Are you one of those who is lucky to have a spouse who does the dishes while you make the beds?Washes the toilet while you cook?
Or are you left all alone to do the house chores while your spouse tell you they are the one bringing in the money?
My hubby helps out with the house chores and has no problem whatsoever with helping out......Lucky me right?Lucky you too?
Some men are the ones left to do the house chores because they have lazy wife's .....................Ooops!
sunday ke monday ni.we share
ReplyDeleteMy spouse is always busy so he doesn’t do house chores and he uses his free time to sleep wnd spend the rest with me so we have a woman that comes every weekend to clean the whole house up. I do the rest myself and his own contribution is to keep it clean.
DeleteGod bless ur marriage
DeleteMy man washes clothes, bathrooms , irons and sweeps
DeleteI cook, mop, pack washed clothes/fold, dust tv and tables, wash dishes.
This is how we do chores. He goes to market too
I dare not do his own. If I do, he will redo* them without mercy.
I used to feel bad because in my father's house na chores dey rush me; till I sat down one day and started counting my blessings
He has MAJOR ocd! His own is; DON'T help me!
Even the clothes I fold, he refolds.
The day my mother visited, she was asking me if I hv joined women that go places for men jokingly. She couldn't believe it because in her house, my father cannot even boil tea water.
To have it na me suffer pass for her house with chores that time 😂
Just like my husband..il do smth...he will go amd redo it...so i no dey bother again...i will wash bathroom ..next thing he will say let him go n check if i washed it well...then he will wash again...meanyl i washed it very well ooo..if he doesnt do it himself..body no go gree am
DeleteHubby dose not do chores oh. So what he did was to get a help that comes in 5x a week and pays her. Me i do the cooking and my room only. Hubby and the children can scatter, so that was his rrason for getting the help,me i refused to pick up after him.
DeleteHonestly, i got lucky there. Yesterday i went to market. He cleaned d house and feed d kids. Chores are a norm for him so we both are helpers!!
ReplyDeleteWow
DeleteSee me thinking that I'm living in the past, Stella please it's still Saturday.
ReplyDeleteThere are certain chores my man can't do for me...to my satisfaction.
ReplyDeleteCos after doing it, I have to redo it, not cos I don't appreciate it, but I am never satisfied with it.
He can help with the dishes, I won't mind...I hate that chore 😂😂😂
For cooking, I haven't been lucky with a good cook, so it's all me.
I love when he massages my legs....best chore for me 😏😏
Sluttychic.
Men haters are coming for you
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DeleteMe i am #wife no cook so oga cooks , i clean.
ReplyDeleteYour moniker though 🤣😂🤣😂🤣🤣
DeleteNa wa. 🤣🤣
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DeleteLol
DeleteStella, Sunday kwa
ReplyDeleteI would say I'm blessed to have someone that's totally understanding,
ReplyDeleteI only get to cook if I can, he does everything.
Awwwww! Lucky you
DeleteLucky you 😍
DeleteSluttychic.
Thanks my loves 😘😘😘😘😘😘😘😘😘😘
DeleteI can cook for a village and practically do everything else except dishes.I hate it with a passion so whenever I cook,madam knows she has to do the dishes no matter how piled up they are.When I do household chores,i don’t like to see it as helping out,I see it as doing my duty as part of the team.
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DeleteWhere are men like you? 😭😭😭
DeleteMy thoughts exactly! Stella's statement about men doing house chores because their wives are lazy isn't right. No chore is gender specific.
DeleteGod bless you Anon
The kind of man I married 💃💃💃💃. The way my hubby cleans the house ehhhh but He can't cook 😏
Deleteman wey sabi
DeleteHubby does laundry for the both of us while I cook and clean the house but since I conceived he's being the one cleaning, mopping, cooking and doing every other thing at home. My pregnancy is high risk and I was told never to stress myself until the baby comes. The only thing I'm permitted to do is shower which must be done while sitting down,eat food,watch film and observe a lot of bed rest. May God continue to bless my hubby for me. He's a very good man.
ReplyDeleteGod bless him.
DeleteI'm still a believer that there are good spouses out there ,
DeleteContrary to what we read .
God will bless him beyond his expectations and nothing will pull your both asunder. Amen
DeleteStella is it Sunday already in Germany 🇩🇪
ReplyDelete?!😳 it’s barely 8.30am here in the US.
I honestly pray to get married to a man that helps out, one that is thoughtful and considerate. You help ease my burden, I help ease yours... we work together to create stability and give each other peace...not one that thinks it should all be on the woman.
ReplyDeleteAmen on your behalf o!!!!
DeleteGod would grant you your heart desire.
Amen Choc 💕...from my lips to God's ears.
Deletecorrect yarns
DeleteWhenever my wife is busy with household chores I get busy as well, we don't share... It's common sense, I bath the kids, make breakfast, inshort I do most so I can have quite timw with her... You knw now.
ReplyDeleteThat's thoughtful sir.
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DeleteI'm glad I have a man who assists with our baby and cleaning. He sweeps and mops the floor twice a week and washes the bathroom but, kitchen duties however small, count him out... Lol..I feel great when he does theses things
ReplyDeleteI am happily saying lucky me, with a wide grin.
ReplyDeleteI didn't pay huge sums of buying price... Sorry I meant bride price for nothing, I grew up in a family of mum doing all.. My wife will do all, I am her husband and her king, she must serve me... What is happening?
ReplyDeletePele o Oba lola,oko iyawo elepon bulu.inu yin bu e o ri orun sa.
DeleteSo cos you paid huge bride price on her, she must do all the chores alone? That's not fair. Give her a hand, it won't make you an inch less. That's how kinds do 😕😕
DeleteSluttychic.
Mschew
DeleteWe have noticed you .
I hope you're happy now.
She must serve you and do all..m you are her king and she is your servant yea? Smh
DeleteEku orire sir
DeletePele King kong
DeleteKeep quiet there! You didn't pay nada.
DeleteYou paif "huge sum" for bride price yet you can't afford a help to assist your wife with chores.
Awon broke ass nigga forming anonymous big man.
I pity her already.
DeleteNo words for you oga. I pray you don't end up with my type. Anyway light and darkness never meet to start with.
DeleteThat thing up there was written to cause stir
DeleteExactly @16:01
DeleteHence my comment.
My husband an dolge work.. He will be forming busy, I will kukuma wait... We die here
ReplyDeleteLmao 😂 😂 😂 😂 😂 😂 😂 can imagine.he go nowhere 😁😁😁😁😁
DeleteSluttychic.
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DeleteStella today is Saturday oooo........Saturday in house gist not Sunday.......... hubby helps out when he can.....most times we pay someone to do the laundry and sweep the compound...
ReplyDeleteI am a bit lucky too.. Hubby helps to carry baby when I am busy in the kitchen... He also helps once in a while when am sick or not around
ReplyDeleteI have a husband who does nothing
ReplyDeleteIt's 8years of marriage
He even refused househelp but after giving birth to my 3rd child I said screw this suffer life,I invited my cousin brother to come stay with me and help with house chores
That's how we have been going!
I have a little relief
There are days I stubbornly remove my eyes from his dirty toilet and he is forced to clean it himself 😏😏
I am not lucky like you guys!!
Na wah! It is well with you. I think this should be on the table when courting. I don't mind if you won't help but pay another to help out. In fact I mind. I hate chores!!! I can cook up a storm in the kitchen but I hate going to the market.
Delete@kiks are you me? I don't mind spending the whole day in the kitchen but detest going to the market.
DeleteMy DH cooks with me, does laundry, babysits (all these when I am not disposed) and shops. All I have to do is write the list.
ReplyDeleteHe tells me that he does not want me to develop muscles by doing all those. (Maybe he want my nyansh to remain smooth 😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊)
Ahaaaaa! My Friends don already begin them chants o
Yesterday, when sdk post that dude complaining that my sisis don dey chop only mama put, their chants were
"I can't cook, I cacan't, never, over my living-dead body, on top of grave..."
Shuoooooooooooooooorrr! 😲😲😲😲😲😲😲😲😲😲
Wetin come change overnight?
Okwa ajuju in sincerity ooo
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Hubby helps with laundry and the kids..#luckyme
ReplyDeleteHe doesn't do much since we have a housekeeper but he's very hands on in the kitchen as in his hand is always inside one pot of fish or meat in the name of keeping me company. 😒
ReplyDeleteHe's doing well 🤣🤣
DeleteSomeone said "hubby helps to carry baby" I don't understand how a man carrying his own child is helping the woman.
ReplyDeleteIt's help for her and i'm sure some people can relate.
DeleteI was just scrolling down to type this. Which one is helps ? Once I am going to the gym by 4:30am before he leaves for work I carry our 2 months old baby and give him. While giving both of them good bye kisses
DeleteHmmm...I passed that comment. Each to his own.
DeleteSame thought. Likeeee the thing got me confused. “Helps me carry the baby”
Delete*dat messed up silly girl*
My hubby helps out willingly because he wants to, but when he sees I am laid back (deliberately lazy), he'll just turn a blind eye to the chores that need to be done or subtly remind me.
ReplyDeleteHelp kwa? No be two of them get the pikin,mmmmh, help carry your own sperm-produced pikin...na wa
DeleteMine does nothing,he says doo and gist with me while i work..he only takes his plate to the kitchen when he is done eating and says thank you always..dont know if that count for something...
ReplyDeleteMine is as the spirit leads. Some days he helps, other days he prefers to press phone.
DeleteI do the ones I can do, leave the rest.. He knows not to complain
Mine does nothing,he says doo and gist with me while i work..he only takes his plate to the kitchen when he is done eating and says thank you always..dont know if that count for something...
ReplyDeleteMy hubby hardly helps out but you need to see how he complains whenever the house is not sparkling clean. He even goes around looking for dirts just so he'll complain. When he manages to help out,he'll be frowning and complaining. I had no choice than to get a help cos cleaning always with two toddlers and doing business is not easy.
ReplyDeleteAlthough my nanny had to stop this week cos of some reasons plus she isn't feeling well,I don't even know where to start getting a new nanny from. I'm so tired of changing nannies,don't want to be exposing my kids to strangers like that and my nannies are not live ins between. My main issue is when I have to run errands, can't leave the kids home by themselves
yinmu if I hear say he help, he will just stretch legs there and be saying well done baby, well done baby kee u dia, I know he will read this post, better change my dia, he was even worse before but now he has started changing small small ,we are still on it I know God will take control, most times it depends on upbringing atthe same time, my husband grew up with his mom always doing all the chores home alone and working too, the husband refused to work and preferred to live off on the wife's salary, thankfully he doesn't depend on me for that part he works and sees that as his responsibility but u see that house chores hian na so so fight we dey take make am get involved, slowly but surely he will learn cus I cannot come and die
ReplyDeleteYou got me at well done baby keep you there😝😭😭
DeleteFor what,do want his name to change. He rather sit in the living room calling the whole world.Do you know he will sit at home waiting for me to do everything.
ReplyDeleteFor what,do want his name to change. He rather sit in the living room calling the whole world.Do you know he will sit at home waiting for me to do everything.
ReplyDeleteI will so love to have a spouse who will help around the house. I'm having trouble with my brother cos he's not just that type. I believe work should be shared,everyone should contribute
ReplyDeleteNot married yet
ReplyDeleteI help out when I'm available. Sometimes when I wake up early, I cook for the family. This particular period that the children are compulsorily at home has been used for bonding because my wife and I close earlier now due to a lull in business activities
ReplyDeleteWell done and God bless you good Bv hubby and daddy.
DeleteMy husband doesn't do anything at all..I've 2 hyper kids and d lil one is so clingy.i can't do anything if he's awake and d kids don't like staying with their dad..na so I go back pickin dey work and wash.attimes I wait for Dem kids to sleep so I can do chores..I wash by 4am and my lazy hubby will even come to d toilet to pee and go back to sleep.when he wakes up he'll start disturbing me with his prayers and speaking in tongues..don't know if his Bible didn't tell him to assist his wife.infact he's wicked.
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DeleteDon't break down o
If you can afford it get a help, it doesn't have to be a live in help .
Pls do what you can and leave the rest. You cannor comman kee yaself nau.
DeleteAbeg it's pure wickedness!!
DeleteNot married yet but as a nurse, I need to marry somone who is okay sharing house chores or we hire someone to do it. This includes cooking.
ReplyDeleteAmen on your behalf .
DeleteThank God for mine. We do everything together even without asking him to.
ReplyDeleteMine cannot boil bathing water😂😂
ReplyDeleteMajority is on me and he has learnt to take this and that because I dont let him rest,theres always been an helping hand+how/when do I insist on sharing chores if he leaves around 5am and return around 9pm?he got back after 11pm yesterday from Lagos traffick,to wake him up this morning and give him broom hard o😁😂
Iv known even before Day1 that getting him to do chores will be hard,I took it on cos I compliment him and he provides everything that can give me comfort.....
Best thing is to look well and choose peace of mind, if a man has traits u can't live with,please move!!
I basically do and help in everything. Cooking, washing, cleaning, shopping and whatever. She appreciates it too.
ReplyDeleteGod bless you. Used to think you were female.
DeleteMine can't boil water,and can't even clean his shoes he wears to office o.Hian!!! I have complained several times to no avail.Women whose spouse help with chores,count yourself lucky and please,do not take it for granted.
ReplyDeleteMy hubby helps with everything cleaning, laundry, feeding the kids, getting them ready in the morning. I am really blessed. He can’t cook though. I thank God for him
ReplyDeleteOne time I told my husband to help me bath the girls for school,he said men don't bath girls
ReplyDeletePlease is this true?
If that is his belief leave it like that.
DeleteWell,I don't know maybe my husband tries,but he's the one that bathes the kids,wash plates when I tell him to help me,lay our bed,helps me to get few things at the market once in a while ,dresses up for the kids sometimes,helps with cooking few times and tells me I didn't tell u to cook o when I am not feeling fine but all in all,I thank God for him because I still dey look for job but house chores no be am ,I am mostly tired being that I have OCD again
ReplyDeleteMy unemployed horse and actually believes he's helping me with chores like dishes n doesn't wash our sons clothes.i asked him if I was sppse to thank him for washing plates of food he ate food on that I worked to provide. hes been quiet since then.
ReplyDeleteYou have bad mouth..........I pray heaven smile on your husband with a good job so he can provide for you and son.
DeleteIt's not easy, but learn to overlook .
Ma please dont go about it this way...God will provide a job for him soon
DeleteI'd say I have the most wicked husband on earth. It's even a fight before he can bath the kids. Self-employed so he either on bed or making calls. Sleeps till 11am most times, wakes up to ask for food meanwhile I wake up 5am to get our 3kids ready for school, beg him to drop them off when I'm extremely tired and it's another tug of war cos he likes sleep. Then I clean the whole house, do dishes, laundry, cook, pick the kids later, do homework, etc. it's sometimes overwhelming including washing toilets, etc. this man doesn't even bulge. He rather takes his bath later in the evening and go have drinks with his friends living me with all the chores. Such a wicked man I would soon divorce. And me with OCD, I can't even see a dirty-semi dirty place and leave it.
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