WEDNESDAY IHN

In house news don land eeeeeeeh................

My people wetin dey play?

Una well done oh....

Does anyone have things they ant to sell for Easter and will deliver to their buyers?if yes have it all sorted out on how to deliver then please send me advert.......
Where are those people selling foodstuff?why don't you advertise and do house deliveries when you make sales....

This would have been a time for anyone smart to make money...Package your things well and sell.......Of course you will collect delivery money as well....it would help those who dont wanna leave their houses..

Abi i no make sense?


Talking about shopping,on Saturday I am going over to African shop to buy a carton of Indomie noodles and plantain for my Bambis..They love and i have run out of.....Kids love indomie too much..My boys eat indomie every night and they cook it themselves....I love that they have become independent so i am encouraging them cos it takes cooking stress off me.....
No be kitchen dem born me...LOL


Na so!!!





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THE TALKING TOHTOH


Hi Stella, it's BV *********

I have not really been commenting a lot cos of network issues here but I do read all posts especially at night, my prayer is that the good Lord sees us through this trying period...Amen.


I don't know where this fits, I don't even know if it's worth posting, but if u think it is, then post anywhere.


This staying at home has made us to have lots of time to think and remember past events... though with kids every minute is filled with activities.
So I just remembered something that happened to me when I delivered my second baby and I felt I should share with my fellow bvs especially the females. I was delivered of a beautiful baby gal on Nov.24th last year, mumsy was around so even from the hospital she started the tummy massage with hot water and all. Did this everyday morning and night for 2 weeks and then once a day for the next one week. 


As I wasn't given an episiotomy (unlike my first), the pains I felt wasn't much. In fact , I was wearing shorts, leggings...etc a day after delivery ( I couldn't do all these when I had my first child cos of the episiotomy). So I felt, now I'm gonna sit, walk, keep legs anyhow I like.


Then 3 weeks postpartum, I noticed that when I walk there's this funny noise that emanates from my VJ, like kwirim kwirim...I thought it's maybe something that happens after delivery of subsequent children cos I'm sure I never experienced it during my first. But as the days go by, it kept going on, I didn't know what to do. 

I was expecting mum or my hubby to even ask me cos the sound to me was audible enough but they didn't so I suspected it might not be that loud...but I know I didn't like this one bit. 

I began thinking of what to do, I thought of calling my elder sis to ask her, I thought of calling my aunt who was a nurse, I considered telling mumsy but i didn't feel like discussing this yet with anyone. That was when I thought why not I go to the hospital where I delivered, it's just a stone throw from my house. It was in the course of preparing to go that I now remembered an event.


So there was this Monday I went for ANC in the hospital, I went late so I was the second to the last person. While waiting for the doctor I had this sick feeling, I felt like throwing up. So I went behind a window, there was a bench so I sat down waiting for the sick feeling to pass. While there, I overheard a woman talking to the midwife ( I wasn't trying to eavesdrop or something but I can't block my ears nah...lol). 

So the woman was asking the midwife what she could do, that since after having her baby, she has being noticing that her vj makes sound whenever she is walking. That her husband is even complaining as the sound is embarrassing. 


The midwife asked her when she put to bed, she said it's up to 6 months. She asked her if she was sitting with her legs closed together after she delivered, the woman said not really. There was no episiotomy so she did things anyhow she liked. The nurse told her that what she did was wrong, episiotomy or not, that a baby passed through there, so she should have sat with her legs closed at least for a week post partum to allow her heal properly. 

But that anyway, since it has occurred she should from then henceforth sit with her legs closed tightly and then do sitz bath twice or thrice a day if possible. Told she will get better but it might take time seeing that it's already months this had been happening. The midwife was still trying to say something else when I heard a nurse my name, I had to hurry in to see the doctor and after I left and forgot the whole episode.


So when I had this flashback, I decided to practice what the midwife said to that woman, I decided I will do it for 2 weeks and if there was no improvement then I will go and see the doctor. That was how I started sit bathing morning and night, after like 4 days I noticed the sound has reduced drastically, in fact, I couldn't even hear it sometimes. I continued and by one week, I couldn't hear anything at all. I resolved I must do it till the 2 weeks I initially thought and I did it, all these time I was free. After 2 weeks, I stopped, I was afraid it might come back when I stop doing it but nothing came back. My baby will be 5 months on the 24th of this month and till now I never felt nor heard the sound again.


I'm not a medical personnel so I don't know the rationale behind this, if u do u can tell us. I only wanted to share my experience so that others can learn from it. May God continue to bless all the mothers and the expectant mums. For those wanting the fruit of the womb, the good Lord will grant you your heart desires according to riches and glory.


Stella nwanyi oma, ngwa kwnezialu m your Bambinos.
Let's all stay safe wherever we are.
N.B...biko there might be errors as I couldn't proof read






Someone might learn from this indeed oooh...Thank you...I removed you Blog ID before they turn Kwirim kwirim to your second name here,u know how BVs are...heheheheheheehhehehe








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