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The person who posted noted #copied but the story is still trending with her name...Nigerians dont read at all....
The person who posted noted #copied but the story is still trending with her name...Nigerians dont read at all....
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but why would the father of the said lady share the money between him and his son inlaw? so now he has seen that its not easy for a young man to cough out such amount just for bridal list. her father is the irresponsible one here honestly.
ReplyDeleteThe girl and her family are very stupid. Oy yes i support the husband. She should work and support her family. Rubbish.
DeleteThis their marriage is already wanting to hit the rocks but i wish them all the best
DeleteFinally this story made it here!!! The entitlement mentality is stomach churning to say the least. On top of 70k salary. Her brain did not even tell her what she was asking for is just absurd. She now even labelled the husband as irresponsible. Na wa for some families o
DeleteCan you imagine? Let his son raise the money by himself. All these families that marry off their daughters with the hope of solving their families financial problems. What a shame.
DeleteThey are shamelessly greedy... I didn't read where she said her family gave her husband money to support him during his time. So the father knows its not easy ba?
DeleteIf the said brother cannot raise that money, he has no business getting married.
Irresponsible and greedy father. So your inlaw is responsible for ur own sons marriage rites. Is the wife going to bear his name or ur own family name?
DeleteIs his son not working i dont get???
Is this lady mentally ok? She is unemployed and matri3d a man that earns 70k and somehow expects him to support his greedy family and marry a wife for her brother on top 70k. The guybuas seen that you and your family is out to destroy him because he will never grow with so many entitled beings around him. They refused to reduce their list and somehow expect him to pay 120k foe their own soon who couldn't afford 400k to marry. The guy don enter bad market.
DeleteWhy not pack your load and go back to your family? You are not working but you want your husband to cough out 120k for your brother's wedding??
DeleteWhen and how did your brother's wedding become your husband's responsibility?
Una no get 1 kobo shame at all for your family.
Any wet mumu from wicked and entitled family...smh
ReplyDeleteI support the man.when my parents gave my hubby my list,I made sure I slashed everything on it, everything right down to my mom's wrappers.i knew my hubby's capabilities and wouldn't allow anyone to overwhelm him.
DeleteThe wedding was a success and his relationship with my parents cordial and respectful.
El oh el!
DeleteEbonyi people. Esp Afikpo pple
DeleteShe is not ready to be married.🚶♂️
ReplyDeleteFrom her name,she is from Delta State same as me..where do they bring such amount for marriage also the father-in-law is very irritating to ask his son in law to bring part of the money.the woman herself na mumu raised to power 10.
ReplyDeleteShe wrote COPIED!!!!!
DeleteStella also wrote the same thing. It is not the woman's story but one she copied from someone/somewhere else.
She is not the one with the story, she just copied and pasted it,read what Stella wrote at the end.This story caused tribal war on twitter yesterday .You all should read and comprehend.
DeleteI'm from delta state too and we all know our list is not that costly .
Abi o, i be Deltan too, My sister bride price was 5k and list items, i no sure say the husband spend pass 100k. When no be say them dey sell the girl.
DeleteEntitlement mentality is a big problem in our society.
ReplyDeleteBig problem, like shame no catch her, imagine her dad saying the man should bring 120k for her brothers wedding. Shameless lot!
DeleteMelancholy
Your father told your husband to contribute 120k towards your brothers wedding..as in he shared the cost and gave your newly wed husband his son's bill to pay.
ReplyDeleteThen, you as a newly wed wife - considering what your husband earns monthly, agreed to that arrangement, got angry with your husband for not complying and called him irresponsible? Good grief! I really don't understand some families and their mode of operation
Whoever you are, you're not ready for marriage.
Gbam. Can you imagine the rubbish? A man earning 70k, a jobless wife and wife's family wants to add their own rubbish on top. I've warned my nephew, if you bring a wife from a needy family, only you will waka and marry and face your problems alone.
Deletetry to get your own job as a woman so you can send your own parents money too. if you have brothers that are also working,let them be sending money to your parents until you as a wife have something at hand especially if your husband's salary is nothing to write home about.
ReplyDeleteI am still praying for a good job so I can send something to my parents too monthly.
The father, the daughter and the brother are all irresponsible. 3 Gbosa for the husband
ReplyDeleteThese days,it is important to marry someone you love but while you’re at it,make sure her family has good morals and are comfortable or what sensible family will mandate their son inlaw to contribute money towards their sons wedding?shey e mad ni?things like that are supposed to be voluntary,no be say Una go say Una don calculate na 120k son in-law go pay.Even if the son inlaw is dangote,I still think it is wrong.
ReplyDeleteNo mind them. They will also start mandating him to pay their son's children's schools fees.
DeleteThe husband is very right.
ReplyDeleteWhy will he be obliged to still give the father money when he didn't consider the fact that his daughter isn't working to support her "husband" before they got married and besides, when the young man wanted to marry his daughter, he looked for the money to pay for the items on the list, why can't his own son,go out and hustle like a man.
Being married to his daughter is not a jail sentence, else the daughter will be made to feel the pains like she is now.
Some family feels like,giving your daughter hand in marriage is not like you're selling her.
I find it difficult to believe this story. But if it happened and I am the guy, she has to choose between me and her family. I will NEVER contribute to any useless brother's wedding or any of her family's ceremony for that matter. Just shows the kind of family she is from - greedy and entitled family. If my condition improves, I will definitely be sending monthly upkeep to my in-laws and meet any of their needs, as may be convenient for me (they are my parents too). But no way, for anything outside that.
ReplyDeleteP:S: Why didn't your father give you the bill to pay? So, since the time you met your husband, got married, till this moment, you still don't have any source of income? Interesting!
ReplyDeleteFunny how those of you who go into marriage with zero account balance are usually the ones that do the most complain. Please do well to bring something to the damn table. Thanks!
Madam poster your father is the irresponsible man not your husband. How can you father milk him dry without any consideration and still wants a financial favor from him, your family are wicked people
ReplyDeleteYour brother is not yet mature and ready for marriage. If he is, both him and your father will bear the responsibility. Your husband married you, not your family and owes them nothing. The choice to support your brother is his decision to make and should not be as a result of your family imposing such bill on him. If your husband earns N70k and feeds and houses you from there, where do you and your family expect him to get N120k to contribute to wedding? Will he also contribute to sleeping with your brother's wife, ante-natal and post-natal bills? Please, receive common sense and let the young man be. This is a typical example of the black man's sense of reasoning.
ReplyDeleteThe father of the girl is not a serious person at all.
ReplyDeleteHehehehehehe. The father should raise the money na, why share the money? Now, he knows 580k is not a small money and not easy to get. The husband should forgive abeg.
ReplyDeleteBetter leave the man alone. Our parents should stop selling their daughters in the name of marriage. Moreover, your brother that wants to get married didnt he count the cost before he set out on the journey? Carry your problem and be disturbing others. Better apologize to your husband for insulting him and try to find a way around his anger. You Nd your family should go and sort your brother.
ReplyDeleteI have a problem with how the daughter is thinking . You married a good man.
ReplyDeleteThe wife and her family are mad!!!
ReplyDeleteI support the husband. He owes them NOTHING!
As they did to him, they are doing to her brother. The wife should go and get a job to give her family 120k.
I am a woman and i hate nonsense.
This is what happens when u marry from a useless family
ReplyDeleteThe wife's father is wicked. Her husband gave them the right answer
ReplyDeleteThe family of the girl really funny. What rubbish. Who dey marry no dey prepare himself?
ReplyDeleteWhy should your husband marry a wife for your brother?
ReplyDeleteAnd the foolish woman is scattering her home with her own hands?
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That family no get SHAME at all
ReplyDeleteI support the husband 💯%... The father refused to reason with him knowing fully well the whole expenses was on him alone now he's seeking for who will assist his own son...
ReplyDeleteThe lady's family are not serious.... The lady should give her self proper brain and concentrate on her marriage...
Useless set of in-laws! Just got a job as an engineer and overheard my father in law telling my husband that during his days, women are not supposed to keep their salaries, they submit to their husband! I tire! Waiting the the mummy, s boy to come and brooch the issue with me! After spending all his money on side chics! Terrible poeple
ReplyDeleteThe husband is right...he doesn't owe his wife's brother such assistance...she should go and find work to support her family...her dad is stupid to involve son-in-law in a matter that doesn't concern him, shows he isn't man enough to foot the bills of his son's marriage neither is the son too man enough to carry his burden.
DeleteThey should allow the young 70k man to breathe mbok, na marry him marry, he no kill person , he no send person to go marry.
Pls do well to give us feedback when your hubby comes to table the matter to you. My ears are itching to hear your reply. It still baffles me why men most have this entitlement mentality.
DeleteWhy should he be given 120k for your brother's wedding? is this how things are done in some places?
ReplyDeletevery greedy family. honestly i wont allow my family put pressure on my husband like this. to hell with tradition. yes he can give a small monthly stipend to them as he doesnt earn much but he cant pay that money abeg..
ReplyDeletePlease go and make peace with your husband. Your brother should hustle and pay for his wife bride price. After all no body help him during his own.
ReplyDeleteMy dear your husband owes you and your family especially your brother NOTHING OK??? Your father collected everything he wanted without mercy when he married you abi?? Why should this guy earning 70k be made to pay 120k to your brother's wedding?? You see what goes around comes around. And you have the audacity to call your man irresponsible?? Did you call your dad irresponsible when he put his foot down? Better go and apologise to your man and tell your people to carry their cross Abeg.
ReplyDeleteUseless family
ReplyDeleteSee as love carry this man enter one chance. Marriage carry him enter useless family. With a senseless wife. I feel for the young man, too bad . men always open ur eyes wide if u really want to enter any family as son in-law .. Devilish family
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I have 7 giant brothers. How they all sit and fold their hands waiting for someone else's son to take care of their parents baffles me to d bones. During Christmas none of my brothers bought rice or it likes for my parents. Since I got married, he's been doing it year in year out. Last year, I told him not to buy anything for my parents but he said it's just once a year thing that I should not worry about it.it hurts so bad. I just don't want to say my brothers are useless but they are. How can u have parents and not care for them at all. And some of them always call me to complain that they broke. I'm not about to kill someone's son with my family bills o. I blocked some of their numbers on my husbands phone so they can go behind my back and be embarrassing me. If u want money, go work for it.
ReplyDeleteGod please if there's a next life, I don't want to come from this family. Let me come from a a better, hard working,God-fearing and considerate family abeg
When my dad gave my husband the diary list, I told him to tell my dad he can't afford the list that he'll come back in 4years time. Lmao... He left and my dad was the one calling me up n down to ask me how far. I told him, "how far for what? Shey u don drive am now? U need to see d ridiculous list they gave us.
ReplyDeleteMy friend said I devalued myself. Any man Dat will only value me kos he paid heave diary is d kinda man I don't want. My value is not based on money.
He could afford the list and more but they can't use him. My dad added things that aren't surpose to be in the list.
He later called my guy and was saying come now, let's talk like men. He slashed the list and d marriage happened. U guys cannot turn my husband to ur ATM. We've not even started raising our own family yet but u want to empty hiss accant. Greedy lot
The husband is doing well, I support his resolve 100%. Where do they find these kinds of girls and family? Greedy and entitled lot. The effrontery!
ReplyDeleteReading the comments just confirmed to me that Nigerians don't read. After Stella emphasized "COPIED". Chai!
ReplyDeleteThis story annoys the hell outta me. Very entitled and senseless wife.
ReplyDeleteYou guys have said it all, greedy and entitled family and a wife that lacks wisdom.
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