STAND ALONE NARRATIVE
RELATIONSHIP GONE KAPUT
Hello Stella.
I have been friends with my bf since 2016 but we started dating last year. We loved each other. He listens to me, introduced me to his friends and family, makes sure I'm comfortable. He hates hearing me complain. I was 100% sure he was in love with me but things fell apart.
There was this girl that was always disturbing him and he has told her off countless number of times but she never goes. He told me he once had a thing for her but not anymore.
One day, I was going through his IG. I was just checking handles. I stumbled on hers...I checked her handle and a couple of others , logged out and slept off. I was woken up by his shouting..he was so angry, he asked why I was checking the girl's handle and other people's handle and even his friend's gf's handle (I had no idea who that was) I apologized but didn't give him any reason. I had none. He changed his passwords.
His friend that stays with him even heard him shouting and knew what I did because he told him out of anger. I was ashamed but learnt my lessons. He forgave me, we still played, he still told me he loved me but I don't feel it anymore.
I went home the next day...and yes, we barely talk. When he calls, it's now so brief. Same with when I call. The connection is no longer there and I can't believe that single mistake was enough to disconnect us.
I have decided to stop calling or texting and if possible stop taking his calls for a while, maybe that would make him miss me and reconnect us...I don't just know.
I really love him and I just want him back.
Hello Stella.
I have been friends with my bf since 2016 but we started dating last year. We loved each other. He listens to me, introduced me to his friends and family, makes sure I'm comfortable. He hates hearing me complain. I was 100% sure he was in love with me but things fell apart.
There was this girl that was always disturbing him and he has told her off countless number of times but she never goes. He told me he once had a thing for her but not anymore.
One day, I was going through his IG. I was just checking handles. I stumbled on hers...I checked her handle and a couple of others , logged out and slept off. I was woken up by his shouting..he was so angry, he asked why I was checking the girl's handle and other people's handle and even his friend's gf's handle (I had no idea who that was) I apologized but didn't give him any reason. I had none. He changed his passwords.
His friend that stays with him even heard him shouting and knew what I did because he told him out of anger. I was ashamed but learnt my lessons. He forgave me, we still played, he still told me he loved me but I don't feel it anymore.
I went home the next day...and yes, we barely talk. When he calls, it's now so brief. Same with when I call. The connection is no longer there and I can't believe that single mistake was enough to disconnect us.
I have decided to stop calling or texting and if possible stop taking his calls for a while, maybe that would make him miss me and reconnect us...I don't just know.
I really love him and I just want him back.
Please what can I do?
*My Dear let him go,you are probably just noticing what has always been there...
*My Dear let him go,you are probably just noticing what has always been there...
How can they know that you checked a profile and then accuse you and you kept quiet?why didn't you defend yourself?Did you send any messages?
What a childish man....
Please move on...
Who told you all those stories about his ex and how he doesnt want again?Something is probably still cooking between them .Please catwalk out of his life..if and when he misses you and decides it is you he wants,you will hear from him.
Awww.. I love her last line... very emotional.🥰
ReplyDeleteLet me love somebody son like this naa.🤣🤣
Hahaha you're not serious o. You can jor. Is your heart that hard?
DeleteThis is your conscience speaking: People's sons you have been curving & friendzoning since ur breast formed, was none of them worth this ur love?
DeleteAww... she is emotional and that is very ok. Something snapped. There are certain actions and reactions you should watch who you dish them to. Take a closer look and I am sure this poster is one cream girl from a balanced loving background hence his outburst got to her like that because it's not normal where she came from.
DeletePoster, let him go. You don't share same class and he will end up making you adapt to such and worse.
You said since the incident you don't feel the same way and in another breath you say you still love him? So which is it?
DeleteIf you can forgive forgive, if you cant let him go. He has apologized and you obviously still love him.
To me everything is not let him go. Relationships are bound to have issues sometimes. You didnt catch him cheating and he didnt abuse you. If you keep leaving each rltsp at the sign of trouble how many will you date.
DeleteGive him abit of space for now so you dont look desperate. Then have a one on one talk to him. Tell him your fears and work it out. You havnt said he treats you badly.
Thanks at beds and roses, I was surprise ooo because this don't not warrant break up at all
DeleteDon't mind BVs - everytime ' move on ; dont stay , leave him
DeleteBed and Roses😘
DeleteThank you @ Beds and Roses. Let him go just like that? Na wa.
DeleteMove on dear, he still carries a torch for her.
ReplyDeleteMelancholy
Not just carry a torch but in love with her and wants to still date poster.
DeleteHe wants to eat his cake and have it.
Move on please ,you are sharing a boyfriend with the "girl disturbing him".🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
The way you people jump into conclusions ehn
DeleteYou had no right to go through your boyfriends IG, and also, checking his friends handles.
ReplyDeleteSome of you are just so nosy.
If you feel disconnected, find a way to reconnect and if the connection is isn’t working, move on.
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DeleteHmmmm
DeleteE jo ma, pls who has right to check his handle if she can't?
This sluttychic, i doubt youre from this generation, whats wrong with transparency? What kind of slave mentality do i display?
Delete"There was this girl that was always disturbing him and he has told her off countless number of times but she never goes. He told me he once had a thing for her but not anymore."
ReplyDeleteThe same line men have been using to deceive fish-brained girls. She's been disturbing him as who na? Who the hell is he? He's fucking the both of you and you know it deep down. You just want to have him all to yourself. Some of una no get shame. A man is obviously cheating on you and you're still plotting how to have him back. Step up your self-esteem.
Ceasar, do you know what LOVE is? What it does to the human brain?!
Delete@16:05
DeleteLove is a virtue, it is not foolishness. It does not do anything insane to the human brain
What makes the human brain lack judgment is Lust, adultery, fornication, foolishness.
Ighotago?
Pigs are flying as we speak because Ceasar is 100% correct! Poster he is CHEATING on you. Walk away now.
DeleteCeaser you are more than 100%correct. That guy has been cheating on her and probably dating the said girl before he met her.
DeleteNne step up your game and get your self esteem back.
You can decide to give him space for now and let him choose btw you and her simple.
He screamed and changed his password???
ReplyDeleteTrust me, he has something to hide.
Plenty skeletons oh, plenty
DeleteI swear the guy way nor pure. I believe he is dating the other girl too
DeleteI hate it when people say "someone is disturbing me" to their partner. I don't understand it. How do someone who you don't acknowledge disturb you? Like! how? Do they call your number? Well, You can press the block button, right? You can also block them on your social media handles or simply ignore them that they begin to doubt their very existence, right? How does someone disturb you without your permission?
ReplyDeletePease breaks it off before he does you that honour. He has checked out. Already.
Thank you
DeleteThat's how my so called bf said one girl was disturbing him. She disturbed him to d point of sending him nudes... I hear
That was how one yeye guy told me he was single. Always giving me green light. I would be in my house jeje he will call me to tell me he is lonely. I will go over he will cook for me ehn buy me takeaway set and always gave me gifts for no reason. Me I was happy because no sex Nah. Idiot told me he was celibate so i should not worry he won't disturb me which he didn't sha. It turned out later he was engaged sef and the babe was out of town that time and he was scared if he touched me I will use pregnancy to rope him. We would go out on dates and weddings and I was happy that finally I have seen a guy that doesn't care about my body like my ex that like sex like mad. only for my phone to ring and aunty started questioning me asking who am I. I asked her back who she was and she said she is his fiance chaii! She came with enough proof ooo. Even claiming I was disturbing her man and won't let him be that he has told her everything about me since I refuse to go away. She even knew my name and things I told him which were personal🤣
DeleteFear these men abeg🚶♂️
Gbam @sabella
DeleteThat red pen and most of them here today are going to be a sham to scare the dude and other small boys. Keep him quiet and watch him slide away like Michael Jackson. Awon manipulators, you wanna use the silent treatment for a grown as man!
ReplyDeleteMeehnnnn.....I was lit during my days sha - that is ehnnnn
My ajuju n'ese okwu is this oo
ReplyDeleteHasn't this dude been pounding illegitimately?"🤷🏻♀️🤷🏻♀️🤷🏻♀️
As long as that is the case, you as a woman will be feeling cheated and used and missing him.
He on the other hand must have moved to another girl whom he has been doing same with.
If you want a guy to miss you from the very beginning and place a whole lot of value on your worth as a lady, then
close legs kpichikom! 🤷🏻♀️
In your next relationship, keep it chaste and let God give you a lovely home...I don't mean wedding or marriage... but a home 🏡🏡
Note a house o -maka ndi uta 👨👩👦👨👩👦👨👩👦
I meant, NOT a house, but a home 😊
DeleteIf a man has slept with you and still holds you high and refuses to acknowledge any other woman...that is love.
DeleteA man that has not seen your pants can climb the highest mountain for you. His true colours comes out after he has eaten what he is after. It also happens even when some women keeps "it" till wedding night, it's just that the man is now bound by law to stay but can very well logout emotionally afterwards.
Even on this blog we have read stories of virgins who married men who disconnected and treated them badly.
@Sapphire
DeleteYou do not understand that fornication is a breach of God's laws as well as adultery is; do you?
A person can misbehave at anytime, but a woman's dignity and standing with God matters to her and to God also.
This poster degraded herself and is still ready to do so by wanting a man back who has absolute no regard for her.
Choose whom to serve; God or Sin.
Where in this entire write up did she say she was sexually active? Or you just imagined she must have been?
DeleteHow did you deduce she "degraded herself"?
My response one sex is to to ANG comment. Meanwhile I am sure majority of us on this blog do not serve the same God as you. You may quote the bible but we know there are many other sinister things people use the bible for other than to derive inspiration and loving guidance of the Holy spirit. Your god is wicked, hateful and schizophrenic. Non of us want to be like you. Someone wrote the others day how your singular imput made her stop going to church so you are an anti-christ.
@Saphire
DeleteAre you talking to me or you dey yarn give someone else because I don't understand you at all.
"Non (sic.) of us...?" who are you speaking on behalf?
Anybody who decided to "stop going to church" because of another human being, was not worshiping Jesus
in the first instance. I for one have never talked about or supported any church here. I have always said that
I don't even go to one presently; except the Bible study group in my home. I do not have anything against anybody that
goes to a "church". Jesus said that where two or more are gathered in his name, he is there in their midst. Mathew 18:20
Covid lock down has taught all people of the world that people can actually be very good followers of Christ right from
the comfort of their homes. 😊😊😊😊
I only asked questions (ajujus) to the poster and you came under my comment to jump into conclusions.
You know what, that your "schizophrenic god" got me 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
May the Love of Christ abide with you 😘😘😘😘🌹🌹
@Saphire
Deleteplease do not be like ang, be like Jesus. People who are like Jesus are called Christians.
Chei Sapphire ooooh🤣🤣🤣
DeleteYou just pieces the table
@ Sapphire, please leave ANG and her smooth nyash abeg...😆😆😆. I actually find her very amusing, I don't know why people get offended. She reminds me of those SU people I knew when I was much younger...😊😊😊(her favorite smiley.
Delete@ anon 21:06 I find ang amusing too. As a matter of fact, when reading comments, I always look for her comment. If I don't see it, I'm a little disappointed sometimes. If you overlook her judgemental tone, you will see that she makes strong points. Although a few times, her points may not be relevant to the post. For example her comment above implies that sex makes women stupid (which is mostly true). But I don't see how this relates to the post cos the lady never said anything about being sexually active with her boyfriend. Another thing I don't like about ang is that she is quick to blame women for anything concerning relationships. Sometimes I wonder if she is misogynist. But everyone has their own shortcomings and I don't think that it is fair that they are always quick to attack her.
DeleteStella there are apps that will make u know those that followed you and unfollowed and possibly who was on ur handle.
ReplyDeletePoster pls move on already ok.
Which apps biko
DeleteHe was never that into u. My take? He was up to something. Fine you made a mistake but that is not enough reason to blank you out. I do not understand why people claim to be in a relationship and yet phones are off limits and can cause disharmony. Let this guy go and just move on.
ReplyDeleteHe was only looking for a reason to break up with u. Just move on in good faith n don't force cos u make him dislike u more n value u less especially if he has already touched u. If he is urs maybe one day he'll b back but don't bank on it
DeleteDear Poster na wa oh..In as much as I am not a team Snoppy Dogg but couldnt you have checked the handles on your own phone abi you no get IG..I would react same if anyone checks my phone but he didnt have to allow that restrain your communication..I expected that he would even make you see reasons and emphasis that he love you and wants both of you to work.
ReplyDeleteThere is a line I love in Madonna's FROZEN ''Love is a bird she needs to fly'' you can still love someone but might not be enough..You have apologized to him now is the time for him to prove that he truly loves you and has severed all ties with this ex girlfriend..I know its gonna hurt but don't reach out to him via phone calls or SMS for now..Just hold on and see if he will reach out..All the best..
Pls run for ur dear life ....
ReplyDeleteTruth be told you effed up. If you wanna investigate the girl you should have never been caught slacking and allow him to catch you in the act. I personally do not think you should have seen the girl as a threat though. In every guy you meet/date he definitely has some girl from his past that he had a thing for but you know what differentiates her from you. HE PICKED YOU. So at that point, she should not matter to you. It is only when you make her important in your mind that she becomes an issue, it is a spiritual/psychological thing. If he wanted to be with her he would have picked her. I had the same issue as you, but I did not take the girl as important because I KNEW CONFIDENTLY that she was not on the same level as me intellectually, personality wise, I knew what I offered. It is only when me and my ex bf broke up that they started messing around but guess what?? It did not work out or last past a few months. WHY?? Because I believed I was better and I operate from an abundance mindset. I knew he would be back after using her for sex but when his eyes had cleared I DID NOT WANT HIM ANYMORE. You have to believe and pray based on that belief, stop worrying about it, stop stalking him and that belief will be your reality. iT HAS worked for me several times. Some people call it MANIFESTATION. You can call it what you like, But as you think so will be your reality., If you think she is better and can keep your man, then it will become true. If u think he is missing you and he will come back then that also will be. So far you do not insult, or emasculate or chase or stalk him he will come back.....RELAX!!
ReplyDeleteBetter luck next time but really you have to try your best to move forward and do not contact or stalk him. If you handle this right you can still
You are right 👌
DeletePoster, please take this advice and let it continually replay in your mind. I have also screen shot this comment for my own personal remainder. Thanks for sharing this advice ❤️
Deleteanon 16:35 you are welcome hon. That experience taught me a lot that I did not know before. Reading and research will open your eyes. Meditating on God's word will do wonders. When you fast n pray God will lead you to dreams, scriptures, books, youtube videos that will help you see past the physical and then you will be a step ahead the so called competition.
DeleteThis is advice is faultless
DeleteEvery man or woman also has the right to know exactly what the terms of engagement are in a relationship. The other lady is sitting pretty somewhere feeling PICKED as well so have confirmation and evidence of your position so you don't end up suffering "pick-me-please syndrome only to be unpicked for another girl that would be co-picked with another girl.
DeleteAnon 17:54 read again. Nothing in my comment suggests she should be a pick-me. Rather it is a pick-me attribute to be stalking a guy's ex, checking his phone, worrying about what you can't control. It is also pick-me behaviour to be second fiddle to a guy that is in a relationship publicly hoping your sexual prowess or juju will hook him and snatch him from that woman. If you post relationship quotes to get the attention of a guy that is off/on with you you're a bonafide PICK-ME sweetie. If you're worried about someone being picked over you then you're a pick-me if u stay there as well. On the other hand if you recognize you're high value and act accordingly then no ex or fboy will ruffle your feathers. The pick-me stays stuck in scarcity mindset worried about pleasing and snatching one man while high value lady knows she has options so she is fine either way. When u put man matter on your head like gala it never ends well. Hope my point is clear now.
DeleteTruth be told you effed up. If you wanna investigate the girl you should have never been caught slacking and allow him to catch you in the act. I personally do not think you should have seen the girl as a threat though. In every guy you meet/date he definitely has some girl from his past that he had a thing for but you know what differentiates her from you. HE PICKED YOU. So at that point, she should not matter to you. It is only when you make her important in your mind that she becomes an issue, it is a spiritual/psychological thing. If he wanted to be with her he would have picked her. I had the same issue as you, but I did not take the girl as important because I KNEW CONFIDENTLY that she was not on the same level as me intellectually, personality wise, I knew what I offered. It is only when me and my ex bf broke up that they started messing around but guess what?? It did not work out or last past a few months. WHY?? Because I believed I was better and I operate from an abundance mindset. I knew he would be back after using her for sex but when his eyes had cleared I DID NOT WANT HIM ANYMORE. You have to believe and pray based on that belief, stop worrying about it, stop stalking him and that belief will be your reality. iT HAS worked for me several times. Some people call it MANIFESTATION. You can call it what you like, But as you think so will be your reality., If you think she is better and can keep your man, then it will become true. If u think he is missing you and he will come back then that also will be. So far you do not insult, or emasculate or chase or stalk him he will come back.....RELAX!!
ReplyDeleteBetter luck next time but really you have to try your best to move forward and do not contact or stalk him. If you handle this right you can still get him back if you want him
Going thru your bf's phone or instagram is wrong but if you must do it, MAKE SURE HE NEVER CATCHES YOU., It is a deal breaker and turnoff for some guys even ladies too. It is like you have betrayed their trust and invaded their privacy. There may/may not have been sth going on with that girl but you should have allowed it organically unfold and be revealed to you as things like this usually do. Maybe create fake profile and investigate your man's activities on her page or some other ways but a guy catching u in his phone is almost unforgivable o. If you suspect a guy is cheating or can't trust him, it's better you leave instead of staying where you are having high bp all the time.
ReplyDeleteJuvenile chronicle. No advice for you
ReplyDeleteNa low self esteem dey worry you. Why going as far as checking out the girl's handle, my turning yourself to a monitoring spirit ?
ReplyDeleteI don't like people that are sneaky too but if you can't get back together like before, stop being a pest, no dey monitor people again, live your life, after ok, no be all relationship go lead to marriage.
Live your life.
You all will be acting as if your lives are perfect...low self esteem yada yada. Will you say you have never checked out a rival on social media? It's normal to mark territory bike and stop living a false.
DeleteI don't encourage what you did but he's taking it too far. Ki lo le to yen?
ReplyDeletePlease, move on. It may not be easy but just try. It is well with you.
He will come back, whether or not he is still likes that girl he will come back, So far you do not do more than what you have already done and you leave him alone. MEN ALWAYS COME BACK. It is left for you to decide if you want him back or not OR if you will use this time to level up mentally and physically (without cheating yourself) so that you can get a better man than him/play with him until you see a better man
ReplyDeleteMen have always come back to me, but by the time they do I am over them. You can do the same if u want to win in this dating game that gives girls high bp.
Mark my words, infact Stella should save my comment and when he comes back you can write to Stella using my words as reference
Of course you are so fucking right anon 15,47. They always come back but mostimes emotions don waka.
DeletePoster as long as you want him back,stop calling or texting him.No motivational quotes on ur status and all.You may stalk him but try as much as possible not to make him always notice your presence.
I tell you he will definitely come back begging but then you have to put your emotions on check.Dont fall your hand and don't allow him back so easily so he won't fukup nextime .
Ekwuchaam
What you can do is walking away.
ReplyDeleteGuy man was just looking for a reason to breakup with you, please move on you'll get a better person.
ReplyDeletelol, he's coming back. maybe not now but some months or years from now. You just focus on looking good and improving your brain, mind, attitude and self esteem. you didn't even do anything wrong which means he acted all this drama so that he can use the time to get easy pussy from that desperate girl. But one thing about desperate girls they are nice for a man to have in bed for a while before he gets sick and tired of them. I guess you must be young because if you know Men you won't even lose a wink of sleep over any. Good luck. Get out there and date but DON'T SLEEP WITH ANY and don't publicize it. GOOD LUCK
ReplyDeleteYou have posted more than 3 different comments with your capital letter highlighting style. Please chill!!!
DeleteAnon 20:38 It's not your hands I'm using to type sweetie. Face front.
DeleteLMAO! I am just laughing because you are disturbing yourself over a man. A man. lol Men that are easily plyable and manipulated. Someone that will soon get sick and tired of who is fukn and come and try again with you. When he comes back, make sure you make him work for you this time around sha.
ReplyDeletePoster waka completely, don't turn back. He isn't ready for you.
ReplyDeleteThe truth is to deal with men you have to be super conny, strategic, and not let yourself be caught slipping. You clearly need a lot more experience if you're losing sleep over this small issue, sweetie, forget this man and go date. He will be back eventually
ReplyDeleteSay what?! All this energy just to deal with a man. Obviously priorities are different o! I no fit. Sufficient are the troubles of this world. My super cunny, strategy and non slipping will be reserved for a cause worth the stress 😂
DeleteAnon 20:11 if u wanna do that fine. But if you think getting n staying in relationship is not a game, then DON'T DATE MEN. Because while ur sitting on ur high horse doing all that independent woman/my accomplishments are my priority talk,one gigolo is licking his lips thinking of how to con you out of your money. Learn the game so that when you're ready to stop pretending you don't want a man, you will know what to look for to get the man you want ;)
DeleteMove on and be the girl that got away then he will be the one to be chasing you. KNOWLEDGE
ReplyDeleteDarling, you still love him and want him back, that's very understandable. The challenge here is how to illuminate your mind so you realise, you can do better. Don't be too carried away by the way "your man" dismisses his so called exes or any woman he had an affair with, because it gives you a preview of what waits you in future. While I was single, one of the guys on my case laboured under the mistaken illusion that he would impress me by how he openly spoke down to an ex of his. This guy was loud, crass and unbelievably rude to his ex. When he was done he beamed a smile at me, I smiled back and told him I never want the displeasure of meeting his acquaintance, ever again. If he could be so publicly disrespectful to a LADY, let alone a lady he once had, even if it were the most remote, feelings for, I don't even want him anywhere near my person or space.
ReplyDeleteNo matter how "manly"you think you are, if you don't know how to be gentle with ladies, I don't even want to know you, whomever the h*ll you think you are. Sweetheart, I believe everybody has the right to privacy and I have never subscribed to the logic behind "snooping" of any kind. However, the way your so called boyfriend reacted to you going through his phone is totally unacceptable. More disturbing is the fact that you cowered like a suckling babe and couldn't utter a word of explanation. What kind of relationship is that, lord vs servant?
Even when your partner goofs, there's an acceptable way to behave, the reaction should match the "crime". Sweetie, you win no brownie points for snooping but certainly not the excoriation you got. Even if he has anger issues, he ought to apologise immediately he cools off. I may be wrong but I don't think he respects you, let's not even bring love here because that's obviously out of the question. Please, love yourself enough to let him go. When you withdraw and your partner seems comfortable with the space, that's sign enough that the relationship has run its course.
Ignoring his calls would be petty, in my considered view, you can take his calls but don't be the one to call him. You can be civil while breaking up, it need not be acrimonious. He has shown you what he is capable of, if you decide to take him back... let's hope you make the right decision.
e-hugs and kisses.
Nice Ronalda. Aptly stated
Deletebut wait ooo I use Instagram well well, how did he know you checked her handle and other handles as well? u already logged out now except you know the handle before and checked it on the search place even then there is a very low probability he would have known cus it might not have even popped up if he went across his Instagram except you probably went to follow her with your own page and she found out and told him, poster you aren't telling the whole truth , all the same just ignore him, it's possible they are actually dating and that's why he is upset you might find out
ReplyDeleteI m surprised to see many people on here saying checking phones is unforgivable.i have told my partner that none of his devices are off limits to me. it has never been an issue before in any of my relationships.its a right which I dont always exercise.
ReplyDeleteSecondly,love forgives ALL things. I didnt understand this until I fell in love. stuff that would cause fights before are now barely noticed.
Let him be.if he is still disconnected after a week,then it wasnt love. Move on. Well done
Time will tell if he loves you like you love him, but remember that you are to love your neighbor as yourself not more than you love yourself, so use this time loving yourself and others including him Will be surprised on have you have grown emotionally.
ReplyDeletePoster give him a little break he will come back, until then build yourself to be better.
ReplyDeleteDear poster, one day you'll know relationships are not telemundo kinda thing where your partner shouts then you do the paloma and diego dance of breakup to makeup shit. This is reality, this is how most relationships are and you need to be honest with yourself and whoever you're with. I don't know how deep your relationship was with this guy all I can say is you're overreacting, overthinking and it's making you so sad and feel like you're worthless. Don't kill yourself over your own insecurities then blame it on him.
ReplyDeleteYes! He was wrong with the way he reacted, he apologized and all you needed to do was forgive an simply move on from it. Relationships have issues o, if every party keep duelling on how hurtful their fights were they won't move on and continue enjoying and growing their love. The reason why the conversation was off between you and him is YOU! You were there mopping around look out for him to catch your feelings and beg with a song or whatever you have romanticized my dear, you'll die there if you don't talk.
Everyone including all the commenting here that the guy is sleeping with the blah blah...everyone has someone that wants you but never makes the move when you're single but suddenly spring when they know you have someone special in your life, guy was honest with you, you going to check ig handles and what not is just you giving yourself bp. Stop playing unnecessary scenarios in your head they will only hurt you more, call and talk to him face to face and move on from the drama.
Forget the usual chant of leave him alone, he's cheating, he just wanted to sleep with you blah blah blah. Mature ppl in relationships TALK. They talk so as to understand themselves and know what they want from each other, they don't play mind games.
Let's say you move on to another person you'll still issues and misunderstanding, will you write to sdk again mopping around saying we're disconnected blah blah. I don't know sha o
*coughs* the guy never apologized for shouting on her. She was the one who apologised and he claimed to have forgiven her but is still cold and distant.
DeleteHe screamed at you for checking his phone and changed his password..
ReplyDeleteAnd you didn't say anything??
Girl, that guy is cheating on you. Give him space for now and watch what his reaction would be.
Guy is dating you both
ReplyDeleteI don't wish for anyone to ever date a guy with baggages! A childish guy who will insult you because you left him due to all his lies and funny attitude. Thank God I dodge that bullet! Cheers to me. Can't wait to go back to London.
ReplyDeleteOn this blog, i have seen more Let Him Go Comments Than Give Him a Chance. Note That No Relationship Is Perfect.
ReplyDeleteChaiii!!!! When will I get a lady that will love me like this?🤔
ReplyDelete