Oh My GOD!!!
STAND ALONE NARRATIVE
MARRIED TO A PIG
My husband is very very dirty.he literally smells and he uses toilet without flushing.He never cleans up well after shitting and will come and lie on the bed with his bare bum.When he gets up you will see poo stain on the bed.ive talked to him severally about his hygiene but he doesn't listen.Honestly,if i had noticed this before marriage,i wouldn't have gone ahead, and he always wants to be intimate.i avoid giving him a blowjob as much as possible bcos i cant stand he's smell.always smelling of shit.
We are a very comfortable family.
We have water and light 24/7 because we live in a serviced estate yet he will not flush.if he manages to do so,there will be shit stains everywhere.I have talked and talked and I am tired.He honestly irritates me so much now as am a very clean person.I can almost swear he hasn't seen my poo since we got married.
Now to the crux of the matter,he beat me up so badly on monday, because i refused to suck his dick.
he just came out of the toilet then and the smell was horrible.This will not be the first time he's hitting me because of this. I am very tired, I want to call it quits.
If you see this man outside you will never believe he's a pig.
He said it should be a woman's pride to flush the poo of her husband.We are from the same town and our families know each other so well. I have brooch this topic before with his mother and she said I should flush and clean after him that he will take a cue and start doing it.But it seems it has made him worse.
I had to move to the visitors room downstairs after the fight on monday.I cant bear seeing shit and dirty toilet every time i want to pee and i cannot stand his smelly body.Please, has any one experienced this?Advice is urgently needed
*I rebuilt a scenario in my head while reading this and to say i almost threw up would be putting it lightly...The things i hate most in my life are the things you just described.....You are living a nightmare.....
No one deserves to live like that...To suck a shit splattered deek?And then he beat you?Madam,please if you want to leave please do,let him marry a slave that will enjoy his sick behaviour....who knows,maybe the smell of dirt and shit turns him on.....
HORRIBLE!!!!
Haba!
ReplyDeleteHow do I unread this chronicle?
Very horrible sick husband,jeeeez God forbid!!! I can't stand dirty armpit let alone shit dick. Nawa!!!
DeleteAfter reading this. My belle start to dey turn me. Wat is this. Madam that man is sick.🤮🤮🤮
DeleteAs domestic violence has now been included to his piggery attitude, you guys need to review your marriage. If it's just the issue of him being a pig, I would have advised you guys see a marriage counselor but beating you is a no no. Please do what's best for you, a decision you'll not regret making. A lot of people here might tell you to divorce him but I would understand with them based on the domestic violence issue. But you're the one living with him and knows how best to handle the problem.
DeleteI wish you the best on whatever decision you make.
Ayamaaaaaaaaaa I unread this in the name of the lord 🤮
DeleteI was about to start eating my jolof rice and voila I opened this post. I've lost my appetite. That your husband is a very sick man. In fact he needs help ASAP. I can't imagine living with a pig like him. He's a damaged goods. A very bad news. In fact you've been living in bondage. Call on master Jesus to set you free.
DeleteSame thing I was about to write! @nnukwu nwanyi. How the “f” can I unread this grossness?
DeleteMadam, you are living with a RITUALIST! That is the only thing I can say. You cannot be as comfortable as you say you are, and be a pig in the grossest of all form. I cannot stand the sight of my own p**p, talk more of another adult. To remain in that marriage, is to accept that you are a pig yourself.
He must be a joker to say it is a woman’s pride to flush his waste. Your MIL is an equal joker to ask you to clean up after an adult. The room must smell terrible. Gosh! Get the hell out of that shithole.
Talking from experience,the man want you gone from his life and this are his ways, it will shock you that his mother and him have arranged another woman is just you blocking the way. So be wise and take a walk and live a better life. Life is full of intricacies. Wondering what changed him to that is the desire to provoke you to leaving to justify the divorce. May God help you find a better man and yes you will, so give yourself some pride and dignity please because you sold that longtime ago that's why it got this bad! Why should women experience all sorts all in the name of marriage and our society, neighbors, friends and family actually inflict women with these disgusting Omen, smh
DeleteLmaooooo @Nmasinachi how's he a ritualistic being?
DeleteLool
So, people wey dirty like this dey this life? Tufiakwa!
DeletePoster,may God forbid bad thing.
DeleteLeaving with a pig that beats you,is terrible.
Do what is best for you.
If you want to remain a MRS,then continue cleaning up after him,if not please take a Long walk to freedom.
Gosh.
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Yuck.... 🤮🤮🤮🤮🤮🤮🤮🤮🤮🤮🤮... I can't deal.... Horrible... Then beating to dirtiness...
DeleteI just finished frying this sweet "croft" ( crunchy outside, soft inside) chinchin. Was munching while reading. I've packed up my chinchin and I'm going to go rinse my mouth. 🤢🤢🤮🤮🤮🤮🤮🤮🤮🤮🤮😡😡😡
DeleteImagine what the mother inlaw said??? So, she as his mother couldn't teach her don to clean up after using the toilet??? Now, it's the work of the wife to train a grown man how to potty!!!! Na wa for marriage o
Delete@Chocolát, Mydear I don’t know what to say jare, but I’ve heard some crazy stuff!🤮
DeleteKai!!! Chineke me!!!!
DeleteWhat did I just read????
Poster, send him a link to this post
DeleteThis is outrageously unbelievable!😲Th😲😲ounds so new despite we've treated a chronicle of this sort before. Yikes!!!🤮🤮🤮
ReplyDeleteThis is very disgusting and disturbing.
DeleteNah wah oh!
ReplyDeleteAuntie pack to the visitor's room na, and be using the toilet there.
DeletePoster, what exactly are you waiting for to get separated from him. He will not change. He is a pig. Extreme dirtiness is demonic.
DeleteThis is how one Lagos mollionaire (owner of galaxy phones in the early 2000s) lost his wife in death and wanted to date me. I noticed he was not a very tidy person but I made excuses in my head that some men are rugged and don't pay too much attention to their looks. 2 months into dating him I visited him at his house for the first.
It was a 5 bedroom duplex at lekki. His kids were abroad. I asked to used the toilet after we had lunch and he directed me to the bathroom in the masters bedroom. I saw poop spattered around the toilet with soap scum all on the wall and in the jacuzzi. That was a huge turn off for me. It confirmed my suspicion that he was a dirty man. I left that day and that was the end. My friends and family were confused why I stopped picking his calls. He even started telling my cousin who he was kind of close to that he wanted to marry me. That even irritated me the more. Marry who?
A woman's pride to flush after her husband '😢😢 women done suffer o
ReplyDeleteThat his mother is an enabler! How can a wife continue to clean up after a grown Adult! Short of words😥
As in ehn!!!!
DeleteAs in ehn!!!!
Some men can be dirty for a living.
it's unfortunate!!
DeleteEzi behaviour
DeleteTufia
This is the most disgusting thing I've read in a long while...
DeleteVery irritating!
"You are tired and calling it quits"
ReplyDeleteand "advice is urgently needed...?"
Which is it?
You branded your husband a pig and asking for advice on how to tame a pig at the same time?
You have to disabuse your mind of this bias to be able to assimilate the pieces of advice you will get here.
But if you want the "kick him out, divorce him orchestra" then a lot will attend your choir practice today.
As for me, your reason for wanting to abandon your husband after all these years isn't enough, that is if you love him and your kids whose father he is. 🔔🔔🔔🔔🔔
It’s not by force to comment. Or start a poo cleaning service for wives with such husbands. We’ll donate for you to start the business
DeleteSo she should allow her husband beat her to death all in the name of being a virtuous wife?You are as sick as her husband @@anon 15:06
DeleteYou Should Be Ashamed of Yourself For Your Comment
Delete@Liz
DeleteI never said I supported the beatings did I?
of cos her reason for leaving her husband wouldn't be enough until she drops death from Dv,did you see that part.
DeleteVery sick anon
All of you are just calling me sick without diagnosing my ailment and without any prescription. Is it good?
DeleteStella pls post all my comments
DeleteWhy are you speaking from both sides of your mouth? You said her reasons for wanting to quit the marriage are not enough. And now you're telling Liz that you never said you supported him beating her.
DeletePlease, before you people try to claim being virtuous still put yourself in the shoes of the person you are condemning. Then ask yourself, can I take this advice I'm dishing out?...
Anon 15:06, you are as sick as the poster's husband, why do I have the feeling, that a sanctimonious b**ch made that comment...gosh!!!
Delete@17:20
DeleteSomeone who calls another bitch is a well brought up girl? 🤦🏻♀️🤦🏻♀️🤦🏻♀️
I think the lady is talking about leaving because of the beating not the poop smears.
DeleteBut calling him a pig is the height of disrespect. She may not tell us all the insults
she heaps on him but please, even if you will leave him, stop the insults. She is still the
daddy of your kids.
It is so easy to type and tell a lady to leave her marriage, but in reality, it is not that
simple especially in the Nigerian situation. I have learnt that any in marital squabbles, each
of the spouses tells his/her story to elicit sympathy...not necessarily telling the truth.
Be careful how you jump in to shout "divorce".
My fellow BVs, will a man take all this from his wife?
ReplyDeleteWill he still be there asking whether he should quit this marriage or not?
Poster, do what you know is right. Only you can give yourself brain to do the right thing. You don't need anyone's opinion to act.
Exactly!
DeleteNo man can take this from his wife, not in this Nigeria; except the man is equally a pig. Unfortunately, dirty men rarely meet thier kind.
Abi AnonA17:40
DeletePoster you need to love yourself and put that man in his place.
Don't let all this break you. I know it's hard. He has to change for good if he wants to keep you and save the marriage.
Don't think he is doing you a favor by mistreating you like this just becz you both are married to each other.
He is no different from the madmen on the street. And that he physically abuses you too!
Poster give yourself brain.
Oh Lord.. This is terrible, really terrible. Can such a man change or is he doing it intentionally or is there a kind of pleasure he derives from it. This one is bad o, really bad and it's beyond me
ReplyDeleteI'm sorry i don't even know how to advice you poster. It is well with you.
How do I unread this 🤮
ReplyDeleteA pig does not marry a sheep, does it?
ReplyDeleteA pig does not birth a rabbit, does it?
So if your husband is a pig, what are you and your kids?
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Why did you have to bring her kids into it? That's insentive and very disrespectful.
DeleteSluttychic.
Catwheeler, if you have nothing to say,just do what you're good at, cartwheeling. Kindly cartwheel out of here.
DeleteThis anony,you are as sick as the poster's husband.
Delete@Candy and slutty
DeleteSee, this man committed atrocity by beating his wife, that was where he messed up big time. He showed how weak he is.
If the woman divorces him because of that, nobody should blame her. Even the Lord tells us in the Scriptures that
no one beats his body but rather feeds and nurtures it.Ephesians 5:29
God hates a man doing violence to his wife.
But to call ones spouse "a pig," the father of ones kids?
No I won't support that either and God does not support slander and casting of slurs on people.
And if this woman can call the husband "a pig" in the public blog, what does she call him inside the house?
Hope I am clear and free? 🤸🏻♀️🤸🏻♀️🤸🏻♀️🤸🏻♀️🤸🏻♀️🤸🏻♀️🤸🏻♀️
This anon you're mean .
DeleteAnon 15.07, please whatever you do, always know that kids are off limits! You are a disgusting person for bringing her kids into this...
DeleteWhether she called her husband a pig or not, you had no right to bring in their kids.
DeleteHow's it any of your concern what she calls him in the house? You should be ashamed of yourself.
Sluttychic.
@Slutty
DeleteI am covering my face in shame 🤦🏻♀️🤦🏻♀️🤦🏻♀️🤦🏻♀️All of you are chanting "why bring her kids...it's not my concern?"
If you come to a public blog to abuse your spouse, count me out, I won't support you. You can't come to equity with
soiled hands. She called the father of her kids "a pig" 🐷🐷🐖🐖🐖
That is how she brought her kids in, not me.
If a man does all she described up there, then the man is an Ezi bida. Her children aren't neither is she one, so her kids are off limits and yes the man is a very dirty pig and an abuser.
DeleteNa wa o
ReplyDeleteWhat will I not see and hear in this obodo niaja
Nawa oh
God please help me o
I'm against divorce except on the ground of adultery but please in this case, if he refuse to change please leave the he goat!!! Very dirty something
ReplyDelete@Vermilion
DeleteLet me show you exactly what you have done
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Your opinion isn't based on knowledge (of Scriptures Matthew 5:32, Matthew 19:9) or is it?
15:21, get the fuck out of here!! Your fingers should be sliced off
DeleteHis mother said you should flush for him and clean up after him. Seeeeee
ReplyDeleteShe did it for him growing up so he never had to it himself. She raised him that way.
Mothers do better! ( all children male or female should learn basic survival skills)
Survival skills like :
Cleaning up
Laundry
Cooking ( doesn't have to be a three course meal)
Basic hygiene !!!
Sigh! His mother has failed him
It is not your job to teach him how to do this! N you are chopping beating on top.
Pls get out of that hell hole.
Amen @ mothers do better.
DeleteThis is so disgusting but it isn't beyond redemption the man must be ready to turn a new leaf .
For you not to have suspected during your dating phase showed he hid that aspect of himself well. For him to have hidden it from you shows he knows he engages in a disgusting act. Asides from his dirty ways there is a pending issue you are oblivious to, 'him hitting you'. He has no right to lift a finger on you. I think all women should watch this movie, "thappad" to enable them to understand the gravity and consequences that follow being physically abused by your spouse. Now I know why people write down irreconcilable differences when going through a divorce. There are some situations such as this one, which is just too disgusting to reveal.
ReplyDeleteVery true Sabella now i know irreconcilable differences
DeleteJust tell us that money is finished woman.
ReplyDeleteTell that, If I had known this before we married to the mountains.😏😏😏😏 Because he embalmed himself before marriage shogbo?
Do you smell men’s bum bum when you’re on a date? If she lived with him before marriage you guys will judge her for fornication and blame all her marriage woes on fornication and “karma”. The woman already said they have money but it seems you didn’t read to comprehend but to judge.
DeleteStop this nonsense immediately.
DeleteGtfoh
DeleteMelancholy
@@anon 15:10,what a pity!!! You think money is everything?so you would gladly lick,suck and eat the d*** as long as money keeps rolling in?you are "PATHETIC"
Delete@Liz.
DeleteSometimes ago on this very blog, we read about some Nigerian ("celeb") girls who eat poops to get
millions from moneybags, didn't we?
A lot of you worship these same celebs on social media and checking them up every minute.
So if your idols are poop lickers because of money, what are we talking about?
😏😏😏😏
Smh
DeleteYou're unbelievable, you must think money is everything.
@Chocolait
DeleteWhich don't you believe, their idols licking poops because of money or or the ones
condemning and executing a man they have not heard from?
Please ask him if that was the oath he swore in his cult? This is because I cannot wrap my mind around his stupid attitude. Please read him the riot act and then take your decision thereafter. What nonsense!
ReplyDeleteThat is another angle,because it's totally abnormal!!! Does the shit not irritate him?
DeleteLiz, very abnormal! I can't bring myself to live with a pig like this one. Yuck!
DeleteNEVER will l stay with such a man. Tufiyakwa. Very irritating
DeleteEwwwwwwww!!!!!
ReplyDeleteJust when I thought I'd heard & seen it all!!
ReplyDeletePlease, I'm eating my lunch
Poster, leave him... & run for the Hills!
What did I just read???
ReplyDelete🤮🤮🤮🤮🤮
Dear poster, you gotta leave his PIGGY ass!
Your absence might help reset a thing or two.
He is probably suffering from an infection etc typhoid, brain bacteria infection. He is sick!
ReplyDeleteLol at brain bacteria infection
Delete😀😀😀😀😀 Dr Silver...
DeleteMy dear, I sympathize with you
ReplyDeleteThis is an eye opener that most men are unhygienic because their mom focused on training their sisters on how to be hygienic for their future husbands, not training the boys on hygiene too .
I have personally carried out my survey and what I typed above is exactly the results of my survey.
So my sis, don't really know how to advise you but please, quitting your message isn't an option at all
Women need to do better. Then 2ndly i ll advise separation
DeleteThis is really sad even to mention this to anybody aside his own parent is shameful. The mum didn't handle it well at all and I am sure she is aware of this is dirty habit when growing up. If his father is still alive tell him about it before you take the decision of leaving him but if the beating persist please separate for awhile, God forbid any woman suck a smelling blokos. Ìkà ọkùnrin.
ReplyDeleteI had to stop drinking my tea. Jezz! I can't get the image out of my head. He wanted you to go down on him, after that? And he beat you for refusing. Na wa. Even a maid is not suppose to flush or clean up after he leaves the toilet. That's just the height of being DIRTY.
ReplyDeleteSorry about your tea 😥
DeleteI wish I can unread this too.
I literally puked on my lunch. Why did I open this post 😭😭🤮🤮🤮🤢🤢🤢
DeleteThanks Bini. Right now, I don't even have the appetite to eat. I keep imagining "dirty toilet". Gosh! I wish i could "delete" that from my memory. @Shooter Gyal, sorry o.
DeletePlease leave, once beating enters the matter, it's time to leave because he will not stop beating you
ReplyDeleteAlso it will be very hard for him to improve on his hygiene, because clearly he was brought up that way ( for his mum to tell you to teach him what she refused to teach him), and it would take a lot of effort on his part to improve, and he might not be willing to put in that effort.LEAVE to LIVE.
Na wa oo. This situation is very unhealthy. I think you should distance yourself from him for a while. Maybe he will keep shitting on top of shit then finally get some sense to flush.
ReplyDeleteThis thing called Marriage🤦♀️
ReplyDeleteYuck. Woman's pride to flush toilet! May ogun strike that his shit nyash
ReplyDeleteOgun worshiper easy o
Delete🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 Amen oh
DeleteAnon say Ogun worshiper 😂😂😂😂😂no kill me abeg
DeleteLol
Delete😂😂😂😂😂😂
DeleteJesu! What am I reading and U r still asking of what u should do.. how can someone be this dirty, how ve U been surviving and a woman beater on-top .... My sister U strong to still be there and asking questions
ReplyDeleteThe poster is too strong 💪💪💪💪💪💪. Some people will be suffering in silence with their Range Rover why others will be enving and tapping from them.
DeleteAm telling you
DeleteMay we no marry someone that does not flush toilet
ReplyDeleteHmmmm
DeleteUnbelievable,So it is now our pride to be flushing a stupid grown up shit right?
Not only that but also sucking a prick full of feces just to be called MRS okwaya?
WHAT A DIRTY PIG
Amen😂. People may see this as a trivial prayer point but with the few stories I have read on here, it's isn't.
DeleteMadam run for your life your children will soon learn from him, i knew some woman here abroad her oyinbo husband was so dirty he only bath once in a month All he wanted was to make money My People if you saw that man you wd throw up. The woman was always sleeping around with different men but the Guy was so rich until she killed him with jazz i hear the house he built for her is haunted by him too many things let me stop here.
ReplyDeletePlease don't stop, continue..
DeleteThis is sad 😥 haba!!!
DeleteBathe once in a month? Ha 🏃 🏃
DeleteSluttychic.
Oh my days😂😂😂
Delete@15:17
DeleteEasier said than done. Those kids aren't bearing her name. She should just leave them behind and run for her life?
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So jazz dey catch oyibo too😏
DeleteIf I read this type of story while banging, I won't cum in 2hours cos I won't be turned on to feel 5he V.
ReplyDelete8 hate what I just read and I can't stand such dirty pig 🐖.
U need to teach him basic hygiene till it sticks to his oblongata.
Let me stop b4 I will vomit here.
your marriage seems like arrangee marriage... if its not working ou then quit the marriage and move on with life cos domestic violence doesn't end neither it increases until someone end up dead
ReplyDeleteNne your husband is loosing it mentally and the family knows, watch carefully his mom has the same habit. His family enabled it now you are supposed to live with it. Get a life move out if he beats you for a bj he could stab you for revealing his disgusting lifestyle to clerics, close friends and relatives. Run, I repeat run he has lost it mentally possibly due
ReplyDelete1. Family case of mental illness activating at certain age
2. He a brain tumor
3. Brain injury form a head injury in sports, an accident, a fall, attack
4. Spiritual issue cult activity, occultism, etc.
Save yourself.
Yuck.
ReplyDeleteI have lost my appetite for the day....till tomorrow, that's if I don't remember his chronicle. My god!!!
ReplyDeleteI can't even stand such men. You are really suffering o.
He expects you to give him head in that unhealthy state?
Who goes to the loo without flushing? Yuck!!!!!
Where do some of y'all meet dirty men like these? Men that think it's a huge favor letting their women flush their nonsense?
This is the height of it. Please remain downstairs for health and peace of minds sake. You need it.
Next time he hits you, make sure you hit him back.
Next time he uses the loo and not flush, do not flush it.
If he doesn't do that on his own, lock him in the toilet so he can enjoy the stench.
You can't be a pig and woman beater same time. Some of you are trying o. Can't deal please. Yuck.!!
Sluttychic.
Lies
DeleteThe sunday jollof rice is cooking and you won't like to miss it.
You haven't lost any appetite at all.😊😊😊😊
😂 😂 😂 😂 😂 😂
Delete😂 😂 😂 😂 😂 😂 😂 Funny anon. Please send me some of your jollof rice.
DeleteSluttychic.
Nne the guy is very disgusting
DeleteAre u sure u dated this man before marriage...
ReplyDeleteFix it Lord ,
ReplyDeleteFix it !!!
I don't know how Jesus will come to teach a grown man how to flush and clean up properly. With all the world problems like this so 😥😥
DeleteBini
DeleteJesus has to fix this o haba!! This is cringeworthy a family man !! And then batters his wife ontop
🤤🤤🤤😤😤, imagine his mother's response, tufiakwa, some men are so spoilt it is horrible, biko train your boys up very well so they won't go and stress someone's daughter out in the future. Ezi bida!
ReplyDeleteI am so disgusted, flushing or cleaning my kids poop irritates the hell out of me, talk more of full grown adult.
What won't a gal see in the name of marriage bikonu. I support you moving downstairs, how can you beat up your wife cuz she refused to suck your stinky privates, Chineke gba gi ume!
Melancholy
Like his mum's response shook me😥
DeleteIf you meet any badly behaved guy, check his Mum, in 80% of cases, the woman is terrible! Poster!! I would puke if I come and see poo stains on my bed!!! Then dirtiness plus domestic violence🤕, you know what to do🗣
ReplyDeleteThis chronicle is a perfect example.
DeleteA huge enabler,
DeleteInstead of her to caution her son for such a nasty behavior .
God!!!! What did I just read. What a disgusting man, and his mom said you should flush after him? Seriously? That's how she has been enabling him and he grew up not knowing how to clean up after himself. Then to top it up, he hits you. I can't deal mbok!
ReplyDeleteOmg,breakfast is ruined for me.
ReplyDeletePlease how on earth did u not know he is a pig before you said I do??
Please save ur mouth and stand your grounds on no BJ, no sex, no intimacy, no anything sef.
Why is his mom so silly?? So if u were her daughter and he the SIL , will she tell you to clean up after him??????
As you have moved to the guestroom, better stand your grounds on him cleaning up after himself before you move back to ur bedroom.
Poster u try, OCD would have made start drawing the line from day 1 i see that yeye trait.
Lastly, WTH????? Why can't any human clean up after themselves if they have no disability.
Sending you hugs poster.
Ebelebe o! What is this? This is outrageous, preposterous! and all shades of wrong, my prayers are with you OP.
ReplyDeleteYuck🤮🤮🤮🤮
ReplyDeletePlease how do I unread this? You are still asking what to do? Oh God!
ReplyDeleteHow do I unread this na? I am so so irritated. Maybe he is in a cult and that's one of their rules. I can't believe a normal human will be this gross consistently... I don't.
ReplyDeleteWetin we no go see for Stella's blog. This whole chronicle irritates me.
ReplyDeleteSo disgusting. I couldn't read it finish Ewwwwwww
ReplyDeleteNawa this kind of matter tire wraper abeg. pls madam try and talk to him for the last time, if he refuse to change from his obscure and dirty behavior just park your things and leave for good even the holy bible stated it that cleanliness is next to Godliness.
ReplyDeleteYou saw it all before you married him but money blinded your judgement.
ReplyDeleteAbeg, it's your cross, carry it.
Don not everyone is money conscious I hope you know this .
DeleteStop this deliberate display of ignorance .
Don, if you had not typed that, I would have said the Lord has touched your soul, but alas! You did.
DeleteI must not agree with all of you, I don't make comments based on emotions. She saw it coming but was blinded by the comfort, thinking she would be able to cope or change the pig.
DeleteIt's not a must you comment under my post, GTFO from my comments and go display your wiseness somewhere else.
you really need to start applying wisdom you're too grown for this display of senselessness .
DeleteDont listen to all these people telling you to leave your husband. My advise is to communicate properly with him on his hygiene, get a house help, does he use perfumes? How many times does he bath? Talk to him, clean him up and see if he will change, also get a counsellor to advise him on his hygiene. You have to try all modalities before you decide to quit your marriage.
ReplyDeleteHe hit her, are you blind ? Seeing as you love marriage so much come and marry the man and teach him hygiene. As you’ve appointed yourself professional husband cleaner
DeleteAnd what do you advise she does about the beating she gets because she wont suck ? Pray tell, or till she dies?
DeleteShe has been talking to him, he doesn't want to change. Now, he added beating to his dirty behaviour. You said get a house help. Really another man's child to be flushing his shit. 🙄🙄🙄. And his wife should clean him up. Is he a child? Even my 4yr old nephew does not behave like that.
DeleteYou are right, pls don't every leave your home try to change him.if he tell you to suck his dick then tell him to wash it or you wash it for him.buy rollon for his armpit,perfume and always be the one to spray it on him.pls pls change him in a sexy way not with a command .
DeleteEeeeeeeeeeeeew.
DeleteI'm on a cleansing path or I would have had a befitting comment for these two disgusting humans, Chulo and Unknown
Sexy way?
DeleteWow the lack of intelligence in that comment
😂😂😂 be the one to spray it for him right? Poster, please add this : wipe him off after he poops as well.
DeleteJesus!! What did I just read??? Or is he fetish?? This one is on another level
ReplyDeleteI cant stand the smell of shit talkless of sighting someone else's own. That man is very dirty. Invite his mom one day and show her the poo and how messed up her son is. If she chooses to flush the toilet. Her problem. It's her fault that he wasnt properly groomed. Dont complain to anyone again but rather show them. I dont support divorce but please stay away from him so he doesnt keep beating you. Radarada.
ReplyDeleteDear Poster you married the grandfather of PIGS! I can't deal please better quit that marriage before you contact infection. Na wah o! Your mother in law is even telling you to clean after your husband for how long? Abegi I will take off! Dirty family breeds dirty children. Your mother in law never taught her son personal hygiene, what kind of mothers are raising dirty children to grow to become dirty adults that becomes a burden to themselves and others. A grown man that can't wipe his butt after using the toilet Ewwww🤮🤮
ReplyDeleteI can't even deal with kids who don't flush very well after them not to talk of a grown ass man. 🤮🤮🤮 We have read something similar but I can't remember if it involved beating. All I can say is tufiakwa!!! 🤮🤮🤮 some more. 🤧😷
ReplyDeletePoster please involve your both parents into this matter, before you die in that marriage.
ReplyDeleteTell your parents first, and let them know the decision you are about to take, if a drastic measure is not done ASAP.
Nobody deserves this kind of situation, especially from a hale and hearty human.
And then beating on top😐
Kai, let me stop, before I say something bad😎
You all will roast his head here today🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
ReplyDeleteYuck🤮🤮
ReplyDeleteThis must be a nightmare for you. Do what you need to do. He has several issues to deal with and he doesn't see the need to sort them. To cap it all, he beats you. You need to save your sanity.
ReplyDeleteSorry poster.
ReplyDeletePlease read about Diogenes syndrome. Perhaps he’s suffering from it.
Good luck.
No senility or hoarding or withdrawal from society
DeleteJust a filthy man with psychopathic tendencies
Ahhhhh Stella I've just finish eating, pls don't do this to me ewwwww.
ReplyDeleteHanty Stella me sef imagine the scenario.
ReplyDeleteI had to go take my bath, and brush my teeth before coming back to read comments.
He has virtually turn the house into a sty, me I can't can oooooooooo.
Mbok I want to go and baff again..
Jeeeeeeeeeeez.
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Delete🤮🤮🤮🤮🤮🤮🤮 disgusting... Please leave him if he refuses to change🤮🤮🤮🤮
ReplyDeleteThis chronicle isn't complete oooooo
ReplyDeleteWere you used as a collateral for a loan obtained, how did you not notice this kinda hygiene deficit.
Abi you follow money forget yourself.
Please which breed is Sus is he?
Me I blame you Sha, shey you Sha La the kini before, baba believes you should La to the end.
Well may God bless your home.
I can't think straight today again oooo
This is so horrible! You're really trying gaskia. Nna mennnn!
ReplyDeleteNah........
ReplyDeleteUnacceptable!
I am sick already just reading this.
No human should live like this
You know what to do please do it.
Dear poster, sorry to say this. Do you know that you are eating shit. How long have you been married to him? Have you reported him to your family. How can your husband not clean his bum and ask you to suck him 😡😡😡😡😡😡. Who is a pig here now. Are you a full time house wife. Madam poster do you love and value yourself. It's either your husband stop this mess or you leave for your own good.
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ReplyDeleteHim mama no raise am well.. let me make a wide guess- he had no father figure while growing up. I have seen someone like this.. smelly dirty goat who doesn't flush, brush his teeth or even wash his boxers by himself.. only child for that matter. Father died while he was in his teen. Mother spoilt him and indulged him in his excesses drinking habit. A woman cannot teach a man how to be a man. Only very few women can do these and they become very tough and strict, but that's the only way.
Guess what,this dirty pig I spoke of earlier do have lots of girls coming around his home cos there's light 24/7.. the generator doesn't lack fuel.. and there's money from his mom to throw around. You know where the money is, that's where the girls are. Very soon one would marry him because of longthroat and then come here to be sending rubbish chronicles. This guy should be 33 years old now
No way!
DeleteAs parents we need a lot to do in bringing up our children well, we are already trying for our female child but we have neglected our male child for long it's high time we extended the training to them very well,Imagine a grown man could not wash his own bum after pooing,so disgusting expecting the wife to count it as joy to do that for him, I will flush for my baby still flush for the Baba Jesus🙆♀️🙆♀️Women yaff suffer. You will see clearly that the mother caused it. I have 2 boys and I have made up my mind to train them well, my husband is very lazy when it comes to domestic work (not like not washing his bum and flushing oh) I cant deal with such abeg,he knows I dont like it at all, he's the type that you will serve food he will finish eating and leave the plate on the table,me ke I will leave the plate there oh if he likes let him carry it, he cant even boil water, he can be off work and at home and not do a thing till I come back from work to do it.I complained to my mum in law in fact she apologized oh that its bc he is the last born, he has sisters and plenty cousins doing things for him back then so he's used to such, tufiakwu I will never bring up my sons up in such manner. If we go visit my mum in law back then and my boys enters kitchen she will tell them to go out that kitchen is not boys place kia kia I told her no I dont want to raise them up in such manner and thank God she is an understanding mama a today now she's even the one that will ask them hope you know how to cook this so so food now that I should teach him how to do this at this his age and bla bla. So we mothers need to do better, dont say this particular task is for girls and this for boys. When my well trained son meet with your well trained daughter in the future and vice versa, and they end up married just imagine the peace it will give us all.
DeleteSo disgusting
ReplyDeleteWtf? Don't use the same Toilet with him again.. Let him continue pooing untop his poo! Apply the same method with the bedsheet.
ReplyDeleteThen stop complaining henceforth.. If you continue complaining, you will be giving him more of your time which ends up being wasted coz there will still be no changes! Damn 🤦 this man is a whole adult
You see that beating aspect, it's left to you to decide what's best for your mental health.. You are an adult too and na only you understand how much the shoes hurt!
The thing that will make me leave my marriage without reasoning any further is when domestic violence is involved. Other factors, I may try to work it out, but with DV, I am out of the door.
ReplyDeleteSuck a poo stained d*ck!! Are we women slaves!!! for real, are we slaves???? I am sincerely tired of all these stories. It is extremely appalling, dehumanizing, pitiful and frightful.
Dear poster,your case looks mild but it isn't,this is a dangerous situation to be in..I can see your defense already by saying if you had seen this during courtship,you wouldn't have married him,oh well,I bet you were blinded by love because there's no way his dirty lifestyle would have escaped your eye if really you courted him properly and it wasn't an"arrange" marriage....WELL NOT TO JUDGE YOU CAUSE AS A RELATIONSHIP EXPERT AND COUNSELLOR, WE DONT DO THAT TO OUR CLIENTS,WE ONLY SAY THE CORE TRUTH....
ReplyDeleteNOW TO THE ISSUE AT HAND,YOU TOOK A GOOD STEP BY MOVING TO THE VISITORS ROOM(THANK GOD THERE'S ONE)WHILE THERE,WRITE DOWN THE "DO'S AND DON'T S)PERTAINING HIS HYGIENE AND LIFESTYLE,PRESENT THIS TO HIM AND DISCUSS IT,HE MUST STRICTLY FOLLOW THEM,NEVER YOU CLEAN AFTER HIM UNTIL HE TURNS A NEW LEAF,YOU ONLY DO THAT IF YOU FEEL LIKE ASSISTING HIM,LET HIM LEARN TO LIVE IN HIS OWN DIRT TILL IT DISGUST HIM(IF AT ALL IT WILL)ON THE ISSUE OF SEX,HE CAN COME MEET YOU IN TGT VISITORS ROOM TO DO IT ONLY WHEN HE HAS CLEANED UP THOROUGHLY,AVOID GOING CLOSE TO HIS ABODE UNTIL HE CHANGES,CONTINUE TO PERFORM YOUR WIFELY DUTIES,MAKE SURE YOU ARE AT PEACE WHILE TAKING YOUR STANCE CAUSE YOU ARE DOING THE RIGHT THING,DONT LET ANYONE GUILT TRIP YOU OR WHATEVER,MAXIMUM ONE MONTH,HE SHOULD COME AROUND(NO SANE HUMAN CAN STAY IN DIRT FOR A MONTH)....ABOVE ALL,PRAY!!!CAUSE PRAYER CHANGES THINGS,I leave you in peace,hoping to hear your update,good luck!!💖💙💖💙
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DeleteCounselor, why did you write in caps?
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ReplyDeleteSome people are actually very dirty. I know a girl that's dirty. She doesn't wash her clothes, she poops and there's water poop stain on the toilet seat and she doesn't flush. She doesn't know how to bath properly. Her skin is dirty and she smells. You won't know because of makeup, wig and perfume. Poster, leave that pig alone. You will die of dirty sickness
ReplyDeleteI think the marriage is an arrange one forced on the husband, I also see the guy trying to do everything possible to frustrate her so she can end the union so that he can go to the love of his life. Parents must learn to give their children the liberty to choose a life partner so as to avoid long chronicles after two weeks of marriage.
ReplyDeleteChai women don suffer for this life, what did I just read??🤮🤢🤢🤢
ReplyDeleteOMG! Sweetie, what the hell? How have you coped? And you have kids with this guy? Goodness me! When it comes to hygiene I'm a tad obsessive, as if that's not bad enough, I have a keen sense of smell. A human blood hound of some sort. I nearly passed out while reading this. Even without the physical abuse, which is totally unacceptable, his filthy lifestyle is also psychologically and emotionally abusive! Bloody hell!( please excuse my French)
ReplyDeleteI'm sorry darling but I don't think I can advise you to remain in that marriage. How can a normal human being be expected to live in such an inhuman condition? Leaving "skid marks" on the beddings, a grown ass man? Asking for blow jobs with unsanitary manly bits? Not flushing nor wiping after using the loo? You seriously can't be serious! Are you sure something isn't askew in that brain of his? I ask because my brain can't process how and why an adult male will live comfortably in his own filth when he has access to running water.
Now to the "main event". Domestic violence in the manifestation of physical abuse is a major no no! Then imagine the reason you were hit! A husband should be sensitive to his wife's mood and disposition even when he is sexually aroused. Not every woman is comfortable with blow jobs, you can't punish her for not wanting to pleasure you that way, moreso when you stink to the high heavens. That's just foul!
Darling, I don't know what to tell you, honestly, but please do whatever it takes to stay alive. Nobody deserves to live in such a filthy condition. I hope you find the counsel you need to make an informed decision.
e-hugs and kisses.
As in eh, I'm shocked to my bones. I honestly believe he has mental illness. Can't believe anyone in their right senses can be that dirty.
DeleteYour husband is mentally unstable madam...
ReplyDeletePls don't leave ur husband. Some BVs are found of encouraging dirvoce bcus they are still single. Hold him tight he has money get him perfume buy airfreshner after all u guys are loaded. There is no marriage without ups and down.
ReplyDeleteNatasha baby welldone,so you forgot to tell her to buy aboniki and shea butter for the scars sustained from injury. #wehdonema#
DeleteYou BVs have come again with your bias. Both married and single people are criticizing the man and rightly so, but you will deliberately attack singles. As if any single will want such a partner. Ain't nobody wanting such a man.
DeletePlease add wipe him off after he poops. Hold him very tight and let him wipe his butt on you .🙄
DeletePoster! R u for real?
ReplyDelete"I comment my reserve then"
Madam sorry you married a sick pig in the first place, you can't say you didn't notice his dirty habits during courtship or is it that you never slept over in his house prior to marriage ?? I was about to eat when I clicked on this post, I don go drop my food. .And the adult baby beats you on top everything😡😡😡 A good ground to divorce his stinking ass
ReplyDeleteGrrrrrrrr!!
ReplyDeleteThrowing up already
🤣🤣🤣 thank goodness I didn't read, I came earlier, saw Stella's caption and closed the page. Came back later to read comments, then I realised, I've made the right decision.
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DeleteYou made the best decision.
DeleteI can't even wrap my head around what I just read. I can't really, me that little things irritate.
ReplyDeleteThose of u that advise women in abuse marriages to remain in it, how do you sleep at night knowing you may just be signing her death warrant or further abuse warrant at the very least.
ReplyDeleteIs this enough to leave a man you are happy with? Except the hitting you that I object to.
ReplyDeleteWhy can’t you flush after him?,why can’t you advise that he uses water before toilet roll for proper cleaning? Didn’t you clean up for your babies? What is bad in bathing together weekends and helping him scrub his back, armpit and bum well teaching him how to do it.
Has deodorant finished in the market?, can’t you also help him shave his armpit once a while like you help with nails cutting?.
Search your hearts sister this is not enough reason to leave a man you Love.
The beating, what triggered it?
Wawu!!!!
DeleteThis comment Sha, I am sure that you are just a pig like him ..
Some people have off and are very finicky about stuffs like that..I know a friend that will always throw up if she mistakenly see a pop particle that wasn't properly flushed..
And how do you compare a grown ass man with a developed iq level to a baby that can barely communicate their feelings into words is beyond me ..
Don't write us chronicle when your partner starts cheating on you because your pigsty lifestyle drove them to another person's arms..
Ezi bida will always want someone that will love them for who they are..
Nobody likes nonsense, change oh;;
Chizzy J..
You are probably married to a cultist. No same person will ever live that way. His behavior is questionable.
ReplyDeletePlease be extra careful !
When beating enters the equation, those with a life purpose should step out or step away in my opinion..
ReplyDeleteIf you choose to stay, moving to another room is the next best step. Set a rule- no shower with anti-septic soap, no sexual or romantic action. If he's sleeping over for the action, he must come with clean briefs and wear them once the act is done. He should use his toilet in the masters bedroom only. Lock the one for your kids and visitors so you are not exposed to disease or disgraced. When he has built a mountain swarming with flies that he'll be too ashamed to call a plumber for, he'll take action.
For the unmarried, don't first didn't mean don't study these kids of things. Even is from the mouth, armpits and groin tell a clear tale. Stop washing undies of grown ass men. Stop taking their plates to the kitchen. Don't spend the weekend washing their clothes and mopping their floors. It sends a message of "relax, your maid will do it all". Start how you want to finish.
Poster sorry about what I’ve gone through .. mehn !! That poo issue got me , so disgusting , I almost threw up !! 🤮🤮🤮🤮🤮🤢 for me I would have said I should talk to him or anybody that he respects but when u mentioned domestic violence hmmmm .... I gaz talk another thing .. pls run for ur life eeee !! He is dirty and then beats u up kilode ? Pls pray about it n move on with ur life hian !! N pls stop using the same toilet with him , it’s so not healthy
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