BBNaija Season 4 Pepper Dem Reunion - Shouting Match Between Frodd And Esther

They played clips of Frodd and Esther having romantic moments.

Ebuka asked Esther what happened with Frodd and the exact moment she fell for him. Esther said the moment she saw Frodd in a different light was when he was wearing glasses in the kitchen and he looked so cute. She said Frodd grew on her and she truly grew to like him while in the house. Ebuka asked Frodd when he fell for Esther and he said Esther was his first connection and he played her big brother for the mock diary session.




Ebuka asked Frodd what happened with Esther and Frodd said a lot of things happened. Frodd said he’s the type that needs transparency and trust in a relationship. Ebuka asked Esther what happened and Esther said Frodd never asked her out formally. Esther said Frodd complained about a lot of things and was very petty. Ebuka asked Frodd what happened in Hilton, Dubai and Frodd said Esther dressed plainly to dinner and that made him feel like she didn’t rate him enough.




Ebuka asked Esther if she ever tried to toast or ask Frodd out since he didn’t ask her out. Esther said she didn’t try to toast him because she started to feel they were growing apart. Kim jokingly said that she could still see love in Frodd’s eyes. 

Ebuka asked Jackye what she felt about Frodd and Esther’s relationship and she said she didn’t understand the dynamics of their friendship. Jackye said she felt Esther didn’t like Frodd while in the house and was of the opinion that Frodd move on. On the status of Esther and Frodd’s relationship post house, Jackye said didn’t understand what was happening with them.



Ebuka asked Esther if the reason she moved on quickly was because she didn’t like Frodd enough and she said no. Esther said the reason she moved on was because she felt she couldn’t trust him enough. Esther said she heard things she told Frodd in confidence from other housemates. Ebuka asked if the fans played a big role in them not working out and she said they didn’t. Ebuka asked Esther if Frodd becoming the person he was to other housemates while in the house was one of the reasons she drifted from him and she said yes. She said Frodd became petty and they were always arguing over silly things.




Frodd said Esther didn’t fall out of love with him. Frodd said he was the one that had concerns with Esther’s behavior. He said he gave out a lot of energy to her. He said he had nothing after the house and he was open about this to Esther. He said there were times Esther pulled up to events in posh cars and he’s a guy with insecurities. 

Esther cut him short and challenged him to give exact instances when this happened and Frodd said he wasn’t a diary.

 Esther also said he never spoke to her about his insecurities. Frodd said he spoke about this with her and she always said it was nothing and the guys were just her friends. Frodd said he and Esther were still cool in February after their trip from Rwanda but he couldn’t just deal. Esther then said Frodd knows the things he always said about other housemates. Frodd challenged her to say whatever it was and said it wasn’t in his nature to speak about people.



Frodd said he’s a super observant person and he pulls back if he feels someone isn’t honest. Ebuka asked what the problem was with the posh car (was it the fear that she was dating others or that he felt intimidated). Frodd said the problem was that Esther has friends with people in the upper echelon which made things more comfortable for her. Esther asked Frodd why he never confronted her and he started being all defensive. Esther told him not to push a bad narrative about her.



Frodd said he had done enough for Esther. Frodd said the problem with Esther is that she never comes out to say her feelings. Frodd said the industry probably played a role in them not working out. He gave instances of him probably ready to settle down and Esther might not be. Esther said Frodd never imitated a conversation around all these. Frodd said the last petty quarrel they had was during Diane’s birthday. He said Esther left him standing at the mall unattended to for 2 hours. Esther cut in and said it wasn’t up to 2 hours. In her defense, she and another person were looking for someone. Esther asked if Frodd also apologized for making her walk aimlessly for hours and he couldn’t defend himself.


Ebuka asked if Esther would call Frodd a friend and she said no because they don’t discuss personal things again and she couldn’t trust him too because of his history of sharing personal things about them with other housemates. On the other hand, Frodd said that he decided to part ways with Esther as soon as they landed Nigeria.


Ebuka asked Omashola about what’s happening with KimOprah and Omashola said he likes her. He said he’s okay with being friends with her. Ebuka asked KimOprah what the situation with Omashola was and she said she didn’t want to have the conversation. KimOprah said her problem with Omashola is his self centeredness. She said he always put himself first in every situation without considering her.


Ebuka asked Omashola what he did and he said Kim has called him self centered before and he didn’t like that. He said he doesn’t think he’s self centered. He said he didn’t know what situation he’s self centered about and Kim didn’t tell him, so he didn’t know what he was supposed to fix. He said he’s asked KimOprah what the problem was and she didn’t talk about it. In her defense, KimOprah said Omashola texted instead of seeing her to trash things out face to face. Omashola said the reason he didn’t go over to see KimOprah was because she was with other housemates and he didn’t want to create a scene. Kim cut him and said he should have asked that they meet in a private place than give excuses.


Ebuka asked Omashola if he’s still going to reach out to KimOprah. He said he knows where he stands and he knows what he wants. Ebuka asked if it’s KimOprah he wants and he said yes.


Ebuka advised the housemates to realize that they are on the journey alone or with their chosen romantic partners. He said outsiders will try to wade in but they should stay true to themselves.

By BV Pelumi