Some couples (both married and dating)are just beginning to know each other well with the lock down....
Some stories are sweet and some are not...
Some don't want the lock down to end,
some cannot wait for it to end...
Some marriages will be renewed after the lock down
Some will end,I know a Marriage of 5 years on this side that ended after two weeks of lock down...Not been able to find out why yet but really sad.
Some relationships will lead to Marriage after lock down and some will end.
Some side chicks will even lose their sugar daddies to the original owners..
Let us hear lock down tales oh.....
I don't have any because hubby is mandated to work....lol
Let us gist....
Here to read comments
ReplyDelete🍿🍿🍿🥤🥤🥤
Shift small...
DeletePlease add coke
Please adjust a bit and lemme join ya #Paris... Since you've brought the pop corn already lemme buy the drinks😂😂
Delete🍹🍹🍹🍻
Cheers in advance 😁😁
I need some kfc chicken wings
DeleteHere to read comments too 😏
Deletemy happiness is that after this lock down
DeleteAwon side chick would have learnt valuable lesson in owning your own man
Tongue click *
Paris, I want rice oooh
DeleteMummy, SideChics learn nothing!!! These Men will rush to them once this is over
Paris, more popcorn pls
Delete😄
its been blissful and dramatic once in a while.
ReplyDeletebut am having a nice time😊
Isaac baba are u married? hope u are not .....lol
DeleteIssac Huh?
DeleteIsaac are you trying to tell us something 😄
DeleteHubby's been working from home, and the kids get to see him more often, so it's play time for them.
ReplyDeleteHe's been helpful before the lockdown, but more so now.
I am on your table as well..
DeleteHubz working from home,the kids and I can't get enough of him.. Has always been a hands-on dad/hubby,intensely helps with domestic chores, still same.
Would be lying if I said I ain't enjoying the lock down though.
However, I WANT IT TO END!
.. Miss being out and about.. Visiting coffee shops n shii..trips to the malls..😩
España, wtf!
People are knocking at the doors and gates of neighbours begging for this and that
ReplyDeleteSome people are having a hard time. If you have, you can share with them.
DeleteSluttychic.
😔💔
DeleteEhya, God will help us all
DeleteMine already happened in 2016 when we both lost our jobs. That was the first time we would stay in the same space continually for months. Found out we had close to nothing in common.Fell into depression. Still there but just my body. My spirit wanders between social media, television, my business and anything to while away time. My kids are 8 and 6 years old. I would have to make the sacrifice for them. Thanks to SDK blog for keeping me going.
ReplyDeleteAaaaww Anonymous 14:47, I pray God heals your home, your hearts and let you both love each other like you used too and not just because of the kids.
DeleteContinue to be strong, marriage is hardwork but it will get easier by the day.
Wishing you all the best 💕
Anon 14:47 you sound like someone I know.
DeleteE hugs dear
DeleteMy parents have been so lovey dovey since the Abia state lockdown. No more quarrels and stuff. Awwwww🥰🥰🥰
ReplyDeleteWent to visit this guy and cooked for him, he's been mushy and in love already 😂 these Caucasians can mumu sha! Dude don't mind driving miles to come pick me.
ReplyDeleteI have told him the day police will catch him, he will pay the fine alone...he has been using the key worker line for me🙄🙄 because I'm a key worker
LOL. You sound in love yourself. 😉
DeleteCooking is a pretty big deal.
Lol, the guy loves you already
DeleteAn an, aproko, gist me naa 😁 una no shift bed small? Lol
DeleteSha don't infect patients if ure a healthcare worker or innocent students if ure a teacher with infection after sleeping around.
DeleteNonsense 🥴😏
@blackie, I don't want it to end in premium tears😂 but then again! Na bed I shift, I no kill person😂😂😂😂
Delete@Perxian, 😂😂 had to because I'm not ready to eat potty
@slimzy, na so we see am oo
I am going to finally wear that asoebi that we promised each other hehehe 😊😊😊
DeleteMy sweetheart is falling in love 💃🏽💃🏽💃🏽💃🏽
Aproko queen, blushing kn your behalf 😊😍
DeleteMs A, I will wear yours first😂😂 anon in abroad we're still interested o
DeleteAproko queen, you dey Gwinnett? I go love o!
DeleteThis made me smile 😉😊
DeleteHo!Ho!Ho!
DeleteEnjoy jare!!
Awwwww this is lovely.😍
DeleteOyibo men can do anything including taking dangerous risks when inlove.....
DeleteEnjoy yourself otemwen, I'm expecting some cute biracial kids after everything😆😆😆
It’s two weeks since we started quarantine In Lagos. My husband hasn’t asked for sex or show signs he really wants it, the last time we had sex was first week of January and it wasn’t comfortable coz I was about to pop, I later gave birth that same January and since then we have not had sex, only hugs n kisses once in a while and he taps my ass and rubs my boobs playfully as usual. Although before pregnancy too I initiate most sex. Even if he has been cheating, this two weeks dat we have been together he hasn’t asked for sex, the question running through my head is doesn’t he find me attractive anymore? I don’t have issues initiating sex first but I’m trying not to initiate it first as I was the one that made the first move after three months of birthing my first children too, I really want to know if I’m not sexually attractive to him anymore especially now that we are indoor and not going out at all.
ReplyDeleteNB: I was size 12 but now close 14 coz I’m breastfeeding, I’m tall so I’m not even fat, I clean my self real good, bath morning and night. I wear my skimpy clothes same way I do before giving birth so my dressings can’t be a turn off.
I haven’t had vagina delivery just CS and I’m perfectly fine since.
Is it that men don’t like nursing mothers? Tho this is my last child as my first was multiple so I don’t plan going through this anymore, we both don’t want kids again. Please how do I go about this dear family.
Ask him if he has any issue with your attractiveness and what he wants you to do.
DeleteSis, i believe he’s more worried about the state of your general wellbeing. Men are kinda sensitive around pregnacy and Nursing.. Like should he be sucking your breast when you are lactating. 😂
DeleteSize 14 for a tall lady is not fat nau.Doesnt he get the urge when he fondles you and all?Are the kids always all over the place such that you guys hardly have enough privacy to do the do?perhaps you should try and initiate it again this time and hopefully,he wil take it up from there.He might even feel you are not in the mood cos of the baby and all..just make the move to let him know you are ready for it.
DeleteYou didn't add how he was before the kids started coming. Has he always been this way or you noticed after the birth of your first child? This will help us to answer your question.
DeletePerhaps he's too considerate and wonder your body may not be ready yet. There are people like that, men who feel you have to be physically, emotionally and psychologically ready. Men who turning them down is enough to kill them. But if you initiate, Oga will follow bumper to bumper.
DeleteI think he is the type that loves bin toasted...pretend fake phone call with a friend and gist about how her hubby has been doing her to his hearing, make sure u chip in she just gave birth..let's see if that would move him to do same.goodluck
DeleteAaaaww, I don't think you should always be the one initiating sex. Has it always been like this before you had kids?
DeleteA man might not want to disturb you but you can see it all over them when they are hungry for sex, they start saying good things, try to help you do anything.
It depends on your relationship again with your husband, I think you should discuss it with him 🤷🏾♀️
He might not be sure if you are totally healed or not. He is your husband, initiate the move or give him clues, or rather send him an erotic text message. Give him a full body massage, spank his bumbum. Trust me, he go corporate sharp sharp. He is your husband, he likes your body die. Don't ever think otherwise. Most men use to look Foward to after pregnancy and delivery so return to their freaky freaky.
DeleteMy sister tell him you want sex, in fact you need am, why should he initiate it when na you need am? Don't be shy, he is yours and yours to keep nah. Abi you wan wait till he is the mood? This is the best time to do the do.😉😉😉😉😉😉
DeleteMadam you don't have a problem. Initiate sharply I think he the rare sensitive kind, hence the tapping of ass and being playful etc. Let him know you have healed and you are ready to do the do by your actions.
DeleteBuy seduction kits and love me packages from Kayanmatan sellers on IG..if I post their pages now..Stella won't post .Wear nice perfumes as well.hope u don't have body odour?
DeleteI wonder why some women always add this "but I'm not fat" all the time as if some men do not like fat ladies. Pls, discuss with your hubby and let him know you are ready to resume love-making.
DeleteTalk to your husband, he might be scared not to hurt you!!
DeleteI’m the poster and I’m so touched at how you are kind with your words. God bless you all.
DeleteWe usually enjoyed sex together and won’t turn me down if I make the move, just that I want to have that feeling of him wanting me, you get? I don’t know if him seeing me in the theater while bleeding excessively is also affecting him coz he is doing like my elder brother. He makes sure I and the kids are fine, cooks us meals but he won’t just initiate the sex. And I’m beginning to be worried, I don’t know if I’m paranoid. I love you all
Madam E I wonder o. I am fat and my husband and I still have sex plenty plenty. I beg women stop putting that fat like it’s the blocking agent. My husband is also not as attractive as he was when we first met so it’s a 2 way thing. Let him come and birth the children. Nonsense!!!
DeletePoster please talk to him about it. Don't be shy about it,feel free to tell him what you want and how you feel.
DeleteOP, that’s a good man you ve got right there. Initiate and let him know that everything is fine. Make yourself irresistible and he will get the drift. 😉
DeleteStella you na aproko number one
ReplyDeleteSometimes I wish I’m not married to this man, he doesn’t know his duty is to sexually satisfy me, his big dick is just decoration. He has touched me since the lock down, and me sef Dey My Dey jeje.
ReplyDeleteHmmmmm, why not speak to him about it
DeleteThe dick is yours now, go get it 😂
DeleteSluttychic.
🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
DeleteThis is so damn hilarious, Omg! Why don't you try to initiate love making huh? I love sex n enjoy it but after the birth of my second child my libido went straight to hell, like sex is a chore for me now but my hubby likes it whenever I initiate sex, so I go to him sometimes even when I am not interested, what haven't I taken, i even ordered for goron tula, i have taken many things but no show.
Ang better don't come here and tell me that I am paying for not abstaining from pre marital sex🙄😂😂. My hubby told me stop being uptight about it and relax, how I for do eh?
Melancholy
🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄. You better go and possess your possession.
DeleteYou dey your dey jeje, but you dey feel pain both in your heart and for your honeypot.
DeleteYou better go and enjoy his member. No, his member is not for design, its supposed to roger your honeypot earnestly.
You should also know your duty "sexually"
He called me yesterday after he has sent money for me to stock up earlier,telling me how he missed me wish he's laying beside me, he also sent 50k for me to manage this Easter, well after the lockdown we see.
ReplyDeleteIs he your husband or boyfriend? If you are his side vulture your relationship is doomed. He is like a dog returning to his vomit.
DeletePele o,Oloriburuku Side Chick.Continue collecting the money he is sending to u.After lockdown,any unholy meeting u have with any married man will end in sorrow for you.Amen.
Delete😂😂😂😂😂 Easy on her she is not the cause of your problems.
DeleteHe cheats on me so this lock down is not any opportunity kan kan coz he will still cheat after. I didn’t make any move towards him and he didn’t do so too, let us be looking at our selves and be co parenting our kids, I can’t go and be seducing a man that will probably infect me with a disease. When the lock down is over I will get myself a dildo, I will be 35 this year and my marriage will be five years.
ReplyDeleteYou tell my story
DeleteNa dildo de my mind at this point
My own no de same state with me and the kids
He zapped out immediately he heard lockdown
As for me,i'm spending my lockdown with my family after leaving the state i'm serving . My dad and my two siblings bcos my mum and dad are separated. I was thinking of spending it with my boo before bt I just cancelled the thought. I ll b reading comments.
ReplyDeleteMy sister told me that in her 8years of marriage her husband just prepared food for her like real food, although they are not always together, I just told her to snap nnd send 😂😂😂😂
ReplyDeleteHow cute
DeleteMelancholy
That's nice of her husband
DeleteFrom my side,no lock down tales.Hubby is still going out everyday of the week as he runs a pharmacy shop.He leaves 7am and comes back 9pm,bizness man. I am not really happy because I thought we could use this time to bond cos since 2018 we married, we have never had a single day with just us,together. He must go open his shop even on Christmas day and new year.I have talk tire..I pray he gets a government job then he will be forced to spend time with I and our son and at least he will add small flesh.
ReplyDeleteYour husband is not considerate at all!
DeleteI can't even imagine how you're feeling... The Lord is your strength 🤗🤗
Eya, sorry Anonymous 15:03. I pray peace and love into your home. Maybe you should tell him it can be lonely atimes cos I can imagine ure going through the baby stress plus cooking and house chores alone.
DeleteMay God touch his heart or advice him to get a sales person or if ure not breastfeeding, let him stay at home on some days with the baby while you go to the shop so he understands what you go through.
Wishing you all the best 💕
Aunty you met your husband like that. He is a business owner and maybe he can't afford to hire a salesperson. Even if he could, in Naija, they will tief your money tire. In the country where I am, farmers feed their animals and care for their animals even on Christmas day. The man is like Boaz in the bible. Ruth had to go look for him in his field. Send him out in the morning with prayers and receive him with good food and prayers.
DeleteHe is hardworking sha. Pls leave him to make sacrifices and grow the business now. He can later on employ people/someone and have more time for the family.
DeletePhoenix, I'll have to disagree with your comment.
DeleteDo you have an idea how a sexually starved wife behaves?
Then, add emotionally and mentally.
Please, this is not matter of being hardworking. He should find a balance.
I'll prefer to remain as I am without a man, than have a man and he will not be there to satisfy my needs, especially during lockdown.
He is a selfish man.
This anonymous is a good woman and I applaud her.
Mrs A dats not me at all
DeleteNa my friend yarn me this one 😊
ReplyDeleteThe "occupational hazards" of side chikitos.
So madam left house to travel by air to see her mama.
Oga on top no sabi say them flight dey cancelled and he don call side tolotolo to come chop forbidden fruits. This marriage never pass one and half years o.
So madam been come into the house around midnight with her own keys. Sitting room and dinning dey scattered. Strange woman shoe dey for patio. She enter bedroom, come meet side turkey with oga on top
as them dey naked under the sheet dey sleep -heavy from ogogoro consumption.😮
Madam no make noise at all. She just search, collect side turkey clothes, shoes, pants, put all inside plastic bag. She collect them two phones. Next, she lock wardrobes and collect keys. She lock front and back burglary proofs and collect keys. She make sure say no clothes dey there wey side turkey fit wear.
Aha, madam come go neighbor house do "vigil" collect the remaining raw gist. Early mor mor, she call oga on top mama, yarn am say oga
dey very sick in coma and dey inside house. She sabi say oga mama go come as she be retired law enforcement, even as lock down never take hold proper.
Na so drama start o. Oga mama land with doctor (and na female doctor o) and hospital vehicle. Madam emerge from hiding unlock the front burglary proof and na so oga on top and side chicken run enter bathroom lock am.
The drama wey ensue eh... tori long o... 😮😮😮
Continue how dare you stop! Please na
DeleteCome and finish it🤣🤣
DeleteMelancholy
Monkey go market he nor return hahaha 😂😂😂
DeleteThat Madam is a very patient person
Please continue.........
Delete😁😁😁😂😂mata dn cast
DeleteLies and ANG
DeletePlease finish it😂😃😂
DeleteMy own is that my V is on fire.Hubby wants sex everyday.Na wah!
ReplyDeleteLucky you, have you read comments on here at all?
Delete😩😩
DeleteYou are blessed!
DeleteSame here and I am in my third trimester. I am enjoying it though, it shows I am still attractive and sexy even as a pregnant mama🤑
DeleteOver blessed 🤣🤣
DeleteJust continue to collect legitimate pounding 😂😂😂
DeleteSame here, he doesn't mind my condition, i am tired already.
DeleteNa so e suppose be.... Abeg, enjoy am well well.
DeleteAt least, you have five days off
I'm enjoying this time with my family more. No time for valueless quarrels. We are all good
ReplyDeleteI hope to be on the table of relationship that will lead to marriage after lock down
ReplyDeleteAmen 🙏
DeleteAmen 🙏
DeleteIt is settled in Jesus name...Amen
DeleteAmen
DeleteAn old friend of mine called on Sunday, she sounded so frustrated so i urged her to speak out,she said that finally her marriage will soon be over, that her husband said he wants a divorce. She narrated how irresponsible he has been to her and the kids. Then she dropped the bomb shell, she has been looking forward to ending her relationship, she started dating 2men this January and it has been awesome. She said that sex with her husband is awful, but the guys are giving it to her very well. I wished her well anyways,because i found what she said very disgusting .Never at a time she mentioned that the husband cheated, it's just about money,finances etc.
ReplyDeleteThat's enough reason na.. you cAnt sleep with someone who doesn't provide for his kids and be happy
DeleteHow sad!
DeleteMelancholy
Okay nah.... Some are married prostitute 🚶🏽♀️🚶🏽♀️🚶🏽♀️🚶🏽♀️
DeleteI think i know her, fair, banker,slim, ibo married to a yoruba
Deleteuhmmmmm
DeleteMine is sooo funny, I am a doctor so I work while he is a business man, so he is on lockdown with the kids.
ReplyDeleteHe calls one billion times everyday asking annoying questions like " kedu ife m ga eme nwa ka o nodu nwayo?" "Isi na awa m", "ike agwugo m".
He even cried once, hahahaha
This is someone that thinks domestic duties are not hard, now he is crying.
Although the house is always a mess when I get home, so I clean till past midnight.
Well, he is seriously bonding with the kids. The kids are also learning a lot, saw some nice drawings and crafts they did. My little baby can now sleep without me kissing him goodnight: this is getting me jealous sha.
All the same its all good.
Another thing eh, he has not been demanding for sex as before, he sleeps off immediately he gets to bed and snores these days, guess he is totally tired, lol.
Nkem you are a darling hahahaha.
😍😍😍too cute
DeleteAwwh really nice.. Please can you interpret the igbo part for we non igbos
DeleteSweet!😊
DeleteThis is nice
DeleteLovely 😍
DeleteO my, the igbo part got me 😂😂😂, I don't even understand what it means.
DeleteYour husband is the real MVP, thumps up to him 👍👍👍
DeleteAnon 15:42:
Delete1) what can I do to make this child stay still (or in one place)
2) I have a head ache
3) I am tired.
Anon here:
DeleteWhat can I do to make this child stay quiet, my head is aching, I'm tired🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
Hahahahaha
DeleteNow they know
Interpretation: What should I do for this child to stay in one place or to make this child stay in one place.
DeleteI have a headache.
I am tired.
😍😍😍
DeleteHahahaaaa
DeleteWhat can I do so that this child can keep quiet, am having a headache, am seriously tired🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
DeleteAwwwh.. Thanks everyone for the interpretations. Your husband is funny🤣😀 Now he'll appreciate you better. Women are really doing amazing!
DeleteI'll be reading comments.
ReplyDeleteI entered trouble during lockdown , I got the virus and knew my boyfriend gave it to me, but let him think I had it and he did not. When he thought he gave it to me, he was saying sorry, you will get better we can work through it and was crying. When I allowed him think that I had it but he didn’t and I asked him can he visit me and risk it he said no, he would change his mind and ultimately say no. Anyway so we broke up, I then told him the truth that he was the asymptomatic carrier as I had had a negative test before. I said I was willing to be with him despite that but now I know he doesn’t love like I do. By God’s grace I’m recovering. He is no my ex boyfriend. I will never manage with a man again. He is educated but currently unemployed and in nearly £100,000 debt. I was willing to marry him and pay it off as my career path earns more. My birthday is coming up soon and I’m sad. But I am never giving anyone a chance again. I would have died for him, but look how conditional his love was. I pray we all find mutual love in Jesus’ name. This all happened this week and is fresh. My heart shall mend quickly in Jesus’ name.
ReplyDeleteYou deserve better 😘😘😘
DeleteOh anon, you will be fine. Get well soon.
DeleteAmen to your prayer. You deserve better. Be well sis 😘😘
Sluttychic.
Amen
DeleteMost men hardly sacrifice anything for their women. But most women can even sell their soul for their men. May God direct us always o
DeleteGet well soon that's my prayer for you. All other things will take shape by God's grace.
DeleteAmen...you will get someone better soon.😘
DeleteJust put your mind at rest, you need it now to help you recover fast, you will recover and you will be better off. Peace
DeleteMe and hubby haven't spent so much time together but thanks to lockdown it's been amazing for me. Plenty gisting,gbensing, playing and knowing ourselves better.
ReplyDelete.. As it should be!!!!!
DeleteNice...nice.
DeleteOld man, that they are sending errand in this Corona time and he is going. I am so irritated. Yesterday, he said he wants to stroll out and I was like that is good at least stretch your feet since you have been home all week, guess what? Broda waka go visit person, that stays like 5 streets away. I was angry but I let it slide. Only for the uncle today that has been sleeping anyhow Which is not bad, to receive a call and he tells me he is going to lekki to collect something. The thing just annoyed me .Ahhh Han busy body waka. I told him before he left that if I get it through him, I go torment am. Cos it should be necessary outing, not busy body movement in this era. I have brothers and they have sat their asses at home with their families. Abi dem get two head ni. I am so angry.
ReplyDeleteSorry my dear 😔
DeleteWe are enjoying each other to the max. 😁
ReplyDeleteYou deserve it ��
DeleteSluttychic.
Enjoy 💞
Delete❤
DeleteI am in love, met this cute dude weeks before the lockdown. He traveled and had to rush down before the lockdown was enforced. He lives down my street, so walks down or even drives down to see me every morning and evening. Hmm! It's been an amazing lockdown for me. 😍😍😍. I am falling in love. To think my boyfriend was giving me headache. Me am acting up now and I think he has noticed. I rarely call or text and has been doing all the calling, I love you and complaining I seem not to care. Na dumping things o. I deserve better too.
ReplyDeleteDump your boyfriend, wait for the lockdown to end and watch that cute nigga dump you. Ungrateful being.
DeleteOlodo, you don dey do osho free for a guy that lives down your street? Classless thing🥴.
DeleteLockdown will soon be over and we will be waiting to hear how he dumped you but please don't come on here crying say you get belle cos no one will be contributing money for you 😏🥴.
Ole
I think you are in for a rude awakening. This street relationship is too convenient right now, don’t you think?
DeleteNyways, enjoy!
I'm enjoying every bit of it except.......
ReplyDeleteMy wife hardly allows me touch her, it's always one excuse on another. Why did we get married if having sex wont be part of the package? If she didnt wanna be fucked, she should've stayed single!!! I am pissed, honestly speaking. For 3 weeks now, she has constantly said NO! My head game is lit, she can attest to my prowess, but Why turning me constantly? In our 3 years of marriage I can confidently count how many times we've had it. How long will I continue to beg for my right? I have told her, There's a limit to human endurance, dont come and cry foul later.
ReplyDeleteOga it's well with you
DeleteOga, there's something ure doing wrong. Speak to your wife and I'm sure all of this will be sorted 🤷🏾♀️
DeleteI hope she has not caught you cheating but refused to confront you.
DeleteI dated such a girl and I ran far away. She is the real meaning of excuse. She can't allow sex for more than 25mins. She don't have sex mood ever.
DeleteSuch women are very beautiful, and mostly sexys and .
so SELFISH. U can't even wake her up at night to have sex, they see sex as a gift to u the husband. They only have sex for procreation and not for enjoyment.
She need to take more avocado pear, bananas and pepper soup.
I thank God I married a lady and we went to marriage class in a Catholic church.
I recommend couple to undergo marriage classes in a church where they will teach them all about marriage, spiritual and physical life, in-law treatment,family planning and good sex education etc.
Dear young guys, gals that are dark, with average beauty, with average shape. Na them Sabi fuck well 247 too.
Oga, do you have children? If so how many? Has she always had a low sex drive? Have you tried to address it together? Are you sure she really enjoys that your head game? Do you just ram your thing in not caring if she is lubricated or not? Your ranting will not solve anything. You need to let her know that sex is a non negotiable for you.
Delete1. Brush your teeth regularly
Delete2. Take your bath twice daily
3. Use deodorant
4. Wear sexy boxers
5. Prepare meals and help out with the kids (if any)
You and your wife really need to talk. Have a heart to heart discussion with her, you may ask her if there are things bothering her mind.
Delete16:35 Correct! 😁
DeleteIt is quite a pity what you're passing through. You may have to talk with her again in love so you guys can find a way to bond...even if it's caressing & smooching. Pelee oo
DeleteAlone with my children, we are doing good
ReplyDeleteSame here too
DeleteAlone with the kids and we are doing great!
Finally found who I'm in the same boat with. Would be interested to know why you guys are alone. I'm alone with the kids as well coz hubby is offshore but for me its hard. My 2 year old daughter is always asking when daddy is coming home.. Sigh
DeleteThis lockdown did what i should consider good or something that cleared my suspicion .when I met my husband for the first time, he wanted to have sex with me but i refused, he begged like a puppy to suck me,it was weird to me then and I have never heard a thing like that. So after marriage, he enjoyed sucking me but it's very painful cos he usually bites. After a while, he reduced and eventually stopped doing that to me .i don't bother to complaining cos i don't enjoy it. This is my 14th year of marriage, and this lockdown is the only time in 14 years that we actually stay together for complete 2weeks,Oga has been demanding to suck but i refused initially,after some days i gave in,guess what, he is now an expert, grooving his tongue 360 degrees and saying some weird shit,i suspect that he has gone and perfect his skills on others women all these years.Then i asked him who and how he learned to do it well,he replied that he has been doing that to me since we got married, i asked what made him stop,he said nothing, how come he's now an expert still no response just guilty smile all over his face.After this lockdown i will snoop seriously, infact I've been snooping since then yet no clue. He is not a careful type but if he has become a chameleon over night, i don't know.
ReplyDeleteSigh! You know what they say ..snoop and you shall find.
DeleteBe careful what you seek for. 🤷🏻♀️
Madam bikonu careful with the snooping,inugo 😂😂😂😂😂
Delete😂😂😂😂😂😂😂 practice makes perfect nahh
DeleteMadam, I hope you've prepared your with all the "lly" before going on this journey of snoopy.
DeleteI wish you luck and strength 😊😊😊
Why not relax and thank God fr answered prayer or were you not asking for this? Just allow sleeping dogs lie bc you will cause your heart bleed to get hypertensive unnecessarily. I believe God will surely punish any spouse that broke the vow of their marriage.
DeleteFor me, once a spouse is living to his/her responsibility, I don't think there is need to snoop or bother unnecessarily for peace and sanity sake, mbok.
I miss my handsonme boyfriend, I love him, and he loves me too cos he knows I'm not trying to break his home, he cares so much about me, and just makes me a happy lady. He has travelled to meet his family, so just video sex for now, I don't care if he has sex with his wife or nah, but he kind of thinks I'm hurting or jealous that he's there miss him like crazy though.
ReplyDeleteThief go get your own man, second fiddle. Are you so undesirable that you can’t get your own man.
DeleteSide vulture, your time is over. See what you are reduced to! You are a wicked girl. Not trying to scatter his home indeed. Mcheeewww. BY the way he does not love you. He loves himself for being able to have his cake and eat it.
DeleteWeldone ma.... carry on oh
DeleteI love him and he loves me too, but he has gone to spend the lockdown with his "legal family".
DeleteLove kill you there Ojukokoro, olori buruku.
Don't forget that what goes around, comes around and whatever one sows, one will reap. Make hay while d sun shines, inugo?
DeleteIt's been amazing. We've been bonding and we play a lot when he isn't working. (he's working from home) Sex is good too. I'm almost due so my big tummy is getting in the way but we've been trying out other styles.( after sex, he's always apologizing to the baby for the discomfort. Lol) I've been cooking a lot too. Before Corona, I never cooked as much. It was mostly just dinner cos he leaves very early for work and gets back in the evening. but I cook at least twice a day now. My husband always wants to chew. Been making varieties too and learning new stuff online. It's been great all in all.
ReplyDeleteWay to go girl😚
DeleteAwww well done girl👍
DeleteMay God bless your home. You will deliver safely in Jesus name
DeleteGod keep and bless your home. I wish you easy and safe delivery
DeleteI like😍...wishing you safe delivery.
DeleteThank you everyone. 😘😘😘 Amen, Amen and Amen to your prayers!
DeleteI am so enjoying this lockdown, I dont want it to end anytime soon. I have never had this much rest.
ReplyDeleteA friend was shocked that I was so happy about it yesterday.
I work 8am to 5pm and have two little babies and hubby to cater for, with no help.
So you can imagine my joy eating, sleeping, Netflix and chilling with my family.
Though, I am working from home, but no stress of waking early, shuttling daycare and all.
Plus, I realised my quarrels with hubby were stress-induced. No more quarrels o, we are so good now.
Enjoy 👏👏
DeleteGod bless you and may He continue to keep your home in peace.... At least, you realised where little quarrels were coming from and immediately find a solution to it.
DeleteAs for me, I am enjoying the lockdown with my family. No complain here.
ReplyDeleteThe only complain is food.
Una doh.
Abeg not amazing, i am officially tired of washing dishes. Omg!!!!
ReplyDeleteWhen i told DH, he asked would i rather cook so he can do dishes?
I am honestly thinking about cooking but the thing is i haven't cooked in years since he does all d cooking.
I'm confused.
Don't ask me to buy a dish washer, i have no space in my kitchen.
I will still suggest you buy a dishwasher.
DeleteYou can wash dishes immediately after being use, don't heap them in the sink.
My medical doctor fiance left me last year because I couldn't give him the money he requested from me to enable him to go to Canada for one exam like that. And I am nothing but a teacher. How much is my salary?
ReplyDeleteGive him money..... Some men are shameless
DeleteU had a lucky escape. So he left u for that??That kind will be expecting u to foot all the bills in the house. I beg just thank ur stars and move on.
DeleteThat man is not your man...how did he expect you to get the money?
DeleteMe I've discovered my husband is a workaholic. If u don't tell him to stop working, he will not stop.
ReplyDeleteI had to put my foot down and give him closing time and once it's like 10mins to closing time, I go and remind him.
Another thing is that now I have to make breakfast, lunch ( or brunch) and dinner before it used to be just dinner I used to make for both of us oh except on the weekend.
Asides that, it's really really sweet. We bond more in different ways. Cleaning lady has stopped coming so now we do cleaning up together, though he's always complaining and telling me I want to use work to kill him.
My medical doctor fiance left me last year because I couldn't give him the money he requested from me to enable him to go to Canada for one exam like that. And I am nothing but a teacher. How much is my salary?
ReplyDeleteWhat kinda medical leech is that? Please, cheer up. You dodged a bomb not even bullet.
DeleteHe would have left you anyways once he landed in Canada. God saved your little teaching change and saved you from a very painful heartbreak. So sweetheart don't cry, it's good riddance to bad rubbish.
DeletePut your head and nose up, start praying and wishing God to send a genuine fellow to you. Do not rush it.
Forget about the leech.
DeleteLol. He would have still left you if you gave him money. Haha!. Wise up!
DeleteMe I have been doing the do and I am hoping and praying that I get pregnant because according to Chinese calendar, it will be a baby girl.
ReplyDeleteThis lockdown no show o I haven't allowed my hubby to touch me coz I caught him cheating on me last year Aug its been hell even tho he still denies it u r calling someone baby nd u said shes not ur side chick I beg since then I don lock up I can't get HIV bcos of a mad man who doesn't even know how to sex well and on top of dat u have a side chick dis lock down got me think abt so many things I need to be happy,I hevent had a good sex in 8 yrs of marriage my ex was d bomb
ReplyDeleteAny husband that is denying you sex bite him. I mean real bite. His brain will reset. At least he wont be able to tell another person the reason for the bite period.
ReplyDeleteAll these ladies complaining about the lack of sexual urge by their hubbies. There could be many more reasons apart from non-attractiveness. How old are the hubbies, have you heard of mid-life crisis. So some of these men may actually have some kind of dysfunction and may need help like the ladies being more forward than passive and in extreme cases medical care. Remember many men are quite conscious of their sexual failings and may never wish to speak about it
ReplyDeleteI'm not trying to break his home indeed. You must be trying to help his wife. Chai! !Some women have suffered!
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