BBNaija Season 4 Pepper Dem Reunion - Friendship And Trustworthiness In Biggies House

Ebuka asked Esther what happened with her friendship with Diane and how she felt about their conversation about her not being trustworthy days before she left the show. 

Esther said she felt Diane and Mercy were closer and the reason she was friends with Mercy was because of Diane. In response to her not being trustworthy, she said she would have been appreciative albeit a little defensive if they approached her with their thoughts rather than talk behind her. She said she’s cool with Mercy and Diane outside the house but their friendship could have been better.




In response to Ebuka’s question about saying Esther wasn’t trustworthy in her discussion with Diane, Mercy said she felt that way because of the way Esther abandoned their friendship when she got close to Nelson and Frodd. She said she saw Esther as someone who abandons her friends when she gets involved romantically with guys. Mercy said further that she felt Esther betrayed their trust by being with Nelson even after Diane told them (Esther and Mercy) that she liked Nelson.




In her defense, Esther said she didn’t realize that she abandoned them. She also admitted to knowing that Diane liked Nelson. Esther said the only reason she got very close to Nelson was because he didn’t mention that he liked Diane after she repeatedly asked him if there was anyone he fancied in the house. Esther also said she got close to Nelson because she felt like an alien in the Diane, Esther and Mercy friendship and that made her get close to Nelson. In response to Ebuka’s question, she said she wasn’t one to abandon her female friendships when she gets into a romantic relationship and she was also one to keep a very small and tight circle of fiends. Finally, she said she believes she didn’t stay long enough for them to know her true personality.


Still on the issue of Esther not being trustworthy as discussed with Mercy, Diane said she said that because she felt Esther didn’t like Frodd and just used him because he likes her. She felt Esther became close to Frodd and showed him a bit off affection because he won the veto power and Esther cut in and said she got close to Frodd before he won the veto power. She also mentioned that the only person she trusted while in the house was Mercy. On the Nelson issue, Diane said the only person she blamed was Nelson. She said Nelson told her he liked her and was shocked when he got close to Esther. She however admitted to being angry whenever she saw Nelson and Esther together and was glad when he was evicted. She however pitied Esther because she cried so much when Nelson got evicted. Diane said she didn’t confront Nelson about his actions in the house after the show because she had moved on. She also said the reason why she couldn’t trust Esther was because she wouldn’t have moved to Nelson if she was in Esther’s shoe.




On the other hand, Jackye said she didn’t believe Esther liked Frodd. She said Frodd made his intention known to Esther but she went ahead to be Nelson. She said she noticed the switch in Esther’s behavior to Frodd when he became HOH. She said she had a conversation with Frodd to leave Esther as he was embarrassing Igbo men for chasing someone that didn’t like him in return.




On Esther’s relationship with Frodd, Venita said she believed the kiss Esther gave Frodd on stage during a challenge was because they were up and not because Esther genuinely liked Frodd. Esther cut in and said the kiss was from Frodd. Venita continued with her talk and said she got upset with Frodd because he made it seem like he was the one chasing her while it was the opposite. She mentioned that Frodd moved to her when she just got in and told her that he wanted them to have the Mercy and Ike kind of relationship but she told him she had someone outside and wasn’t going to disrespect him by getting involved with a guy. So when he turned the tables after getting involved with Esther and going ahead to ask her if she liked him when she challenged his sudden relationship with Esther, she felt bad because he made her seem like the thirsty one to viewers whereas he was the one that made the first move.




Esther admitted to not liking Frodd initially. She said she began to like him after spending so much time with him. She apologized to Mercy for letting go of their friendship because of men. She also said Mercy should have discussed these issues while in the house because she thought they were cool as Mercy always gave her food after cooking.




The housemates were given white boards to give response to questions asked by Ebuka. The first question was who they least trusted and Cindy wrote Esther. Cindy said it wasn’t like she didn’t trust Esther and she only wrote down her name because Esther was the housemate she least connected to. Jackye said didn’t trust anyone but Enkay and Venita.




On the question on who the housemates got along the least with, Mercy said she’s a social butterfly and thus got along with everyone. Ebuka however cut in and told her that it wasn’t her answer and she should give a name. Diane mentioned Venita and said had it was because she was difficult to connect with. Cindy mentioned Tacha and Esther. Cindy said she couldn’t connect with Tacha because Tacha had a huge wall around her. Ebuka asked Cindy if this has changed outside the house and she said she hasn’t had time to get to know Tacha. Venita said she couldn’t connect with Tacha because she avoided her as she had the tendency of triggering outbursts she’d rather have kept in check while in the house. Tacha mentioned Ella and said it was because it was hard to understand Ella. She said might have connected better if Ella had stayed longer. Enkay mentioned Esther and said the reason was because of the unwelcoming expressions Esther had and she couldn’t stand having someone that had similar expressions to herself in the same room with her. Enkay also said Diane also had the unwelcoming look.




They were asked who loves food a lot and the unanimous answer was Cindy.




On who gossiped the most in the house, Tacha said everyone gossiped expect her. Venita said this wasn’t true as Tacha said things about her behind her. Tacha said she also she said about Venita was after Venita was evicted so they were no way she could have told her personally.

By BV Pelumi