Chronicle Of Blog Visitor Narrative -UPDATE

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This is an update from FRIDAY CHRONICLE

I want to thank everyone who took out their time to advice me. You guys are the best. Thanks for the hard knocks and bitter truths, I love you all.
First, I need to say Stella didn't get the whole story I sent to her. Half of the story got missing somewhere(my fault) because I sent it in, bits by bits. This is the whole story.

Someone was miffed I didn't advise him but I did. The moment the first girl moved out, I called him that I wanted to talk to him. We are more like twins brothers due to the one year age difference. I told him that, back then was the time to be focused and having any woman in our lives would never help matters because we didn't need that at the time. I asked him if he ever saw me with a girl before, he said no. I told him it's not because I don't desire a relationship but because looking back on where we came from I could never afford to lose focus. I told him not to allow girls to come close to him because truth be told, they do come after him because of his looks. 

He is a fine young man and physically we both naturally have this deceitful look of being from a rich home. But I always rang it in his ears that despite our good looks if we didn't have money no woman would look at us as a potential mate and that we are men so we shouldn't be in a haste to settle down for we could get married anytime.

I thought he had listened only for him to bring in the second lady two weeks later. We fought that the neighbours came out and he said he was going to commit suicide because I refused to accept his whole family and spoke to him badly because he got a lady pregnant knowing fully well everyone makes mistakes and not everyone could be like me, Mr Perfect. He threatened suicide and left the house for a week and we kept looking for him.

Now to the reason why I indulge him. 

1) he is very generous and kind. The jamb form I took that got me admission was bought by him, including the luggage and the few clothes when he went for labouring job for my sake. 

Secondly, our mother already brought us up in a way that we feel each other's burden as our own. She complained of her siblings abandoning her when our father died and the suffering she went through so we promised her we would be there for each other. But the problem is, he doesn't understand boundary either does he know when to stop. We all are very generous too but the difference is we do not give him a headache as he gives us.

Those asking how I got my mom the car. Remember everything happened within 8 years. Sadly I had a 2.1 instead of the first class I aimed for and used five years instead of four years in school. I couldn't go for service since I was 32 then so thanks bv olawealth😄. But the mistake I made was staying back for my masters in that school. I felt since I won't be living with them in the same house everyone will be fine but I was wrong for the moment he found that I was already working he complained that the landlady threw them out and they all moved in with me. 

We didn't tell mother he doesn't have a degree and has kids because she would have been hurt despite all her efforts. I went through a lot during my master's program in his hands that at some point of i thought of getting into a relationship to push him off but I relented knowing fully well that wasn't a fair reason to bring anyone into my life for the lady will have her own needs and expectations. Besides I didn't want any emotional baggages till I leave the country because I was already working towards my scholarship then.

Stella, please check your spam but I also sent to you that I already won the scholarship abroad and he is already asking me to bring him over after I get there thanks to our mother who told him everything because she doesn't have an idea of our strained relationship. 

The reason I sent in the story was that I plan on cutting him off once I get over there because if I bring him over I know he will get another girl within a few days and the cycle will continue. I bring him over I know he will get another girl within a few days and the cycle will continue. He doesn't know how to say no to women advances.

I gave him 500k last year but I don't know what he did with it. I also have a small land I intended building on little by little so that when I decide to visit Nigeria in the future I would have a place to stay but he got to know through our mother and he asked that I sell it so he can pay his childrens school fees and feed them because they're starving. 

Stella, I had to lie that it was confiscated by all these land guys who sold the same land to three people at once though I gave him some money for their feeding still. I can't write everything but these are just summaries. I want to DISOWN him as a brother and never talk to him till OLD AGE because as I am typing this, another girl has gotten pregnant for him and I feel I will never grow if I allow him in my life forever because he is not serious in my eyes. The issue here is, I am confused if God won't see it as keeping malice. I don't want to miss heaven. Thanks.

With the way your brother is going,is it not better to Miss heaven than to allow him litter everywhere with kids that he cannot feed but depending on you?Please DISOWN HIM IMMEDIATELY...nonsense,I am so upset!!!