Instead of posting tik tok videos like her colleague are presently engrossed in,she posted an epic advice on Thursday April 30th to Ladies who send nude photos to men....
She tells these ladies what to do if they feel they must send these photos...
Friday, May 01, 2020
Actress Damilola Adegbite's Memo To Ladies Who Send Nude Photos To Men Is Classic!
Actress Damilola Adegbite has gets an applause from me for this post...
Instead of posting tik tok videos like her colleague are presently engrossed in,she posted an epic advice on Thursday April 30th to Ladies who send nude photos to men....
She tells these ladies what to do if they feel they must send these photos...
Instead of posting tik tok videos like her colleague are presently engrossed in,she posted an epic advice on Thursday April 30th to Ladies who send nude photos to men....
She tells these ladies what to do if they feel they must send these photos...
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I wish i see this earlier, i wish i was not stupid 😭. My ex boyfriend has been blackmailing me with a video i sent to him and he also secretly filmed our sex tape.. I'm tired, he has drained me, so far i have paid 5million naira.. i tried to get police involve and he threatened to release it.. I'm about to get married and i can't afford the scandal. I'm fed up with life
ReplyDeleteReally? You better bring you man in,else the same ex won't allow you enjoy your marriage, what you are trying to protect may not last and you would have spent all your savings, arrest him and get back your life. What nonsense!
DeleteChaiiii. That your ex is what is called ex from hell. Their type should be forever silenced so that in their next world they will never result to cheap blackmail. Get his address and send area boys or cultist after him. Let them beat him to stupor and collect all those evidence he's using to blackmail you. Let them also warn him that if he refused to desist from such cheap blackmail their next visit will be to send him to the world beyond. Stop giving him shishi. Call his bluffs. Be the one threatening him seriously. Get his family involve and threaten all of them. Tell them to warn their son to stop blackmailing you if they don't wanna mourn him so soon.
DeleteDare him to do his worst! Wrtin sef? Na sextape you do you no kill person. You enabled him from the start. Shey you have evidence of him blackmailing you? Take that to the police and they will take it up from there. Kai!
Delete1st thing you need do is tell your husband to be,then go police not the hungry police oh if possible involve a family member or friend you can trust
DeleteStop paying him
Is he married
Na wa oh..As I read the first sentence of her writeup..I just started saying ''Kpawon kpawon''
DeleteYou can't continue like this. You need to open up and go to the police immediately.
DeleteSo sorry about your predicament.
Delete5 millions naira down and it won't stop soon..
For how long will you continue to pay or be a slave to his blackmailer?
You have to take the bull by the horn and do the needful.
Report to the right authority and confide in your fiance.
It can only cause an uproar now but it will bring everlasting solution.
Mind you, that guy is not stooping soon and he will still release the pictures.
Stop encouraging blackmailer.
If you keep paying ,he will keep asking ,why don't you just come clean to your hubby and tell your ex to go fuck himself ,be bold ,he just might not have the balls to do it.
DeleteYou have money to pay. It's better you come clean with your fiancé and get the idiot arrested. This is really bad.
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DeleteMy advise is that you let your fiance knows about this.
DeleteIf you don't trust me...you will give 20 million after you get married. Never negotiate with blackmailers over nude photos or videos. you are not the first person that will have sex.
if you have paid 5 million and he is still asking for more then what do you think will happen in the end when you can’t pay no more? he will just delete it and let you go? Hell no
Deleteif he’s an ex then you made a mistake and we all learn from it, my opinion tell you fiancee what is going on, blame the one you sent him due to naivety and young age or whatever, then the one he recorded without your consent will get him in soup
tell your fiancee you paid because you did not want to hurt him even though its from your past before you met him(right?) but you cant bear such a burden no more, your fiancee should understand and if he loves you, together you both will use the police to get your ex arrested and sooner or later you can put all of these behind you okay🤗
Dare him to go ahead, that you have already made upp your mind to stop paying him. Let him know that there is nothing there to hide again. Give him the impression that you are no longer afraid of whatever he wants to do. In this era of social media, I doubt if he will go scot free once he releases it.
DeleteDarling you cnt Keep paying him for ever . Come out clean ok
DeleteAnon plz tell the police. Revenge porn is a crime. Plz stop paying. How long will you continue? You have to tell your husband to be. If he wants to post he should. How long will you continue to pay? He has already taken a lot but no more. Love and light 💕
DeletePut an end to it now by involving the police and your fiance,else he will continue to scam and blackmail you. You want to die of hbp? I don't think so
DeleteTell your fiance and put an end to this once and for all. What's the worse that can happen? You need your peace of mind dear.
DeleteSome people are just so heartless.
U better lure him through another girl and send boys to eat him or call soldier or ask anyone that knows a soldier pay them to beat him up and break his phone then take him to police to write undertaking , this is 2020 don’t settle for blackmail, even his family and show them his messages , tell his friends but don’t give him any money, moreover I are not a star, dare him to release it , tel ur man about it , that would stop the blackmailer
DeleteGo to Badagry and get original jazz. You can decide to command him to delete the nude, erase his memory of you or even turn him to an imbecile.
DeleteYou can't tell your fiance? You're too soft hearted. It's better you get like 500k, arrange for boys to kidnap him in a secure location, threaten his life until he releases everything. Also make sure you're at the venue to collect everything so you don't go from frying pan to fire.
DeleteIf after he is released, he still claims to have any other tapes or pictures, make sure you teach him a big lesson.
You can work on and perfect thi plan. All I'm saying is someone who won't give you peace, make sure he has no peace too.
Peace
Cyber bullying is a crime. If ur new man can’t help u with this, pls cut him lose. Get police involved and silence d foo for life
DeleteAs 4 me, I no get shame o, I go 1st BC am sef. 5million ? U get money to waste aunty
Anon 10:39, if u had spent that money on police, ds matter for don die since , after dealing with him. Stop spending on him, tell ur fiance, after all u were not a virgin b4 u met. If he loves u for u , he’ll support u against ur ex. Good luck
DeleteMadam, how to end this is really simple, go to a law firm and get a legal counsel. Blackmail and extortion is a crime in Nigeria punishable by the law. Hire a lawyer that will go with you to the police station and make an entry. They will help you get your 5 million back and get him to stop blackmailing you. It has happened to a friend of mine and not only did her blackmailer stop blackmailing her, they made him keep his mouth shut about everything. And it was done legally. Please, hire a lawyer or get a legal counsel.
DeleteI know you're scared your fiance will call off the wedding. You probably are waiting until you're married to tell him thinking you'll be safe then. The truth is, you're not. If your fiance can call off your wedding because he finds out about the nudes, he can end your marriage because of the same reason.
DeleteIt's also better your fiance hears it from you than from someone else. I advise you let him know NOW even though your relationship ends. It will hurt if that happens but you'll only be postponing the inevitable.
I also advice you take all evidence of payments to this person and involve the police. Have no mercy in dealing with this blackmailer. What he's doing is a crime and he should pay of it.
There may be a lot of backlash when this happens. I'm assuming you're paying this blackmailer possible because you have a lot you could lose. Your fiance, your reputation, etc. But if you don't put a stop now, you'll have to continue paying this person
If you have spent about 5 million, that means you can afford a lawyer. Get a lawyer!!!!!!! The courts and law exist not just when a wrong has been done, but to prevent the occurrence of harm. Get a lawyer!!!!!!
DeleteExtortion and blackmail are also financial crimes, get a lawyer to help you lodge a complaint with EFCC.
you don't negotiate with a blackmailer, you bring his game to him. Fear and compromise also embolden a blackmailer.
When you take the steps I have recommended, let him try to blackmail you if im get liver. Rubbish!!!!!!!!
You should have called him bluff to start with. 5 million naira, in this era! Tell your fiance and turn the table against him, threaten him and his family. What nonsense!
DeleteThis guy will not stop until he destroys you. Pray before you open up to your fiance so that he will understand your plight.This is what you should do. Go to force headquarters in Abuja and report your case. Yes! I said force headquarters. By the time they are done with him none of his generation will ever think of blackmailing someone again. 😡😡😡 I'm go angry
DeleteOla why should she put up a blame game when tryna come clean with her fiancée?
DeleteYou see why I keep hammering that you are a small boy and should have no business dating at the moment. The best she should do is come out to her man and if he’s sensible and mature he’d understand that people do a whole lot of crazy things when in love and I trust he’d fight her battle with her.
I had a friend who was faced with such situation(Hers was even her rich ex husband was the blackmailer) and this cost her a lot of potential husbands cos she was too scared of confronting her fears but the moment she decided to involve her then fiancée the matter was handled for good. Fear makes you die a thousand times before ones actual death.
You were probably cheating your fiancé with him, if not you would have told him. Or did you tell him you were a virgin?
DeleteWho still sends nude pictures these days .
ReplyDeleteWhat are you saying!!
DeleteLooool..... A lot of people still do!
DeleteThe queue is as long as 3rd mainland bridge, 90% will crop their faces out.
DeleteThe truth is its better not to send at all....in these days of photoshop,dey can attach another pic of ur face to dat of the faceless nude.
DeleteIf someone is so pressed to see a naked body let them watch porn.
I did o. Not too long ago. N even then I was smart enough to know I shouldn't show my face because I am financially more well off than the guy. I met him at nysc camp n hadn't known him long enough n didn't trust him. he was really begging for the pics back then o. Thank God cus he ended up cheating n I happily moved on to someone else.
DeleteA whole lot of girls still send their nudes
DeleteWise words! Hope them go listen
ReplyDeleteNaija girls get coconut head they no dey hear word
DeleteI don't know why some ladies are dumb to the extent of sending nudes to their boyfriends. How do they even sleep at night without the fear of being exposed and disgraced?
ReplyDeleteI don't even support sending nudes to your own husband. Yes, your husband has no reason to be carrying his phone or laptop around with his wife's naked body in it. You see her body everyday, why snap and store in your phone?
This same thing ruined Anita Hogan's career, she was shattered. Forget the fact that the man married her, truth is, she never remained the same.
A man told a story of how a policeman searched his phone and saw his wife's nudes. He felt terrible because he couldn't anything to the policeman and his wife was even there 🙆 .
People never learn. Do they even see anything with it?
I send to hubby but crop my face knowing phone can be hacked any day. Nawa oooo. Why won't i send when he kept pressing laptop in name of work. When i need serious pressing. Abeeg ooo na my husband o
DeleteCan you imagine how the woman would feel???
DeleteSo on point 👌
DeleteEasier said than done. Most people sying..dont send nude...dont send nude will be the one "offing paint" and snapping pussy pix when their pussy is turnioniown.
DeletePeople send nude, just crop out your face.... Simple!!
DeletePeople should stop sending nudes. Simple!
DeleteSome of us like to be freaky and adventurous.
DeleteGOLIBE, I don't want to even imagine it.
DeleteWhiteDove 💜
Anonymous 12:02, Thank You!
Anonymous 12:33, yes, some of you like to be freaky and adventurous enter trouble and fall into depression 😂 😂 😂.. Continue!
DeleteSomething happened in the course of this lock down. My friend's course mates group chat. Someone was celebrating birthday and they were sending messages to wish him a happy birthday. One of them, who got married late last year mistakenly sent a video of his wife masturbating.
DeleteI think he recorded a video call cos he was showing on the other end watching what she was doing. He later started pleading that they should delete the video from their phones.
Why I am sharing this story is that anything can happen. Mistakes happen and you will expose your partner's dignity before the whole world. I don't know how she'll be feeling after that incident. Better not to store the nude in your phone.
Your sex life must be boring or nonexistent. Hence the bitterness. Ur type preaches one thing but does worse perverted things. I've sent nudes n til today noone fit trace those nudes to my face because plenty black pussy with sweet pink center for naija
DeleteAnonymous 15:44, you get sense. 🍷
DeleteAnonymous 17:10, no bitterness whatsoever and I don't do pre marital sex.
You are such a silly girl. Plenty black P**** and sweet pink center for naija? Continue and be ready for the consequences.
Can video sex through WhatsApp be recorded or screenshot? Is it safe?
ReplyDeleteYes It is not safe..
DeleteThere are apps that can screen record a WhatsApp video call and any other thing you feel like screen recording..
@MARTINS
Absolutely dear. Absolutely
DeleteScreenshots are a thing
DeleteOMG!!!
DeleteAaaaahhh
Its true. My friend sent me a funny expression of myself during a video call on WhatsApp and it opened my eyes cause I didn't even get any prompt that she did a screen grab oo.
Also, Martin please can a WhatsApp call be recorded??
It's not safe ,it's can also be screen shot .
Deleteiphone will screen record it perfectly but without the option of audio in it...it can even be screen grabbed
DeleteNo matter what anyone will say, people will still send nudes. Married mena dnw omen and singles do it and it won't stop!
DeleteHere's best practices if you feel hot and have to do that:
If you have to do video sex on whatsapp video call, here's what to do:
1. Make sure not to show your face in any video sex call
2. If you were on a call to your BF/spouse/partner before with your face on, cut the call, then call him back to show your nude from a different angle.
3. Even if he "BEGS" you to show your face, don't. No matter what sweet words or re-assurances you give.
4. When you show your nude, make sure you don't have same clothes you have on when you were doing the actual video call with face on.
The same thing applies to nude photos. DOnt snap pix with your clothes on, and then snap nude pictures with the same clothes in the nude pic (even if your face is not in the nude picture).
Any blackmailer can upload 10 pictures of you with some of it where you are dressed decently (with face on) and some others with the same clothes where you are nude (without your face on) and anyone seeing it will know it's still you.
I hope that helps
Isaac, not only Iphone sef!
DeleteAnon 11:15 thank you. Can't believe some people are so stupid that they need to be told this but I guess common sense no common
DeleteNude pics is none of my business,all I'm seeing is a VERY beautiful Dami.
ReplyDeleteShe truly is beautiful!
DeleteThis advice has been very much said since time immorial...
ReplyDeleteLets just say— a quick reminder.
How about not sending at all?
ReplyDeleteThe best option, but these girls will not hear word.
DeleteSome people have committed suicide and some fallen into depression because of these issues but many brainless girls will still continue.
Ladies don't send nudes and don't allow yourself to be recorded naked or during sex!
If you've made the mistake and you're being blackmailed, report to the police immediately and they will take it up.
Those who have ears let them hear
ReplyDeleteThey will never hear
DeleteI had 2guys then one both stay in Germany and they were friends I have slept with,the other I haven't. I will send nude to the one I haven't fucked and he will show the one I have fucked the nigga I fucked had to beg me to stop sending nudes to his friend as they both sit to analyze my body good thing I cropped my face.
ReplyDeleteYou see your yeye life?
DeleteHow did he know it was you? When you always crop your face out. Abeg softly with the lies.
DeleteAmani, is comprehension your problem sis/bro?
DeleteAmani,is comprehension your problem sis/bro?
DeleteAmani, how about the other guy telling his friend her name and number, and a picture of her face.
DeleteI dont support sending nude pictures either to your husband/boyfriend or a guy sending to his wife/girlfriend, it doesn't secure anything because it might get into a wrong hand and before you know it you become a victim.
ReplyDeleteI have had situations where you are helping Someone do something on his or her phone, before you know it you start seeing nude pictures and videos everywhere, then the person tells,I dont even know how these pictures got into my phone or some will say there are some bad pictures there,even the elderly men do that alot, I just wonder what satisfaction a person gets from looking at nudes.
May God continue to help us, because this our open eyes is becoming something else.
good morning stella, please check i sent you an email.
ReplyDeleteWhat is classic about this rubbish? Why didn't she tell them nor to even send at all. Must u send a nude pic? The guy can even attach your head in it
ReplyDeleteI tire oh.
DeleteThat "classic" just drain me
I have some nude pictures of one stupid girl that keeps asking for money from my Man. I got it from his phone. They actually started chatting before we started dating but they have never met. She's in another country. I checked her on Facebook and she is the worship leader in her church. How a woman can send pictures of herself without cropping out her face baffles me.
ReplyDeleteI use to send nudes a lot and I also have theirs wit his face and dick in view. If he blackmails me, I do same to him. Till my boyfriend's oyibo wife for papers saw the pix and videos. I also made him send hers, so we all have our sexy videos.
ReplyDeleteVery good advice up there. But the guy can still attach the head. Why send ur nudes in the first place abi wen u guys are having sex he isnur seeing ur body dat he needs momento.Even if its a boyfriend, husband,admirer no do oo but Naija gals no go hear.5 million is small she will pay more if she doesn't tell d husband to be.
ReplyDelete#rare gem
I was once that foolish. Sent nudes with my face to my ex boyfriend in Canada. The wicked guy sent the pictures to his cousin. It was his cousin that told me later. The shocking aspect of it is that this guy pretended to be so much in love with me. He used to send me money and was always chatting with me and calling me on phone. I didn't know I was just a pastime. Ladies be careful. No matter how much in love you think you are, never send your nudes! It's even degrading now that I think of it. No man that really values you would ask for your nudes except if he's just a weird fellow
ReplyDeleteAmani will say you should sofry lie now😂😂😂
DeleteAnon 11:44
Delete😘😘😘@your last statement
#Yemi#
@anon 10:39 you can’t continue like this. You have 2 options, tell your fiancée and get him arrested or pay some boys to go to his house, they don’t have to beat them. Their only job would be to make him strip naked and take an embarrassing video of him while naked. There you have it. Show him that 2 can play the game if he ever tries that nonsense
ReplyDeleteNudes looks really disgusting. I dont know. I cant relate jare. If you want to have sex with somebody, you go on and do it: whats sending nudes?
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ReplyDeleteDon't you have shame? Soon to be ex bawo. He will ex you also very very soon
DeletePlease don't even send your nudes at all except he's your husband or she's your wife. And u must be careful with your face too.
ReplyDeleteEven to my spouse sef, it's a No No
DeleteA lot of people r guilty of dis
ReplyDeleteI'm also among
Why would you send your nude picture to anyone in the first place? Abeg let's stop encouraging immorality and stupidity because we want to appear woke.
ReplyDeleteMy problem is the women gave men the power to blackmail them with their nudes and so, what is the big deal about nudes sef ?
ReplyDeleteDo like Salawa Abeni bring it out ahead of his own.
No one is above mistake....but still d guy is an idiot nd dosent need to live to tell the story
ReplyDeleteLoud the sermon sis....
ReplyDelete