I dont see anything wrong with this if its not all the time and even if it is,food is food..lol
Friday, March 20, 2020
Man Alleges Nigerian Women No Longer Cook
This man is ranting and i kinda agree with him cos almost all the married women i know in Nigeria order for food from food vendors and stock in their fridges......
I dont see anything wrong with this if its not all the time and even if it is,food is food..lol
I dont see anything wrong with this if its not all the time and even if it is,food is food..lol
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It shudnt be all the time na, haba! Wat are dey now teaching therir kids.
ReplyDeleteThis comment has been removed by a blog administrator.
DeleteSir, and so?
DeleteIn this Lagos, many jobless husbands are married to caterers. That catering they do is what feeds the useless husband and their lovely children. If we don’t patronize these vendors how will their families survive?
DeleteWe are currently having plumbing issues and also we need some electrical connections in the house but my husband would rather bring a plumber ND an electrian to come do d job. Why can't fix them? Is he not a man!? Ndiara 100%
DeleteSo? Do you and I'll do me. Mtchew. Una wan kill another man pickin on top food?
DeleteFind your way to the kitchen. She cannot com an kee herself.
ReplyDeleteMarried women doesn't mean jobless women or full-time housewives. Even some full-time housewives still have workers around the home. Most men don't even care about having wives just to cook all the time when you can get a chef. I honestly do not see how this is a problem.
ReplyDeletewomen you can also try this plan a menu of various dishes get an agoyin to buy these ingredients bring them to your house and cook all sorts in your presence you will see actually how she is cooking it and even learn or make adjustments then freeze them all that food can last for a month sef .thats what i know some older women do
DeleteAbeggi. Let those who like to cook do so. But truthfully it isn't for everyone, especially busy wives.
DeleteIf they can afford it, why are you pained? Did they use your money to order?
ReplyDeleteA woman will wake up by 4am, get herself and the kids ready for work and school, go through Lagos traffic and come back after working tirelessly in the office, one idiot will now be angry she used her hard earned money to buy already prepared food.
If e too pain you, enter kitchen and cook for her dear.
Poverty die die die die
Na wa
DeleteBigbanty 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂 your “Na wa” is funny.
DeleteE-Hug my darling.
DeleteSome of these men ranting are "house-husband". Bunch of lazy people.
Bunch of lazy men, help your wives out. With all women do, most people don't understand that sleep deprivation weakens the soul 😂, waking up midnight to check on the children, take them to toilet and pray for them midnight doesn't mean you go back to sleep immediately. Atimes my eyes are wide open till morning.
DeleteIl think about packed lunch: if kids don't want school meal for that day, polish school shoes, sort school uniforms etc. My husband's lunch as well for days he's taking lunch to work.
I don't want to go on.....
Thank God my husband is a good cook and sees all the hard work I put in and helps) encourage me cos the thing can be tiring 😉. Me sef I'm off to work 9-5pm, thank God I work 3 days a week.
If not before you know it as a woman: you start to look old. You can't even go to the toilet in peace because your kids are struggling to get in and stay with you 🙄🥴🤷🏾♀️
Some of these comments are making my eyes to be 'turninoninown' shioorr.
DeleteMadam working class...what are you working that you wake up at 4am to do all these？ Dem no pay you salary？ Use some of it to pay a hand in your neighbiurhood to resume early mornings to assist you.
At this rate even that meal you prepare will surely be tasteless because you are near exhausted, if not fagged out. You want to die？ Na wa.
If ill and there is no option,we can order food and my family will eat it wholeheartedly, in the absence of such,I find it embarrassing that a married woman cannot own her position in her home.
My Kitchen is my pride,that is how I was raised.
Xhirted dont mind them, lazy women, women in the past had 8 kids and many still woke up early to fix meals and go to work, weak Genes
DeleteNa dem, na their type go like to dey see women pound yam sotey their sweat go enter mix with the pounded yam.
DeleteAbeg go siddon with your "kitchen is my pride". Do you know what it is to be a working mother in Lagos?
DeleteMy sister leaves home 4.50am everyday, otherwise she'll be late. She returns 9pm at the earliest.
Where is the time or strength to be cooking one yeye food?
So far belle full😁
ReplyDeleteBut sincerely I prefer cooking my meals no matter how tired I am so as to control what goes into my food for the health of my family .
The number of times I've eaten out since the beginning of this year isn't up to five times, I make any thing I want
May God keep me from marrying a woman that will purposely refuse cooking for the family.
ReplyDeleteA woman's place is NOT in the kitchen, I agree. However, women are also naturally nurturers and caregivers. My wife cares for me, while I also support her.
Even the Westerners that we love to copy, women also cook and care for their families.
Thats the way it ought to be.
The anon up there say other wise
DeleteMen ought to be providers!! If the woman is doing as much as the man, I don't see anything with her ordering food and stocking the house.... Do y'all want to kill her??
DeleteWhile I prefer cooking because I'm a very very very picky eater, I don't see anything wrong in a woman ordering and stocking up the house once in a while as long as it's not a habit!!
The westerners?? I live among them. Some are so dirty and lazy and all they do is heat up ready made meals in the microwave for a few minutes. Please!
DeleteWell said Anonymous 14:55, just eat will even do the trick for some. Na to order online
DeleteAmen to your prayer.
DeleteThankfully not all men feel the same way.
Oga you no get hand to cook your meal? Abeg shift Chinese virus is the main issue here now.
ReplyDeleteHe's very wrong to generalize.
ReplyDeleteMy elder sister still cooks frequently, eating out is just once in a while...
Everyone should do whatever works for them in their relationships/marriages.
Everyone should do whatever works for them, the same way chinese are bat and snake that worked for them and now we are stuck with a virus, most of these women will never let a man know they cant cope with multi tasking before marriage, they will even travel to other states to serve a man and after securing the marriage, they automatically change and make their lives full of complaints, I go to the markets 2wice a week, I go to bed by 9 and force my kids to do same, I wake up by 5 and do meals and everything else then get them and myself ready for school and work.
DeleteNa you get sense and the earlier people receive sense the better for them. Please if cooking is by force for you don't marry a wife who does not like or want to cook.
Delete
ReplyDeleteI love cooking and it gives me great joy when people eat my food and have a beautiful satisfactory smile on their faces.
Some men don’t like the idea of their women ordering food, but for peace sakes, they ignore and get themselves a side chic who is good with cooking. Some wives have lost their husbands to these side chics and they haven’t even realized it.
I wonder what they teach their children.
Some women are proud they can’t cook and see those that can cook as slaves.
How can a woman not know how to cook?
Sluttychic, you don't have to bring down other women just because they Don cook. If you enjoy cooking good for you.
DeleteWho else notice sluttychic is shopping for husband on SDK.
No side chick cooks. This is the lie frustrated and abandoned housewives tell their innocent daughters to further the victim chain across generations.
DeleteThe hotels theside pieces are taken to don't have an oven in the rooms. Rather they have a menu and phone to call up food. Even the lawyer that died after active duty with a sex worker ordered her food. This is the lie wicked men tell to further age their wives so they can't leave. When they are caught with one of their concubines or customers, they say they are visual beings and the wife has given up on her looks forgetting that pounding yam and the heat from stew can age one fast.
No sex worker or runs girl carries pot or stove to stand on the road or to go and spend time with Oga on weekends.
If your life's mission is to keep a wandering man, please realize unfaithful men take their sideys to peppersoup joint, they don't give her money for fish. Cook for yourself and your health. Even bachelors don't die of malnutrition.
Anon 1435 you are my sheroe!
Deletethe way you people talk about side chicks like they are better. why is it that when these side chicks turned wives their husbands still cheats?. Nobody loses a husband because a sidechick is better,it just men insatiable wants of needing more pussies for keeps.Let that man marry that side chick and pray tell he won't still cheat on her.
DeleteExample sincerely asked the actresses that snatched other women's husband how far the snatched man is faithful. The man has moved to another skillful cook according to your theory.
Anon God bless you. How many side chics have the time to be cooking for their married lover? Except for mistresses in a relationship with oga and oga rented the place for her.
DeleteSidechics may cook for their boyfriends but as for married men, lol. Married men take them to classy restaurants, they buy take out and eat hotel foods.
Slutty Chick, one carton of hand sanitizers for you.
DeleteFine girl wey get sense.
True words sis!
Delete14:35, what are you on about?
Close you mouth this anon 14:28.you think there are no well groomed ladies on this blog?why the sudden attack on slutty?something is wrong with your brain, ode.
DeleteI AM A WIFE NOT A COOK
DeleteLazy complaining women, if you know you cant do the cooking when your husband isnt rich enough to get a chef then leave, leave the marriage and stop complaining, yeye women.
Delete19.47 when you get married wear your wife out . Lazy man
DeleteTo each ,her own choice.
ReplyDeleteI love cooking and feeding people.It's not a hard deal for me.
Some people can't cook. Some won't want to cook.As long as your partner is comfortable with your choice,it doesn't affect the country negatively.
But it's best when you prepare meal for your family.
Bv: official prestige
Well said
DeleteIf men can take up all financial responsibilities e for good o. Oga , women these days work to support the home, cooking may not be feasible most especially for the ones in lagos. try to understand please, i aint married and sometimes i eat out. ko easy rara
ReplyDeleteSome thing is wrong with your body or gene.
Delete21.32 is your brain firmly latched on the right way?
DeleteCould your defective reasoning be ancestral???
Not where I am.. I still love showing off my culinary expertise even now my kids are schooling overseas and just me and my hubby. I love cooking up a storm and I always attend school of Wok anytime I'm in the UK as a a hobby. Moreover I doubt if anyone can cook like me. I love to cook and have people come to eat because food is sooo cheap in Abuja, I love cooking
ReplyDeleteI still prepare my meals because I am not comfortable buying cooked meals outside but I have nothing against those who do. Nothing wrong with it as long as the hubby is in support.
ReplyDeleteFood is not food . Do you know what was used in its preparation ??? That’s how they wld use paracetamol to boil meat etc . Abeg oh .
ReplyDeleteSo many obese children these days .
Cases of childhood diabetes has also increased.
I once bought food, from restaurant, They added one big cowleg for me. I was already saying I will use knife to pieces the meat for easy eating. Only for me to try cuting with my teeth and the meat practically melted in my mouth. The thought of paracetamol softened meat came to my mind.
DeleteThe next time I went there, I asked what they used to soften their cowleg and the lady said its just normal boiling and leaving the meat overnight in the stew. I still had my doubts because I cook and know how tough those meat can be.
if u use a pressure pot, u may get better results
DeleteShuooooooooooooooorrrr! 😮😮
ReplyDeleteSo my Naija girls no longer even sabi mix the regular indomies (that knock them oga on top engines for legitimacy??).😮😮
Jisie nu ike o -make una dey order for food while they are ordering for una...make we forget that one maka ndi uta's arrows 🤷🏻♀️🤷🏻♀️
Read what you wrote. Are you not a retard? Do you even understand your own writing?
Delete@18:15
DeleteOnye uta, you still shot your arrows?
😂😂😂😂😂😂
Thanks for making me laugh and thanks for the insults inugo.
Really! There is more to this life than cooking and food. Some women do not have time to cook so they order and stock up to enable them get other things done for their families.If a woman enjoys cooking by all means let her cook but if a woman due to one reason or the other cannot provide cooked food for their family and they decide to order pls make we allow them.
ReplyDeleteNigerian men demand to much from their women and cannot even keep their own end of the bargain.
Women
Cook, caregiver, sex mate, submissive, financially stable and must contribute equally to the house,cleaner etc
Men
Financially stable or maybe has potential and his penis 😜
Notice how the list is long and endless for the women.
Who else notice men no longer bwash their cars they take it to car wash?
Bayo Adedosu mind ya business and let the women do what works for them
Good one annony.until one drops dead from too many house chores,they will not understand.I can't kill my self abeg
DeleteMr Bayo you can as well cook you know..A woman should have ''a me'' time not everyday kitchen...
DeleteLikeeeeeeeeeeeeee, the demand on women is sooo much!!!
DeleteAnd the only important responsibility of a Man which is to provide, they've decided to share it with women too!!
Everyone should do what makes them happy Biko!!
Thank you Anon 1417. The guy who made the comment is apparently based in the US. Would he even dare ask an American woman half of the crap he is asking Naija women to do?
DeleteOga, there's also a growing trend amongst men I see nowadays. They allow their wives to help pay bills, sch fees even feed their families. Men allow their wives to work just as they work and come back same time.
ReplyDeleteMtscheeeew.
Me too! I have noticed it!! Gone are those good old days. Let Buhari sign an executive order for men of nowadays to cater for their homes as their grandfathers did, including all bills, fees, and salaries for domestic staff. Make it a law for only landlords with at least 2 cars to marry let me see the man that would have enough time to be doing compound minister of labor, writing names of those that are buying stew. Nonsense.
DeleteExit the marriage if you are not comfortable,I blame men wey dey marry una.
Delete21.30 I reject anyone wey go marry slave driver like you
DeleteMay God save women from monsters like you
Stella, having to order out food at all times is not good. Especially for families with young children. Yes we are busy working moms, but it leaves a bad taste when I see women Monday to Friday buying food from mama puts with their children lunch box, for them to take to school.
ReplyDeleteGiven the largely unsanitary condition that large scale foos are prepared in, it is not safe and healthy for the family.
It shouldn't be a regular.
Hahahahaha una with Coro. Abeg stop worrying too much about it. That is what is killing people
ReplyDeleteShe is not a wife material. It is more expensive and unhealthy to eat outside especially considering the "mortuary water" stories in Nigeria. God forbid. As a man, I would rather cook the food than have wifey buying food from vendors. Once I start cooking, she becomes easily dispensable.
ReplyDeleteJust look at this goat. See your mouth like she becomes easily dispensable, because you came to this world to eat ozour.
DeleteNa dem!
DeleteAnd once she sees a richer man or taste a bigger prick YOU become easily dispensable
DeleteWhy marry? why not go and get a cook
DeleteThey are blindly wasting their money, those vendors can be expensive fa
ReplyDeleteBut how is it mr bayo business though. Some men won’t just mind their business. Is he hungry. I cook and I hardly eat out but can he just focus on his own home. If you ask him now he doesn’t know how to cook. Cooking isn’t easy sometimes especially when you’re busy.
ReplyDeleteIf u ask him now, his wife is paying the bills at home. U think any man that is working hard for his money has time to be looking at silly issues??
DeleteAs far as there is money, why will I enter the kitchen.
ReplyDeleteMoney does the cooking.. Can't enter kitchen when people are ready to do it for you for a fee
I know a woman who doesn't cook at all yet her husband is CRAZY about her.
ReplyDeleteI know a woman who's one of the best cooks know yet her husband cheats about.
At the end of the day, marry someone who loves you whether you cook or not. Shikena
If they can afford,why not?? But it shouldn't be everyday thing tho
ReplyDeleteI personally enjoys cooking but if some can't cook and decides to order all well and good
So why can't he cook if he wants the taste of home cooked meals. I don't know of any hospitals where female newborns are stamped on the forehead upon birth as, future cook.
ReplyDeleteSo? Living in Nigeria itself is tiring enough, you can't just go and complicate things when you have an easy option
ReplyDeleteYou all want modern wives but she should still perform traditional roles.
ReplyDeleteHunger knows no gender.
Are his hands broken? Nonsense!
ReplyDeleteTime changes yesterday,if you choose suffer head,na youbsabi
ReplyDeleteMy wife doesn't cook because i love to do the cooking.
ReplyDeleteCooking has nothing to do with gender. I love her as wife no cook, atleast she loves to clean , i don't. It equals out
Enter your comment...I will beat the hell out of her if she try it.i beat am dis morning sef.
ReplyDeleteShe will soon bath you with hot water don’t worry. Animal
DeleteNa pestle she go use nack all your teeth commot next in the mighty name of Jesus
DeleteAnimal
Being a woman does not mean I must cook I beg. I don’t cook. I have a lady that comes weekly to do the cooking. And my housekeeper boils the rice, yam or makes the Eba. My husband does not complain and eats at home daily. The funny part is that I am a house wife. I may not have formal work but I have a lot to do. So what does cooking have to do with it???
ReplyDeleteOlden days man. I beg to each his own. Do as u like. In fact marry a chef or cook if u want. Na u sabi!!!
ReplyDeleteLol.
ReplyDeleteI don’t know but I really look forward to cooking for my future husband and kids someday. But it shouldn’t be an everyday thing.
I'm a very good cook. My daughter cooks in her home amd her hubby&kids enjoys her food bcos she cooks well.,I taught her to. I don't know what is happening to ladies these days. A girl shld be well taught/groomed properly from home. It is a woman'r duty to always cook UNLESS the husband says/wants otherwise
ReplyDeleteOn a second random thought, how about the other women cooking the meals .. don’t their cooking count? Or is it useless because it’s for another mans home??? Or he wants the women in his circle to start cooking and the food vendors who are mostly women stop cooking? Isn’t cooking cooking? Some men are too trifling please.
ReplyDeleteWhy should I order food outside when I'm not sick??
ReplyDeleteImagine how the food was prepared and the water used is something I always think of.
There's nothing like food you prepared at home by your self.
You can only order for food when you're visibly sick and nobody to assist you but if not I do my cooking Biko.
Asides eating lunch one or two Sundays in 2months,I occasionally buy take out cos I get tired of eating the food I cook....!
ReplyDeleteNever bought a bowl of soup,the price seff is always so ridiculous I could go to mile12 twice with it😁😁
I can’t be providing 80% of what the family needs and my wife won’t cook my meals whenever I want.i don’t care what anybody says bla bla bla.As long as I’m doing my duties you gotta do yours which included cooking.i will help you with yours sometimes even if you don’t help me with mine but pe o ma lo ran onje fun mi all the time?ko le work
ReplyDeleteI don't understand why these men still get married. Leave women alone. They wont hear only to come later and be disturbing us with stories that touch. Masturbation is the only solution. I haven't touched a woman in 3 years and I am as happy as I could be. More money in the bank. Women problem? Not my problem. Sex ends with ejaculation. Guys wise up. You don't need women. Stop letting society dictate your life.
ReplyDeleteSorry
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