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Friday, June 12, 2020

Friday In House

The weather today is too hot!!!!

Hailings!





IN HOUSE MEMO

Major giveaway loading.................

Face of in house news competition,most of you are sending in really bad photos...wetin happen?just for the data right?well not everyone is automatically posted anymore....






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MADAM TOK TOK DON LAND
THE NEGATIVE IMPACT OF CARTOONS




Cartoon is an inevitable part of the lives of our children. Whereas previously children spent their time in outdoor activities playing with their peers and enjoying different games now they prefer watching their favorite characters on TV for long hours. There are several adults like me who also enjoy watching such interesting animated films. 



The positive impacts of cartoons on children include education of children, learning additional information about the world including our ethnicity, enriching their vocabulary and interesting entertainment.

These animated feature films however contains images and storylines that are clearly inappropriate for a child’s viewing. While watching cartoons children often identify themselves with the characters, however these characters are usually aggressive or have supernatural powers to fly, run faster than the wind or jump from the top of a skyscraper on the buildings. Kids begin to see these characters as role models without parental supervision. Children gradually become aggressive, disobedient, cruel and angry when they become addicted to these films

Parents actually are not aware of the severity of the negative impact of cartoons. When they are stressed they choose the easy way out to entertain the kids so they can rest. Parental supervision is extremely necessary when the children are glued to the TV set. Children who watch cartoons full of violence tend to be nervous, aggressive and disobedient.

Moderation is key to the training of a child. Children ought to have a balanced lifestyle, therefore the number of hours allowed for viewing cartoons daily ought to be controlled. We must explain to them that contrary to what they watch violent behavior is not the best way to settle conflict. 



Cartoons should have age limit. It is important that parents have the prior knowledge of a particular animated film before allowing their kids watch it. When we cannot understand the impact of the film, it is unnecessary allowing our kids watch them. It is better when parents watch and discuss the character of cartoons with children as proper monitoring can be done.







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TEEJAYS CORNER
DARE TO SUCCEED....



If ever there was a thing I also needed in life while growing up, I think it was contentment and inner peace that could only come from being truly happy. Being untroubled about unnecessary worries of life, is one thing I've always looked forward in life. Peace with oneself is one feeling you'll never trade for anything. Believe me, not even money can buy that. I've seen wealthy and influential people, yet unfulfilled. Sad but so true.


Growing up, I stumbled severally as a result of some wrong decisions made that I almost got it all lost in life but for divine providence. In retrospect, I wish I had done better and never took some of the decisions I made at the time.


Mothers are great carriers of blessings and more also destiny builders. I make bold to say, my survival in life and some of the success I celebrated are anchored on Mom's prayers of intercession.


Looking forward now, I only but smile and realize that, my past failures and frustration were actually laying the foundational knowledge for the understanding I now have that have created the new person I've become in life. I conquered my fears and battles.


Sometimes, you need to get to your lowest point in life not cos you wish to be there, but life happened in order to appreciate success when they finally come. It's the defining moment of life. If you've never been at the rock bottom, you will never know the importance of holding unto success so tightly that you don't wanna lose it when you finally found it.



Believe in yourself. Whatever you go through in life, keep hope alive and dreams at heart. For dreams do come through when we strive so hard towards it and never give up. Dare to Succeed, for you can't conquer that which you can't confront. Only YOU can change the narrative.






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340 comments:

  1. Went to the market to get bags for the people that made order on my page and my peopleeeeeeeeee, it's only God that can save us!!!

    The shuttles were carrying 3 people per seat as usual, the market was crowded, Kai!!! It's well.... I even feel sick 😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭

    This is the first time I'm going out with public transport since this coro thing happened, na really God dey save personπŸ™πŸ™πŸ™πŸ™

    Good Afternoon my people ❤❤❤❤❤

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    1. I caught the TMC bug. Man like Aminu😍😍😍 Abeg where is season 3?

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    2. Please be careful o avoid body contact as much as possible take a hot bath and disinfect as soon as you get home .

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    3. And they are thesame pple saying school shouldn't open

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    4. Awwwww... I can imagine, it's really not easy surviving in this country. Good afternoon

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    5. Good afternoon kpele cookie, just be safe

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    6. 😁😁😁Na now your day break cookie
      Come to Ibadan and see something.

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    7. Swagu please o, leave TMC for us😁😁😁

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    8. Hope you used face mask and washed your hands immediately you got back home.

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    9. God bless the givers and the receivers

      Cheers πŸ₯‚πŸ₯‚πŸ₯‚πŸ₯‚πŸ₯‚πŸ¦‹πŸ¦‹πŸ¦‹πŸ¦‹

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    10. plz stay safe. I avoid the market like crazy! Most people are not taking the pandemic seriously and the market is always filled with people.

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    11. This is for the "WORRIED BV" in yesterday's IHN. I am BV SARAFINA and I can tell you that I went through worse and came out victorious.

      After 5 years of marriage, no pregnancy. I went to the hospital and scan revealed I had ovarian cyst (no fibroid). I am hypertensive.

      I was scared of surgery. The thought of surgery kept shooting up my BP!!! The doctor put me on meds to put the bp in check to enable me go in for the surgery but for where...bp refused to behave so she decided on doing it like that.

      My BP was on an all time high when that surgery was performed. I came out alive. All glory to God.

      We (hubby and I) decided to go the IVF way since both tubes had issues. First attempt FAILED. We cried, we prayed, we held unto God. Second IVF journey, Jehovah answered! Our kids are already 6!!!

      So, this is to encourage you to focus on God ONLY. Kick fear out. Be rest assured, like me, you will be a mom.

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  2. Everything in life can teach you a lesson, you just have to be willing to learn. So stop telling God how big your problems are and start telling your problems how big your God isπŸ’ͺ🏾

    GOOD AFTERNOON EVERYONE😊

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    1. Awesome message πŸ‘
      Good afternoon Baba

      @Madam toktok nice write up I was telling one of my sister inlaw this recently , parents need to supervise the cartoons children watch, this is the formation stage and we need to get it right, i noticed one of my once quiet nephews is now very rough and always wanting to practice the violence he watched from cartoons.

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    2. Issacbaba to think i thought you were alright, but i now know better. First off you have lost a customer in me because i buy from you at least thrice every week. To think you can justify a character like Tacha's. Just few days ago here she rose against the whole house for mentioning that they contributed money for Ella to foot her mom's hospital bill, Taco
      Tacha came for them implying that they shouldn't have brought it to people's hearing when it was crystal clear that Ella was not being truthful. Now she did the same thing to Tuoyo albeit for no reason, she came for him and he replied, then she showed receipt of begging. How does it relate? Now, cant she she see she is doing same thing she accused the rest for?
      A woman that never hid or played low her bad attitude even before fame.
      A woman that called Nina and Ceecee out forgetting that she would also be in their shoes.
      A woman that fought almost all the housemates, insulted the host of the show on national TV and even the so called Big brother.
      A woman that would tell her fellow human to shut up when she is talking as if she is a deity. A woman that is ready to insult and curse you all out but can't take a bit of what she gives out.
      A woman that goes semi naked and advices women to date married men and not have one lover online just to market goods and influence for people
      A woman that has lost every self dignity and morals in her life

      That is the same woman you issacson is standing for with all authority. Well it is easy, you are a warri boy and anything goes for you people. Since you see nothing wrong in her you shall have her kind as a wife. You even keep justifying your defense. You are a disgrace, shame on you.

      Stella post thus please. Post please.

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  3. Quick update
    Remember I said posted two of my sisters were admitted at the hospital
    The second one got discharged some days ago after a month plus.
    I just want to say thank you to everyone that prayed for them .
    May God heal the sick amongst us .


    So what's on the menu for Friday chill ?
    I'm craving seafood platter and white wine .

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    1. Thank God for your sister.

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    2. Yaaaay! Thank God for His mercies. May He perfect all that concerns them in Jesus name...Amen.
      Amen to your prayers Choco darlπŸ™

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    3. Thank God for their recovery. May sickness be far from you and your family

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    4. Thank God for divine restoration of health

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    5. Thank God
      She's healed completely in Jesus name

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    6. Diive healing upon your sister

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    7. Divine healing upon your sister in Jesus name.

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    8. Thank God for their recovery.
      Amem to your prayers.
      For food catfish pepper soup and red wine. Food wet rich na money kill am. Nice weekend to BVs.

      Lovelace

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    9. Thank God for your sister.

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  4. Good day beautiful people!πŸ€—
    Choco...you were apt this morning darl!πŸ€—πŸ€—
    Nkay...wishing you big success with the new business dearie.πŸ’ƒπŸ€—
    Peaceful soul...Wishing you a Happy Birthday hun, may God's hand never depart from life in Jesus name...Amen. Hope you're enjoying your day.πŸ’ƒπŸ˜˜
    Paris...wishing your dad a very Happy Birthday love, i pray him long life, amazing health and perfection of all that concerns him.πŸ€—πŸ’ƒ
    Elegant...so so sorry about your mother in law darling. May God grant her soul eternal rest and comfort you, your hubby and the rest of the family she left behind.πŸ€—πŸ€—
    Bunmi Kenny...wishing your son a Happy Birthday, may his days be long and all his ways blessed.πŸ€—πŸ’ƒ
    Sweetums...wishing your mum a very Happy Birthday. May God's light continue to shine on her and preserve her all her days.πŸ’ƒπŸ€—
    La Bella chica...wishing your brother Nicholas a very Happy Birthday. God bless his new ageπŸ€—πŸ’ƒ
    Jessi, Anne k, Hottie, GCN, Sweet soul hope you all are great and having a good day.πŸ€—πŸ€—

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  5. I have been finding it difficult to conceive after the birth of my daughter. I went to see two doctors,one told me to buy clomid while the other wrote series of test for me.one of the test requires ill be checked during my 2nd and 3rd day period which requires a lot of money. I am just thinking of buying Clomid one and for all and use.
    Does Clomid work fast?

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  6. If I tell you "I'll be there in 5 minutes" and you believe me, that's your own problem πŸ˜ŠπŸ˜‚

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    1. πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚all na format

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    2. then that shows the person lacks integrity and cant be relied on. as business who does that, in the long run that business will loose customers

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  7. Good afternoon people. πŸ’‹πŸ’‹

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    1. Odun darling, belated birthday to you. May God bless and favour you in every ramifications.
      Love you πŸ’•πŸ’•πŸŽ‚πŸ¬πŸ­

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    2. Good afternoon sisπŸ’•

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    3. Awwn, Happy birthday sweetheart, God bless your new age❤️❤️❤️🌹🌹.

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  8. Good afternoon all
    Weekend vibes πŸ₯°πŸ₯°πŸ˜πŸ’ƒπŸ’ƒπŸ’ƒ

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  9. Continuation ....
    Around 4oclock, i heard a large scream from where she was laying down like she was having a nightmare, suspected it was as a result of change of environment, woke her up to change position. Early morning around 4am, she came knocking to inform me she was no more feeling sleepy but I told her it was still early so she should go back and wake around 6. The next day i called my mum in-law to register my displeasure about the size girl of girl she recommended to me telling her how small she was but she laughed and told me my daughter better manage her cos this age group is the best at least you are sure she won't be sleep or snatch your husband from you, don't worry i will be sleeping over at your place to access her. Meanwhile I told her not to do anything for me except to watch the baby and report to me in case she notices any uncomfortable reaction from him as my baby do suffer from reflux action while I take my bath, hubby was still busy sleeping with baby lying on the middle of the bed. Chi sit on the chair and watch him while i bath....okay Aunty don't worry go bath while i watch him, hmmm what a sharp girl, is like i won't be sending her back. After several minutes in the bathroom, came out only to see watch girl lying in between hubby and baby.....eeeh see this one they say she is too small to thief husband don dey already dive bed, taps her hard, will you come down from that bed, is that what i asked you to do? So you have no fear to go lie beside your uncle, don't lay on the same bed with my husband your uncle next time do you understand... Yes Aunty, go check if the plates in the kitchen were properly watched last night, taps hubby as she leaves, Imaima what was that, sleeping on same bed with her? With who ! As he wakes up fully, Chi was sleeping beside you and you couldn't send her out, look i can't tolerate that, you better not start what you can't handle..he laughs madam better correct her, she is still small and a village girl that doesn't know her left from her right, in my mind ..that's how they start and if you are not careful they will start sleeping with your husband after brushing them up, I am not taking chances.
    To be continued....

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    1. Lmao
      Na wa see drama, that girl is too little πŸ™„ πŸ˜’ I mean it's okay to assist from a distance but I just feel like she also needs nurturing not sure if its a good idea to have someone that's still growing up as a help , except she is just someone you want to assist .

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    2. 😁😁😁😁😁
      She's still all ma'am

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    3. she seems really young. All you have to do is spell out the dos and don't.

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  10. Good afternoon lovelies❤πŸ’šπŸ’™πŸ’—πŸ’–πŸ’“πŸ’‹πŸ’›πŸ’œπŸ–€πŸ’₯

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  11. Welcome IHN

    Good afternoon everyone!

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  12. Greetings guysπŸ‘πŸ‘

    Thanks everyone for the prayers and kind wishes to my sugar Daddy today..God bless you all,may we all have reasons to celebrate in Jesus name πŸ™πŸ™πŸ™πŸ™πŸ™

    I heart y'all😍😍πŸ₯°πŸ₯°♥️♥️♥️πŸ’“πŸ’“πŸ’–πŸ’–πŸ’žπŸ’ž

    Stella thanks so much fo this platform πŸ™πŸ™ God bless you richly πŸ™πŸ₯°πŸ˜♥️πŸ’“πŸ’–

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  13. Please, send in beautiful pictures of you ladies and gents 😊😊

    Its hot here too Stella, I don't have free time for the beach yet,😊😊

    A beautiful afternoon to you all

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    1. exactly
      If you wanna contest go out of your way to send nice pictures.
      Nice decision Stella enough of the tacky pictures.
      Even if we have just five good pictures we would appreciate it more and still vote .

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    2. Good afternoon Essa... Sending you love and light πŸ€—πŸ’–πŸ’•

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  14. How can I participate for the IHN?

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  15. Yes TJ, we just try to be successful in all we do but except it is time to make it in life,one wont succeed.i think sucess comes with luck too because some people tried so hard,uet it didnt work out while some just made little effort and boom,it worked out! Nice write up.
    It's raining here,Stella. I give you some rain! I hope my remaining data will post. I hope,let me try oo.

    Good day to us all.

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  16. Happy Holiday dear BV's, just downloaded hot and spicy chicken peppersoup. Watching some movies I downloaded during the course of the week. Remember to stay safe ooo.

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  17. Good afternoon everyone
    Nice write up teejay

    Sign out post is cool ✌✌
    Have a great weekend people ✌✌

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  18. I don sleep tire today.. Eyes don swell!


    Teejay, I give it to you.. Nice write upπŸ‘πŸ‘

    Sign out meme.. πŸ‘ŒπŸ‘Œ

    Sharawt to everyone celebrating their birthdays today.. May God's light shine upon you 🎊πŸ₯‚


    Hi Fam, how's your day going?

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  19. Stella Good day ma,please post u hear? Ehenn....
    Biko my fellow bvs,what do you make of a man that is highly emotional. He cries in front of anybody once he feels something is not right and is touching his spirit,lol.

    I mean he sheds hot tears and wakes up the following day with puffed eyes,what could this mean?
    Its quite disturbing to me sha and I don't know what to make of it.


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    1. Hmmm he's super in touch with his emotions. I hope people dont begin to exploit this weakness.

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    2. my dad is quite emotional he cries so much lol
      I don't even understand lol , when we are ill we don't tell him.
      If someone dies we think of how best the relay the message .
      If he is hurt he sheds a tear , lemme wait for comments .

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    3. He's a very emotional personal.. He need to start reading books about emotional intelligence.

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    4. Most men would rather cry in their hearts than let you see it. I guess that's his way of expressing his hurt. He's HUMAN.

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  20. May God continue to protect us o, more than 20 workers tested positive in a company in Ogun state. Nobody is talking about it because the CEO is one of the people that owns Nigeria, the CSO of the company already dead. Please be safe out there o, a lot of people are letting their guilds down, don't kwtbus copy them o, protect yourself and your family

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    1. So, the CSO died... People don't love themselves enough to protect themselves and those around them; they just keep on with their nonchalant attitude towards this very contagious virus.

      May God protect them

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  21. "Children who watch cartoons full of violence tend to be nervous, aggressive and disobedient"

    This is true... A neighbor's son beat his younger sister so bad, while shouting 'i'm Neja'

    When I asked, the mum said he meant o say NE ZHA. I went to download and watched the cartoon. Mehn, that cartoon isn't meant for kids. I wondered why the parents would allow him watch such film.

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  22. Good afternoon everyone
    Happy weekend o

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  23. Good afternoon stella and bvs

    I just want to rant..again!
    Orhiomwon local government area of edo state is owing salary of 15months. My mum is a nurse there
    Some days ago, she was paid half a month salary.
    I know a family in which the husband and wife both work under the local government. Imagine how difficult life will be for them

    Please, I just need awareness to be raised on this issue. It's unfair to owe workers for 15 good months. More than a year
    Edo state government, please come to our aid. Biko

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  24. Sign out meme is the truth. I keep clinging to mistakes made in the past.

    Would love to participate in Face of IHN but no one to snap me better outdoor pic.


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    1. Dear, we all make mistakes.. We are humans! Learn from it, move on and don't repeat the same mistake coz mistake repeated is already a decision. Let that burden go! It is well with us all ❤️πŸ’œ

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  25. I miss the comments of Jobless Housewife.... Always tearing pants and bra. I wonder if she has any left and one other one, Pastor's Daughter.... Always hanging her legs on the window 😁😝

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    1. Hahaha me too...all the crew members of ezenwanyi club.

      All her bras and pants are finished and I think Pastors daughter repented. She stopped hanging legs 🀣🀣🀣🀣



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    2. Pastor's daughter is finny

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    3. I wish i discovered this blog earlier

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    4. Pastor's daughter that used to hang her legs has repented and her new moniker is Finny.

      Jobless housewife is most probably out of bra and pants. There's financial crisis all over the world 😊😊

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  26. Faithful God I worship you.

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  27. Thanks for this advice on cartoons. May God help us as parents to teach our kids the right thing and may they also be good and obedient children. Amen..

    I'm enjoying the weather and my stay at home. Rest is good biko...

    Una doh o

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  28. Stella nnukwu nwanyi!! Good day ma'am😘😘.
    Hello everyone, how's your day going?? Ngwanu, jisi nu ike❤️❤️😍😍☺️.

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  29. That issue of cartoon is true,especially cartoon network movies.My kids end up fighting a lot when they watch it a whole lot.

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  30. Hello house!
    Boring Democracy Dayand hoping for a better Nigeria.

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  31. I agree with you madam tok tok not every cartoon is worth the time for kids to watch. I remember my aunt's kids after watching Bat Man they would wear their pijamas tie a long head tie around their neck (wings) tie handkie on their hands wear socks,use paper to make knife and be jumping from bed to bed flying like bat man warn them they will not hear till they get injured. Kids should watch only comic cartoons and those they can learn one or two real thing from

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  32. I was at the bank yesterday.
    The security man asked that I wore my mask before allowing me entry into the premises. Thank God it was in my bag, I wore it. Those who didn't have it had to go back to the main road and buy from hawkers. They Just wore the masks immediately after buying them without washing or sanitizing.
    I'm just here thinking if things will ever go back to normal. Hmmmm

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  33. Yaaassssss I made it early today πŸ’ƒπŸ’ƒπŸ’ƒπŸ’ƒ

    Good day Mrs Korkus and our beautiful Bvs in the house. Enjoy the rest of your day guys

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  34. I'm watching merry Men 2.

    I just say make I branch here small.

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    1. Enjoy. I downloaded it yesterday, I hope it will be interesting.

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  35. Words are not good measure of love, romance is one of the many ways of expressing love, romance is not love. There are so many roads to our hearts, some are touching, buying food, looking straight into the person's eyes etc guard your heart diligently. The original source of love is God. Genuine love must flow from God, it's is unconditional, looks is deception.

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  36. I just wish I can undo all the fornications I did between 2016 and 2017. My body count rose from 8 to 35 within 2years.
    I am now a born again by mouth. Battling with masturbation and porn addictions in this beautiful marriage of mine.

    Give tips on how to block porn sites on phone browsers please.

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    1. I don't think blocking porn site will work. Self discipline is essential here.

      All the best dear

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    2. If you block it with your hands.. You will still goan unblock it except you stop using a phone! Dear it is your mind you have to control.. Serious discipline you have to begin! You are the key you are looking for

      Love and Light ❤️πŸ€—

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  37. Good day every one,
    may the rest of our days
    be fruitful

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  38. Please,can pictures still be sent for the Face of ihn?

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  39. Happy weekend my fellow bvs

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  40. How Far With Your Education

    INTERVIEWER: So how far did you go with your education?

    ME: I didn't go very far because our school was just behind our house.

    #copied

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  41. The word "meme" is pronounced as "mim" not mehmeh or meemee... Are you a goat.

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  42. Good afternoon beautiful people of SDK blog, hope you're all good?

    Y'all have a swell day ahead πŸ’•πŸ’•πŸ’•πŸ’•πŸ˜€✌️✌️✌️✌️

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  43. Welcome to SDK Blog
    Welcome to Paradise 😁, a luxury restaurant. We serve good taste of entertainments, hot pepper soup of gossips/Amebo, champagnes of breaking news, spicy and delicious Nollywood gists, pepper meat of educative pieces and also tasty burgers of giveaways
    The best or nothing
    Eat and drink responsibility πŸ™
    If you don’t lick your fingers, enjoy only halfπŸ˜‹ The food that lengthens life
    If gluttony is a sin, welcome to hellπŸ˜‚πŸ™Œ

    Expect the Best
    SDK dey 4 you❤️

    #selflesslove
    #stayhomestaysafe
    #helloihn

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  44. Its a cold afternoon here in Lagos so I gats to 😴😴😴

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  45. I'm having peppery yam vegetable pottage.

    Come join me oh.

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  46. Madam Toktok you are right. The one time my son watched power rangers ehn he was on the edge of his seat the whole time.lol
    After the show he started giving me the Jackie Chan vibes..lol

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  47. Stella my area here in Lagos is cool we are expecting the rain. I watch cartoons with my daughter and I change the channel most times

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  48. i keep wondering what the future holds for the youth
    ..what VP said yesterday about losing jobs

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