she has since deleted all her wedding pictures because the bashing was too much to bear.
The man she married is reportedly still married to another woman since 2018 but refused to divorce the woman(first wife)
The man she married is reportedly still married to another woman since 2018 but refused to divorce the woman(first wife)
Eweleke
ReplyDeleteThe way some women feed men nwdays...is it desperation. You sponsored d wedding,bought up to boxers and shoes he wore; gave him N2.4m for biz.
DeleteI believe u can be a fool for love at d start o but to dis extent??Nawa.
Once a man start relationship with borrow borrow,signals start going off in my head. I wont even wait long enuf to be ur ATM.
This small girl is in for a rocky draining marriage.
I tell you beds and roses. They feed them, cloth them, and even give them spending money. For what? Making them so irresponsible!
DeleteVery stupid set of women. Hear there conversations “ my husband, my husband “ meanwhile na dem Dey go fuck outside bring money Dey feed man , Dey expect am to behave like a Puppy. One Dey his eyes will open.
DeleteI tell you. The desperation to answer Mrs and show off wedding ring finger. Odiegwu really
DeleteDesigner wedding
DeleteOh lord let me not be in this 👠 👞 👟
Delete@Sue, wedding ring bought by themselves o. It's just sad.
DeleteI saw this post on Facebook yesterday and it got me really sad😢
ReplyDeleteSome people are just evil.
May God help her.
Why do women sponsor men. I cnt biko. Maybe I use to give a man money before but now. Never
DeleteInside life. This is just too deep. Hello bv Phoenix...Happy weekend to you.
ReplyDeleteHiya happy weekend to you
DeleteStella can like to protect people ehn. The picture is all over Facebook. This life sha
ReplyDeleteAll over sef, saw it some days back
DeleteThat is why she is my woman crush everyday..
DeleteChizzy j..
This is loud 😦😦😦
ReplyDeleteShe deleted the photos? Ah, that means she didn't know the man is a still married to his first wife. I thought she would ignore and show "I don't care attitude".
ReplyDeleteSome men are shameless.
Someone said here" Most women r the ones paying school fees and taking care of the bills at home" I still REJECT such CURSE in my life IJN.
ReplyDeleteThe quest to ans a Mrs in Nigerian is so disgusting. You paid for a man to marry abi? Now he is a Silver digger? Madam GTFO
If it didn't work with your cheap girlfriend, it may work with someone else. U all be fucking other men to marry another in the name of MRS . Didn't she know he was a gold digger? Hisssss abegggi mugu chop mugu
You are one insensitive preek.
DeleteI follow you reject oh
DeleteI am divorce now because I refuse to take care of my self , feed my child, and feed and fuck the father, I rather remain single wholeheartedly than be married and carry a man's load.
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Delete😂😂😂😂🤣🤣🤣🤣. Ah this blog!🤣🤣
DeleteQueen 💪💪💪💪💪💪. Self love starts with knowing your value and what will bring u PEACE OF MIND.
Delete11:36 GTFO my mentions ps. Where is my lawyer from yday sef. No allow her sue u. Cheap thing. Go and b feeding a man now in other yo ans MRS. EWU
Fear desperate women!! Some of them even know the guy has no love for them, but they go ahead and spend, spend and spend on him hoping to change his mind. And later start shouting "gold digger!"
DeleteWho knows if it's the first wife who's even holding up the divorce ???
Whatever is the case here, only them know the truth.🤷♀️
All these social media cases ehn.. unless i see receipts, i ain't buying.
Ladies, if you decide to get involved with a divorcee, ask to see divorce papers oh... do your research.
THE QUEEN ROASTER, 🙌🙌🙌🙌 yassssss Queen!
Queen you did the right thing. I can take anything from a man but feeding you HELL NO. Rather be single.
DeleteThe truth is such marriage is draining,affects u physcologically when ur the one shouldering all d load and such men still end up cheating untop it all. You will just begin to hate him. a woman is a help mate. I dont mind helping a man even with bills and taking care of the family. But i will never be with a lazy man.
@ Queen so sorry you had to experience this. I believe you evaluated the situation carefully before taking your decision which you felt was best. For other ladies out there, I suggest you assess the context before deciding. For instance, if your spouse was a once hardworking and successful provider but possible due to challenges of life circumstances changed, kindly support the family if God has provided you with the means till he gets back on his feet especially if you see the zeal in him to keep pushing. This is what marriage is about. May God give us wisdom in all situations. My 2 cents!!!
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DeleteLife happens my dear
My husband was ok before marriage
He lost his job during the marriage process.
I was tempted to leave him but I stayed. We've been married for 8 years now and although he's currently working somewhere with a small pay of 40K but I'm hopeful and can't leave him coz he's down.
We put our resources together and settle the bills all the time. It's draining though coz I desire lots of stuffs for myself but I can't afford them coz of bills.
I'm hopeful the situation will change soon.
God help us.
Hmmmm. I pity her anyway, how will the honeymoon look like,what happened to background check? some people even said she knows about his previous marriage because she like the previous wedding pictures on the guys page,why the haste?to prove what?
ReplyDeleteThis same girl is known to be a LIFE COACH,she has content but decided to allow that man to drag through the mud.
Since she said dream comes through,that means she's ready for the dream involve.
So she's aware he was married? 😱
DeleteUnbelievable!! To what end? Why are some men like this? See why it's so good to do a proper background check before venturing into marriage to avoid stories like this
ReplyDeleteChai .. Akara ti tu sepo oo .. Na who go settle this matter ?
ReplyDeleteO tu sepo ooo, Sangba fo, gbegede gbina. Hmmmm, nkan be.
Delete🤣🤣🤣 sangba fo,gbegede gbina
DeleteHmmm!!
ReplyDeleteMay we never be unfortunate to cross parts with unfortunate and useless people in life, Amen.
Don't people make enquiries about the person they want to marry and their families anymore?? Na wa oo.
Ife nkea dikwa egwu.
DeleteWhat happened to IJU ESE？
Amen
DeleteXP Momma the momma!! We've been yearning for your comment nnukwu nwanyi!! Good to see your comment lovely woman😩😩😩❤️😘.
DeleteNne eeh, nyabu ihe gwuru nno Ike! Some of them feel that being "woke" means they can do away with OMENANA and get away with it??? Nbanuu! The consequences of their nzuzu always comes back to slap them harddd on their daft faces.
@Gifty,Amen oo sister🙏❤️.
XP, same question I asked when I first read this story. It used to be such an important part of marriage culture in Igbo land.
DeleteHope our kids are now hale and hearty.
Very embarrassing story,the family failed.
DeleteWhen I warn some ladies about impending doom in their decisions,they say I am too traditional. Ngwanu osetigo dor this one up there.
Kamikaze thanks,they are fine now but franol and its brothers are on their case.
Prevention is better than cure.
She cannot claim that she didn't know. Marriage ain't like picking grapes on the way to the farm, you have to first of all make your enquires. Not every woman has a problem with polygamy. The guy might have told her how'evil the first wife is and how he's trying to get away'. Anyway, the man is pure evil. It's how the lady handles her next step that will determine the substance of her character. May desperation never lead me or my loved ones into breaking another woman's home. It's even more pitiful that dude is obviously a broke gigolo. New wife, happy feeding a grown and entitled man
ReplyDeleteMy dear she knew o. She even liked the wedding picture of the man and his first wife in 2018. No insult me o na Stella teach us journalism
DeleteMy dear Mrs E, she has already shown the substance of her character. And she claims to be a Life Coach. What an irony!
DeleteNa wah ooo.. What sort of embarrassment is this na.
ReplyDeleteThe shoes and the wrist watch he was wearing was bought by the first wife.
ReplyDeleteAnd this new wife like his previous marriage pictures on face book.
She knew he was married.
Hehehe.... You don't say.
DeleteMaybe he told her he is divorced. But then she should have insisted on seeing the divorce papers.
DeletePrettiest that alone should have raised a red flag. Less than 2 years of marriage and guyman is saying i do already. The lady is as fishy as the man
DeleteHahahhaa the way they write dreams come true, you will think they married one Arab oil money 🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄
ReplyDeleteFirst thing I noticed. One won't the man feel he is the next best thing after oxygen?
DeleteLol...@Kiks
DeleteI don't want to believe this😥😥😥 why are some men so wicked? The both ladies doesn't deserve his lies and deceit.
ReplyDeleteLobatan! Hmmm Wonders shall never end
ReplyDeleteJesus!
ReplyDeleteWhy are some people heartless? Getting married to an innocent woman when you're still married to another? Odiegwu.
My father! My father!!, May I not marry another woman's husband. May I not make marital mistakes! Amen!
Good morning kings and queens of SDK ❤️❤️
Amen oooo. Good morning dear.
DeleteGood morning Candy❤️❤️
DeleteMy dear...it’s as bad a going to hell. Marrying another woman’s husband is hellish. I’m in one.
DeleteHmm...nawa..Why are they speaking out now?
ReplyDeleteThis is why I'll never support a woman sponsoring her own wedding. You can support the little you can. If he doesn't have much and you truly want to marry him, then let him do what he can. Even if its a parlour wedding, let him be the man. If he can't, then he has no business yet to get married.
This new trend of ladies marrying themselves never ends well.
Posting pictures on social media has its advantage and disadvantage. This up there is one of its advantages, so that thunder go fire any man who is a serial husband, who goes on to scam and destroy innocent women who have done nothing but to love him. Thank God he has been exposed, it's now left for the girl to make her decision to quit the marriage or continue with him. She needs to get the man talking and go do her own FBI work, let her chat up those commenters via inbox and get to the bottom of it all. I wish her goodluck.
ReplyDeleteGuess what? She won't still leave him because she has experienced him already. She would rather die there trying to shame haters
DeleteThe power of social media
ReplyDeleteChai! One chance marriage. It’s a pity, I feel for the new bride that has been roped into this whole mess. Social media be dey open people’s yansh tey tey!
ReplyDeleteThings are really happening,
ReplyDeletethis mwn must be a demon in human,
men matter is really tiring.
another thing is even if the lady in question is aware of his first marriage, she might still go ahead with its anyway.
Hmmmmmmmmmm
ReplyDeleteI saw it on Facebook and I felt bad for bad. She for first post pre wedding photos
ReplyDeleteA lesson for all those who think it is okay to twist the hand of nature and play the role of a man in relationships and weddings/marriages. ALLOW A MAN MARRY YOU!. You have no business financing your entire wedding. You can always share the responsibilities but allow him BE A MAN by also providing finances.
ReplyDeleteALLOW A MAN MARRY YOU!! pure gold right here.
DeleteWords on marble. God bless you ❤️❤️
DeleteHmmmmmm... I went to Facebook to check their pictures.. Could it be the lady didn't make proper research before accepting him??
ReplyDeleteI don't understand some men.. A lady I know almost got married to a guy like this. His plans was exposed a day to their wedding.
He always target independent rich ladies,make them fall in love helplessly. Then ,target their money or personal properties before abandoning them. One was even pregnant for him..
One thing about them is that they're always handsome and smooth talkers..
village people at work. They finally saw his address. What he did was bad
ReplyDeleteTony Aru eme!!! You should have divorced your first wife before getting married to a new one.
ReplyDeleteWiffy Pele because i Cannot blame you, is possible you didn't know às so many men are terrible.
Na wa o.........
ReplyDeleteThere is a stage in marriage procedures my people call 'IJU ESE'（verification stage）,it could take days or,weeks but definitely you must be verified.
ReplyDeleteShame to the girl's family for failing in their duties.
That's so true. Unless it was city marriage
DeleteTrue. Ours go beyond Physical verification. We do spiritual checking too. We check for any history of madness, skoin skoin and tueh teuh (They ain’t the same 😀)
DeleteYou are right
DeleteA big shame to the girls family and to her as well.
DeleteIs it that ladies should start putting up pictures of their would be spouses on the social media or national dailies, so if they are in any form of relationship or marriages, the ladies would be notified?
ReplyDeleteIs it that ladies(and men) do not have a closer relationship with God anymore, so much so that, they can't properly commune and hear clearly from their Father before going into marriage or even a relationship?
Cos, I am not understanding anymore.
On a final note, that endtime man/husband is the first son of Satan.
Na wa oh..He be like say he go be like that o
DeleteOsetigo..Ndi I will answer 'mrs' by fire by force,how market?I don't have any iota of spare pity to waste on her.make everybody carry their cross abeg.
ReplyDeleteNa wa oooo
ReplyDeleteThis is really unfortunate, didn't she make findings first or just didn't care.
ReplyDeleteIts a mess already.
Men like this plenty.
ReplyDeleteDear sisters be wise..... Giving him all your coins, financing the wedding and even doing 360 bed turn won’t change a damaged man. Ever since a married man swore and cried that he is a widow just to date me meanwhile his wife was busy posting their pictures on Facebook, I knew not to trust people.
So many women are married to gay men. Some have been infected with incurable diseases just because their partner rather than agree to a lab test, will purposefully call his/her doctor on phone to confirm health status 🤦♀️
You only have one life to live. Don’t allow one manipulative, crazy, lieing, controlling Goat destroy your life. Those who play the victim card the most are psychos- They be like “my ex did this my ex that and when you ask What is your own Fault, They paint themselves as Saint”.
Finally brethren 😂 Don’t allow the Hoe phase make you loose a good Man. I almost lost Him. Check within and If you are a good, genuine person, you spirit will minister to you when you see Him.
Hmm you have a point
DeleteIjiya okwu nnem.On point
DeleteBut wait o! The man didnt sign divorce papers. Is it that he refused abi the wife no gree sign so he walked away. Now it has dawned on her that he is gone for good, they are shouting come and sign divorce paper. Life will and must go on. Biko if a partner is asking for divorce and reconciliation isn't feasible, let go. Sign it. Stop holding people to ransom. And how are we sure the marriage with the new woman won't work?
ReplyDeleteDo they live outside the country? Does he need to sign the divorce documents. I thought in Nigeria, you can petition the court for a divorce, hoping the other side answers? If he doesn't, it is left for the court to use their discretion to grant or not.
ReplyDeleteOne thing women should know is that a man will string you along for years if you let him whether you are married or single. He can't divorce her in case if plan b does not work so he can come back crying that she used jazz. Maybe after this callout, he will do the needful. A typical mean Nigerian man will keep you in that marriage while he has moved on. Divorce you, he won't.
Women, the court will not flog you if you are the first to file for divorce. Stop listening to people who will keep you in the marriage while the man does him, later you will be so frustrated that you will have to go anonymous to call him out. God hates divorce, he hates a lot of things but he doesn't hate his daughters and love his men. His daughters can't go to hell and his son who have married three times will go to heaven. God is merciful and reasonable. Stop tying yourself by yourself. You are creating bitterness and a wasted youth. A youth where you would have met the love of your life but you are bitter over a man you are suppose to rejoice over. Years later, you are single and bitter, pouring the frustration on your kids while waiting for the man to return when he is aged and he is diseased from past mistakes.
Until women stop allowing society and themselves to dictate for them, they will stop being the bitter party.
KING XOXO MYSTERY
You couldn't have said it any better i swear. Most Nigerian women really has a looong way to go in terms of self realization and development. It isn't really about speaking grammar and dressing perfectly well, it's mostly about being a woman enough for yourself and not giving rooms to being enslaved by anything or anyone and especially not by any man in the name of marriage, We really need to start doing better for our selves.
DeleteAny little thing they start chanting "I tap, I tap, I tap?"
ReplyDeleteWhat are you tapping, are you a thief?
Greedy Nigerians.
Everything must be on social media.😏😏😏😏😏😏😏😏
Sixty percent women, especially Nigerian on Facebook are all suffering from low IQ,They can annoy to the high heavens. One senseless and ugly excuse of a man will post up shits like weeding ring or dress and tell them to to claim and they'd be claiming, You will also see posts like, back side challenge and some mentally unstable female will be posting the pictures of their backside because one MOFO told them to do so, the list is endless my dear. Some people no just get sense rara.
DeleteChisom calm down, you are always so abusive in your choice of words.
DeleteKweke!
ReplyDelete@Everyoung,are you from my side?ukwani
DeleteSee my people oo
DeleteUmu ukwuani
Nah Dem be this..
ReplyDeleteIf you see them chanting that they like independent women that are hardworking, you will think it is because they believe in female empowerment..
Whoosai,, nah lie oh.. It is because they are lazy& wants a lady that will toil & sponsor them..
Baby Hushpuppy's!!
Chizzy j.
For the fact she knew he was married before marrying it's evident of the kind of woman she is,and must be very desperate,guys stop drinking Panadol over her headache,she knew what she signed up for her so allow her enjoy her shame in peace,she deserve to pity,this is a typical description of a modern average Nigerian girl SMH,they need lots of mental, emotional,infact all round sensitization!!!
ReplyDeleteo se ti go
ReplyDeleteI just wonder why y’all think this woman’s friends are saying the truth because they are the first people to talk on social media.I can see a lot of judgmental people on this blog and it’s just sad.What happens to waiting room hear the other side of the story because passing judgement?
ReplyDeleteHmmmmm
ReplyDeleteAfter I read this gist, my antenna went wide!!
What the heck!!!
Abeg make we dey pray not to jam devil advocate
The first wife was stupid to sponsor everything while the second wife did not even spent a dime. He practically worship the ground she walked on. Ladies be expensive, don't because you have a job and be giving your boyfriend money.
ReplyDeleteRegardless, the woman is the victim
ReplyDeleteAnd please Bvs whether you sponsor a wedding,a man that will leave will leave.
Jeff Bezos divorced his wife and split his income just to marry his "dream". He didn't care about the money he will lose.
There is no guarrantee. Pray a bad man never crosses your path.
Some men have wives in every state they married with their hard earned money. The women don't even know they have co wives.
Bad things happen to good people
So please , what a woman did in the name of love shouldn't be used to mock her. The man is wrong for this. I wish the woman strength to realise that not everything you lose is a loss and Grace to love again.
KING XOXO MYSTERY
Hear me, if any man ever comes to you with a marriage proposal straight up, just know he has a game plan going, they call them "come and marry" they abound overseas...
ReplyDeleteNo stellS, it was d lady that refused divorcing him and swore and for d new bride, she already knew everything and no she didn't delete the photos... Prior to the first marriage, he was about marrying another lady but all of a sudden the girl changed her mind.... He was down and his pastor adviced him to just marry any girl that the love will grow so he agreed and married that his first wife without even loving .... U know the rest....
ReplyDeleteHmmmmm welcome new wife.........
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