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Yes to Sexual Purity.
ReplyDeleteI Stan with her 100% and nothing anyone says or do will change my mind. Its not a hard thing to do,it only depends on you as a man or woman to adhere to Gods command or to flaunt it.
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I stand with her too but she is talking too much. Now world people will go and dig something up for her.
DeleteYes juli yes !!!! Ladies closure begins when you keep your legs closed! Am sending love Nd light to every lady out there struggling with sexual impurity , May Jesus rescue you as he did me ! It’s not easy but it’s totally worth it!
DeleteSo true
DeletePremarital sex is a no!
Marriage is honourable with the bed undefiled
We all know that sexual immorality is a sin but some still choose to do it
Let us all live right with God commandment... Remember out body is the temple of God
I agree with her only if it is not demanded of the women alone.
DeleteAkuayalu, that word is 'flout'
DeleteShut up, which one is talk too much? Person go talk through na wahala. They should dig na, Wetin ear never hear before
DeleteShe claimed she was a virgin, then wrote a book to reveal she was not. Her sexual life is her business.
DeleteI stand with her 100%.
DeleteI like her gown.
DeleteSomeone attacked her. See someone that said she was molested by her teacher now claiming to be a virgin. Stop deceiving people. What happened wasn't your fault though.
ReplyDeletePlease don't say what u don't know. She never claimed to be a virgin. She said she lost her virginity to her basic teacher so these things happen. Not been a virgin doesn't stop one from advocating sexual purity
DeleteShe never said molested na she said dey had sex shuuu
DeleteShame on you
Delete16:10,
DeletePlease coordinate your thoughts before writing. Thank you.
Unusual Amy, how do you "have sex" with your teacher while in primary school? She was molested and yes, she has a right to claim sexual purity.
DeleteEven if she was raped by her teacher or willingly slept with him, that is in the past, she can decide to close her legs now. Stop shaming people when they decide you to be responsible
DeleteA lot of you do not read before commenting. Una type go read headline, form opinion in your head then start typing. She has never said she was a virgin. From the way she talked about that having sex with her teacher you could tell she was not ready to talk about that experience. I doubt if it was a mutual thing. Abuse of authority and manipulation
DeleteAs you're advising the ladies, remember to advise the men to do so too. #VirginityIsNotSexist.
ReplyDeleteBut if ladies close their legs, who will the men sleep with? If I stay in my house and you stay in your house, who will 'snatch' another person's husband? If you toast me and I say no, will you not go back to your house and sleep? Yes, men, be virgins too, good. But ladies, close your legs... let's start from there first. If there is no hole in the wall, there is no where lizard will enter.
DeleteAnd if the men insist on no sex,who will sleep with them?
DeleteEveryone has a say when it comes to women but they never say same to men.
If ladies close their legs but men are not told to do so, they can RAPE or molest little children!!!!
DeleteStop putting the burden on women as if men can not have self control
Pls parents train your boys on sexual put it like you train your girls. These boys rape girls who say 'no' to sex, they rape children too when they are horny. Stop laying emphasis on women alone, train your boys too
DeleteWe are training our boys on sex. God will surely help them.
Deletei totally agree with you dear...sexual purity is it!!
ReplyDeleteYes o,shout out to us.i closed my legs wella but look at me now in marriage with zero interest in sex. Asin zero sexual urge.i dont even lubricate well,my husband has done it all,yet nothing is working.we just siddon here deh find answers.i feel its psychological because I taught myself to stay away from sex.asin I took the celibacy thingy way too serious now I don't know how to unteach myself. My dear ikpu biko ozugozienu! I'm happily married now I need to enjoy guiltless sex,help me bikoo before my husband starts feeling sex starved.its been six months of marriage already
ReplyDeleteGo for counselling
DeleteMadam, you will be fine. Just relax, be intentional about loving your husband, don't force sex, bath together, keep reminding yourself that you are married and sex is legit. Share your thoughts with hubby and pray to God to help you. It is well with you.
DeleteI closed my legs too before marriage. I remember seeing my husband's blokos after marriage and I couldn't look, it was my first time of seeing something like that live and direct. I kept reminding myself, you are married, it is not a sin.
DeleteIt took months before my husband could disvirgin me, everytime he tried to enter, na war, I would scream, cry, wail and out of pity he would stop.
So we started reading up, learnt about intense foreplay, and voila, everything changed.
Madam, help your husband up his foreplay game, let him explore you like experiment and tell him where it feels good so he can concentrate there. Buy sexy lingerie, get lubricants, don't do missionary style, it would get you nowhere, try it sitting on a chair. Sorry I'm going raw, I've been in your position so I get you. Buy whip cream, let him spray on you, lick you, rub ice from your top to your navel, your breast is an asset, let him invest in it with the currency of his mouth and fingers.
My dear, when your husband's foreplay game has reached the 10s, all that psychological feeling you're having will evaporate like vapor. Help him help you.
Anon 21:13 your head correct.
DeleteYou go girl. Saw the comments concerning your stand about sexual and 80% bashed u and find it hard to believe u are in a relationship without without sex. The truth is staying pure, avoiding sexual related thought or materials is very hard not to talk of staying away from sex. Nothing in this life is easy and it requires sacrifice. One thing I notice is that, it is people who have used themselves so much that gives bitter comments about sexual purity. If we can talk about our sex life as we want, body counts, and so on why can't we talk about sexual purity and abstinence without being tagged liars or fake?
ReplyDeleteEhen.., I stopped exactly where you said, avoid sexual related thoughts. That's where I'm having a great problem.
DeleteI have a very wild imagination, in fact , the scripts there can win box offices over and over again.
How can I help myself even though I have been celibate for so long.
It's not easy to practice sexual purity but it is doable if only your mind not your village People won't fall your hands as it is doing mine.
Shout out to peeps out there doing it and making God proud. It is true it will save you from unnecessary drama, I have been there and it's a tested fact that when premarital sex is not involved, you get your acts together pretty fast.
I can testify and still have enough space to love truly myself and the next man God is going to provide me with, this thing of the mind noni. Uhgrrrrhhhh...
Anon 07.05, fill your mind with the Word of God. Check out verse locker on Google store. You have an active mind so need to consciously renew it constantly. God will help you. Amen
DeleteWell, good for her. Her body her choice.
ReplyDeleteThere are prostitutes with good hearts and virgins who are evil. God will decide everyone's portion at the end.
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DeleteThe same God says flee fornication... 1 Cor. 6:18
DeleteIs it rocket science to understand?
Prostitution is wrong so stop trying to justify it. Rahab who recieved favour from God did not continue in her prostitution when saved. So stop it.
DeleteIt is so because sexual abstinence is just one out of God’s commandments to Christians. If you keep yourself from sexual immorality and do not keep the other commandments, I don’t think you will automatically get a ticket to heaven.
DeleteWhat is wrong with you ppl, are you just determined to be obtuse? Did I state that anyone should not follow their own convictions or spiritual commitments? I said what I said and will stand by it. There are virgins that will meet hell fire and prostitutes that will sit at the right hand of Christ, facts!
DeleteGod has the final say on every soul. It is not man who decides their salvation, only God. Do what you are called to do, but mercy and salvation belongs to God and God gives favour to whom God wills it to, not by whatever works we decide will grant us favour. Don't we see forgotten Christians everyday, those who never find favour or prosperity on earth, don't we see grace sinners who have done every evil thing who find prosperity and whose children grow up into greatness. Why was favour given to the gross sinner and not to the devout? Nobody knows, because God says God will have mercy on whom He chooses to have mercy on. No good works can buy favour or salvation, none!
Thats not the point. Respect her views without thinking about your sexcapades
DeleteCorrection: There are no prostitutes that would sit at the right hand of Christ if they continue living in sin. Mary Magdalene did not continue her past life while walking with Jesus. Please God is not mocked. In a bid to prove a point, don't blaspheme.
DeleteWe know that one of the person who was crucified with Christ was saved, but nobody but Christ knew that, everybody just thought a criminal received what he was due. So even a prostitute who served his/her last client moments before dead came, he/she decides to repent with their last breath and call out to God for mercy and was saved, no baptism took place, no time to start over life anew. Well, they died as a prostitute. They took their last breath in repentance, but still died with the sex Juices of their final customer on them and was still saved. So prostitutes will sit at the right hand of Christ!
DeleteSo it's worldly prosperity you are using to judge grace? What a joke. What does it profit a man to gain the world and lose his soul! People like you would have said Job had no grace, nor David in the wilderness when in actual fact they were beloved by God.
DeleteYeah, but you still forgot the most important thing that I wrote, God is the one who has the final say, not you and not me and no amount of works and deeds guarantees anyone anything on earth or in heaven. Even Job and David were redeemed on earth, and blessed with prosperity. So God can choose to bless the sinner on earth and in heaven and choose to not bless the devout on earth nor in heaven too. Many of you think that if you don't get blessings on earth then it means you will automatically get it in heaven. Be sure of nothing, and do not think you own God or God owes you anything. Too many of you are too sure and certain of yourselves walking around with face full of contempt for others. Stay humble and if God wants to do for you anything then it will be done. You have No Power to do any deeds that guarantees rewards from God. Many of you will be left behind because you were too damn sure and too damn certain until you realize God don't need any of us and can start all over from scratch with new souls or wipe everything out and forget His forays into creating human beings. Do it out of love not for the expectations of returns. Doing good because you fear hell is foolish, that is neither love nor Godly, that's just self preservation. Do good because good is the only thing worth doing, not because of expected favors or rewards.
Delete30:stip being stubborn and stupid at the same time. Your comments implies don't judge.. Except a prostitute repents no heaven, yes we don't know at what point they can. We are all to glee sexual immorality period. Don't console yourself with na only God Sabi story
Delete21:15 stop fooling yourself. You can be on a customer humping away and die. Na hell fire straight. Stop living in sin period
DeleteAnon 16:20 repent
Delete23.51 you are clearly the one that will be left behind because you have chosen to turn the word of God upside down to suit your own thinking.
DeleteNice one 👍whatever rocks your boat
ReplyDeleteSome waited till marriage only to be disappointed with premature ejaculation, one minute man, biro cover organ.
ReplyDeleteSome stayed without sex till marriage and met their expectations.
Some wailed and asked why didnt they test before marriage.
Some body count was very high before marriage and their marriage is doing well.
Some married as a virgin and their marriage scattered because they are TTC.
Some had several abortions before marriage and still had over 4 kids in marriage.
The story is different for everyone. Their is no manuscript that works for everyone, just follow the advise : Do not defile the bed before marriage as premarital sex has so many spiritual implications that we may never understand.
Sex is important in marriage no doubt, but there are also some other aspects in marriage which are also important too.
Peace and healing to the world.
*There is not Their is
Deletebut the message is not to be sexually pure so that thy might have a good man and perfect marriage. The message is to be sexually pure in obedience to God. In humility and perfect obedience. Infact Jesus told his apostles to expect storms and tribulations in the world, but always remember you are not of the world, so don't expect your gains & rewards to be of the world.
DeleteHope she is practising what she preaches. It's easy to say it. We have seen her type plenty. No one lives with you so we don't know what you do in the closet.
ReplyDeleteThat shouldn’t be your business. Take the message or ignore.
DeleteWho’s gonna send shout out to guys like us for zipping up this long too?
ReplyDeleteLol shout out to you King Jerry for zipping up this long
DeleteOhh thanks you sweet
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DeleteNice one
DeleteShout out to Kings like Jerry
DeleteI support her post. But juliana,are you honest? That was how she claimed to be a virgin only to write a book and changed the narrative.
ReplyDeleteLooool the internet never forgets sha
DeleteSame person that was lying during interviews that’s she’s a virgin whereas she don use preek brush teeth behind closed doors . Only for her to write one useless book that she lied about her virginity.... toyosi the hypocrite
ReplyDeleteGet over it!
DeleteWe can't oh,cos she won't let us rest.
DeleteWhich hypocrite? Was it her intention to have sex then?
DeleteGet over it.
Nice one .
ReplyDeleteWith God all things are possible 🙌
ReplyDeleteTelling ladies to close their legs while saying nothing to the men results in the increase of sexual molesters/rapists and homosexuals. All should be encouraged to close their legs. Sexual purity is not for women alone. Even the Bible says so
ReplyDeleteVery true.
DeleteYimu
ReplyDeleteI think rape and molestation victims should be able to call themselves virgins as they never consented to sexual intercourse. The term virginity needs to be reinvented. If you are a woman or man that was raped or molested at some point in your life and have never consented to sexual intercourse or sexual touching, then consider yourself a virgin too. You never chose to have sex or sought out sex, so you are just as much of a virgin as someone who was never physically violated and let nobody tell you otherwise. Rape does not remove your virginity!
ReplyDeleteIts never a ticket to heaven.
DeleteRape removes yor virginity cos that term is for when the hymen is broken in sex.. Since God is the one who judges motives he won't count it as sex cos he knows you were raped however by the definition virgin you are not one
DeleteAm so happy to hear this,thankGod we still have people who still believe in sexual purity.go girl..may God favour you.i stan with you 100% .Am very sure Toke and co will not like this.The word of God is true and can never change or be twisted.
ReplyDeleteI agree ...sexual purity is indeed the best. My friend thought so too...met her hubby in church and three years down the line no kids. Apparently alot of things were uncovered after marriage. I wish I could be of the same view but I like sex and I don't want to write chronicles for this blog so...🤷
ReplyDeleteContinue having sex all over the place. Your body, your business. Your consequences as well.
DeleteYour comment is spiteful. That your friend believed in virginity but is TTC today does not make her foolish. There's no guarantee that if one keeps his/her virginity till marriage, there'll be zero issues.
DeleteAll should be sexually pure not because they want to please society or be better than others but out of love for God and desire to protect one's self from STDs and the emotional traumas that go with fornication.
I hope your friend sees you for who you really are. And may God bless her with children so people like you can shut up.
Well, virginity does not mean stupidity. They don't want to discuss practical matters before marriage because they feel openly discussing sex is sinful or unGodly, they completely forget that this is the only person they will get to have sex with for the rest of their lives, and that is a BIG deal. Then they get stuck in a loveless or problematic marriage looking for war rooms to go fight 'spiritual warfare' in when some simple practical conversations could have alleviated the issues to begin with.
DeleteIn the mighty name of Jesus, I pray for your friend that before this 2020 runs to a close, she will conceive and all the people who have been mocking her behind her will attend the christening of that child next year to celebrate with her. I pray that God in his infinite mercy overrules every judgment of whatever was uncovered after marriage and causes healing in her home.
DeleteJust bear in mind that there are also people who are TTC who had plenty sex before marriage, sex before marriage does not guarantee conception after marriage. The fact that you tried a man before marriage and saw that his sperm is thick like cookie batter and he can last in bed is not an indication of what would happen when you marry. Take note!
The message is not to be sexually pure so that you may have a perfect marriage and no life problems hereafter. The message is to be sexually pure in obedience to God. Because your body is the temple of the Holy Spirit and a dwelling place of God. God's word is truth and in him there is no lie. Life may not be perfect for Christians, even the apostles were all matyred. But the victory is remaining and abiding in Christ and remembering that the world is not our home. I pray your friend will be blessed with a child for those who wait upon the Lord shall renew their strength. They will mount up with wings like eagles. They will run and not grow weary, they will walk and shalt not faint.
DeleteSome of you just discus what you have no understanding of... War room is just speaking to the spiritual realm about your problems. It does not take the place of practical solutions... The spiritual controls the physical do pray without season
DeleteAnd you, "dear friend" are a sorry excuse for a friend. May God bless your friend with babies so that "friends" like you can be put to shame for mocking them in secret.
DeleteThose that don't fear God will find this post annoying,each to his own,do you,do what is right,besides judgement is of God
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ReplyDeleteI didn’t see where she said only women so I want to believe she was talking to both sexes. Babe na u sabi. I had sex b4 marriage and have been happily married for 18 years. To each his own I beg. I don tire for all this kain tori!!
ReplyDeleteI always wonder about the women who chant virginity and who are divorcees or widows if they won't remarry and take the same used vagina and bring along to the new marriage. I can never forget a BV from some years ago who bemoaned the fact that she was suffering infertility issues and couldn't understand it because she got married as a Virgin. I do not know what superpower protect virgins expect to get. Do it for your own convictions, but virginity in of itself on its own brings no special favors or rewards.
DeleteSince it doesn't concern you, why then are you hyperventilating?
DeleteIf you're not a christian, then no problem.
DeleteBut if you claim to be one, sad.
Hardly hyperventilating. If one truly believes in virginity before marriage then they should only marry once😂😂😂
DeleteThere are Christians who have gotten special Favours or rewards from being a virgin.. Some people feel it influences virginity cos they ignorantly believe sexually active people have tampered with their wombs. Taken plenty pills, stds etc that causes infertility. Being a virgin does not stop the other factors that causes divorce so don't know what you ignorantly mean by marrying once. Whatever happens with people God's word is that you stay away from sexual immorality period
DeleteAll Bvs don dey claim righteousness on top this post.
DeleteWaiting for the Friday Night Post, etc
Easier said than done!
ReplyDeletePls don't believe the devil's lie and deceit that it is impossible. God provides the grace. Only date people who have the exact same mindset. Avoid sleeping on the same bed or cohabitation. Avoid pornography and sexually charged content. If possible, avoid tongue kissing. Above all, be prayerful and look for prayers for purity and say it frequently. There is no lie the enemy tells that is above God's truth. He loves us so much he gave us this command, not to punish us but for our own good. We cannot be wiser than him who made us. The devil is not more wicked than God is good.
DeleteSex outside marriage is wrong. Most diseases are from sex outside marriage. A lot of evil soul ties , evil spirit husband/wife comes from it. GOD is a merciful GOD but we must pay for our sins one way or the another . Ask GOD for self control .#GOD bless you#
ReplyDeleteMessage from the Holy Spirit: Sins of the flesh. Sins of the flesh causes the greatest wounds on the soul. Have mercy on the world, oh holy God. Have mercy on the world, oh mighty one. Do not look on our sins. Do not deal with us as we deserve. This hurts the Lord deeply, he does not want to lose any of us. Not one soul lost. Not one soul lost. Repent repent, people need to repent and return to God.
ReplyDeleteMay God help us all.
DeleteGod truly loves us and He's giving us the best advice ever to avoid pains and everlasting regrets.
Thank You Jesus 🙏
Hmmm true, God help us.
ReplyDeleteAbstaining form during as a single person is by the grace of GOD.
ReplyDeleteWith GOD in the plan, you'll pull through.