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Saturday, May 16, 2020

Saturday In House Gists - Switching Roles From Wife To Sidechic And Vice Versa..

The new trend is switching roles to a less stressful one.......







Someone on this Blog called me some years back and gisted me of how she switched roles to have peace of mind...She told me her man became mad about her and was always wanting to be with her after she divorced him and he married the woman that caused the divorce.....
Do you know stories like thisßor is this what you did?
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78 comments:

  1. Nnukwu Nwanyi16 May 2020 at 14:02

    Let me perch here while eating my watermelon

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  2. Blackberry16 May 2020 at 14:13

    Ya...my young uncle is a culprit...actually, the family adviced the wife to leave and let him marry the girl turning his head, the verbal abuse was too much, my father settle case every weekend. since they did only traditional marriage, her family returned d bride price and uncle married his babe or love of his life as he calls her, he did wedding too and court. E no reach six months, he became a regular visitor to see his kid at d house he rented for them , she resisted at first but we advised her allow him see the boy, that's how some days he will sleep over..if you see her now, she fresh like market square bread...I have no idea how the new wife is coping. He was around during the 1 week lock down, as it lifted, he left...she is so bent on enjoying the affair, afterall, she was d first wife n mommy to his kid...funny enof, it seems shes pregnant too...lemme go and dig for gist.

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    1. Cyclone 🌀 16 May 2020 at 14:27

      That your uncle has commitment phobia. He has no business marrying anybody.

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    2. Anonymous16 May 2020 at 14:28

      @Blackey
      So finally, the man is having his cake and eating it. Steal one, get one free?
      💀💀💀💀💀💀💀💀💀💀

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    3. Ms Saphire®16 May 2020 at 14:42

      Oh! Same as my aunt as i posted below. They are happier though. Dating unending must be exciting without the marriage label on it. Their children are grown and soon their fist daughter will get married.

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    4. Femilicious16 May 2020 at 15:50

      She would be very stupid to be pregnant again. Where does she see this whole mess going. She shpuld just enjoy the affair for now and not keep digging herself into a hole.

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    5. Anonymous16 May 2020 at 16:09

      My dad cheated on my mum like nothing else. In 2006, he married one of his side chickens who bore him a son (my mum had 6 daughters for him and much later, a son). My mum never really got around to divorcing him, she just focused on her money and us. He was also active in our lives and sometimes, in talking or good terms with my mum. Since last year, he's been begging my mum that the lady is ruining him, he wants to divorce her and come back to his true family. He even met a lawyer and removed her name from most of his investments. Lol. Now, he sends my mom money anyhow. She's just relaxing and enjoying the attention. Na dem sabi

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    6. God'sGrace16 May 2020 at 17:46

      The grass is indeed not always greener at the other side, your mum is a good woman, she really no come this life because of man.

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  3. Nigerian first daughter16 May 2020 at 14:14

    Any woman that switched role from wifey to side Chic is shameless. I mean how low can one go? If it's not working both parties should move on. What if one get HIV or any deadly diseases from the man in the course of fighting over a dead beat husband? What point is wifey trying to prove? I love my sanity and peace of mind and I can't sacrifice it for anything in this world.

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  4. Xhlrted P™ (Charcuterie ‰)16 May 2020 at 14:14

    Haha.
    In PSquare's voice 'if you,do me,I do you,man no go vex'

    Make I read comments.

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  5. Anonymous16 May 2020 at 14:17

    I can't give myself BP for one man out there. He misbehaves, I find someone else.

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  6. Anonymous16 May 2020 at 14:17

    I did it and am enjoying her torment 😂😂

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    1. Anonymous16 May 2020 at 14:25

      You are enjoying adultery and sharing in their diseases and demons. Congrats. 😏😏😏😏

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    2. Ms Saphire®16 May 2020 at 14:34

      My aunt is wearing this exact same shoes! I didn't know it existed anywhere else. In fact the side chick that married her husband too has divorced him too but my aunt and him has remained "dating" for like 8years now. Everybody has talked but they insist they are soul mates but marriage is not on the table for them anymore.

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    3. tess-baby16 May 2020 at 14:37

      😂😂😂😂😂good for her

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    4. miss Aboki the beloved😁16 May 2020 at 15:36

      End time soulmates🤣🤣🤣

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  7. Anonymous16 May 2020 at 14:21

    Women usually degrade themselves like this in order to get back at the "side chic turned wife". But in effect, they are lowering the bar of their self esteem and worth.
    Only a dog goes back to her vomit Prov. 26:11
    The man may be feeling good that he is eating his cake and having it but
    he is a tool of destruction in Satan's hand. For the man that commits adultery is senseless Prov. 6:32

    In the place I worked before, the man that did this was known to be "randy". He had affairs with several ladies in the industry. Some aborted. The one that kept the pregnancy ended up in his house while the wife ejected. Then, from "visiting the kids" he began having intercourse with the ex-wife. The side-chick wife was complaining but he didn't care.
    Not before long, the ladies that had affairs with him all began to die one after the other. The side chick wife also died, leaving her two kids. The wife got afraid when she heard the gist but it was too late. She too was diagnosed of hiv/Aids and died a year after, leaving her three kids. The man
    that distributed the disease is still alive.

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    1. Orire16 May 2020 at 14:32

      Chaiii,Ayelala o

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    2. Liz16 May 2020 at 14:56

      Inside life,but this story is similar to a prominent man in Nigeria,he's a family friend.He goes after young girls (teenagers) sleeps with them and get them pregnant afterwards he takes them to abort it,i don't know what he doesn't with the babies but those girls end up dying.......His wives are scared of confrontation cos the man is deadly viper,they narrate their ordeals with tears. One day I'll record them and give to bloggers cos as it is,he is still fucking innocent teens....

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    3. Essa Atelier (IG:@essaatelier 08052058241)16 May 2020 at 14:57

      Smh

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    4. Unknown16 May 2020 at 15:16

      Oh lawd🤦‍♀️!
      Men are scum, men are scum but you see women eh? They are enablers! This is bullshit!

      Melancholy

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    5. Femilicious16 May 2020 at 15:52

      Blood of Jesus😨

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    6. Fabulous onyx16 May 2020 at 16:05

      @Unknown, you see that your comment above, that your Comment is gold!

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    7. Anonymous16 May 2020 at 16:05

      @Unknown
      And everyday, ladies are in search of those "scums"
      The chronicle today has 4 scums she is considering.
      It is utter deceit and vain thoughts.

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  8. Anonymous16 May 2020 at 14:23

    Abeg, the woman is VERY foolish.

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  9. Sunshine BV16 May 2020 at 14:37

    Doesn't make sense to me.
    If a man can go as low as in 'wifing' his side chick, the wife should walk and never look back.

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    1. pure inspirations16 May 2020 at 16:43

      Truth is that some marriages end not because the couple stopped being in love but because they stopped being intimate.

      Familiarity crept in and the initial excitement seemed to disappear. The man goes out to look for excitement outside his home.

      After sometime of not being with his wife (probably now ex-wife) and he sees her again, the feelings he had for her resurfaces again and he wants her.

      I guess people get bored easily with someone or something they wake up to every morning, every day, every month and every year, under the same roof and in the same room. A man and his wife are two different people with two different backgrounds, so they will definitely have their issues. That's part of marriage. But for some couples, these issues become a stumbling block to their married relationship and prevents them from feeding their intimacy. And over time they grow apart because they stopped feeding the only thing that bound them together in the first place.

      The side-chick is not the one that is always with the man so she is not experiencing the friction. It is his wife. The wife is the one that has to deal with him and his faults every single day. That's exhausting.

      The side-chick becomes the man's pillar of comfort. Why wouldn't she be? When she doesn't have to deal with the man's every whim every blessed day.


      We necessarily don't have to let familiarity creep into our marriage if we choose not to get used to our spouses and feed our love through intimacy.

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    2. Serene16 May 2020 at 16:53

      Apt! Can never tolerate the rubbish

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  10. precious isca16 May 2020 at 14:44

    Another 14:21,,,,,the man is a good giver.yes we cant tell what a woman can do until she is pushed to the wall!I know at time we all marvel at the way we react to things positively and negatively. But the truth is, if one is in a revenge mission at first it becomes interesting but at the long run it leads to destruction. So it best to know when to call it a quit in that game.

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  11. Fan Emmanuel 16 May 2020 at 14:45

    I don't believe any sane woman will switch from wife to sidechic. That's humiliating to your God yourself your family and the whole world. In fact she's a disgrace.

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  12. Richie Rich16 May 2020 at 14:50

    This should be an interesting read. More comments please... Another angle of Okafor's Law😬😬😬😷🤭🤔🤔

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  13. Yvonne O16 May 2020 at 14:50

    Any woman that does this has an irredeemable low self esteem.

    Imagine being ejected from the table and instead of leaving with your head high and going on to create your own with better platters of Orishiri and make him regret what he did to you instead stop and start scrambling for crumbs that fall off same table. Pathetic. SHAME!
    Them never born the man wey go make me degrade myself like this.

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    1. tess-baby16 May 2020 at 22:54

      Sometimes it's not low self esteem. Sometimes its pay back time for the sidechick!

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  14. WOMAN16 May 2020 at 15:08

    When a relationship ends, it's better to move on than to still look back.cos it never ends well.

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  15. Eka Joy16 May 2020 at 15:11

    Honestly, I don't feel bad for the side chick but I really feel bad for the wife that degraded herself to that level. Only means she isn't good enough to wife but to fuck. Come on na.

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    1. Anonymous16 May 2020 at 16:54

      I disagree with you Joy.

      We handle hurt and betrayal differently. I will never do it, but I won't call it degrade. Yorubas have a saying: eni to bimo fun ni ti kuro l'ale eni.

      I don't think we should pass judgement on their decision. Our strengths, reasoning and ability to handle pressure varies.

      A man abandons his wife and children for years and if you see the woman's prayer points, the man's return to her and the children will be number 1. I have never understood it, but hey every (wo) man to his own.

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  16. SluttyChic16 May 2020 at 15:25

    Your husband cheated on you, you got divorced and he married the side side chic, now you are your husbands side chic. Where’s your dignity? You think you are better than the side chic who turned wifey? You are the same, a lower grade though.
    Some of you that come out to cry and complain about side chics were ones side chics, when it’s done to you, you can’t take it.
    Any wifey who eventually turns around to be her ex husbands side chic is a CHEAP woman.
    You think you are peppering the other woman 🤷🏿‍♀️ and don’t bring in your sob stories cos you want people to pity and edge you on your stupidly.

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    1. Anonymous17 May 2020 at 14:35

      You are always talking out of point

      What's wrong with you?

      KING XOXO MYSTERY

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  17. ****Bbjac****16 May 2020 at 15:27

    That is going back to your vomit,it does not make sense to me,making the hegoat feel like he's some trophy.
    Mtchheeéeew

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  18. Olomo Olomo16 May 2020 at 15:27

    I think it will be proper for them to move on. Going back to your vomit in the name of revenge or we are soulmate might just be the wrong move to make. I think women should let this type of men out of their life for good.

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  19. Anonymous16 May 2020 at 16:06

    I am on this table ooo. Got married after 6yrs, husband man start misbehaving. He is my one and only love. After 2beautiful kids, my husband confessed to me that he is love with another. Deep inside me, I knew it was
    not real love rather
    infatuation. I got the girl number to warn her to leave my husband for me, the lady gave me the worst insult for my life. Exactly in her words "madam calm down, there is Love in sharing". When l couldn't deal with his late nights, I told him to go ahead and marry the lady. We got divorced, I was settled handsomely. He married the lady who is already pregnant for him. He never visited but only calls to check on his kids. I started working on my body to get my figure8 back, luckily for me after one year,l look under 25. Then December 30th 2018, their youngest sister wedding, I was invited. Went to the wedding with my borrowed boyfriend, he also came with his wife. When we were about to go, he came to me and ask who am with,if he is my cousin. I plainly told him that he is my sweetheart, he was shocked. My boyfriend brought out his hand to shake him, he declined. The next week I saw my exhusband in my house. What the hell are you doing here, I asked. I came to see my children, he replied. I keep my cool. He asked for food, I gave him. Time to go nawh, Oga refused to go,haba, whynah? Oga said that he want to be with his children. Okay so. The next day he told me that we need to talk. What are we talking about naw, Oga kneeled down to beg for forgiveness. That we should start a fresh, I agree. I am now enjoying the benefits of the side chick. Even those things my exhusband never did for me,am now demanding all of them and he is doing them without complain,lol. The wife called me to talk trash, I recorded everything and send to my exhuby. The wife later called me to apologise. Hahaha Through out this lockdown, my exhuby is with me cooking and washing., I will just siddon for chair dey enjoy the big treats. Na the wife l dey pity cos she is jobless

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    1. Anonymous16 May 2020 at 16:29

      Honestly, I like this story!
      There is no low self esteem here ooo. Enjoy!

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    2. Fan Emmanuel 16 May 2020 at 16:36

      I pity you more.
      This is the reason men will always be misbehaving. So disgusting

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    3. Femilicious16 May 2020 at 16:43

      Na Wa oooo. Just don't get pregnant again. He will let you down againif you lose the figure 8

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    4. Chittoncleaningservices PH 0818573747916 May 2020 at 16:43

      Akpo in #emuvoice

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    5. Anonymous16 May 2020 at 16:45

      She deserves it. They think it ends with snatching the man. Heck no.

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    6. Anonymous16 May 2020 at 16:57

      Do me I do you... But common, is that side chick not stupid? Did she forget there is love in sharing like she said? Or she forgot?

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    7. Ace16 May 2020 at 17:44

      I started working on my body to get my figure8 back, luckily for me after one year,l look under 25.

      Hmmmm
      Lesson learnt
      Look attractive always, don't wait for divorce b4 working on yourself.

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    8. Anonymous16 May 2020 at 18:00

      Madam enjoy yoursel very well don't mind people condemning you. You are enjoying yourself well

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    9. ZARAM16 May 2020 at 18:05

      Congratulations madam. Why not go back to his house as second wife rather than training your children in this kind of situation. I am not here to fault you but to ask how u sleep so sound knowing that you are now a side chick to the man that was once your husband. Life is not all about material things. This same man that left you for another will still hurt you again. You are beautiful. You are a special woman. You deserve to be called a WIFE not a side chick

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    10. God'sGrace16 May 2020 at 18:15

      @16:06, please do get intimate with him, for me o, only collect the cash and face front, if you are still interested in getting married again to a good man, why don't you work on that.

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    11. God'sGrace16 May 2020 at 18:53


      *Don't* I meant

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    12. Amanda favour16 May 2020 at 19:08

      Wow!!! 😳😳

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    13. Eujiparv (Top notch fashion house )16 May 2020 at 19:40

      The sweetest story ever. See enjoyment. Madame, enjoy yourself jare, you are the real MVP. You are not even a bad woman cos you for dey control the guy or manipulate the guy to deal with her. In her next life, she will not marry someone else's husband. Nonsense .

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    14. DBarezz16 May 2020 at 21:23

      Why not demand his divorce her and remarry u again nah since he does all you request of him..hmmm.nawa ooo.Truth is man doesn't want you to be great.He has seen u are desirable .he is blocking your future..atm u are not married ..how will another man approach u or u wanna stay single..still cool.Maybe your old figure was the reason he left u..now he saw you are revamped all over he came running..and you thought u will pepper the now wifey.. hahaha.. u should have said no and move on to something better..he is fu**ing u and his now wife..una no dey fear infection and viruses???nawa

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    15. Ewaife -Ire16 May 2020 at 22:35

      This story makes me feel somehow, but what ever rocks your boat though 😒😒
      Why didn't you guys separate for a while first, at least you would have still remained the first wife, but after all the stress of returning bride price and divorced proceedings, see what you now reduced your self to.

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    16. tess-baby16 May 2020 at 23:00

      I like this story 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
      If I was u, I would hav told d sidechick 'there's love in sharing'.

      Madam pls to make this story sweeter, look for a way n make him divorce her! But never marry him! Cos it will look to degrading.

      Let him divorce her so she gets her dosage complete! Nonsense!

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    17. NiB17 May 2020 at 04:12

      This story is funny and somehow at the same time. Does this now count as adultery since she is actually his wife? Confusion everywhere.

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    18. Anonymous17 May 2020 at 14:37

      You are a strong woman boo


      KING XOXO MYSTERY

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    19. Anonymous17 May 2020 at 14:41

      Madam
      You need to pepper him more
      Don't let him prevent you from meeting your boyfriend
      Collect from him and always pepper him with your boyfriend.

      KING XOXO MYSTERY

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  20. Ronalda.16 May 2020 at 16:29

    Looking at this from a peripheral view, the wife turned side chic may feel like she's "winning", giving "the other woman" the proverbial taste of her own medicine. My question is, why make another woman squirm at the degradation of your dignity and self-worth? Isn't that a textbook case of cutting off your nose to spite your face? A man who vowed before God and man, to love, honour,protect and provide for you, forsaking all others and pledge his fidelity to you till death parts you both, decides to consistently cheat to the extent that you are well aware of your rival. You somehow break free and get a proper divorce but make a dramatic somersault by flipping the narrative so you now become the thief where you were once the Queen? A rather jaundiced logic, in my considered view.

    You reward a cheater who desecrated your marital bed? You give him your body, the one he didn't respect enough, just to get back at the woman in your former home? I'm sorry sweetie, but from my vantage point, there's only one person "winning" and it obviously isn't you. The best gift to give "the other woman" is the cheater, himself. The probability is enormously high that he would cheat again. She'll definitely get a taste of her medicine which should have nothing to do with you because you should be living your best life and not monitoring your ex and his new lady to see what's up.

    With due respect to any lady sitting gallantly on this controversial table, I really mean no disrespect, just being honest. If you feel good about yourself for cheating with your ex-husband on his former side chic turned wife, you need a healthy dose of self-esteem. Maybe the constant cheating during the course of your marriage took a huge chunk off your self-esteem because there's something fundamentally wrong with your psyche if you feel joy and fulfillment where the appropriate emotion ought to be shame and regret. This is not just going back to your waste but swimming in it.

    Why leave him when by your actions you are implying that he is the only man for you and you can't get a better man? Don't worry, keep sneaking around like love struck pubescent teenagers until your folly hits you like a train wreck when you realise you aren't the only one he is cheating on his wife with.

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    1. DBarezz16 May 2020 at 21:28

      They won't see this....Both the former side chic turned wifey and the wifey don side chic are each others problem..The man himself is just enjoying you both..reason why most men don't even respect some of u.he will chop ex wife n present wife all together.Who is doing who?

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    2. Anonymous17 May 2020 at 00:34

      The difference now is that I can have a boyfriend and still be fucking my ex. I'm winning cos if I was still married I can't do this cos of fucked up society. The side chic that is wifed is stuck with her wandering dick

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    3. Anonymous17 May 2020 at 14:43

      Ronalda
      Leave all this your unnecessary write-up
      This one is clearly not needed

      She is doing what she can to heal
      You hear

      Self esteem ko, self esteem no

      KING XOXO MYSTERY

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    4. Anonymous17 May 2020 at 17:15

      Easy to say now. Mark my words, she will regret later. There is a way that seemeth right to a man. But the end thereof......?

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  21. Femi Anthony's.16 May 2020 at 16:35

    The case of my friends mum whom was a popular TV/print model,she was never married to my friends dad because she insisted on not getting married but after my friends dad got married twice,he still came around every now and then to spend time with my friends mum,I once saw him cry and telling my friends mum that he wished she married him,he wouldn't have gone into two marriages and would have been the happiest man on earth,that lady can cater for life,even the man's family had begged her on several occasions to marry the man but she refused.

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  22. Tbabe16 May 2020 at 16:44

    No woman should allow any man bring down herself worth.
    Even in my relationship, once i notice and confirm any nonsense,i shift and never look back. How much more in marriage!
    Cant deal please .

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  23. The Lifted16 May 2020 at 17:20

    Make he kuku marry her back and have two wives, if they aren't lucky he add one more wives...lol , foolish men everywhere want to eat their cake & have it

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  24. Ewaife -Ire16 May 2020 at 22:45

    That's why l usually yimu at women that marry divorced men (and baby dadies). Once children are involved, in most cases they still get back to sleeping together.

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  25. STRICTLY MY THOUGHTS, NOT YOURS!17 May 2020 at 01:00

    Interesting comments. The ex-wives gets closure and satisfaction from serving their revenge cold to the side-chic-turned wives. There is nothing shameless in it. The mistake they will make is to get pregnant for the him or to remain faithful to him, he does not deserve it, then he will be eating his cake and still having it. Enjoy the attention and money.

    On my part the lockdown is helping my marriage very well. Husband and I have bonded very well because he is no longer hanging out with the boys and no family is visiting. He told me yesterday that he is now more matured than when we newly married. It had been a long arduous journey but worth it at the end of the day. I pray it remains like this even after the lockdown is completely lifted up. Friends and extended families breakdown many marriages.

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  26. Anonymous17 May 2020 at 14:47

    Why is that whenever wives get back to the sidechic
    They are classless
    They have low self esteem
    They are this and that

    Oh please, stop with the degradation
    Some people get closure from these things and realise they were enough
    At that sidechic realises when she becomes a wife that the man has issues and not the ex wife

    KING XOXO MYSTERY

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  27. Anonymous17 May 2020 at 18:53

    So in peppering the side chic I'll be opening leg for the man who betrayed me? Mbanu!

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  28. Lily Ambrose17 May 2020 at 22:26

    God forbid I bring myself so low to this. Chukwu aju

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  29. Shekeleke18 May 2020 at 13:04

    Chei.....This one na juju

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