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Good day Madam Stella, God bless you for your life changing platform. 

I would appreciate you help me post my chronicle on time even though I already made up my mind on what to do, I wouldn't mind your red pen too.

I am married to a very loving and quiet man who loves his space, he has 3 older siblings in different states and a younger sister that stays around Sango toll gate. This younger sis happens to be the closest person to him from his family, she's married with a baby. I visited her and spent a night there and she was very nice to me. We planned hosting them for Easter but it never happened due to the lockdown.

Fast forward to early March, hubby asked me if the sister called and I said no. 

He said she called him to ask that we help accommodate a teenager who was coming to write JAMB in our area but he already asked her to call me, I said ok. 

So when she called I just told her no wahala that the centre isn't so far from our house. We didn't hear anything from her again until one evening when hubby told me the people writing exams are on their way, I said ok but How many people? I thought it's just one person, he replied that he's also confused but let's just wait till they get here. 

This was 2wks after she called to request for accommodation, we stay as far as Ajah and hubby said they were already at Oshodi. We were done having dinner but I had to quickly defrost soup, made them food and kept in a flask, cleaned the guest room and toilet then dashed out to my aunt's place on the next close to cool off. Mind you, i was about 5 months pregnant. Told him to plz call me as soon as they arrive.

He called less than 2hrs later, and I rushed home but they were already in the room. I went upstairs, welcomed them, they had just finished bathing so I asked them to come down for food. My guest were a young boy and his aunt, she followed him down cuz of distance.

 When they were done eating I tried striking a convo with the young man concerning his exam, I made a few calls to confirm his centre so I told him it's no problem that it's about 30/40mins ride from our place. Told him to be ready by 7am since exam is 9am.

The next morning I was up as early as possible to make breakfast, they came down while I was in the kitchen so I told them to chill since I'm almost done. While they were eating I went to meet hubby asking how they'll get to the centre, he said his own appointment is for 10am that I should book taxify for them, I did and he gave me cash for them. 

The lady was very thankful and I was happy even though my sister in law never called me all through. 

So later in the evening a strange number called and it was my guest, she said they were back home that exam went well. So thankful that the boys mum also spoke with me, saying I shouldn't hire cooks for my baby's naming that they'll gladly come around. The boy's aunt said she forgot to collect my number before leaving so my sister inlaw just gave her. 

Sis in law and I chatted on WhatsApp about 1wk later and she never mentioned it, meanwhile I asked my hubby who our guest were and I was shocked when he said they're sis in-laws landlord's children. Lol Even my sis inlaw hasn't been to this our new house.

So during the lockdown, when I read about the horrible 1000 boys, I was shaking and tried calling severally but her phone was off. I sent an sms then told hubby to keep trying or better still call her husband to be sure they are fine.

 The next day i sent her a distress msg on WhatsApp, she read without a response, since over 2 months now I've not heard a word from her but she communicates with her brother.

 Hubby hasn't been stable at home lately cuz his business is on the mainland so I've been at my mum's place since I'm almost due for delivery and haven't been so strong too. I've made sure to call my mother in law often cuz she also calls regularly to check on me, she's also on the quiet side. It's been 2wks since hubby told me his sister asked me to call her that her glo line is now on, but she's been communicating with people that matter with her airtel line which i don't have, I just responded ok.

I've not called o and I'm not sure I'll ever call. When hubby called last night he asked if I've called sis in law but I said no. And he raised his voice like why??? I just told him I tried reaching her all through the lockdown and she never responded, so if I'm her biological sister would she have abandoned me without reaching out for 2 months? He said sorry but I should still call her, I told him never! 

And he's coming to take me back home on Sunday.

Please where did i go wrong?




*Just avoid any stress,call her and say hello and squash whatever plans she has...You dont need to make long convo,just say Hi and say you are very tired but just wanted to check up on her and wish her well...Tell her you are tired and go off the phone....