suitcase away from his house, this is proof she left his house hale and hearty amd in good health that way he is no longer responsible for an adult Dr in the eyes of UK law in case something happens to her when she leaves his house.
Deletewhat i think is that the first sex must have been forced but he may not remember well because of the alcohol. this is my opinion based on one or two things.I believe the second was consensual. People should always seek consent. i believe the rest of his narrative but the 1st one was probably, he acted on influence of alcohol and she didnt consent. She probably blacked out and realized sex happened
ReplyDeleteShe invited him to have a drink, except he drugged her drink, then thats consensual sex. If she was sure it was rape, how did the other sex happen? Why didnt she pack her bags out of the house and return to her parents house? Who leaves their country for 4 months to go stay with a guy? Does she not work? What kind of parents do we have nowadays? How does a mother let her daughter go live in with a guy? She didnt go there for school or work? Exactly what was her mission in the UK?
DeleteHer mission was to get pregnant and stay in the UK at all cost.
DeleteHow can drugging her be consensual sex??????
DeleteShe couldn't leave because of the lockdown
Dear anonymous 15:48 Bola has been a black sheep of the family, all her ways are aided by her mum. She graduated this year from LASU just before the pandemic & yes she is jobless she lives off men .The cross tour she drives was bought by one of her Big God ,her mum knows her way of life & she is her accomplice.she going to UK was all planned .The plan was to hook a RICH man with pregnancy & become citizen.i know all these & much more for fact because she’s my Cousin .she’s the third of four children, her dad is late , she’s from Kogi state,her mummy is a senior nursing officer at the state hospital & they live at Sango (joju area).
Delete@Cousin cousin, you forgot to add her phone number oh. Her home address nko? Email?
DeleteI believe dr funmi. My pray is for the justice/law should be fair. The said she has reported to police.
ReplyDeleteI never believed the girls version. She said many things but ended up saying nothing.
ReplyDeleteNonsense and ingredients.
I believe him
ReplyDeleteI believe the Dr,
ReplyDeleteDesperate Toxic opportunistic girl
When I read the girl’s story yesterday I knew something was off. She was just beating about the bush
ReplyDeleteAlso mother's please teach your sons to be very careful around females except they are dating they should avoid any sort of intimacy with females and it is better they avoid premarital sex and intimacy in general.
ReplyDeleteMothers advice your daughters that if their pussy is scratching them that they can't avoid premarital sex, they should know that not every sex will lead to marriage and they aren't entitled to any man because they had sex with him. That we ladies are emotional beings so we should simply avoid premarital sex so we won't become vindictive and hurt when a guy disappoints us.
Very true. For a woman once you start having sex with her she believes you are in relationship.
DeleteSo if you know you dont want to date a girl avoid sleeping with her. Because a woman scorned can do anything.
If your thing is scratching you and you dont want relationship,go look out for a runs girl you both know its transactional sex.
Yam pepe scatter scatter, the mistake this guy made from the onset was allowing her to live in his house. What did he expect? He should have known she came fully prepared to stay in UK at all costs.
ReplyDeleteGuy man was not smart enough jare. The food that you don't plan to eat, please don't perceive its aroma!
The girl was shameless and desperate. She will definitely regret this.
Yep, don't perceive the aroma
DeleteWhat penis will do to some men en? must you sex her?
ReplyDeleteNa wa.....o, na them sabi
ReplyDeleteHmmmmm. I don't believe anyone. You are not dating her abi you stopped dating her and you had sex twice in four months. I don't know why he kept on hammering on "twice in four months"? Were you expecting the nos of intercourse with someone you aren't emotional available to nor dating to be more than that? cos I don't understand. na una sabi.
ReplyDeleteIt means if they were dating and living in thesame house, sex would have been a more frequent event given that the girl takes walking naked around the house as a day job.
DeleteThe guy try o, person go dey give me attitude for my house wey i dey pay rent? I will chase you out.
ReplyDeleteLike!!! I can't even imagine that happening
DeleteFor her to enter flight to London to stay with a man she's not related to, she already knew she will have sex with him, for her mom to also be asking if she's already pregnant means the both have a plan,now her mom is also dragged into this mess.parent please let's do well in raising our children to avoid this kind of disgrace.
ReplyDeleteThem think say Uk na land of gold na.
DeleteHmmm there is no proof that he raped the girl, but there is also no proof that he did not. Both of them were wrong. In his narrative he focused on her flaws a lot while painting himself a saint which I find difficult to believe, naah. The focus should be that alcohol night.. that is the night whatever happened must have happened. We need the details of that night, her bad behavior is secondary. I think the babe just wanted a London doctor bae. I think he knew the babe was desperate. Of course his invite was not a 'free and kind' invitation. He expected sex for the duration of her stay, men will always expect sex (ladies pls learn). They will never house a girl for free. After the first night however, the girl raised the issue of rape, she was drunk and wasn't sure she consented, so she asked him. As a very intelligent doctor who knew his reputation could be at stake, he proceeded to be kind to her just to ensure the matter dies. However, he made sure he slept with her again to make the story dumb ( like if he could sleep with you a secpnd time then the first time wasn't rape). And after that, he zipped up. He probably knew she was crazy and may talk someday. So he never chased her out. Cos I find it difficult to believe she behaved this badly and you remained so kind. I might be wrong though but that's my view of it all.
ReplyDeleteYes you have made sense but then how can we ascertain consent when both of them where drunk. How are we not sure the girl massaged his dick to rise, then climbed on him and raped his erect dick and the guy too cannot talk because they will blame him and ask how did the girl rape him. The mistake he made was to allow her stay even after the whole thing. I am sure it is the guilt of sleeping with her that made him become very nice to her. But I doubt if he raped her, I seriously doubt he held her down and forced her against her will to have sex or drugged her to have sex. This is the thing with premarital sex, once you are with the opposite sex and there is some sort of attraction because it seems they were about to go into a relationship. Sexual tension would just build up. If the boy had allowed they would have had more than two times sex in my opinion. I think that sex was as a result of sexual tension between them combined with both of them being intoxicated. Na only both of them know how the thing play for that room on the said alcohol night.
Delete@15:25 I agree with you and we will never know. The onus is now on them to provide their piece of evidence to a court of law and hire the best attorneys.
DeleteAre you sayimg that a man who doesn't want to have sex with a woman cannot use the same power and strength they use to subdue a woman to rape them to push the woman away to defend himself from being raped. So men have the power to rape but they cant use the same power to defend themselves from a woman raping them. Na so
DeleteNIb u saved me from typing. Very apt! They both are not saints. I wish them both good luck.
DeleteShe is desperate to settle in Uk or atleast have a UK citizen by birth. This game is all too familiar and she saw a good sperm donor she can hoom for child support. This is why no lady stays or sleeps in my house. I'd rather spank the monkey, get a good sleep and wake up knowing nobody will blackmail me. Any man who has never been blackmailed will not understand. It is not a joke. Until it happens to you, you will never understand the gravity of such accusation. Na see finish. She felt he has a lot to lose an an "influencer"--whatever that means. Everyone wants to feel important. What the hell is an influencer?
ReplyDeleteLol @ what the hell is an influencer. That got me 😂😂😂😂😂 kikiki
DeleteThe girl vex seriously, won spoil the guy future. If to say she get belle kperen, she for get her Leave to remain once the child is born.
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She is desperate to settle in Uk or atleast have a UK citizen by birth. This game is all too familiar and she saw a good sperm donor she can hoom for child support. This is why no lady stays or sleeps in my house. I'd rather spank the monkey, get a good sleep and wake up knowing nobody will blackmail me. Any man who has never been blackmailed will not understand. It is not a joke. Until it happens to you, you will never understand the gravity of such accusation. Na see finish. She felt he has a lot to lose an an "influencer"--whatever that means. Everyone wants to feel important. What the hell is an influencer?
ReplyDeleteInasmuch much as I believe the guy, and it's obvious the lady is just being vindictive. The truth remains he brought this upon himself and I do not feel sorry for him at all. You don't want a woman yet you slept with her. A saying in my place goes like this "What you don't eat you don't smell".
ReplyDeleteYou aren't a child for goodness sake! You are a grownup man. You knew what she wanted from the get-go and you knew you did not want the same thing yet you gave her an audience. Allowed her to come over, gave her your house address, made her feel comfortable. Your words and your actions didn't match. You gave her false hopes. You are to blame for this quagmire you have found yourself. She is a woman scorned. She didn't achieve her aim and she feels used. Even if you are free from this it doesn't negate you lack moral principles and common sense.
A lady came to my door during Easter with food. She was braless on a very visible white top and a short. I had to reject it. She came again asking to watch zee world I refused. That is how the whole scandal do starts. So Imagine I let her in then we get close and I fornicate with her, making her feel we have something serious and later I dare open my mouth and say I never wanted something serious with her from the beginning. I must be joking!
This hits to home right now because this was how a cousin I advised did the same thing. He brought a lady he didn't have plans for, all the way to the country he resides. A lady who already showed a level of desperation I have never seen before. Before She came over she already changed her surname to his surname on Facebook while tagging every one of his friends to see it including his parent who had to ask him when he got married because a lady was already bearing their surname online. The only difference was she didn't come online to accuse him but believe it the situation didn't end well for him and he has learnt his lesson. You don't want her but you want her body so bad you let her fly all the way from Nigeria over to meet you. You also led her on. Clown!
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You're right, so many lessons on morality here. If you want free sex, get married and sleep with only your wife. That Nigerian-men culture of sleeping around from age 20 to 30 with different women, then looking for a 'good girl' to marry at age 33 should be discouraged. Avoid fornication, avoid situationships simple. Be clear in your communication and don't lead anybody on. Say NO to sex, you won't die. Learn self control. Mercy was drunk always but Ike never took advantage cos of the society he comes from that understands consent and implications. Let's reteach our people.
DeleteHmmmmmm, you have spoken well Oga. Men be careful.
DeleteAnon 15:08, na man you be and a good man at that. You understand exactly what went down.
DeleteI remember a time when friends were friends and lovers were lovers period. No in between, no confusion.
Such wickedness! She's obviously trying to pin a UK man down for marriage, in a desperate manner.
ReplyDeleteGirl; Despirado ... Dr. Bros; Tohtohrado . Bros at first knows that redwine is good for the heart so medication was given.. second time ..to run test.. the two of u are "baby crooks" person spend 4months for your crib.. a whole term and 1 month holiday and to chase am hard u because that ponyor sweet u Nd u and I know say na to dey chop dey go as na her rent be that.. GOD SAVE U SAY SHE NO GET BELE! See brother..broda wey mumu..broda wey no wise lol
ReplyDeleteBoth of them are out to pull each other down,did you guys not read where this guy said he took a picture of her dirty room and sent to his friend as evidence in case this situation arises? He knew he maltreated this lady that explains why he hasn't deleted any of their chats if there is any. You told a lady to come drink alcohol in your room for what exactly? Why can't you guys drink in the living room? This is my take on this, this guy saw this girl was desperate and used old format for her by promising heaven on earth, showed her the picture of his house and car(s), you can sense this where he mentioned that she went upstairs to the master bedroom which was unnecessary in his narrative. This girl on getting to the U.k after being gbenshed severally realised she's being used and probably not free with cash cos I don't understand how a friend can come visiting for good 4 months without you mentioning taking her on a date at least once no matter how busy you are. Both parties should learn and move on already, to you guys out there, some women are very vindictive and will go to any length to destroy you when they realised they have been scammed of their kpekus and to the ladies out there, cos a guy is professional and seem to be doing well does not mean they have good intentions, these men are just looking for desperate girls to prey on for sexual purposes. I wonder why the girl didn't insist that the guy should visit first.
ReplyDeleteabi he sent it to his friend as evidence of what he's been complaining about.
DeleteHow can any sane girl live in a house for free in a country where rent is king, eat free food for 4 months without a defined relationship. She and her mother are obviously gold and green card digging. I wont be surprised if her father had no idea about this senseless trip she took. Pregnant fire....Free loaders roaming around like the devil seeking whom devour.
DeleteVery Stupid Guy. You are a Nigerian Doctor in the UK on a work visa. Still you are forming influencer instead of laying low. If you lose your job now,that job your visa is tied to,what the hell are you going to do?
ReplyDeleteThe girl is just pained aunty please take your L. I'm a woman and I don't see what the guy did wrong her plan failed that's all
ReplyDeleteSilly Boy! on top 10 mins gbenshing, you want to mess up your career! When they say a lot of men reason with their dick...this is not far from it. Nothing here joor.. just a vindictive babe and a foolish boy!
ReplyDeleteThe guy is just lucky she didn't get pregnant . the runsgel came with a plan. god save the guy. The story for different if to say she carry belle..
ReplyDeleteHell hath no fury like a woman scorned.
She's vexing cos after sex the guy no gree commit to relationship. Niggas be woke! Not every Pussy is worth exploring...some will just bring shame and disgrace. #FreeFoodDeyPurge
On 2 the next!
Good for the guy....he goats that want to fuck free pussy. Do we know all the lies and promises he gave her? Some men just lack discipline. Next time padlock you’re dick.
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