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Sunday, March 22, 2020

Sunday In House Gists -Reason Men And Women Cheat Are Different...

Do you agree that men and women cheat for different reasons?









 Do you agree with this meme?
Have you ever cheated?Please tell us why and if you are male or female..
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103 comments:

  1. The Mystery Woman22 March 2020 at 14:02

    I'm waiting to read comments, I really want to learn.

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    1. Anonymous22 March 2020 at 14:18

      But they cheat for only fuck and the new fuck mate can replace the former partner....him arguement no too follow sha

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    2. Bini22 March 2020 at 14:19

      BRB let me get popcorn😁

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    3. Anonymous22 March 2020 at 14:19

      GOD said dont do it...HE didnt say she should not or he should not... HE said YOU should not despite your gender. Keep ya reasons behind

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    4. Anonymous22 March 2020 at 14:52

      On be full of Nigerian Men's we categorically agree that for once someone finally figured us out.

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    5. Anonymous22 March 2020 at 15:07

      Steve Harvey said it already but I think the dynamics have changed ooo. Some women cheat just for a sweet fuck so no strings attached

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    6. Anonymous22 March 2020 at 17:29

      People cheat cos they're BORED, either with their sex life, romance, their life in her general or something, but it is Boredom and they're only trying to fill that up with some reckless excitement.

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    7. Anonymous22 March 2020 at 20:47

      So I had this guy I was dating,he was okay and very responsible and he talked marriage right from d start so I knew we were heading to a future together. He was only waiting for me to finish school. In my 300 level I met this other guy, hmmmmmmm.....wasn't as wealthy or perfect as BF but there was just something about him I couldn't resist. He was just different,being with him showed me things I didn't even know was missing in my relationship.
      I just wanted to be friends with him but I fell deeply in love.
      All my friends were mad (especially because Ex was very generous to dem) dey didn't understand.
      Las Las I left my perfect relationship for this imperfect man who treats me perfectly.
      Today we are married with a child and I thank God everyday that I chose him.
      Oh I forgot to mention that few days after we broke up, Mr perfect Ex took home a six months pregnant lady, dey got married 3 months after and had the baby two weeks after d wedding.

      I was just thanking God,like what if I had not given hubby a chance?

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    8. Anonymous23 March 2020 at 02:49

      I cheat because he doesn't send me. I can get my hair done and he won't notice, he doesn't touch me in months sometimes

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  2. DON™22 March 2020 at 14:04

    If I talk my mind, I go get problem. Let me just read comment.
    BRB

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    1. Anonymous22 March 2020 at 14:21

      WIth the way women are told to keep the rules and men are given a blind eye, you will wonder if heaven above is prepared only for women .

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    2. UGA BABE22 March 2020 at 14:57

      Talk your mind na. Or are you been stalked?

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    3. DON™22 March 2020 at 18:50

      Hmmnnn

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  3. OLAWEALTH ANKARA 07037210981, KAURA MARKET, ABUJA22 March 2020 at 14:07

    Lolx😂😂😂😂

    The thing can pain man if he finds out his woman is cheating/cheated..

    The thing can dun won gan.. You can't take what you dish out..😂😂😂

    Me I don't cheat oo.. One man, one woman.. But don't choke me with love..😌😌😌

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  4. Anonymous22 March 2020 at 14:09

    Married men whu have side chcis are so jealous.why?.

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    1. Push up22 March 2020 at 18:03

      Not all women cheat emotionally o, everyone just wants to have fun abeg, some cheating can happen in the moment like with someone you never discussed emotions with, it can happen when you want to just taste the gbola... People cheat for various reasons abeg.
      If you dish it, you should be able to take it.

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  5. Anonymous22 March 2020 at 14:11

    It's true!!! When men cheat, they expect you to look above that.
    Some will say why not be the bigger person and look away.
    Some men cheat for the fun of it, not that they are not well treated and respected in their homes.
    When you do it to them, they can't take it. You'd be shocked at how badly they react.
    Women break up mentally before breaking up physically. Once she's done with you mentally, dude, that's the end.

    Sluttychic.

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    1. TEEJAY~ {BIG TEE EZEGE}22 March 2020 at 15:04

      You are right... A woman takes her time before her decision and when she's done, it's hardly she looks back.

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    2. Chocolát Noir 22 March 2020 at 15:41

      Women are more calculated and intentional about cheating,
      For a woman to cheat on you she would have overly processed her thoughts .

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    3. Anonymous22 March 2020 at 15:53

      You are right

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  6. Anonymous22 March 2020 at 14:13

    The only cheating im concerned about right now is cheating death, self quarantine during this virus outbreak is my mistress.

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  7. Perxian 22 March 2020 at 14:13

    I don't agree. Women can cheat just to fuck too but mostly for MONEY.

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    1. TEEJAY~ {BIG TEE EZEGE}22 March 2020 at 14:53

      You have a point here and such women could be dangerous.

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  8. Anonymous22 March 2020 at 14:14

    Men and stupid talk.
    1. If a husband has small prick, his wife can cheat cos she misses big dick. But e no mean say she no like her husband
    2. If a husband is a broke ass, a wife can cheat to get money to take care of her husband

    So why are stupid men justifying their infidelity by saying it is just sex? Are men not dumping their wives and kids cos of side chic which some men end up marrying?

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    1. Anonymous22 March 2020 at 15:54

      I wonder!
      Very selfish creatures.

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  9. Nigerian first daughter22 March 2020 at 14:14

    Cheating is wrong irrespective of the reason given for doing it. Faithfulness should be every couples watchword.

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  10. Omajenny22 March 2020 at 14:15

    Interesting read....will he back with my pop corn

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  11. DOCTOR EESAH SULTAN HERBALS22 March 2020 at 14:17

    To me, the reason men and women cheat boils down to one single reason - lack of the fear of God 👌

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    1. Anonymous22 March 2020 at 15:57

      I agree because everyone who wants to cheat will always find a reason, but if you fear God and keep his commandments, you will seek every reason to be faithful to your husband/wife.

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    2. Anonymous22 March 2020 at 16:42

      EESAH (Mr Nobody) excellent!
      Another good point from you. 👏👏👏

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  12. Anonymous22 March 2020 at 14:18

    To some extent, true. A man can love his girlfriend/wife yet cheats on her with another. A woman is wired emotionally. She could be talked into having a child for her side man yet married which is reason for all the shouts of DNA these days. Very few women cheat without emotions.

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    1. Anonymous22 March 2020 at 15:09

      They kept saying it and bow you unconsciously starting to believe that shit.
      Women can believe just about anything, tueh

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    2. Anonymous22 March 2020 at 15:32

      Men using mind games to defend their rubbish since 1950

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  13. Anonymous22 March 2020 at 14:20

    Most women who cheat do that based on not having enough love,sex and affection from their men.
    A married man abandons his wife for like 5 years or even more without touching her, what do you think she would do?
    Some men make their wives feel worthless cos they look a bit bigger than they used to. What happens after having 4 to 5 kids? Your body will never remain same. These women went through so much stress to give you beautiful kids and all you can do is dislike her body? Some go all out to body shame their wives. Some of these women loose confidence and once they find some other man who finds them worthy, they give in.
    Being faithful is hard. You don't have to be perfect, be considerate towards each other.

    Sluttychic.

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    1. Anonymous22 March 2020 at 17:12

      @Slutty you made a very good point.

      The men that bodyshame their wives do not take a closer look at themselves in the mirror. If they do, they would see their receding hairlines or paunches.

      I've always wondered why women give birth to so many children. 4 to 5, not that they are twins or triplets in 2 pregnancies.
      No woman should go through that stress more than twice especially wwomen that are 30 and above except they choose to.

      Women should also watch the quantity of what they eat during and after pregnancy.

      Younger women snap back faster after childbirth depending on their body structure and genes.

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    2. Anonymous22 March 2020 at 19:32

      Every woman's body is unique, has nothing to do with age or number of children. Speak for yourself pls.

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  14. Anonymous22 March 2020 at 14:21

    Anybody fornicating is CHEATING on God, cheating on their bodies (1 Cor. 6:18)
    and cheating him/herself out of eternity. 🔊🔊
    Ladies are the facilitators of cheating because they are the ones that DECIDE if
    sex should take place. If the dudes decide and force their way, it is called RAPE.
    So my (Naija) sisis supplying forks, close legs and those lecherous, depraved dudes
    no go see accomplices unu anugo?
    Ndi uta can shoot at God's word wey I cite above oo. 🤷🏻‍♀️🤷🏻‍♀️🤷🏻‍♀️

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    1. BaeisBeulah😍😘💕22 March 2020 at 21:02

      Tell them oh
      Mama ANG...
      Truth is a person that will cheat will still cheat even if Christ comes himself and tell them not to...
      The funny thing is even with all the cheating no one has gotten an award so far...
      The 'hole' is still where it's been since ages... Nothing new like maybe a woman now has her 'hole' in her forehead that's why the men cheat kuz they want to know if that one will taste different 😌😌 or the man's 'pisi' has changed its position that's why the women cheat...
      If you fear God you will keep his commandments...
      A word is enough 🙌

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  15. Sabella.22 March 2020 at 14:23

    I have two friends who only cheat just for sex, so stop speaking for women. Some women just don't care too.

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    1. Sabella.22 March 2020 at 15:31

      Besides... you are cheating with a woman who obviously has a man in her life because she knows you are already married and aren't planning to wife her right? So if we are to go by this fake reason we are fed with up here, then it means you have the potential to win her over from her real boyfriend. But are you planning to leave your wife for her? No!. So you have nothing to worry about when your girlfriend or wife cheats on you too ok? Because just like you, The brother she is cheating with doesn't have the desire to steal her away from you, ( he has his own wife and real girlfriend he is going home to) and he will return her back to you when they are done.

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    2. Anonymous22 March 2020 at 18:06

      😂😂.

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  16. TEEJAY~ {BIG TEE EZEGE}22 March 2020 at 14:24

    People cheat for different reasons but naturally,the men cheat more than the women. Before a woman cheat on her man, it's likely the man has lost his place in her life. I perfectly agree with the meme above.

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  17. Mallam koboko 22 March 2020 at 14:26

    Chest is chest biko whether it is for love or sex. People who say this do not understand
    1. The essence of a relationship is to enjoy the props of companionship
    2. Be the best version of yourself
    3. Leave as freely as you came.

    Cheating basically means you are lying to yourself about how important the relationship is in the first place. If you joy in a relationship is good sex and u r nt getting it then go get and leave her, if he is nt the one not bringing out the best in you leave him for the best you find. Don't come here and place these excuses. Not getting what you want out of your partner leave as freely as you came and go find it. Just cos you are greedy for super sex and pun or envious for another's perfect man experience it's your choice to cheat or not just as it is your choice to leave or stay. The grass ain't always greener but focus on yours so intently that you don't know if there is grass elsewhere.

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    1. Anonymous22 March 2020 at 15:11

      I'm copying this. Lovely piece here

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  18. Anonymous22 March 2020 at 14:27

    Am married and cheat as my husband's earning cannot give us a better life.I hope and pray he doesn't find out.Am saving and investing the funds my partner gives me since I know nothing last for ever.Ps it feels good letting this out.

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    1. Ogbebor Rhoda Rita22 March 2020 at 15:00

      Nothing justifies cheating though.

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    2. Anonymous22 March 2020 at 15:10

      You are doing well, ooin!

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    3. Ojeros22 March 2020 at 15:38

      Never cheat for financial reasons.
      You will forever be a slave to such lifestyle.
      You were a runs girl in school that is why it became much easier for you to go back

      Start a business today please.
      Be financially independent.The sweetest joy ever

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    4. Anonymous22 March 2020 at 16:11

      I pray you don't get caught because even the man you are trying to help will not defend you.

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  19. Anonymous22 March 2020 at 14:32

    My wife got fat and i started eating young and succulent ones outside. How can I get an erection looking at this bag of yam?

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    1. DON™22 March 2020 at 14:46

      Shame on you.

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    2. SuperMom22 March 2020 at 14:47

      God have mercy on you.

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    3. TEEJAY~ {BIG TEE EZEGE}22 March 2020 at 14:50

      Your wife a bag of yam? Shame on you.

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    4. Sabella.22 March 2020 at 14:59

      For your wife to look like a bag of yam in your eyes, I am sure you look like a cargo of fufu. I am sure you have a pot belly that you wiggle around but she is managing you like that.

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    5. Ogbebor Rhoda Rita22 March 2020 at 15:00

      Really? You're a disgrace

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    6. Anonymous22 March 2020 at 15:01

      And u think u are not a bag of garri urself??? Let me tell u most women fake those moans in bed. Even the young succulent ones. As for ur wife she’s probably counting ceiling boards and praying for it to be over when u climb her.

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    7. Anonymous22 March 2020 at 15:08

      Nah, you didn't cheat because she got fat, you cheated because you're a dog. She's now a bag of yam after marrying you. Some young boys are looking for that bag of yam so they can pound it or eat it hot. Some like them thick like your wife. I pray a good man that knows what to do with her body locates her and replaces you.

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    8. Anonymous22 March 2020 at 15:30

      When sensible men are talking, you sef go talk?
      You are not even a boy yet. Only God knows what you do and say to that poor woman. Smh.

      Sluttychic.

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    9. Ojeros22 March 2020 at 15:40

      Let me share a secret with you.
      That your bag of yam might still be very attractive to the man outside.
      Appreciate your wife today before one guy starts eating her up

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    10. Chocolát Noir 22 March 2020 at 15:44

      You guys just succeeded in giving this anon unmerited attention.

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  20. Anonymous22 March 2020 at 14:34

    I kind of like native chick cheating, as coded and quick action too sweet. Don't mind if my babe indulge with same sex, but can't stand opposite sex.

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  21. Anonymous22 March 2020 at 14:36

    Yes i am cheating on my husband for affection.
    He is not faithdul either and has never been and very abusive.
    I am not doing it as a pay back honestly.
    It is just what i enjoy at the moment.
    Men do whatever they enjoy at the moment, so why can't women?

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    1. Anonymous22 March 2020 at 14:47

      do it openly my dear.
      men dont hide theirs either.
      im with you. dont be afraid

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    2. Anonymous22 March 2020 at 14:47

      expecting divorce once he find out.

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    3. Sabella.22 March 2020 at 15:01

      14:47 From the way she described him, he is no prize at all. Wonder why she had to cheat before she divorces him.

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    4. Anonymous22 March 2020 at 15:43

      Anon 14:47
      My husband doesn't do his openly too.
      We are on the same page.
      Worry over your perfect life.

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    5. Anonymous22 March 2020 at 15:45

      Anon 14:47
      You had to comment twice.
      You sound hurt and i can see you a Nigerian man.
      You guys cannot take what you dish out daily to women.

      Dont worry about divorce...

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    6. Anonymous22 March 2020 at 17:16

      I totally understand you madam. I pray you sort yourself out soon, whether to stop or move on.

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    7. Push up22 March 2020 at 18:13

      My dear do you. No one has ever died of divorce, why would a man be abusive to his spouse? These days anything you do has an effect.
      Just save enough incase you get caught.

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    8. Anonymous22 March 2020 at 21:38

      And when you get pregnant, you pass it to him as his baby or you commit murder?
      God's judgment dey.

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  22. Mystique22 March 2020 at 14:39

    The main reason men and women cheat is a lack of self control. Finito.

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  23. Black slimzy22 March 2020 at 14:41

    I'm here to read comments, this is going to be an interesting section today

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  24. Anonymous22 March 2020 at 14:43

    Cos i was almost goin insane,my husband is an Angel outside but a devil inside,d emotional trauma is/was too much. He doesnt even cheat, i considered using snipper to commit suicide 3times, if not for my children, someone that asked me for sex d day i lost my mother, lost her at age 62, im an only child.she was my all, a part of me died with her. She died in d mornin, he told me to cook in d afternoon and requested for sex and got angry cos i didnt give him, story plenty oo. But i stopped and asked God for forgiveness

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  25. Anonymous22 March 2020 at 14:43

    Enter your comment...am a guy.i cheat bcos I lost my job then.she connected me then I pick a job with multinational company.my wife didn't know.

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  26. Anonymous22 March 2020 at 14:43

    Why do these men lump all women together ,some women are wired like men ,them too dey go chop ,clean mouth and waka!!

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  27. Anonymous22 March 2020 at 14:50

    I cheat for fun, when I'm bored and husband is careless. I am the wife material, I don't nag, i give him 100 yards of space, he is so grateful to have me coz i give him peace of mind, but alas not all that glitters us gold. I pretend n put up a facade just to make him happy, but if I don't go out and release some steam, i might go insane. Let him do his own while I do mine, I'm fine with his naivety.

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  28. Anonymous22 March 2020 at 14:58

    What I can say is that a woman cheats for mainly lack of sex, attention or money. It may take a while, And we Tend to endure for long but when we Do, we usually form an emotional attachment with the Cheat partner. Men just cheat cos they feel they can. So guys pls check urselves. If u are not giveing ur wife or girlfriend those 3, anything can happen. And when it does that’s it.

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  29. Anonymous22 March 2020 at 15:00

    I cheated cos I needed a hard di#ck,kiss,head and to find succor for his cheating arse..

    Ain't cheating anymore,no strength for hide and seek.

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  30. Anonymous22 March 2020 at 15:02

    Stella permit me to comment.
    What do men really want? Some time ago i caught my husband going through my chats when he is supposed to be asleep. This has been happening but i acted like i wasnt aware till he questioned a conversation i had with a family member.
    When i asked him how he knew we chatted , his response was he stumbled on the chat in my phone.lol.
    Told him i cant give him any response because he invaded my privacy not like i have anything to hide.
    I was angry with him, so i locked my whatsapp but after thinking it through i opened it.
    Stella there was a time my phone was bad and was been fixed,i was sharing his with him. A facebook chat dropped and to be sincere i mistakenly opened it,i called him and gave him the phone ,i didnt ask him anything about that chat but i noticed he was uncomfortable.
    To the main issue now, yesterday he said i have stopped posting our child's pictures on his IG page,told him i have been busy but will.
    So last night i took his phone so i can collect some pictures to post only to find out that certain app were locked . And i am wondering y a married man will lock his apps . Is it from me?? What exactly is he hiding?
    I want to confront him. Do you think i am over reacting ? What is your take on this??

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    1. Anonymous22 March 2020 at 16:52

      You are not overreacting. Since he polices your apps, you have every right to do the same to him

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    2. Push up22 March 2020 at 18:18

      Dont mind him, if i were you ill put big padlock on my own phone, let him keep guessing.
      He is cheating and probably with a married woman thats why he is suspicious of you. He wants you to put up your kids pictures so he will scatter your chances (not like you even plan on doing anything ) men are indeed selfish 🤣

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  31. snarKer22 March 2020 at 15:05

    That's bullshit. This is just a lame excuse men have come up with to justify their philandering ways. Both sexes cheat because they lack self-control, the fear of God and respect for their partners. I dare say people who Cheat are slaves to lust. Y'all should get out with that "it's just sex" BS. If it is just sex, then be content enough to have it with the woman you took a vow with.

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  32. becky22 March 2020 at 15:33

    I can't cheat on my man even if i find out he is cheating i ll rather dump his silly ass than start behaving irresponsibly upandan.

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  33. bumblebee22 March 2020 at 15:36

    I kinda agree with him but then a woman can also cheat cos she needs the money and no strings attached.

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  34. Anonymous22 March 2020 at 15:36

    My boyfriend abroad says he does not cheat, why I keep my self for him til he comes back to marry me. We are both hardworking so I’m not after him because of his money. He told me today the last time he had sex was in January. I felt so bad

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    1. Shooter Gyal22 March 2020 at 16:52

      Lmao and you believe him??

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    2. KIDJO aka S.B.V (Sexiest Blog Visitor ) 👸👄💜22 March 2020 at 19:08

      Stay there make pant dey wear you....nigga is cheating over there.better shine your eyes 😕😕😕

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    3. Sugar babe22 March 2020 at 20:58

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    4. Anonymous22 March 2020 at 21:55

      Anonymous, yess it's possible he has not had sex since January. Dont believe all these negative comments here. Especially if you speak with him at odd times, early in the mornings and last thing every night and during the weekends, if he never takes calls at odd times, then it is slightly fishy. When I was dating my girlfriend who was in Nigeria I never cheated for 8months until she secured her Visa and came over to Scotland, I got so used to talking with her every day, while driving to work every morning and on my way back and once I'm home, shower and having tea (dinner) we speak and before I sleep which is 11pm, no lady in the UK will tolerate her man being on the phone with another woman, so it is easy to catch your man. Nigerians believe all men cheat, some men are also contented when they find someone they really like. Is Mr. Eazi cheating? Be a confident woman and take care of yourself

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  35. Anonymous22 March 2020 at 15:56

    Don't agree, a babe that her genital meet and greet partner is not close by will cheat given the chance if she is so inclined.
    What we saw during nysc days when girls slept around because their spouse or boyfriend was in a different city.
    Has nothing to do with emotions or replacing you, she has no self control and wants to have sex.

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    1. Chocolát Noir 22 March 2020 at 17:02

      Lmao @ meet and greet
      How do yall come up with these 😂😂😂😂

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    2. Anonymous23 March 2020 at 01:28

      The meet and greet week me 😁
      U mean totoh n preeq dey do meet and greet now?

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  36. Anonymous22 March 2020 at 16:31

    I never see my spec, if I do? I will cheat. I need to laugh again, I need to feel appreciated. No sex but someone I can connect with, gist, remind me am still beautiful.

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  37. Anonymous22 March 2020 at 17:35

    I don't cheat even when I found out my bf is cheating. I have this intuitive spirit and when I got closer to God, it increased. God uses dreams to warn me of people esp the guys I'm seeing. The last rship I had was so paranoid about cheating that I knew he will cheat and the distance didn't help. Turns out I was right...thank God we never met. It pained me sha but I'd rather be single and have peace of mind than be with a cheater.

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  38. excited courtesy22 March 2020 at 18:33

    I agree with the meme.

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  39. Anonymous23 March 2020 at 15:27

    My husband is a good man, doesn't cheat but I don't love him so much, I simply like him and committed to him.

    Once I see my spec, I would like to be friends with the guy. Not sleeping with him, but just someone to make me feel like we just started a relationship. I want to go back to that stage. I am 25 by the way.

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