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ABROAD HUSBAND AND IN LAW ISH


Good day Stella,thanks for the amazing job you are doing God bless you.


When I married my husband, he told me that he doesn't have money for rent so we should stay in his parents house( in a face me a slap you house),life became unbearable because he wasn't working and we were depending on my little salary.


I practically took care of him, bought him everything he needed. His parents were very happy that he is being taken care of, I washed, swept and cooked for my in-laws every day so this made them very happy with me.


Fast Forward in 2019, he got a job and we were cool,he applied for a US visa and it came through.He promised me that he will come for me and I believed him.

He would video call his parents and his siblings and he wouldn't bother to ask of me,when it's was my birthday or our anniversary, he won't call me.


One day, he called me with a different number and said he doesn't want me again and I'm not a good woman and that his mother said he shouldn't marry me again because I'm not a good woman for him.


I wept and apologize to my husband that even if I have wronged him in anyway he should forgive me because i was there for him when he didn't have anything, I stood by him when even his own parents calls him useless, and my husband said his mind is made up.


I was at work one afternoon, when my sister called me to say my sister in law came to pack my husband's belongings from my room, that day when I came back from work, I greeted them and entered my room to cry.


This my sister in-law, will insult me and say unprintable words to me and she will tell her brother (my husband) that I have insulted her and he will believe her. This is a family I sacrificed alot for, buy them gifts, money,and what have you.


I didn't hear from him for a while,so one day I was advising my younger sister in my room not to marry and stay in a family house not knowing my mother in law was standing at my window and heard everything. she told my husband and they ejected me from the room.


My father in-law told me that, my husband said he shouldn't let me take our air conditioning, kitchen cabinet and deep freezer, so they took away everything and they are using it now. My Father in law had fixed the air conditioning in his room, the fridge and kitchen cabinet in his kitchen. 

 Stella, these are things I helped my husband buy with my money oo.


My father in-law packed my bags into the rain ,all my clothes were soaked with water and people told him to stop but he didn't mind. My husband blocked me on all his social media handles.


My husband called my father that he wants divorce and my father in-law should stand in as him to dissolve our marriage because we only did traditional marriage and he wants to take our son to his mother.

Stella, please what should I do.

*If he wants a divorce,let him have it,he might have married to get his papers...that is how most behave when they travel...

let him go without stress but please hold unto your son else you will not see him again.

What a pity!!!