STAND ALONE NARRATIVE
''ALERT FOR ADA''
Dear Stella,.
Your platform has become an audible voice to the silent the broken the seeker those in need and the ones in danger foolishly swimming in the devils den of secrecy they hope , only known to them. May heaven thank you. Kindly post this “Alert” as chronicle if you may, to our able BVrians., I anonymously love this house, none other will be.
Ada, what in Pete’s name are you doing? How ? why?
You have not just broken “U” heart, you’ve torn those who love you apart. What have you done to your beautiful home ??
your hardworking disciplined husband , ever faithful. ?
My dad says; the leg that walks up and down, the eyes that goes round and round sees. Your banker husband is aware of your affair with his colleague in his office, Also with another one who help in constructing your house, and your married American lover whom you often have s#x with.. your phone is hacked and monitored because you gave off the aura when you refused him s#x .
He never noticed before lockdown due to work nature , off in the morning back at night no thanks to COVID19 things in the dark now coming to light. This week while having s#x with your lover he was down in the sitting room watching it all.. He has plans to empty your account, the house is up for sale, and after take off with the kids,.. he has been weeping day in day out like a child,.
He has tendered his resignation letter to his Bank ., he doubts the paternity of the kids and he’s going for DNA testing.
My advice if hopefully you read this.. he knows it all already . Open up , tell him you have not been a faithful wife, tell him all you have done ,ask for forgiveness then take your things and leave. Leave before he asks you to.
Dear Stella, use your thick red pen , BVs help .
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I am just weak abeg!!!!
Madam,please if you are reading this,just talk things over with him and apologise for everything so that you can at least be at peace....I was on your facebook page but could not drop you a message in case it was hacked as well...It should be cos your whole phone is hacked and any message that comes in you read it after he has.......
This is the only way we decided you could be alerted as everyone who knows about this has been sworn to secrecy on what is about to befall you..
The whistleblower up there means you well and will look for a way to forward this to you to read.
Please madam, better confess now and leave that house. I don't think, he will ever forgive you in this life. I just wonder why some women cheats, it's not healthy at all.
ReplyDeleteIt's really difficult to respect married women because of the action of some.
DeleteThe person giving the alert fit be side chic
DeleteEven if she confesses, because people have heard, the man won't forgive her. The marriage has ended. How was the husband watching them? Cctv? And why is he crying? He now knows how women feel when their husbands cheat. It fuckinv hurts yet men cheat like its going out of fashion 😡😡😡
DeleteBut even if the kids are not his, it is not easy to just forget a child you have been raising as yours
DeleteIf they post this as a chronicle, how sure are they that the people sworn to secrecy are not BVs🤔
DeleteObala Jesus!!!! Faints. Why are some married women like this? If you know akwuna dey hungry you, why not remain single. What kind of rubbish is this. This is unredeemable.
DeleteI think the person in question is a BV here.
DeleteI wanted to say this story is fake,until I got to where Stella said she was on her Facebook wall.
DeleteCould this be curse?how can a married woman be cheating with 3 men?Infact why should a married woman cheat?
If you know you can't stay with one man please don't bother to get married.
Marriage is not a most.
"why some women *cheat*"
Delete(that common noun 'women' is in plural form so, the verb in that sentence should not have an 's' )
They *cheat*
You *cheat*
She/he *cheats*
Why alert her now? What if she goes ahead to harm her husband as a way to cover up knowing that she has been found out and her game is up? This is wrong! She should be left to face the music that she so ' graciously' put on.
Delete#FLYGIRL
What did i just read verbatim? Human beings get mind o
DeleteShit happens. Men have been doing this for centuries so I don’t see what the big deal is!! Either they work it out or they don’t!!!
DeleteThe fear of women.
Delete....and the fear of men.
DeleteJust know this, - "The human heart is the most deceitful of all things,
and desperately wicked, who can know it." Jeremiah 17:9
Ashewo wey dey husbandman house na holiday she go!
DeleteNa waooooooo I wanted to ask is this for realllllll then GBAM SDK’s red pen 😢😢😢😢😢😢
DeleteI'm speechless🙆🙆🙆🙆
ReplyDeleteOmo this is a serious case. But madam you dey cheat oo. Kilode. Give your life to christ pls
Deleteapologise u say stella? e no go betta for the guy if he forgive her
DeleteWow! Madam please ask God for mercy and beg your husband profusely. Dont even know what to say. This is so messy and I feel very sad for your husband and kids. I hope somehow you get another chance...and if you ever do, make a 360 turn and do much much better.
ReplyDeleteanother chance, imagine her husband is your bro ....right?
DeleteAnon...If he's my bro, he can give her another chance if he wants...but that's not the point.
DeleteI am a 100% not in support of her "kurukere waka" if you read my comment well...and I wasnt referring to another chance with that man (too much has happened, he might forgive eventually but would always remember the abomination she committed. Trust is already broken and it's all her fault for desecrating her marriage) but another chance at love, marriage or whatever in future...and God will give her another chance provided she retraces her steps. Just like He does for you and I every other day.
Essa mature reply...I am the annon.You are a wise individual very rare in this time and day..
DeleteHmmmmmm, some women abuse benevolence and sincerity of purpose. Give your life to Christ MA, and start life on a clean slate. Apologize wholeheartedly too.
ReplyDeleteGod of Mercy take control! Why would you put yourself in this quagmire!! How can you use your hands to destroy your home..God bless this whistleblower for being a ''Mordecai'' in your life..Just do the needful and ask him for forgiveness and ask God to have mercy on your life..Please stop this and repent..
ReplyDeleteReally sad situation. Something she did to herself...not one but 3 different partners, makes me wonder why she got married in the first place. Feel so sorry for her husband and kids.
DeleteMadam ask God for forgiveness and plead with your husband to forgive you. He wont accept you back, you slept with his colleague but still beg him to forgive you. If ever you get another chance at marriage in life, I hope you change permanently and save your body for your husband alone and not share it with his colleague and random men.
Na wah oo, what if there are many other women cheating? Anyway let's all expect enough gbege as all cheating wives confesses.
ReplyDeleteMen are scum, women are saints.
ReplyDeleteEven in marriage, they still continue with their runs.may u rep what you sow Ada!!!!.
Delete@UC
Deleterep?
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Na real "rep". He without sin, cast the first stone. If I were you, there's no going back to that house. You have seen in recent times what some men are capable of. Confess and apologise from afar. Arrange for your kids to be taken care of in the meantime. Secure your account. You cheated, how does that translate to emptying her account if you didn't keep the money there? You should want nothing to do with her money Mr. Husband. Everybody go your separate ways nobody dies.
DeleteMen cheat with reckless abandon. Heaven has not fallen.
@Kiks
Delete"Reckless abandon?"
Is that the new term for ladies?
Because men cheat with women (human females), it takes two to tango.
I don't know about reckless abandon.🤦🏻♀️🤦🏻♀️🤦🏻♀️🤦🏻♀️🤦🏻♀️
I said what I said why are you dragging ladies into it? Ask if that is the new term for me. Abeg leave me.
Delete@kiks
DeleteWho is holding you?
Ladies dragged themselves into it.
Was it a dude that wrote this in?
Imagine you guys are trying to alert her for the wrong she did.
ReplyDeleteThis was the type or story that was sent here about a lady who was planning to poison her husband because he was planning to marry another.the advice she got from here was that she should quietly sell the house and all properties and leave the house.
Now a guy is trying to do the same thing you want to alert her so she can know her husband's plan.
Let's try to call a spade a spade
What she did was wrong and she should be ready to face the music not this calling her attention to it.
Double standard of Nigerian women.
DeleteI agree with 💯💯💯
DeleteBigbanty God bless you really big for this.... You says my mind too.
DeleteWhy the alert? Let her reap what she sown...
Lol. We protect our own😛😛😛😛
DeleteThank you!!! I'm a woman but I'm really pissed at this alert. Why on earth will we be taking the only thing that might be giving the man closure from what a selfish wife did to him from him.
DeleteWomen are known to always support each other in evil and also good at giving each other bad advice. The Pussy Cartel is actually real. Begin to observe this from today and confirm it yourself. Although, there are very few exception to this rule..
DeleteJust imagine the effrontery, fucking 4 outside Dicks and denying the rightful owner from getting it, how dumb can some ladies be.. they start this stuff from the dating stage, they'd be denying the main boyfriend right to the pussy claiming to be celibate so he would marry them before having a taste, while fuckin different side Dicks up and down, and all the small boys on her street .. if your girl isn't a virgin and you as a guy is having a no sex relationship with her, on her terms.. OYO is your case.. except the celibacy is what you both want (not just her).. then no wahala
Burnaby i totally agree with you
DeleteSpot on👌👌 Bigbanty
DeleteShe should face the music. When she finish dancing, her brain will reset.
DeleteMarried women are now leading the race in cheating, what's marriage institution turned to? Lord please take perfect control of everything
ReplyDelete*Larry was here*
The wise woman builds her home, but with her own hands the foolish one tears her's down. Prov. 14:1.
ReplyDeleteThis situation was brought about by Greed for money/sex depravity, the two plagues trailing a lot of Nigerian ladies. Looks like the man has made up his mind. By now Ada knows if the kids are his. A lot of
husbands are going for DNAs without their wives knowing. One word for you Ada and the "like Adas"; Repent! Seek God in the humility of fasting and praying. You did not only hurt your spouses but God almighty. He alone can change the heart of your husband to forgive and take you back.
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I like that verse
Delete@mao
DeleteYes, a verse for wise women to learn from and foolish women to
sell their folly 🤸🏻♀️🤸🏻♀️🤸🏻♀️🤸🏻♀️🤸🏻♀️🤸🏻♀️🤸🏻♀️🤸🏻♀️🤸🏻♀️🤸🏻♀️
Money
ReplyDeleteAbroad
Sexual vanities
A lot of ladies are sinking; married and singles.
Wow!
It pays to belong to Christ and obey him.
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Abeg leave singles out of this situation. There is a difference between being single and being married. If you can't make sacrifice in marriage don't go into it. Leave singles out of this, dem no send married women to go and hawk outside marriage.
DeleteIt pays to belong to Christ and obey Him 👌🏽💯
Delete@15:31
DeleteLeave singles out of what?
How many single ladies have broken homes, broken hearts, broken innocent babies off
their wombs, broken faith with God while hawking their bodies?
Nne sexual immorality has not gender or status. It is a sin that God will judge and
the best form of escape is repentance. I am just a saved soul by God's mercy okay? 🤷🏻♀️🤷🏻♀️
Bla bla bla
DeleteCheating with multiple partners for men it's called fun and having side chics. For women it's fire on the mountain. Let's hear the woman's side first. If she reveals he cheats too, who should leave? And those kids he plans to take even though he suspects they ain't his, they are 100% hers.
@16:20
DeleteWhen a woman cheats, the kids are her guilt.
The second cheating is passing off strange children to a husband as his.
And the third? Yes, the third cheating is continuing to spread legs for the
strange men under her husband's roof while still married to him.
You cannot present these kinds of irrefutable proofs in the case of a man you label
"a cheater" can you?🤦🏻♀️🤦🏻♀️🤷🏻♀️
@ 16.20, I LOOOVE YOUUUU!!
DeleteAda why have you decided to ruin your marriage,you should have seperated when you felt the love was no longer there instead of eating your cake and having it. I'm sure the trust your hubby has for you has crumbled,in case you get to read this,act quickly. If he accepts you back and everything return to normal,you've learnt your lessons if not,start on a clean slate
ReplyDeletePlease why are we helping Ada?Are we now her accomplices
ReplyDeleteGood question
DeleteI wonder o...but poster just wants the best for her
DeleteCorrect question?💯💯
Deleteshes still the kids mother duh...and what if she built the house or has joint ownership...the marriage is dead, but she certainly still have some things to her name
DeleteMadam just go and ask for forgiveness ,shay women do forgive when their husbands cheat abi??
ReplyDeleteI want to know the hacking part, how is it done??Martinsaboy get in here
Do they force women to forgive when their husband cheats?
DeleteThis is one of the reasons some women thinks its a normal thing to desecrate their matrimonial vows.
Nawa o. Ada is boiling putu putu inside hot soup.
ReplyDeleteMehn! This post is very confusing 😕
ReplyDeleteAda biko go and apologize to your husband, while you get ready for the out come of your kurukere Waka
Ada call me 🤙
I pray she doesn't see this so the husband can deal with her very well. Yeye woman, only you stafing three men.
ReplyDeleteMy prayer too
DeleteAll this people asking her to confess and ask for forgiveness if it is from the opposite sex all men are scum would be the ring tone.
I'm with you on this.
DeleteOnisekuse
This is huge and I don't know if the phrase ask for forgiveness applies. Forgive what exactly. That marriage is ended. Ada you no try at allllllll.
DeleteAs in, she's something else... 3 men only her...🤦🤦🤦🤦🤦
DeleteShe deserves whatever comes her way... If you don't want marriage, then leave.. instead of messing up...
I wonder what's her excuses would be and her explanation to her husband, children and Family members..
Long hiss....🚶🏻♀️🚶🏻♀️🚶🏻♀️🚶🏻♀️🚶🏻♀️🚶🏻♀️
Hear hear!
DeleteMarried wonan shagging 3 men. If the marriage is not working why not seperate so that everyone is free to do whatever. Very nasty woman...bad example!
amen
DeleteIf it was MEN now, THEY would be saying SOME MEN CAN NOT MAKE HEAVEN.
Delete#Couenant
Hmmmmm! This is a serious something. Madam just do as Stella has said cos #breeze don blow, fowl yansh don open# ask for forgiveness and ask God to forgive you.
ReplyDeleteIt's good, the man is aware he's married to dog on heat.
ReplyDelete🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
DeleteAda, why?
ReplyDeleteWhy were you not contented with what you had been blessed with? Why sacrifice your children on this altar? Was he not good enough? Why scatter your peaceful home for a morsel of 5mins pleasure? Why? Why why? You've sold yourself for how much? When you are done, God can still show you mercy if you ask Him. But this is not the way to go. Not one man but 3. On top of it your Hubby's colleague? That hit below the belt.
Like say them just pour me cold water for body.
ReplyDeleteMay God help you fix this madam Ada
Hmm, husband has proof of his wifes affair. Whoever you are, just own up, cos it will be bad if you try to deny it and he shows you proof.
ReplyDeleteI feel no pity for the lady in question, only you more than two sidecock, haba husband or wife promiscuity is not justified
ReplyDeleteAbi o. She no even say make she share with me😏
DeleteMy own is that if you're not the man don't say he is faithful. I wish Ada can come in and say what prompted her to desecrate her marriage though no reason is worth what she has done. Like the poster said, Ada confess. Hopefully he might forgive you.
ReplyDeleteAbegi, there's no justification for this her shameless act.
DeleteWhat would have prompted this?
There's no justfication for cheating, especially in marriages. She should own up, and ask for forviveness.
DeleteThere should be no excuse for cheating pls.
DeleteSo even if the husband cheated is that the reason for her to be sleeping with three men? Nawa o.
DeleteNtorr, who's paying the huge debt now??? Ada...
DeleteWho lost??? Ada... She should have left with her excuses instead of bringing disgrace to herself...
Wao. Sits down, crosses leg, adjusts reading glasses to read comments .
ReplyDeleteHoly moses, madam please go on your kneels and beg your husband because i know his mind is already made up but try your best to apologies before he disgrace you.
ReplyDeletei cannot insult or blame you for anything but you are an adult and should have think before doing such. If you are tired of a man just walk away and believe him to his faith than this shame.
I just pity the kind of dilemma you will put your children cos that man will never release them to you. Ada, you no try at alllllllllll.
ReplyDeleteSha pack your things before he gives you public disgrace and I hope you are ready to tell your family and friends that you are the cause of your marital breakup. May God give you wisdom to live a better life.
I'm shocked 😱😱😱😱dunno even know what to say! Well Madam Ada go and apologize to your husband and ask God for mercy then change from this your promiscuous ways! Turn a new leaf
ReplyDeleteNo way. I won't even advise the man to accept her abeg. Her own is just too much. What a shame.
DeleteWomen are gradually taking the lead in cheating this days.
ReplyDeleteOnly God can fix this.
And what is the essence of this alert?
ReplyDeleteThe price you pay is for the games you play. She has played her game, she must pay the price.
Adas confession will mot ease fucking his colleagues in the same office....
ReplyDelete.ada otopia pia, ada okotomieow mieow!!!otele mama!!!kontinue, you should be grateful that he is not planning to kill you.....confess and continue.
Only 4 dicks👎🏻👎🏻👎🏻👎🏻👎🏻👎🏻👎🏻👎🏻
I feel pity for the man mehn! His heart has been shattered into pieces of minced meat.
ReplyDeleteMadam fuckaholic, he's not going to forgive you just yet; but all you need to do right now is to confess your sins both to God and to your husband. I don't even think the law will work in your favour concerning the custody of the kids (being caught in adulterous acts is an automatic advantage for him to claim custody of the kids)
I know you have not repented and that won't be happening soon because you're so deeply intoxicated by having multiple sexual partners., So, I will not waste my words of advice on how you should repent and turn to God. The thing has eaten deeply into your system.
I just pray and hope that the DNA test doesn't come back negative for the kids, because that will be another sad thing for the kids. You use your hands to destroy a beautiful home.
What do some women really want?
Even if some are married to angel in heaven they can never be contended.
DeleteReading this chronicle really hurt me and brought back some terrible experience,seeing people asking the Lady to confess and apologise its just utterly wrong,even if she apologise from now till tomorrow this shit hit differently.
Sángbáfó !!! ��
ReplyDeleteSangba did not only fò.. Sangba ti rún jege jege ni o! 🙆
DeleteIn fact, sangba ta pau!!! Gongo tun so.
DeleteMy own is, how do people hack people's phones?
ReplyDeleteMadam you dont need advice naa
ReplyDeleteI wonder the true motive of this very caring and concerned whistleblower.
ReplyDeleteYou read my mind.
DeleteBut Why are you alerting her?
ReplyDeleteWhat if she destroys her husband's phone and not willing to change?
Please,let her face the consequences of her actions.
You are betraying the trust of whoever told you of this plan..
Ada,you are a disgrace.
May God forgive your atrocities.
If this happened in Abuja, I think I know this person is......
ReplyDeleteSo how do you know she has a beautiful home? You lived with them in the marriage?
ReplyDeleteHow do you also know the man is faithful?
Is his penis your habitat?
I find it hard to believe that a normal human being will throw a good thing away especially in Nigeria where Marriage is greatly worshipped.
But I am here wondering if Ada was like this as a young girl
If Ada didn’t sleep around as a single girl then why is she sleeping around and seeking multiple attention as a married woman?🤔🤔🤔🤔
It seems this marriage brings the worst in people
You've been noticed!
DeleteHey people, beware of people that can't speak against evil, they are either perpetrator themselves or they are enablers (Jezebel's gang thingy)
See them.. fellow Cheats.. but if it were to be a man that did this, you won't find it hard to believe how a normal human being will throw away something good because Men are scum..
DeleteThe Pussy Cartel- check out some of the ideas from your Cartel and pick which of the rules you just applied-
•Anything not benefitting women would be shamed, and anything benefitting women would be encouraged.
✓Men having standards would be made taboo.
✓There would be a movement shaming men for not being attracted to obese women. It would be called "fat acceptance" in order to make it seem gender neutral, but you'd end up with tons (lol) of 300-pound female models and the unchanged standard of steroid-perfected male models
✓however, women would face no taboo, and even encouragement, for having standards of physical attractiveness, including based on height.
✓Society would shame men for their innate preference for chaste women, since chastity would require women to sacrifice something
✓Ths government would ensure that single mothers can be cared for even if they choose as sexual partners men who are genetically optimal but who are unlikely to offer paternal investment
✓Men would be shamed for watching pornography, but women would be celebrated for liberating their sexuality
i love your questions. No be who first report dey innocent. They should do a deep reflection on their marriage and not just focus all blame on Ada, who is the 'devil' now.
DeleteDante you have been noticed too now run along.
DeleteMS A I don’t like you,pls try to ignore any comment from EYY.Thanks
Dante you call someone you barely know a fellow cheat?
It seems you lack comprehension skills.
Clap for yourself.
@EYY. Out of the abundance of heart the mouth speakth (the fingers typeth).. I don't need to meet you in person..
Delete@Olive rose.. the day you would make an intelligent comment on this blog,I would contact Stella for a giveaway
Ada, nawa for you oooo,only you four pricks..I feel no pity for you n I wish you won't be able to see this 'alert'.shameless Ada..I only feel for your man and the kids..you deserve whatever will come your way for this atrocity and even more.....tueeeeh
ReplyDeleteGbam 💯
DeleteMrs Ada you are shameless sha! So shameless. Why are they alerting her? Ehn why? FYI, I am a woman. I can't stand cheats either male or female. I can't!! If you're not finding pleasure or fulfillment in your marriage/ relationship, move the fuck on and stop hurting your spouse. Only you three men. Oga!!
ReplyDeleteMarried women are recently becoming champs in cheating. Look at the recent facebook story of the singer cum evangelist who was involved intimately with several ladies, all married.
ReplyDeleteWith her misconduct & her husband questioning the paternity of their kids, I can't fault him on insisting on a DNA.
This alert is for a blog visitor, who visits this blog and quotes bible in the mornings on here too. Why is she being alerted really? To beg and do what? The marriage is dead on arrival...
ReplyDeleteOh gush!
ReplyDeleteThis one here is very shitty!
Just confess, apologize to him, who knows he might forgive u and still take u back
Ada no be so oh! nuff said, your marriage is over. You couldn't even respect his workplace haba na! Whatever decision he wants to take to keep his mental health in check is fine (As long as he doesn't physically harm anyone). I truly hope Ada does not see this Stella's post. Sometimes a big repercussion is what helps some people's brains reset.
ReplyDeleteAlerting her is not fair on the man. She should have thought about all she stands to lose when she chose to be wicked! I can't stand cheats!
ReplyDeleteI hope she won't go and harm him knowing she has been busted!
You only reap what you sow shikena!
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DeleteOMG!!! This!!! Lord have mercy. Heyyy abeg oohhh!! She will be foolish to do such. I’m sure some friends knows
DeleteAda needs Jesus Christ!
ReplyDeleteDear poster,just wondering how you know all his plans 🙄
ReplyDeleteHas he tried watching war room or have a heart to heart conversation with her
ReplyDeleteCook a good meal and appeal to her
Keep his boxers clean and shave down there
Watch porn and take aphrodisiacs to satisfy the wife?
Some men let themselves go after marriage
They forget women are like foetus, what you feed it that's how it will grow
Women are like flowers that need to be taken care of
Also, while conducting DNA test, he should remember to do DNA test on himself to confirm if he is truly the son of his father.
All in all, he should talk to her mother. It's just sex, it's not like she is in love with them.
A great man builds his house with a strong foundation, the foolish ones uses sandsand to scatter. All these wise rich men have been cheated on by their wives but they forgive, manage and cover her up. Do not allow the curse of broken home in your family.
Another thing, maybe the men jazzed her
Desperate men abound everywhere
With all these mixkogbu they sell everywhere
All the best Ma
KING XOXO MYSTERY
Yes o! Sarcasm LOL
DeleteSo shall it be for your brothers and sons
Delete🤣😂😂😂🤣🤣🤣😂 KING XOXO well done o. I see what you did there.
DeleteAre you minding them?
DeleteLol... Great sarcasm... it's exactly what they tell women whose husbands cheat!.
DeleteWhat am I seeing? What am I reading? Is this not SDK BLOG? Is this not where you hear "God hates divorce"? Even with adultery as enough of a reason to biblically quit, we are told here everyday that the devil is attacking the home and women should stay there and fight. That marriage is not a mere relationship. That with fasting, prayers and essential oils, all will be well. That you should not leave. That it rains everywhere? Now you want this man to go to jail for hacking the accounts of a woman who doesn't seem to care about him?
ReplyDeleteAda's husband. It is what it is. Your queen has been generous with the neighborhood. She has been entrapped by a few "strange men". Such is life.
Now, realize that since she did not physically abuse you, you must fight for this marriage. You must think of the kids. Don't let Satan win ok? Head to the supermarket and buy a at least a liter each of coconut oil, olive oil and in short any other oil you can afford. Dedicate an area of your house to be a war room where you would spend hours interceding while Ada gets pounded to dust by some revving engines. Please realize you will also have to be fasting during this perio so that even if Ada wants to spare you a few tired minutes, you would be too malnourished to respond and even too unattractive to keep up the heat. All this time, please give her even more money than before. Book a vacation. Reserve seats at expensive restaurants and build a house for her parents. If she ever comes clean, disgrace Satan by hugging her and forgiving everything. Make sure you lovingly raise any kid that is not biologically yours. May the devil not rejoice over this marriage. For all you know, she may have been jazzed. How would a woman, an Ada, do such? Guy, this matter get spiritual comma. Climb the mountain and pray!!! And please remember that you must stay faithful during this time and always- you can't because of her own unfaithfulness sin against God- what if you catch hiv or they use you for rituals? Oh, and no hand made solutions, if you know what I mean 😜. Just dey like rock. Even for dream, gum body is not allowed.
Ehen, make I ask you- what did you do to make your wife follow these men? Did you gain weight, or did your bank account slim down? Did you dedicate time for her or did you go bald and pot bellied after three children? Did you stop being romantic? You know women are auditory and sensual creatures? Were you just at home wearing boxers and singlet? Why didn't you have different colours for variety? Everyday, low cut and you think women would not see men with dreadlocks, afro and parting? After a few years of paying for diapers, perhaps, your boobs got too big. Were you praying for only 59 minutes a day instead of the recommended 1 hour as the priest of the home? Did you let yourself go? Please let me know how I should direct your prayer point.
You have a point anonymous
DeleteMaybe their relatives in the village does not want their marriage to succeed so they jazzed Ada.
Why should he run like a coward?
The next woman may still cheat
Confront her after cooking a good meal
Use a calm voice and not a loud voice
Pamper her
I am sure she will stop
She is not in her right senses
KING XOXO MYSTERY
As in calm down and talk to her. she may just be going through a phase. Fight for your marriage , the next woman may be worse. At least she comes back home. Do u dress well, are u neat. Pray for her it may be the devil fighting your marriage. Ndi ara people. what is good for the goose is good for the gander .lol
DeleteChai, she just rein her marriage.some women can't just stay with one man,it had to do with life style when growing up, some people can have more than 1 partner at a time.let her sake for forgiveness and move on afterwards cos it will never be thisame again.
ReplyDeleteKing Xoxo Mystery, I see the sarcasm in your post.
ReplyDeleteMtchwwwww. Why una dey shout? Ehen if he chases her away she move na. How sure are you that she even wants to stay in the marriage. Abeg abeg abeg all these gra gra for dick and pussy wey Don born pikin finish. If person hear all these ones now dey go think say maybe na chasis husband and wife. Mtchwww abeg make una shift. If he wants to empty the account let him empty it. Money no dey finish for this world abeg. Mtchwwwww
ReplyDeleteSince Karma does not locate men who cheat
DeleteTheir karma is non existent
If he empties the account, one of the men may replenish the account and marry her
I don't know why he wants to use his hand and destroy his marriage just because she slept with just four people who are irrelevant in the grand scheme of things.
Does she come home to you at the end of the day? Yes
Has she given you beautiful children? Yes
Does she respect you? Yes
Does she cook for you? Yes
A solid marriage is made up of a forgiving husband.
The husband should focus on himself
Find am activity that makes him happy
Play football, watch football, go bowling
Exercise and loose weight
Brush up on his dressing
And appeal to her
Beg her
Plead with her
Not running away like a coward. Anyway Europe has banned Nigerians from entering their country.
Also, he should pepper his colleague in the office by showing that him and his wife are going stronger. Do not leave your house for another man .
Fight for your wife
Fight for your marriage
Fight for your children
If you run away with those children, they will look for their mom when they are grown.
KING XOXO MYSTERY
Na wa
ReplyDeleteNa cheat she cheat, she no kee pesin. Mr. Horseban, calm down, no let other men destroy your home.
ReplyDelete*wife is scarce
I know a lady married female bv I met on d blog dome years back. Her husband works in another state and she was in LAgos. She ducks around and was living with a divorcee and sleeping with another guy on d island. Her hubby found out and closed her business and took her away. Don't know if they are still married and I always advised and warn her then but I was a bad person. She stopped talking to me coz I didn't support her ways. She can pretend for Africa and form holy
ReplyDeleteI know a lady married female bv I met on d blog dome years back. Her husband works in another state and she was in LAgos. She ducks around and was living with a divorcee and sleeping with another guy on d island. Her hubby found out and closed her business and took her away. Don't know if they are still married and I always advised and warn her then but I was a bad person. She stopped talking to me coz I didn't support her ways. She can pretend for Africa and form holy
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