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Hi Stella and fellow bvs, I hope y'all are having a nice time. 

Well, over to my story. early this year, I visited an old friend of mine. (One week visit) and so, i went with her to church. She attends one of these new generational churches in the south south. The church is quite popular.

 The pastor is a young guy and should be in his late 30s if I am not mistaken. He has a young beautiful wife and a two year old son. My friend is a prominent and dedicated member of his church and very popular because she is very friendly and jovial. 

So at the close of service, we didn't leave immediately. The pastor held a meeting with the excos and my friend is an exco so she stayed behind. Since I was new there, I decided to sit at the back and wait for her. So after the meeting, the pastor came to where I was seated and greeted me. He asked if I was a new member and I said yes and told him I was waiting for my Friend.

 So he greeted me very well and told me I am always welcomed and free to come anytime. He asked for my WhatsApp number and I gave him. He said he would like to pray with me sometimes that he sees a very bright future in me, bla bla bla. So I said no problem.

 That evening, he called me on phone and asked how I was doing, if I had eaten, stuff like that. We just talked normally and he said he would chat me up on WhatsApp. Later that evening, we started Chatting on WhatsApp, he said I am a very beautiful girl and he was just admiring me at the altar while he was preaching, he asked me if I'm in a serious relationship and I said no. 

He said I shouldn't worry that my own husband will locate me this year that he can see me getting married this year. I said amen. So he prayed for me and since then, he has been disturbing me with calls and messages, the most annoying thing is that he is fond of asking personal questions that I am literally not comfortable with. 

He always tells me to open up to him so he can counsel me. He said he would love to see me and I told him I have left my friend's place and already at my parent's house.

This lockdown period is even worse. He calls me everyday most especially at night. He tells me to send my pics that he wants to see me. He said he would like to hang out with me after the lockdown. Sometimes I always ask after his wife and he'd either say she is fast asleep, she is not in the room or she is working.

 I am trying to set boundaries cos I don't want any trouble. I told my friend about it and she said the pastor is just being nice and friendly that I am just being paranoid over nothing. I don't know if she is right. But I am just being skeptical about this. Though he calls me sometimes to pray with me and all that. But I am not ok with the questions he is always asking like

 "do you love s#x?, what turns you on, what do you like in a man, do you like kissing?, when was the last time you had s#x, how was it? What are you wearing? How many guys have you dated? Do you love anal or oral," etc. 

Sometimes I just pretend to be busy and end the call. Sometimes he calls me on video and I don't pick. I am trying to avoid him in a polite way but my friend says I am over reacting and the truth is she reverence the pastor so much. She said he is very dedicated and God fearing and I should be free with him that he is not the kind of person that chase women around and he doesn't have any scandal yet and I fear too much. 

I told her I don't want any trouble that's why I am just trying to avoid him. I already blocked him and he reported me to my friend. She called me few days ago and told me to unblock him and stop being childish. She was really angry that I have no regards for her pastor that the pastor doesn't even have time for ladies and I should be happy he is calling me and asking about my welfare. I told her I'm not interested in the friendship and will unblock him anytime I feel like. 

My dear bvs, am I overreacting? He called me with another number few days ago and said he would love to see me this week that he wouldn't mind paying for my tfare that he really wants to see me and it's not something we can talk about on phone. I told him I won't be free cos the distance is really very far. He called me again last night and said he saw a vision which is not so good that's why he wants to see me so he can pray for me to reverse the vision he saw. 

I thanked him and told him I will continue praying. He still insisted in seeing me saying he wants to pray and anoint me that I need serious prayers. I ended the call and blocked the number. He told my friend that he has been seeing some strange visions about me but I am too stubborn to listen.

 My friend said i should just chill and try and see him that he is a powerful man of God and i am just being paranoid. Should I just play along or continue to ignore him?

LMAO,Pastor with hot pants!

he wants to sleep with you ooooh and its either your friend does not know the kind of person he is or she has been handpicked to convince you on his behalf.....