STAND ALONE NARRATIVE
STREET SISTER
I have a street sister whom I like so much, I knew her thru my immediate younger sister!
Let's call her tayo
I and tayo worked at the same place, I'm always carrying her along everything I do! Along the line, her mum died and her dad came unexpectedly to take her and siblings away.
Fast forward to some years later, she messaged me on WhatsApp, I was so glad to be reconnected back with her, I never knew she has gone haywire
She would post pics of herself and a guy on towel inside hotel, post all sort of raunchy pics! The little I could do is to advise her to take it easy cos if she still lives around I wouldn't allow her live that kind of lifestyle, the distance incapacitate me! I couldn't do much, I was just praying for her and her siblings.
Lemme fast forward it all to last week when she told me she's pregnant and she's been advised twice not to abort.... the guy who got her pregnant is not responsible in any way, he's a yahoo guy and he's been telling her to go abort or he's out of the relationship
Cos of this tayo has been suicidal, frustrated and depressed! I have told her to keep it but she's hellbent on aborting the baby and damn the consequences....
I don't know what to do right now, I have said all I could to change her mind but she's adamant
The guy has blocked her everywhere, she's not working and is dependent on the guy, the preggy is now two months, her family members have turned their backs on them when her sis (20 yrs) got pregnant ...
How do I make this girl yield to my plea...
I and tayo worked at the same place, I'm always carrying her along everything I do! Along the line, her mum died and her dad came unexpectedly to take her and siblings away.
Fast forward to some years later, she messaged me on WhatsApp, I was so glad to be reconnected back with her, I never knew she has gone haywire
She would post pics of herself and a guy on towel inside hotel, post all sort of raunchy pics! The little I could do is to advise her to take it easy cos if she still lives around I wouldn't allow her live that kind of lifestyle, the distance incapacitate me! I couldn't do much, I was just praying for her and her siblings.
Lemme fast forward it all to last week when she told me she's pregnant and she's been advised twice not to abort.... the guy who got her pregnant is not responsible in any way, he's a yahoo guy and he's been telling her to go abort or he's out of the relationship
Cos of this tayo has been suicidal, frustrated and depressed! I have told her to keep it but she's hellbent on aborting the baby and damn the consequences....
I don't know what to do right now, I have said all I could to change her mind but she's adamant
The guy has blocked her everywhere, she's not working and is dependent on the guy, the preggy is now two months, her family members have turned their backs on them when her sis (20 yrs) got pregnant ...
How do I make this girl yield to my plea...
You can force a horse to the River side but you cannot force it to drink water...
You have tried and advised her.leave her to do what she wants and face the consequences....
Yeah just leave her
ReplyDeleteShe will be fine!
Advise her to abort o, you can’t take care of your self and you want to bring in a baby. To give us headaches
DeleteIf you don't want her to abort it, tell her to come and live with you so you can cater for her and the child. You know you can't tell her not abort while she has no support out there .
ReplyDeleteUhhhhhh 🤨
DeleteThis 👆
DeleteGood yarns @Blackey.
DeleteUpon all her waka waka, hope she get plenty money for her account no be to dey tie towel for hotel go carry belle be de issue. She don find Jesus?
DeleteYou really can't force her to see reason or have a change of heart. Only God can do that so please have her in prayers. Besides this, just keep encouraging her in all the ways you can.
ReplyDeleteEveryone came to this life separately,allow her do what she thinks it's best for her.Hian!!!!!!
ReplyDeleteI'm just tired
DeletePoster you have told her what is best for her but since she has refused to listen is time to ignore her by allowing her do what she want
ReplyDeleteAfter all, she was enjoying it without you is time for her to pay.
Have you asked her if she knows she could die? There are Jo guarantees in life. Anything can go wrong.
ReplyDeleteShe needs Jesus in her life.
Pray for her. That is all you can do.
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But my Naija Sisis, why, why, why eh?
These kinds of stories we read them here several times and keep reading them.
When these dudes are telling you that if they don't fornicate with you, they will die, I love you, you are sweet...yes, indeed you are sweet; like candy -he will lick the candy and throw away the wrap (and that wrap is actually "you" -that spread legs for them).😢😢😢
Oh Lord, please save this Sisi from the hands of Satan bikozie nu inugo? 😢😢😢
Amin
DeletePray for her
ReplyDeleteThe best you can do is to pray for her soul. Only Jesus can fix this one
ReplyDeleteDey your dey.
ReplyDeleteYou wan force her ?
If you check this matter well, you go see say e no really concern you. Just FYI sha
ReplyDeleteI tire o 🤣
DeleteI wasn't going to comment, but you see this comment... 🤣🤣🤣
Delete🤣🤣🤣 aswear anon
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DeleteSome Bvs are cray... Hahaha. May she encounter Jesus.
DeleteYou have done your best, leave her now to decide the matter that affects her life.
ReplyDeleteYou have advised her so let her be. Just be supportive and be there for her. Its her life and decision at the end of the day
ReplyDeletePoster pls keep advising her and always pray for her as well! The Bible says the heart of a king is in God's hands,He turn it how it pleases Him! So keep praying for her, there's nothing and heart God can't turn
ReplyDeleteThe consequences might be death since she has been advised not to abort it..do your best at least and leave the rest to God
You have been advising her but she never listened, so what makes you think your advice will work now, except you tell her to give the baby up for adoption after delivery.
ReplyDeleteIf she's hell bent, how will our advice here change it?
ReplyDeleteOkwa ajuju🙄
And I guess she's an adult, allow her to do what she feels best for her. One thing I'm sure of is that we can control our actions but we can't control the consequences.
Leave her to bear the consequences mbok. If she keeps it, you will be responsible for her upkeep till she births and even after cos you advised her to keep it. Allow her satisfy her conscience.
ReplyDeleteI don’t understand why people are ignorant in 2020. If you chose to live a wayward lifestyle and mess around. At least do your children a favor and go on 5 years birth control patch or one of those pills.. what is this crying after spilled milk wahala..
ReplyDeleteHmmm... Ajuju ooo food don land!
ReplyDeleteJust keep on praying for her
There is nothing you can do.
ReplyDeleteLet her be
That feeling when someone you get pregnant for doesn't accept it..poster she wears the shoe and knows where it hurts if she wants to abort fine no crime in that,since the guy is irresponsible and shes not working it's not easy o ask me what I went through..........,,,,,,,:::
ReplyDeleteAnon, plz gist us what you went through
DeleteExactly,let her do what she wants, its her life
ReplyDeleteAll you can now do for your street sister is to continue to pray for her. If she had listened to good advice, she wouldn't have ended up with a scammer and then getting pregnant.
ReplyDeleteLet her carry her cross.
Just keep praying for her. Should she change her mind, will you be able to support her? If yes, maybe you can tell her that to convince her.
ReplyDeleteIf she wants to abort the child, then let her be! What's your problem?
ReplyDeleteI wonder o. 😀
Delete@ Poster,please press your ignored button and mind your damn business...
ReplyDeleteDey your dey...
If she keeps the baby , will you or anyone else help her raise the baby ?
ReplyDeleteCos everyone keeps saying she should keep the baby
I believe she's an adult and knows what's good for her
ReplyDeleteEvery adult must be prepared to face the consequences of their actions
ReplyDeleteShe will definitely abort it.
ReplyDeleteDon't answer people tellling you to leave her alone.my dear stand by that girl,advice her.there is a reason God brought her into your life .don't just forsake her like that above all keep her in your prayers and ask her ways you can help her out .
ReplyDeleteDon't mind the poster, if she is not Tayo, why is she concerned?
ReplyDeleteNot advocating abortion, but a jobless person and a child? To raise a child is not moi moi o
ReplyDeletePlease tell her not to abort the baby, she can give the baby up for adoption if she born. A lot of couples will be willing to take the baby
ReplyDeleteShe should have the baby and give you to raise . Suggest that to her, since you want a baby so bad that you are advising someone who has nothing and cannot take care of herself to bring a child into the world. Raise the child on your own aunty. Nonsense!
ReplyDeleteEven if she’s your child, I believe she’s above 18 thus she’s an adult and is responsible for her decisions. You have advised her many times and she still did what she wanted. Shouldn’t that tell you to mind your business and allow an adult to make the choices that are best for her?
ReplyDeleteDon’t force that girl to keep a baby she can’t cater for, except you people want to give the child up for adoption. Or you set up a business for her if you have the money. Sha advice her to go and ‘install’ long term contraception after this pregnancy.
Poster you are Tayo! Please don’t abort that baby! I aborted years a ago and today I’m 38 and don’t have a child yet. Please have thst baby.
ReplyDelete🤣🤣🤣 so funny how I’m just reading replies on the story I posted last week!! FYI, I could have easily said it’s my story cos I dropped it in an anonymous mode
DeleteI’m not tayo, she’s not in any way related to me so don’t conclude yet...
Anyway, she’s decided to leave the baby and God would see us through
Thank You
Allow her to do what she want! I pray she will not regret her action in the future.
ReplyDeletePlease, be praying to God to change her mind to keep her baby.
ReplyDeleteShe already committed one sin(fornication) and cannot make it right with another sin (murder)
You would be saving her soul and that of her unborn baby.