When do you think is the right time to bring up issues to discuss in a new relationship without appearing desperate?
When is the right time to bring up the genotype issue?
when is the right time to talk about finances and what both persons are bringing to the table?
When is the right time to ask the question ''So where is this relationship heading'?
Who is having this problem right now?Who asked too early and got dumped?
who asked to late after finding themselves messed up with lies?
There's never a wrong or right time to ask these important question. I mean, in adults relationship, not in a relationship of chop and clean mouth.
ReplyDeleteWhen both of you know what you want, you start having this discussion as soon as possible.
Anytime the persons involved feel like joor and no specificity
DeleteExactly! No wrong time for such questions. As the spirit leads.
DeleteThe minute you understand eachother enough and accepted to live with the flaws inherent. From that moment upward, discussion has to be the basics and please learn to put a cap on it in earnest. Before it becomes a marathon of fasting.
DeleteAs for the genotype, after hello the next thing is what is your genotype. Genotype can't shoot me twice. And the relationship progress we will both head to the clinic to confirm. And the progress I am talking about maybe after like 2 or 4 weeks
Delete"Would you like to marry me?"
ReplyDeleteYes. 🤸🏻♀️🤸🏻♀️🤸🏻♀️
If that question has not been asked (in a private place; never in public) and the lady said "yes" at her own convenience and discretion, how can you ask about, number of children, finances or genotype. Eh girl? 🤸🏻♀️🤸🏻♀️🤸🏻♀️What are you "typing geno" for, for
friendship? No now.
Before that question is asked, you are just friends. After yes to that question, you are finacee=fiance and it is a courtship with marriage in view. There are many things to discuss and preparations to do for a fruitful and joyful marriage.
But if you meet and spreads wide the cookie jar and gets him addicted to cookies? It is not only fornication but the journey becomes that between
rat and cat, goat and lion, tom and Jerry...with possibilities of (innocent bloodshed everywhere) 🤸🏻♀️🤸🏻♀️🤸🏻♀️🤸🏻♀️🤸🏻♀️🤸🏻♀️🤸🏻♀️🤸🏻♀️🤸🏻♀️🤸🏻♀️🤸🏻♀️🤸🏻♀️🤸🏻♀️
Nne you didn't answer the question na.
DeleteNice one minus some parts lol
Delete@Gifty
DeleteThe answer to the question is that it is after engagement.
Yes, when the lady has accepted to marry him.
Do you understand? 🤸🏻♀️🤸🏻♀️🤸🏻♀️🤸🏻♀️🤸🏻♀️🤸🏻♀️🤸🏻♀️🤸🏻♀️🤸🏻♀️🤸🏻♀️
Some girls are funny.
ReplyDeleteYou say hi to them?
Where is this relationship going to?
What do you want
My mommy is asking after you
When are you seeing my parents?
What dude will do?🏃🏻♂️🏃🏻♂️🏃🏻♂️🏃🏻♂️🏃🏻♂️🏃🏻♂️🏃🏻♂️🏃🏻♂️🏃🏻♂️🏃🏻♂️
I ask the genotype and what exactly do you want from me during our early dates.
ReplyDeleteI never asked where the relationship is heading to so as not to sound desperate.
Where the relationship is heading and what do you want from me ...... are the same, just phrased differently
DeleteIf there's a healthy communication in the relationship,3 months is fine to discuss Genotype and Finances. Sometimes,the man spoils a woman with gifts and money while courting but as soon as they legalise the marriage story changes,lowlife scrums also lie about genotype which is totally absurd.
ReplyDeleteTruth be told,you may never get the correct answer when you ask about finances and genotype
DeleteIf you give some people 10 yrs,They still won't spill the truth
DeleteThe genotype discussion should come as quick as possible before investing emotionally into a relationship. My opinion
ReplyDeleteThe genotype issue should be discussed on day 1 biko then go for a test in a neutral lab to confirm when the relationship is looking like it's going somewhere.
ReplyDeleteA girl in my church just canceled her wedding which was supposed to hold next month because of genotype. They discussed it and guy said he's AA and babe is AS. Before they started wedding counseling, the church asked them to go do a test and he happened to be AC not AA.
For the others, as the spirit leads.
That's why i said some lowlife scrums lie about their genotype.
DeleteYes o, do a test before committing yourself emotionally.
DeleteIt depends. I asked her the second time I met her if she would date me she said it's too early... I asked in December again she said no. This thing is shit
ReplyDeleteI have not even gotten to a level where i can ask all these questions in a relationship.
ReplyDeleteOnce i mention that i can only be in a no sex relationship till after marriage, fiam they run.
Dearie don't worry, continue pleasing GOD. The right man will come.
DeleteBe happy they run biko, the right person will show up
DeleteKeep telling them, the right one will come. God will make it happen.
DeleteI appreciate you guys for your words of encouragement.
DeleteSweet nonsense Those are the ones that would cheats on their wives after marriage. Thank God for your life. God sees you remember the dream stella talked talked about today on testimony post about God looking at the world with his eyes. He wants to see if you will fail and join the band wagon of fornicators. So continue to follow the right path my sister. When it is time God will just drop your man into your life. Don't go and believe the hype about Good girls carrying last it is not true jare they don't carry last they just don't loud their success story because they have nothing to prove to anyone. You will laugh at last my sister and when you meet those boys later that ran away because you refused them premarital sex you will just shake your head and laugh.
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DeleteLemme perch here
ReplyDeleteImmediately after meeting and saying your name.
ReplyDeleteHi. Mine name is Tokunbo. I am AA. O+. Nice to meet you.
A spec like you 🙌🏽
Delete@sweet nonesense no be joke ooh
ReplyDeleteAh dunno why men can't abstain from sex until after marriage
My dear Vincy, the thing tire person. but it is well.
Delete*Visy
DeleteThe time we asked about each other's genotype was on the third date. Although I mentioned recently that we will have to the test again.
ReplyDeleteAbout finances and where you will both settle, this comes when you are so sure he/she is the one.
We both asked the genotype question when we just met and already knew we wanted something more serious than just friendship.
ReplyDeleteDiscuss the financial aspect when you've both registered your intention of spending your lives together.
I ask ooooo, even go as far as testing in the lab i choose because some adult dont even know what genotype is and so evil one go as far as lying forbtheir selfish reasons.... I dont want to hear story ontop my own
ReplyDeleteIf you are not AA, genotype issues should be discussed immediately you start dating. If it is a relationship that first started as friendship, you should already know the genotype before even dating. This is not a conversation that should be delayed because you fear to appear desperate. You want to first invest your emotions, then later you find out you can't be together? There is almost no heartbreak worse than that. You don't even need to ask point blank sometimes, if you are 2 individuals who enjoy rich communication, that topic must come up one way or the other. I know all my friends genotypes both male and female and they know mine, let alone a love interest. It is not a secret matter.
ReplyDeleteAs for me,I don't know oo!
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